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missyblissy:
Na wa ooo. Nne my own starr by 10pm till 1am. Baby just dey cry and complain. My mum and hubby sing tire, for where, na me she dey find. I just carry arrange her beside me and give her breast.
There's this soothing songs for babies my hubby played it for her when she was crying na so the babe just shut up, before we knew na sleep level.

Hahahaha na their time. With time them go adjust well.

After all the stress, just looking at their smiling faces makes everything alright.

I pray that God grant all our sisters still believing him for the blessedness of fruit of the womb their heart desires. Amen.

Thank God I slept very well yesterday evening ooo. As we don resume night duty my chairman no get any sign of sleeping anytime soon

Sitting on my body with his eyes on the T.V .

missyblissy
Sunbestie
MzEmeritus
Habbeyoluwa

How is the night watch going?

Finally my night watch is over as chairman don sleep. Una good morning 2:23 am

If she stab him tomorrow now people will say she is evil.

Nyxx123:
Hey Mama, about the watch night ministry, I thought the coconut therapy thingy works, ABI is it for a moment

I don't think the coconut therapy is for sleeping but colic on babies. Bobo sleeps well at afternoon and keep wake mostly at night , he will be shinning eye looking at your face.

Congratulations to all mamas that have put to birth. Una welcome to watch night ministry , come and collect/buy your original TORCH for task.

To other mama still pushing, more grace to you. You will deliver sharp sharp. Amen.

Sophiemama:
Good morning Mamas,I had some blood stain last night when I wiped and I was really worried. But after that I haven't seen it again, I will be 8 weeks tomorrow. Any explanations for that?

It's relatively common. I had same around that stage too. Mine was dark red discharge after a stressful day. I went to clinic and scan said everything was alright.

You can go to hospital to clear any doubts and put your mind at rest.

FloraEC:
I use mentholathum, silverbird is very strong for my children[b]. I just drop it on the bathroom floor during bath time or in the room before we sleep[/b]

Ha!, In that case I think it's not safe for children under 3 yrs . I mix mentholathum with blue seal Vaseline to rob on his feet and ribs region after bath on very cold days.

comtem2011:
After peeling, I cut into cube shape and use fork to press, drain the water into a cup and give baby. I don;t warm at all since I did not refrigerate before giving her.

@ d bolded, I don't know. why I give water melon is because is tender in the stomach, just like normal water.

Alright. Thank you dear. This my boy na foodie.

Giddyperson:
Not to bathing water please. You can put it in hot water for steam inhalation, just like you do when you have catarrh. That's put in hot water, carry baby, cover your head with a big towel and let him inhale the steam. Just 2-3 drops at a time please. It should never come in contact with the skin please, not even in bathing water, it's way too strong. @Pearl05

Alright senior mama, the bolded is well noted. Thank you.

Thanks barag

Dear mothers,

My 10 weeks old breaths noisily as if catarrh is blocking his nose while sucking breast, especially if not served immediately he calls for it.( I haven't notice it while formula feeding) Is it common trend for babies their age? Has any mother experienced it and please what step did you take to correct it?


What is this SILVERBIRD that mothers mention here?

Where can I get it pharmacy, supermarket or open market?

Can any mother post the picture of silver bird for me to see what am looking for when I go to get it.

What are the uses please.
Make una no vex I be JJC

comtem2011:
my son started taking watermelon at 2 months self. All these old mummies won't kill us.

How do yo do it? Juice it out or puree it? Do you warm it a bit before giving ?

Please what other fruit can 10 weeks old take.

genq:
I don't mean to gloat over your son's misfortune but this is what happens when a mother leaves the raising of her children to outsiders. Let me guess your wife is too busy to take care of the kids right? Because shes a "modern working class woman".

Go and ask women abroad how they manage to work full time and still raise their own children without househelp. Unlike these ones in Nigeria who after just one child, they can't do chores again. House helps are then put in place to assume the duties of a wife and mother.

Your son is one of many children out there suffering the consequences of these lifestyle choices.

So what's your input to solve the issue at hand? You didn't see where he stated that the wife recently put to birth?

Mr. Go to abroad.

nuelsam:
u for bite the breast jor

Wicked sombreri

Wildcat2020:
You see how selfish interest have turn our brother into a SLAVE..

Disowned son of the South East! Let the people of Southwest have him perhaps he be of some benefits to them.

kaffy4bill:
Some experience long period of lochia while some resume menstruation before end of lochia...

It’s nothing to worry about..

My cycle changed after my first vaginal delivery(reduced flow and shorter days) then became longer and heavier when I used hormonal contraceptives for family planning..

The possibility that you have resumed your cycle is 50 percent.. so watch out and see how it goes..

Hope this helps..

It helped. My mind is at ease now. Thanks.

Giddyperson:
It's normal, sometimes it takes a while for everything to go back to normal.

Alright. Thank you plenty.

Sabi mamas, we are 2 months few days after delivery and still spotting dark bloody discharge. Is it normal or should I be worried about it?

It comes and go; some days am totally dry and others the discharge.

Last week I saw menseslike flow for 3 days instead of the normal 7 days and very light instead of heavy duty flow that used to be my signature.

Giddyperson
Zaynie
Rbae
Kaffy4bill

missyblissy:
My baby too will sleep for hours during the day when it's 8pm na so her eye go shine like touch. I discovered whenever shes sucking breast na sleep mode activated and since me am sleepy and make she no fall. From my hand, i arrange and lay her beside me and give her breast. It works for me. I get little sleep

This dude will close his mouth tight once he has sucked to his satisfaction and start shiny eyes. I'm not comfortable to feed him while Laying down lest I suffocate him with my bust.

[quote author=Olajumoke459 post=80184469][/quote]I can't wait for him to change his timetable to align with our own.

Can 2 brothers/cousins marry from same family from your side of Igbo land? If the answer is yes then they might get married as well.

But hey! why disturbing your head just wait and see every hidden thing shall come to light.

It's official! I am now a nocturnal human being all thanks to bobo. He sleeps well for hours at daytime but keeps watch at night. The annoying thing with this watch is that i must keep it with him if not na shouting straight.


missyblissy
Sunbestie
19CannyMum

Who also dey this by force watch woman department?

Some people no get joy at all. Must you like it?

Do you know me? Abi will I dash you something for liking it?

motic2:
mama kaffy and other sabi mamas i need your opinion as regard this question
we were told at the clinic to allow how hubby do his job well so has to help baby come on time also that the sperm contain one thing sha me i cant remember that it helps the passage where the baby comes out from

so here is my question what is the likelihood of avoiding infection if flesh to flesh is allowed because me i no dey allow without protection since this ministry has started just once or twice
what should i do me i'm scared of any possibility of infection so that it wont affect baby?/
abeg shook mouth oooo

Sorry dear for the disfavour you have been doing to your self all along. If you no do the do skin2skin now that you are fully loaded and no fear of unplanned pregnancy wetin you come gain?

If there is any history of infection, both of you should treat it adequately then start enjoying all.

Habbeyoluwa:
Rant Time
I hardly sleep this days, don't know if its anxiety or something. Thinking I would have dropped LO since weeks back is frustrating me .. I have a lot to do, and seriously need my prince to come forth.. Have been walking and taking pineapple, even dates.. Just this morning have danced and dance from songs played and ones played in my head.. What can I do, am 40weeks tomoa oo, hubby as begged him to come so he can eat proper meal lol.
My mom keeps asking how far, biko my baby needs to move away from this duplex his into o.. Mama kaffy4bill , missyblissy , every other sabi mamas what can I do.. Mama damibaby, I took olive oil yesterday, av not seen the work o, EPP me o

Have not even felt braxon hicks, no waist pain or abdominal pain. Just heavy weight around my vjay otan... Must I feel all this weeks bfr? Or it can happen a day to labor, help a FTM.. Its driving me nut

Sorry dear. But the Good news is that you are at the finishing line. Yours is the type that as soon as you start feeling contraction, baby will be out the next minute. That was how it happened to me.
All I felt is heaviness of leg will walking which will make me to stop for a while then continue my slow and steady.
The night I started feeling severe heaviness of jajana with feeling of pooing and weeing at once I delivered within 3 hrs of getting to hospital.

Hugs

Sweet and hot belleful mamas how una dey?

Congratulations to you all and strength to complete this phase of your ministry as mothers.

To carry baby inside belle is relatively easy and sweet compared to this watch woman that my bobo has turned me into.
He will be all sweet, lovely and peaceful during the day but noisy and troublesome at night. When I play nursery rhymes videos for him at day after feeding, he will be all giggling and making small small baby's language that he recently started. But do same at night all I get in return is shouting and hitting legs on the bed with his fist punching the air.

He was up last all night, I got tired around 12 and handed him over to dh and slept off. Woke this morning and found him beside me sleeping peaceful as if nothing happened last night. It's 9 am and he is still sleeping. Dh said that they were awake till 3 am. All he wanted was to be carried and making gibberish conversation with you.

I feel like waking him now so he will feel it small.

Why is it positioned upsidedown?

Abi it's looking for who will play with it? When am not lala

Messyodi:
Kpele, i can totally relate. Mine is negative as well. But i will still not do the FP. The risks are too high as far as im concerned.

Congrats, now your mind will be at rest.

I no dey near kpekus ministry without raincoat as I no wan long tori. I be fear fear.

miltonchux:
MARTIAL BED.

My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house.
FROM A MALE READER:

I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.

This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?

I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.

What should I do?

Having noisy love making that will disturb the neighborhood and your kids especially is not good. Forget about mama, what about the kids? They will soon be inquisitive to know what makes that noise? Why is mummy shouting etc.

Start closing your bedroom door. Madam should learn to reduce her voice during the act but if she can't, then always keep handkerchief to beside you which you would use to stuff her mouth.

Edithfavourite:
The lawmaker representing Adamawa-North senatorial district, Senator Elisha Abbo, says the incident portrayed in the video showing him beating up a lady in a intimacy gadget shop occurred in March 2019.

Abbo said this in a brief chat with our correspondent on Tuesday while responding to a question from The PUNCH.

He said he was putting a team together and he would give a robust response soon.

Abbo said, “Hello Eniola, I saw your message and I am aware of the report. I am putting my team together. I am aware that the thing happened around March this year but I will get in touch with you when we finish discussion. I am in a meeting now.”

Abbo, had attracted criticisms from a large section of Nigerians after being caught on video slapping a nursing mother repeatedly at a intimacy gadget shop in the Wuse 2 area of Abuja. Here is the video..

Source:
https://zenithnaija.com/im-putting-together-a-robust-response-soon-senator-elisha-abbo-responds-to-adult-toy-shop-assault/

This alone is enough evidence that he is guilty of the act and not a Photoshop video.

And the wife was standing with him forming innocent.

Maybe if she no support him openly he will send her packing.





I'm yet to understand the rationale behind women supporting their husband's wrong behaviour publicly. SMH

DNA07:
Look who turned one yesterday ���
Thanks to mamas here for your many educative posts that helped a ftm like me. I’m officially the mum of a 1 yo���
June 2018 mommas, I hail una o�.
cc mama zaynie ❤️❤️❤️

Happy birthday Sunshine.