Survivor2020:


I will not waste any money to get a nanny.
I have other children and I cannot just focus on her.
The money I will be wasting on a nanny should be spend on her siblings

Do you realised that it was your failure as a parent that caused this? How well do you relate with your children sir/ma? Is not about paying school fee and food on their table. Please let down your shoulders/ego and do the proper thing for your ward.

That baby is your grandchild and innocent of the whole circumstance. Don't let your anger consume you lest you lose your daughter. You are still hurting but please take her and child for treatment and love.

She made mistake yes but beauty can come from the ashes. Help her, get counsellor to talk to her, enroll her back to school. If she has written her O'level , Open University is a good place for her. She can study and learn a craft to use to support herself. She can also do sales Rep. work .

Please forgive and forget. Forgive her forgive yourself.
When you beat a child with one hand , draw her back with the other hand to console her.

Get a nanny for her to help look after the baby while she gets better.

I feel pity for her.



This isn't anything to what the masses are facing.

Her family can afford flying her abroad for treatment most Nigerians only have prayers to overcome their foes.

The hospitals are not functioning
The road are dead traps
Food stuff too expensive
Cost of living is high


I think it will be more eazy to get donor from your circle of fellow politicians children.

firstpregnancy:
Good evening .
Pls what's the fastest way to deal with sore throat. I don't even know what the cause is o.

Ginger. Get ginger and chew.

sugarcoatted:


In due time we will know if its just 'check up' or check in. Lol

Yes o, I'm on another journey, already approaching finish line. How are you doing?

Flesh and blood didn't reveal this to you.
We dey watch.

sunbestie:
Clears cobwebs
Mamas are doing so great here in keeping this thread growing and blooming. Thumbs up to you all.
I sey make I greet you and wish una safe delivery... AMEN
Bye (runs out immediately)

Keep running when you tired, you will carry your legs come back and collect your seat.

Enrol your kids at school close to your business area so you can easily pick drop and pick them up. You can get an older nanny that can be coming Friday and stay through Sunday. She will help in weekly shopping, cooking different soups/stew and stock up the freezer ( if your light is guaranteed) the soup should be stored in smaller plates that can serve one eating for family.

Don't make mistake of feeding them with too much snacks and carbonated drinks rather stock your house with seasonal fruits.


Get them 2 pairs of uniforms , stocks, shoes each.

Buy a pack of pencil, easer, sharpener, crayon and keep at home.

Very important, don't go about bringing different ladies to the house. Don't confuse and plant dirty lifestyle in them.

Above all get nearer to God , pray together with your kids.

What a terrible blow.

I was shattered and broken when I loss my brother a year ago. Untill I asked the Holy spirit the comforter to comfort me, then he started mending the broken heart of mine.

You will be tempted to turn away from God since after all the intersection he still allow her to go.

Let it go, and ask the Holy spirit ; the comforter to comfort you.

Unyimekelvin:
it's okay, I will feed well before taking it.thanks once again..

Are you seriously going to take medication prescribed by God know's who on social media?

Don't you know road to general hospital?

Self medication kills.

A sisterly contribution,

When cooking the meat, add some pepper in the ingredients and steam it for a while without water first before adding a little water.

The FGN and Kaduna state Government that turned a blind eye to the activities of these kidnappers, bandits and terrorists are to be blamed. The latter even said that they are only business men and better than Ipob .

Rugsbyca:


You're saying korra husband should have waited a bit longer,Since they just had a baby
Same people that say women should walk out immediately from an abusive relationship no matter what
How do you guys think you can use a new born baby to emotionally blackmail him to stay.

You won't understand my point of view.
Some women go into depression after childbirth or worse. The whole thing of making it public is a no for me. He could have waited for a while.

No matter what she did or doing, this woman just had their baby a week ago. This is not the best time for this.

He should have given her more time to heal. This woman is vulnerable now and might break down with the whole social media narratives about them.

I sincerely wished all these are for traffic to their platforms.

It's positive. The line will get darker after a week. Use early morning urine to test.

Why are some people so so mean and selfish?

A woman that gave up so much for her kids for 9 yrs suddenly couldn't be able to look after them properly because you want to start bringing some cash for their upkeep?


This man don't want your other kids to benefit from the peanuts he want to send actually and prefers to send them to his sister.

To hell with him and his proposal.

Splasshhh:
Will this therapy still work now?
My baby can barely sleep because of colic

The colic disturbs babes differently. Some children have the ability to endeavour higher than others.

I tried this same threapy with the 2nd baby. I am glad to announce to you that she turned me to watch woman then.

Don't worry much as it will pass away. It doesn't last too long.

Vyvyanvyvy:
Hey guys I need your advice please

In brief I am a mother of 4 children and my two oldest children father have been abroad for almost 9 years he has abandoned the children,  he hasn't sent a kobo for their upkeep for all these years nor a phone call to know about their health. He returned back this January and he messaged me few weeks ago on Facebook ( I have been using my Facebook since 2008 with my real names) he requested for my number because he want us to meet with him to discussed about the children. I ignored the message because I think if my children had survived 9 years without him and they will survive more years to come without him. He messaged me three more times the last one was yesterday he said he is going back to Italy next week Tuesday  if I miss this opportunity to meet up with him . he will never bother me again and my children will hate me for keeping them away from him.

Please am I wrong for not wanting him to see the children This is a serious matter if you have nothing good to say  please skip my post

Please allow him to meet with you and the kids.

I know you are strong woman and always there for your kids but since he want to meet them allow him.

It will boast the kids morale. Especially the boy.

Don't reject any help he might offer to you. After stressing out to bring them up alone, they will still go look for their father. So let the father contribute to their wellbeing.

If you are having any challenge with the kids don't forget to mention ìt to their father so he can talk to them Especially behavioural.

Do this for the kids and you.
Remain blessed.

LINTUNE:
Fine man o...this is incredible...how are we sure this isn't statutory rape, in as much as this motherfucker deserves to be punished severely, isn't this punishment too much....what if he is just having consensted sex with a minor, which though very terrible, but not deserving of such harsh punishment...abeg before u bash me, understand my point..teenage girls are now more promiscuous than matured women these days.

I agree with you.

Castration with 7-14yrs should serve and correct every urge to commit the crime again in the future.

By so he can still be useful to the society.

cherishyy:


Hi Mama, you should do a hormonal profile test to see if your prolactin is high.
Most persons with high prolactin experience this.

Where is this done? Normal diagnostic centre?

Hello mothers and fathers of nations!

My breast is bringing out milk when pressed and presently we trying for another baby, can it be a hindrance? It's been 4 months since i weaned my baby.

How can I make it to stop?

Thanks for your help.

This man that couldn't give his community in Ebonyi state light?

You both need counselling. Don't trash the union as it's still redeemable.

Report her to anyone she regards highly.
Cut down on your expenses towards her.
Just do the basics and start saving/investing them .
You can find any cheap hotels around town that you can always go to and have your meetings whenever her craze set in.

To help achieve the cost cutting, tell her that your earnings has reduced by ⅓.

AdmissionTipz:
the mom is late already

Oh. So sorry sir. The loss of a beloved is a terrible feeling and phase( loss my big brother to kidney disease 3 months ago and still hurting) I pray that the Holy spirit comforts and strengthens you.

May her spirit rest in perfect peace.

Theonlysonofher:
While others are celebrating the new year today I am here sobbing because my marriage is at the verge of breaking.

I loved my wife with all my heart but I don't think I will ever forgive her for what she has done to my mother.

I am the only child of my mother. I have three sisters on my father's side.
I am married with two beautiful daughters. my mother suffered from diabetes, bp and high cholesterol. She is on a special diets strictly no salt or too much sugar.

She came to stay with me because the person who was taking care of her wasn't doing her job properly so I had to bring her to my house so I will be monitoring her health.

I have a house help who prepares all her meals with less salt and she also makes sure she takes her medicines on time without fail.
Everything was fine, my mother is not a troublesome person, she gets on well with my wife and most of the time she is in her room resting.

On the 20th of December my house help had traveled to the village to see her people and she will be back in January 4th so my wife and I have to take care of my mother making sure that her foods is less salty and medicines on time.

Since I am always working so my wife had to take most of the responsibility. It is only for a week and fews days until the house help is back.

She had agreed to take care of my mother during this periods of time and I thought everything was fine but I noticed my mother become distant and tired unlike her and I had no idea that she was actually dying and I have never suspected that my wife was maltreating her.

So Thursday being 30th December I was at work when my wife called and asked me to join her at the hospital because mama had a seizure.

I rushed to the hospital and my mother was in a coma state and I asked her what happened to mama, she said mama woke up that morning complaining about shortage of breath and she told her to go back to bed and rest hoping she will be fine by the time she will wake up.
Only for mama to fall off the ground and started shaking with foam coming out of her mouth.

I was in panicked I couldn't stop praying for my mother to get better and I didn't leave the hospital, my wife went home to take care of the children because she has left them with the neighbour and I had spend all night prayer vigil at my mother's bedside and glory be to God my mother woke up yesterday being 31st but the doctor report was not a good news for me.

Actually my mother was poisoned with salt and guess who did it? My beloved wife couldn't bothered to cook a different meal for my mother, she used to feed her the same meal we ate knowing full well that mama cannot eat the same foods as us because we are salt lovers, especially my wife, she love eating too much salt which I have warned her over and over again because it is also not good for her health.

I confronted her, she said she only fed mama the same meals we ate twice only but according to the doctor it was more than two times.

I am hurt that my wife doesnt love my mother or treat her like her own mother because if she truly loved her like her own mother she would have put her diet on consideration and not allow her to eat the same meal as us. I love her mother and u treat her like my own mother.

It pains me a lot when I remember five years ago when her mother was in coma state and she was staying with her at the hospital, she is her only daughter amongst three boys.

I used to visit them everyday after work, I will bring foods and I have even washed her mother clothes with my own hands, I have done with love because she is my mother. I called my mother in law this morning and I have informed her about what her daughter has done to my mother and she couldn't stop apologising and she is very disappointed with my wife.

But see how she has repaid me by hurting my own mother.

She has apologised to me and to my mother, I have forgave her but I don't think I can stay with her again because one day if I become sick or bedridden she might treat me the same way.

Honestly speaking I am not even at home with her and the kids, I am at my cousin brother's house since yesterday I left the hospital and my mother is still in the hospital because she needs more treatment and hopefully she will recover by next week.

I don't feel like going home today and I don't know when I'll go home but I will always be there for my girls because they are the best thing that ever happened to me.

What other advice would you give me on this situation? What are your thoughts? Thank you for reading all I love this community.

I'm sorry about your mom. Thank God she is getting better and well. I don't think your wife intentionally set out to hurt your mother.

The thing is that she might be overwhelmed with taking care of the young kids ; most men don't realised that 1-5 yrs old toddlers are the most difficult to look after. The little negligence has caused the family more. She must have learnt her lesson by now and won't try similar thing as you are likely to blame her now if anything happens to mom again.


What to do:
Genuinely fogive and forget.
Let her cook different of mom 's meal and store in the freezer ( that's if you get not less than 8 -12hr light daily).
Buy mom's special foodstuffs in bulk .
Let your wife reduce her own salt intake please as it affects everyone including the kids.( I was like that before as if i tell you that a soup is salty then nobody can eat it but worked on it and now i eat normal or no salt at all.
When next your help is to travel please get another person to replace her .

Quick recovery to mom.


MODIFIED

Rest in peace to your mom.

May the Holy spirit comfort and strengthens you.

Peace be restored in your home.

Amen

She was still high then.

Such a beautiful woman.

Joysticks:
No child yet.

Na you get her twins ?

Hello sweet mommies and dutiful daddies,

How is the ministry going? May the Lord continue to uphold you for this great task.



Where my fellow oddies?

Sunbestie
how are my people? Our little man will soon be 1. This harmattan season sweet ooo. Are you thinking what am thinking?

Threegees
how is our little Lady Gracious?

Chai can't remember the monikers again




Compliments of the season.

Stan2330:
from what you complained and the drugs u posted, ur brother is battling with kidney disease

Lord not this soul please.

I pray you find help quick.

Pregnancy is calculated from the first day of ladt menstrual cycle.

So approximately 2 weeks is added to the age of the foetus.
So go for scan and also know that the readings is also taken from the rate in which the foetus matures.

One can be 8 weeks old but scan can read 6 or 10 weeks old. Either ways, there is + or - 2 weeks.

threegees:


If only you know wetin dey my mind as I see you here
LO is doing fantastically well.
9 months in a few days.
We have 3 teeth now, we can crawl, stand, try to walk with support, eating semo and ewedu soup, noodles and egg, spaghetti, moin moin, brown pap, Nutribom and Cerelac.
We can clap, give hi5, and wave bye bye.
Counting down to our one year birthday like this.
Did I forget to mention that we do not really remember to suck brezz anymore? And when I put it in her mouth, we end up training the gums for bubble gum-chewing. (The shout that follows eh)
How's your princess doing?

We are fine too. She has 2teeth, can comd down the bed, walk around the bed, push chair, eat anything given to her with serious wailing except if iam signing and doing funny faces. Breast is her comfort meal to be taken after eating anything else.

Hello mamas and papas.

How is the ministry going?

How are our little ones doing?

My sweet Cappos for May 2019 and October 2020 sets?

Sunbestie
Threegees




You women shouldn't look at me that way joor i say make i just greet una