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Hello guys, please with a budget of 3.45 to 4m, what direct Belgium car can I get?
I urgently need answers please.

Herbiodun09:
Unfortunately i am obedient in this case. I no dey give shishi

Then you don't know what being Obidient is all about.

It all depends on what you want and what she wants. It's a wrong assumption to think that a lady who doesn't give you sex on first date doesn't like you because on your part, it's selfishness. You took her out on a date because you wanted sex and if she doesn't give in to your selfish desire, then she doesn't like you.
Now after giving you the sex, na you go come back tag her to be a cheap girl that gave you sex on the first date.

What you wouldn't want for your daughters, don't do to another person's daughter.

When did you find out that she already had a child? Is it before or after she got pregnant for you?

Well you see, if she doesn't have the boldness to tell her exes that she's already in a serious relationship online, then that means she wouldn't have the boldness to say no when they invite her to a place, and wouldn't also be able to say no when sex is initiated.
The thing is, experience has not taught her any lesson(even after becoming a baby mama) and I won't be surprised that she gets pregnant for another guy even while in marriage.

If you want to go ahead with the marriage just because you already introduced her to your people, well it's your choice but mind you, na only you go carry your cross and same set of people may be the ones to laugh at your predicament.

One last advice: learn to keep your bazooka zipped up till you're married. Who knows whether she don use juju hook you since she's been crushing on you.

Jennyclay:
Before nko? Why won't she leave . You didn't even buy a car for Uber, you went ahead to buy Keke. I will also leave you in the relationship. abi is it Keke you want to use to carry me out on a date?

God abeg o!

You have never entered Keke in your life before abi?
What makes him less of a man for owning Keke instead of an Uber?
I wonder how you guys reason at times.



Guy thank God you have something to fall back to. But when she told you to leave the Keke stuff, did she bring up any other suggestion?

Magnoliaa:
Mtcheeeeeewwwwww.

If these meaningless questions dey give una pleasure, make wuna continue...

You call that meaningless?

Well when issues like this arise, I blame the man for that. He didn't do what he should have done early enough even before the marriage. My mom is your mom and your mom is mom, they're not strangers, except I don't trust my mom.
These are some of the things you iron out during courtship, and everyone will respect themselves.

Only a non virgin will say this(always bitter when they talk about virginity).
Why pick offense when a man says he only wants to marry a virgin? If you're not one, why not respect yourself and wait for one who doesn't want a virgin or better still keep jumping from one guy to another while waiting for someone who prefers a borehole to a virgin.
Keep talking nonsense and encouraging your fellow girls to be promiscuous.

Forgive him? Yes but give him money again? Nah, he doesn't deserve it. Let him experience life so he'll learn to appreciate things and never to ever bite the finger that fed him.

Always be good to the people on your way up the ladder cause you'll meet them on your way down.

See as the girl sit down like say she no know wetin dey happen.

She's really pained.
In relationships, be mindful of what you invest so that when things turn south, you wouldn't be wailing like someone that lost his benefactor.
If you're not married yet, and you invest in the relationship like a married person, you have yourself to blame for being foolish.

Always love with your sense intact.

Well you didn't complain, so you were comfortable with it and thus will not be seen as an abuse or harrassement. So speak out next time(you don't necessarily need to turn it into a scene before you'll be heard)

The female gender is also seen as an endangered species and thus will be pitied and most likely protected in such a situation.
If it were to be a man and you make a case of such, some will even openly voice it out that they would have loved to be in your place and that you should count yourself lucky.

The female was created to be emotional while the male was created to be logical, hence the difference.

She takes and sees sex as a gift to the man she finds the most attractive (especially the virgins) and her virginity to him as a gift which she's given to him and never to any other........before a lady(apart from sex workers) will have sex with a man, there have to be some level of emotional attachment.

The man being logical was only looking for what would gratify his need at that time which happens to be sex and once mission gets accomplished, he's job is done with no strings attached.

Well you see, most marriages that survived the test of time wasn't built on love at first sight.
Every man that comes a ladies way for marriage(at least genuinely) deserves a chance. You don't just turn him down because you didn't outrightly feel that connection or the butterfly moving in your tummy the first time you saw him.
There's just a very thin line between love and hatred. That man you may want to turn down because you feel the connection or don't even like him, if you give him a chance may turn out to be the one to sweep you off your feet, while that one you expected to be the best will eventually make you develop such hatred that you begin to wonder what made you accept him in the first place.
All I'm saying in essence is that every man that comes your way with a clear objective, deserves a chance except you already have an idol of an ideal man in mind.

When you noticed this earlier in your marriage, did you discuss it with her then?

Hmmmm. She enjoyed rape under a terrifying condition? Stories dey Sha.