CandyOps:
Bullying in secondary schools is as old as time. Back in the days in FGC the senior boys then will kpokpo you to the extent that we had to leave the dormitory and sleep in classes at night or in the bushes. It was so horrible that even our house masters and supervisors couldn't do anything about it.

They beat us like criminals used planks 2by2, iron buckets, chains, edge of cutlasses, and their fists. It was so bad that whenever you see a student with a broken arm at the sickbay the first question he'll be asked would be, "who beat you up?"

It was so disheartening that the thought of going back to school after the mid-term break will literally make our hearts race and you will feel sick to your stomach.

The only solution to that would be to look into the authoritarian parenting style we have in Nigeria. The act of flogging or physically abusing kids when they err should be made illegal or proscribed. Because I believe the family is the cell of a society and the way our parents tidy our fxck ups is the same way a military man or police will tidy your fck up.. when you do something as simple as piss him off

That same system of rule is what is replicated in the senior boys that bully kids. It won't stop as long as we have a culture of physically publishing our kids. It's a trend we instilled in them. Spare the rod and spare the child.

I'm not sure I can put my kids through a boarding school after what I experienced. And this was more than 15 years ago. If something wey dey happen since 15 years ago no fit stop wetin make you feel say e go stop in another 15 years in the future??

I don't think it's right for parents to physically assault their kids in the name of punishment because there is no gauge to how much beating the kid deserves. Besides, there is a thin line between abuse and reprimand by flogging.

It's a major sign of bad parenting.. and as you know some trauma especially those experienced as kids or adolescents may lead to psychosis later in life.

And the underlying psychotic disorders will come to light as soon as the victim engages in drugs like weed, alcohol intoxication or some takes some prescribed psychotropic medications. Which is why it is bad to give or share weed with your friends wey never take am before.

You don't know who has a low-key psychosis

If you talk now, them go begin quote backward moral proverbs for you. Just watch

I also went to an FGC School(Fgc Warri precisely). I confirm the crazy shit we suffered from our Seniors then.Mine was 20 years ago and till date I don't think I have completely let go of the trauma I underwent while in the Boarding School.

Terrier99:
The Chief Judge has become the Defence counsel to Udom.

I am telling you...Something that is an elementary principle of law that where there are two competing applications; one to bring life or resuscitate a matter and the other to destroy the matter, the application to bring life will be taken first. Me confuse for wetin Chief Judge dey talk oh.

Sarikidoo:

Someone should answer me nau

Buccaneers do not have a female arm or equivalent ... Na she sabi wetin she go involve herself put.

holurinde:

can you pls shed more light on the bolded...thanks

The same way you prepare an affidavit and depose to before a commissioner for oaths in the Court,in this instance you will depose to the prepared affidavit before a notary public(lawyers of not less than 7 years post call appointed by the CJN).

holurinde:
pls lawyers in the house, is there any other way i can do affidavit apart frm going to court...thanks in advance

Yes, you can do an affidavit with a notary public.

But if the detention centre belongs to another agency as posited .. Measures should be taken to address the degrading, barbaric and wicked action of the concerned agency.

He was expelled and she was not expelled as well. Very strange...

EvangelistMFM:
I thank you all for the prayers, I feel elated that in my time SARS is now been reorganized.

SARS cell is a place you don't want to enter. We squatted from morning till night, except we want to ease ourselves which we must raise up our hand and beckon on a inmate called O.C torture before we are allowed to ease ourselves. I saw more than 70 people inside one small room, it is a gory sight my people. There are inmates whose two legs have been condemned with gunshots, when the wound is healing, the SARS people shot another again.
SARS torture cell is a graphic picture of hell.

I thank the vice president,Prof.Yemi Osinbajo that he made this bold step to reorganise SARS.

Eventhough I am responding to treatment ,I feel elated that this SARS is been restructured, and I know and iam sure I will get justice.

Thank you all once again and may God bless you.

John Otuechere, the Taxify driver wrongly accused and tortured by SARS

Have you contacted a Lawyer to sue them?

SheikhMuniru:
NGIGE

I concur...

goldenceo1:

According to Fejiro Oliver a famous seasoned journalist from Delta State who was at the fore front of soliciting for help for Racheal Fubara.

Friends

Do you all remember Rachel Fubara, whom we clamoured for some millions to be donated for, for treatment in India?

You guys raised the full money for her in just two weeks of her crying to you guys on facebook and Instagram.

She made it to India.

But gave up yesterday.

Rachel is grateful in heaven that you gave her hope while her country failed her. She could have lived if the people she cried to helped.

Together we all can save a soul. Let's not wait till it get worse. We are each others keeper each other lover and kindred spirit, only waiting to connect. Do not be ashamed to cry out. We may not have much but trust me, these facebook, twitter and instagram friends you have won't ever abandon you.

To Rachel, tell God that we love you and would have gladly given more if money was all that was needed to save you. Our love for you is genuine. We love you in life and in death.

Till we meet to part no more, fare thee well.

Cc: lalasticlala

Rest in Peace Rachael...

The aiye guy speaks well...

The little girl...so adorable

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Eddodoh:
I want to register a company and start applying for small contracts.

I intend doing General Supplies, Cleaning and Building Works, or only General Supply.

My concern is that what is mostly stated here is focused on Oil Companies.

How do I go into the contracting business if I am not in the oil producing states where oil companies abound?

I carry out registration of companies and other incorporation matters. Would love to be of service to you. Thanks...

Joke Silva uses her maiden name most times and I don't think any issues have been raised about it. So I think it is not compulsory a woman changes her maiden name...

I think this is an old picture...This is a picture of some of the students not kidnapped a day after the kidnapping occurred.

Very sad story...I thought blood was thicker than water...

Hidentity:


It has been created. Although some of us are not members, but it doesn't prevent those interested from joining. I will remind anyone joining the whatsapp group to note the words of caution I included in the first post. All the best.

Hi, Please where is the link to join the whatsapp group? Thanks...

Omo,they plenty oh,70 guys gathering together at about 2 am in the morning...Why they nor go catch them.

For your company incorporation, business name NGO and church registration, contact us on 08068171410, whatsapp inclusive...Price very very affordable.

tartar9:
Still better to me than the most horrible name ever: Ekaete

lol

tartar9:
Still better to me than the most horrible name ever: Ekaete

lol

Annie939:
the only woman among them they get mind suspend her no no no we won't take it. no house survive without a woman

what of this one?'The leader of the house, Hon. Joseph Nwobashi moved the motion which was seconded by Hon Mrs Okpo Franca. Hon. Mrs Okpo advised her to leave the system and possibly go and work on her...'

Close siblings...feeling the love between them.

datola:
Social crusader and son late High Court Judge, Charles Oputa, popularly known as Charly boy, on Wednesday described pastors and politicians, who own private jets as “bastards.”

The OP/writer is referring to one of Nigeria's best in the highest allowed camber of justice as High Court Judge.

This writer should go back to high school to retake Government.

I was also astonished at the High Court Judge reference...

This is unbelievable! What is wrong with our police force(Sars)? No investigations...Nothing. If indeed they were kidnappers,they should have a network of others involved in the kidnapping business as well wherein valuable information could have been gotten from them to tackle the the menace of kidnapping comprehensively... SMH in wonder...It is well

l sincerely hope the arrest of Bobrisky isn't because of his sexuality... because of it is then the Cucumber girls should also be arrested.Except there are double standards for homosexualism and lesbianism...

bqlekan:
Hehe well, the indian national team was banned from football because they insisted on playing with their bare foot..

India dey play football oh, them nor just too sabi am. Na cricket be their forte... Nobody ban them from football.

This is absolutely horrendous...the offer of 3m by Leadway is way too small. Do they mean that's the worth of the woman's life? I hope not...

Person wey be senator for 6 years nor fit build house for Abj with him plenty salary and him dey happy to talk am outside. Make him continue him lies sha... God dey.

Bro wetin farmer do you? Abeg nothing bad about being a farmer...

So Na English person dey use take drive Big motor these days... this freeze reasoning na wa.

If nobody is complaining about French language,I don't understand the hullabaloo about Arabic language being taught in schools. It could be valuable for those interested in it since it is a widely spoken language...