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Literature / Re: Nigerian Novelist Biyi Bandele Is Dead by PeacenLove2: 9:04pm On Aug 09, 2022
May his soul rest in peace.
Nairaland / General / Re: Ram Spotted On A Roof Of Two Storey Building (Video) by PeacenLove2: 9:40am On Jul 10, 2022
post=114570091:
A Ram has been spotted on a roof amid the Sallah celebration across the country.

There was however no time or location stamp on the video which is currently trending online.

Watch The Video As Obtained By Below:

https://www.instagram.com/p/CfyiA78gE1S/?utm_source=ig_embed&ig_rid=7d030e65-52ac-43ce-88ff-d60e217c5e65&ig_mid=73D8F2EF-1040-4451-B567-B657D2B80F17




FREE THIS RAM
Romance / Re: My Wife Refused To Do Family Planning Now She Is Pregnant Again by PeacenLove2: 7:37pm On Apr 24, 2022
Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

You do know you can also get a procedure done on yourself to avoid unwanted pregnancy? Other precautions also available if you consider those procedures extreme.
Family / Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by PeacenLove2: 7:32pm On Apr 24, 2022
Why do you want to make enemies when you can avoid that?

Let your uncles have their father's properties and be content with your own father's. For your father's entitlement, hope you get what is fair and let go.

Call your uncles for peace talk and let them allow your father to rest. Every thing after all vanity upon vanity.

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Education / Re: Truth Or Dare: Mother Of Julian, 10-Year-Old Chrisland Gang-Raped Student Speaks by PeacenLove2: 4:08pm On Apr 18, 2022
Ishilove:

I am standing on the fact that only the people in authority should view it in the course of their investigation and the government will sanction all those found culpable.

These are minors and we must protect them being exploited as a consequence of their own foolishness. Why do we need to see explicit sexual acts of underage children, one of them only 10 years old? It is child pornography and last time I checked, it is illegal in every country in the world. Whoever started the circulation of that video should be prosecuted

100% correct.
Education / Re: Truth Or Dare: Mother Of Julian, 10-Year-Old Chrisland Gang-Raped Student Speaks by PeacenLove2: 3:16pm On Apr 18, 2022
subsidywise18:


I don't know the law here, and as I put it up earlier on this thread, in some jurisdictions, there are specific laws that protect minors from being prosecuted if two of them have sex willingly and are under the age of consent. (that applies to the US, and in some states, not all).

At the end of the day, however, I'm going to err on the side of caution (and yes, I mean err)..and assume that a ten year old cannot give consent, even if her partner is also ten. Lawyers in the house should be able to give a better view.

But the main koko here is the fact that the school failed in its duty of in loco parentis big time.


Not forgetting somebody leaked the video online. If at all, minor were ignorantly messing around, I doubt the girl wanted the video uploaded online.
Education / Re: Truth Or Dare: Mother Of Julian, 10-Year-Old Chrisland Gang-Raped Student Speaks by PeacenLove2: 3:10pm On Apr 18, 2022
Mekanus:
10 year old girl with already sagging breast?? That girl na ashawo already.

Shame on you.
Education / Re: Truth Or Dare: Mother Of Julian, 10-Year-Old Chrisland Gang-Raped Student Speaks by PeacenLove2: 3:09pm On Apr 18, 2022
HardMirror:
chrisland fvk up I swear. Na police station dem suppose invite the mama come to show her the video of the nonsense her daughter is doing. Then expel all the kids involved and sack the teacher that was supposed to supervise them

It is a Catch-22 situation. The school cannot sack the teacher without taking responsibility. But self-acquittal would cost them so much more. They were not properly advised. This is a school with immense resources. I think Chrisland management needs to lead by example by acknowledging their error, fire some top notch management and all the members of staff found culpable, set up a sort of Joint Committee of stakeholders; school and affected parents to help counsel, rehabilitate and discipline the children. This should not have escalated to this point. What a mess.

If they had handled this well, the parents recognizing their own failure as parents and in order to protect their child, would have been relieved. In the end, we want the children involved to turn out well and other children also protected.
Education / Re: Truth Or Dare: Mother Of Julian, 10-Year-Old Chrisland Gang-Raped Student Speaks by PeacenLove2: 2:48pm On Apr 18, 2022
Brume001:


You will lose heavily in this case if you want to go on the ground of rape. It was the girl that was raping the boy. She was cackling like a jackass. Good thing there was a video. If not we would have started shouting justice

The 'cackling like a jackass' as you claim could be as a result of being under the influence. If truly, she was drugged then this case would be more serious, minors or not, we have provisions under our laws for juvenile delinquencies. And the school many are trying to exempt from liability will have more to explain.
Education / Re: Truth Or Dare: Mother Of Julian, 10-Year-Old Chrisland Gang-Raped Student Speaks by PeacenLove2: 2:16pm On Apr 18, 2022
wirinet:


How does the school system work? You mean the school system can monitor children every student every minute 24/7? The school went to Dubai with supervisors. They lodged the students in the same room or separate rooms for boys and girls, and the supeevisors in separate rooms. At midnight the students decided to sneak out to have sex, and you want to hold the school culpable? How?

Do you understand you are talking about a 10 year old and others age 13 and under? Left in care of the school? They are 1000% culpable.

They failed to prevent this mishap and failed woefully in the aftermath. They did EVERYTHING wrong.

They witheld information from her parents.

They took the girl for pregnancy test without her parents knowledge and consent.

They allegedly threatened to kill a child/student if she told her parents.

A teacher is already calling her names, in the presence of her mates.

A perfect suicide case in the making. If this girl kills herself, people would be singing another song. What a wicked world.

Again, let's see how the school would spin this.
Education / Re: Truth Or Dare: Mother Of Julian, 10-Year-Old Chrisland Gang-Raped Student Speaks by PeacenLove2: 2:05pm On Apr 18, 2022
victorsola:
the part that the father beat the girl after seeing the video strange to me . I believe if it was rape as said the father shouldn’t have done that . Abi am not reading it well ni

If at all she didn't want to partake, she did everything wrong from the start, leaving her room to retrieve a charger, taking a drink (could be spiked with drugs), and for keeping such a thing quiet. Many parents would be angry and take that out on her. It may not be the right response but very common reaction esp in African homes.
Education / Re: Truth Or Dare: Mother Of Julian, 10-Year-Old Chrisland Gang-Raped Student Speaks by PeacenLove2: 1:46pm On Apr 18, 2022
You all heard her mother mention she was probably drugged but you choose to ignore that and cling to your victim-shaming mentality. You guys are unecessarily wicked to your fellow human beings even when it involves children.

I want to see how Chrisland wants to spin this. Even while the parents have a share of responsibililty, the school is a mess. I have always respected Chrisland but it turns out every fibre of this country is seriously tainted. So disappointing.
Education / Re: Chrisland School Accused Of Covering Up Rape Of 10-Year Old Female Student by PeacenLove2: 12:32pm On Apr 18, 2022
pocohantas:


Lol. Really? Never knew that. I don’t participate in that game as an adult sef.

That said, I saw it trending on Twitter and I refrained from commenting because Ubi could be quite an alarmist and they are all kids, which makes it trickier. Chrisland failed in that they should have summoned all the parents to a meeting and let them know the events that played out in Dubai or wherever. That is how it used to be when I was growing up. All these elite schools and the extent they go to protect their reputation.

Yes, Chrisland should have done more. The situation was badly handled. They should have insisted on meeting with the parents much earlier and the two sides take responsibility, come to a mutual agreement to the best interest of the children involved and draw up a way on how this can be prevented in the future. And maybe notify the appropriate states agency.

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Education / Re: Chrisland School Accused Of Covering Up Rape Of 10-Year Old Female Student by PeacenLove2: 12:11pm On Apr 18, 2022
prince3009:


She wasn't raped! I watched the video.

The stúpid 10 year old b*tch was the one doing cowgirl on the boys.

I am not surprised that Ubi Franklin is a family friend to the parents of such a warward female rascal.

Caution yourself. You are referring to a 10 year old who is herself a victim. At her age, she and the boys can still be counseled. Your choice of words for a 10 year old questions your own sense of judgement. I mean you actually watched and probably distributed underage inapropriate video. It is just wrong. In saner climes, you would have been picked up by now and registered as a sex offender. Take heed.
Education / Re: Chrisland School Accused Of Covering Up Rape Of 10-Year Old Female Student by PeacenLove2: 12:02pm On Apr 18, 2022
Mrkumareze:
Bad parenting exhibited in school.. we all re responsible for bad behaviour our kids are coming up with, allowing kids access to phone, taking them to scene where adults exhibit sexual or romantic characters in d name of hanging out..
The sch did the right thing n those involved were all kids.Don't be surprised if it's the girl who initiated the fowl play.. Best move is to allow the school punish the kids..

10 years old is just too young for this. While I agree there has been a failure in parenting, it did happen under the school's watch. They cannot escape culpability. Suspending the child and pushing all the blame to the poor child and her parents just wreaks narcissism.

This goes to the boys as well. At that age not only engaging in sexual acts but already participating in social media exposure and most likely with intents to shame the girl. Imagine these kids in the next 10 years.

Parents are raising a bunch of narcissists, godless, thoughtless, no-conscience junkies. Frankly, in many cases, you cannot give what you don't have. So God help us all.

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Health / Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by PeacenLove2: 10:06pm On Feb 24, 2022
Jecint:
Op ,I understand how you feel 100% .

I'm a stammerer too but right now I just don't care about it . I speak to people with all confidence even though my lips are trembling and the words won't just come out!



Would you say it has improved since you stopped worrying about it?
Health / Re: I Am So Depressed. I'm A Chronic Stammerer! Please I Need Your Advice. by PeacenLove2: 10:04pm On Feb 24, 2022
Self-confidence, self-love and please relax, stop taking yourself or this life too seriously. No one is perfect, yours is just more obvious when you speak but the way you handle it is how we react to it.

It can be 100% managed even if it does not disappear. Believe me it isn't the worst situation in the world. If you believe there is God, be thankful instead of being hateful.

Stop over thinking or over-stressing, do your best to be heard afterall the essence of speaking is to pass a message, and leave the rest.

Eat well, sleep well and exercise. Socialize because believe me one way to overcome it is to expose it and let it know you are not one of its slave. Good luck, man.

I know it's shitty and hard but it can get better, lots better. Just live free and be your own greatest fan.
Travel / Re: IELTS: English Proficiency Test Cost As Against The French Proficiency Test Cost by PeacenLove2: 8:37am On Jan 27, 2022
faithfull18:
It's money making for them, this exam was #35,000 in 2015. Why it keeps increasing in price is what I don't understand, I guess the higher the demand, the higher the price.

Psossibly exchange rate factor.
Travel / Re: IELTS: English Proficiency Test Cost As Against The French Proficiency Test Cost by PeacenLove2: 8:35am On Jan 27, 2022
To be honest, IELTS is fraudulent. If at all, they want to subject people to a language proficiency, their methods are dishonest. Many proficient people will still fail unless they practice past questions endlessly.

Take their Listening for instance, if you have taken IELTS, you would understand how ridiculous this one is.

Fact is, it's not a genuine test for proficiency, it's a money making business and therefore designed for you to keep coming back. And even when you scale through, they want you to come back soon again only after 2 years because they are aware processing times for visas are most likely delayed.

It's a scam. Everything about it.

English wey majority of their native speakers no sabi reach many of us. Well sha, no be dem fault.
Education / Re: Doctor Who Witnessed Sylvester Oromoni's Autopsy Speaks (Video) by PeacenLove2: 1:28pm On Jan 11, 2022
There is need to give simple time line of the events that led to the unfortunate death of late Sylvester.

Date he was deemed to play football:

Time of injury:

Time he visited school clinic:

What treatment was administered:

Follow up and observation:

Reason he was asked to be picked up from school:

Date he was picked up and his current condition:

Other attempts to save his life such as treatments with date:

What tests were carried out at this time and what were the doctors saying? They would surely see sepsis at this time and was there any visible injury to the ankle?

How long does it take sepsis to build and then death?

A death caused by infected ankle injury should not be a subject of debate. It would be glaring. I don't see how any parents would want to put themselves through so much torture unless they had valid reasons to suspect foul play.

What do they stand to gain to lie that their late son told them he was attacked and even mentioned names?

All in all, somebody dropped the ball somewhere and needs to take responsibility. May the soul of the departed rest in peace and may God comfort his loved ones.

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Politics / Re: Panic As FG Prepares To Downsize Federal Civil Service by PeacenLove2: 11:40am On Jan 06, 2022
History555:
Rather than sack workers why not
Eliminate ghost workers
Eliminate boards of paratals or reduce them
Eliminate estacodes, purchase of same items like pc, vehicles every year.

This is very sensible. Even though I still think overhead cost is too much especially when many of them do absolutely nothing. The civil service should not be a social welfare program. There is need to separate the two. Mostly, cost of running the government itself is too high. In good faith, they should start in-house.
Politics / Re: Panic As FG Prepares To Downsize Federal Civil Service by PeacenLove2: 11:34am On Jan 06, 2022
micflo28:
The corruption in MDA budgeting should be checkmated. Official cars each you can procure at least a Hilux vehicle for 9million naira will be budgeted for at 20 million naira per unit. Govt should quit giving MDAs money to procure official vehicles and sundry items, they should be bought and given to then by Bureau for public procurement in conjunction with the ICPC to checkmate inflation. Leave the poor workers alone.

You make it look like there is any agency in this country free of corruption. Doing that, you would just be changing the hands commiting the crime.

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Politics / Re: Panic As FG Prepares To Downsize Federal Civil Service by PeacenLove2: 11:32am On Jan 06, 2022
Tumbulum:
We told them and they called us wailers,ipob,sore loser,haters and what have you but las las am happy that everyone is feeling.
I pray they can change the constitution so that buhari can do third tenure so that he can complete the good job he is doing.

[right][/right] cheesy Nor be good thing? He who finds a good thing must keep it. grin
Education / Re: Sylvester Oromoni's Father Says Lagos Government And Police Are In Conspiracy by PeacenLove2: 9:04am On Jan 06, 2022
Seun360:


And you passed through school abi?

That's a question for your mama. She failed at her most important job to raise you properly. Perhaps she tried but it didn't take.
Education / Re: Sylvester Oromoni's Father Says Lagos Government And Police Are In Conspiracy by PeacenLove2: 11:09pm On Jan 05, 2022
seborrhic:

The pathologist report from Lagos said there was finding of "pyomyosities in the ankle region".What it means is that the muscles covering the bones of the ankle was infected with bacteria.Infection like that couldn't have come from the air,an injury to the ankle must have caused it if it didn't come from an open wound in that region.My own inference is that it likely came from a fall or a sort of twisting of the ankle.
Logically an x-ray should have been done to confirm the state of his ankle joint at death.I didn't see that.
But if indeed the pyomyosities finding is correct,every other thing can honestly be explained:that the infection was not treated at all or was poorly treated,it spread as untreated infections are won't to do,unfortunately it spread into the blood affecting many of the organs, including the lungs,thus the pneumonia,then death ensued.
If they had gone further to culture the particular bacteria that caused the infection,it would have further shed light on why it became that aggressive.I suspect it maybe what is called a MRSA,basically an aggressive type resistant to many common antibiotics.That's my reading of the whole scenario.

I saw that part but an ankle injury that could cause this degree of damage and then result in death would be conspicuous. There would be no disagreements or any doubts by the parents, I don't recall anyone mentioning swollen foot, wounds on the foot or limps resulting from a sprained or broken ankle. The whole football thing is a lie from the pit of hell.

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Education / Re: Sylvester Oromoni's Father Says Lagos Government And Police Are In Conspiracy by PeacenLove2: 9:13pm On Jan 05, 2022
seborrhic:
The pathologist in Warri too is in conspiracy with the state government?
The clue to unravelling that boys death is finding out what kind of treatment or other measures they let that boy undergo from the time he was given to the parents and his death.
We are talking of a good many days if am not mistaken when he was in his parents care.
Where did they take him to,who did they call to come attend to the boy and what was the boy made to pass through before his unfortunate demise?
Did a qualified medical practitioner attend to him from d day they picked him up from school or did they keep him at home while calling so called MOG to come and be praying for him and casting out demons?
Did they even use native concoctions?
Those days are the most critical to unravelling who was at fault for the boy's death.


So na football he play come fall abi? Na football injury dem no fit treat for dem multi million sick bay shey? Dem treat fall for football con go call him parents make dem come carry am. I happy say dem autopsy say him body dey "unremarkable" dem no find any football injury as dem no find any kick injury. Wehdone. All of una big wehdone.
Travel / Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Obtain A Nigerian Passport? (Photos) by PeacenLove2: 10:30am On Dec 17, 2021
Op, the open secret is that you dared to do it yourself online. By this time next year, dem go still dey serve you same tory while those who will appoach them with the 'right amount' will get their passport within 24hours. Customer pass customer, bro.
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Know I Have Mental Issues by PeacenLove2: 7:45pm On Nov 08, 2021
Dude397:
For those asking for the diagnosis, according to my doctors, It's bipolar affective disorder caused by substance abuse. I get hyperactive during episodes and over religious but I'm not violent. For some years now I haven't had any episodes and the medication I take keeps reducing as time goes by and hopefully I'll be weaned of real soon and I show no signs at all except I tell anyone you wouldn't know at all cos I'm productive in my daily affairs. I'm 29 years.

Tell her the truth before you guys starts talking serious relationship. She needs to know what she is getting herself into and you both need to know if she can handle it. She will be the closest to you and needs to understand and identify your triggers/signs.

I pray this becomes history in your life. You have to open up to her. It's the delivery method that should be handled well and you seem quite eloquent enough.

And yes, expect the worst and hope for the best. Brace yourself if she chooses to walk away. Respect her choice and move on. This is something you want to disclose before you commit yourself and start catching feelings. God will never desert you, man. All the best.
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Gifts Iyabo Ojo ₦500,000 (Photo) by PeacenLove2: 9:00pm On Oct 29, 2021
chatinent:
I see Lalasticlala sending me ₦100k today. Lalasticlala, don't make a prophecy die like that. Obey God.

cheesy
Career / Re: I’m The Only Woman At My Job — The Life Of An Oil And Gas Engineer At Sea by PeacenLove2: 6:08pm On Oct 26, 2021
Crime / Re: Lagos Task Force Officers Shoot Banker For Protesting Car Damage by PeacenLove2: 8:46pm On Oct 18, 2021
Na the same set of High Way men in uniform operate that Oshodi Apapa Express Way. They have become a nuisance on that road. One police man always wearing helmet, a fat ugly mf! With one skinny ass desperado in Lastma uniform, the rest of the crew in Danfo buses look like agbero, they wear mufti.

They raid anyone they like, cause accidents and take off. Everyday for the thief, one day for the owner. Let them continue.

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