GEJ really endured alot....he is truly a man's man

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I pity the goat, why apply it on the poor thing?

But that's how we all refer to each other in Church..."brother" "sister"......so what's the big deal here?

Hmmm....like Reno....like Yul

Rest in peace Osinachi...you did your part....now GOD will do HIS...may you find eternal rest in JESUS Name. Amen

Please ask her what she thinks about yansh surgery and how she intends to reform that area if elected

EkelediliBuhari:
The quality of politicians we have has made leadership positions a subject of caricature.

Imagine what we have to deal with now. The other day it was Bob for president.

dplordx:
I thoughts it’s only Lagos that is experiencing flood. I mean, Abuja? It’s a big lie! IPOB must be disappointed this is happening in Abuja as well

Well...Abuja no be heaven

GOD is my armour

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Islandlady:
Learn how to campaign for your candidate without dragging other people's candidates down! Haba you are behaving like a thug and spewing trash everywhere

But you just dragged him and even called him names. He has every right to be on any tread he wishes to comment on. There's no crime in that....let's all try to be a little more tolerating.

Before you call me names too....I don't know him and I'm not Igbo. Thank you

You are weak and your talk is cheap. Rest abeg.....and stop setting a bad example everywhere

Klass99:
Penplus pls read this true life story with an objective & unbiased mind.

Pat & Peter were a married couple, Peter had an elder sister Naomi who was often rude and disrespectful to Pat. Naomi would do things like talking over Pat or talking down to her, busting into their bedroom without knocking when Pat & Peter are in the middle of a conversation.

Naomi did all kinds of things until Pat had enough one day, choked Naomi by the neck and pinned her to the wall. It took about 2 people to pull Pat off of Naomi. Naomi has never dared to mess with Pat again, from that day.

Naomi's own husband (Tony) left the house one day never to return, he did not take his clothes or any items, he just disappeared to start a new life in Abuja. For some time people thought he was dead, the police were involved but no one knew or heard anything until 6 months later, when it Tony was found in Abuja.

When asked questions Tony said he was sick and tired of Naomi and their marriage, he just wanted out and he wanted a new life. Naomi was that cantankerous and troublesome.

What is my point? Some siblings/in-laws can be the real problem, it is not always the wife's fault or the wife who has issues. If you check well your cousin (the sister in law) may have done something very inappropriate or may be the one provoking the wife. I am just saying....

Siblings are not always the sweet/decent people we want to think or believe they are, we play into the narrative of blood is thicker than water, far too much in this country, even when it doesn't make sense to. Again I am just saying.....

I quite agree with you but guy...this is a different scenario. I know this particular in-law (my cousin) well...she no get wahala...

RightToReject:
The reason isn't far-fetched; women are the weaker vessel, and a vice like pretentiousness is chiefly part and parcel of what it entails to be the weaker vessel. Of course, men have their own vices too.

As a man, to prevent being meted out with a pretentious act like the one in your story, you must always relate with a woman on a defined philosophy, nay you must have a standard you operate on, and must spell it out to her from the inception of your relationship with her.

Servility is as bad as cruelty, say no to both of them. Most men's undiscerning ability, inordinate need for validation and poor concept of respect, which makes them to wittingly or unwittingly use servility rather than justness as the standard to sustain their relationship with women, especially small-minded women, pre-marriage, enables pretentious act from women and allows it fester even in marriage in most cases.

As a man, you must consciously make a decision never to put a woman on a pedestal, and don't expect her to put you either, even though that is their understanding of being adored and the surest way to have them walk and work with you seamlessly. Putting them on a pedestal means using servility to sustain your relationship with them, which is always catastrophic in the long-term. Of course, the need not to put a woman on a pedestal doesn't negate being courteous to her and loving her genuinely if she's deserving of love.

Unfortunately, any man that lives for women's validation cannot live on the above philosophy.

Respect!

Please people why is that women usually change after marriage?....as in their true color come out when they know they're finally settled.

I just witness my cousin's wife messing his sister up for no just cause....someone who is much older than her o. I felt so bad and offered to take her to my place but She said no that she has no issues with her brother....and she would soon as she just came visiting because of the new born baby...she also mentioned that it's good her brother's wife is showing herself.....and am like.....my wife can't try this with my siblings o....I love my wife but she must respect my family....and to think that before marriage this same woman would almost prostrate to greet....ha!

MadamVanessa:



YUL still love and respect his first wife , just that the first wife is just being jealous and bitter because someone else is coming to share that glorious dick with her. I don't blame her, by default that's how we women are . It's not easy seeing your husband you've to yourself alone now being shared .

But for this matter people were funny me pass, be people were their mama na second wife, third wife , fourth wife , still get mind choke mouth for this matter.. imagine? People get mind o. Even my friend that I know her mum is a second wife and it was because of her mum that the first wife painfully leave the marriage after giving birth to six children , get mind yap Yul yesterday, I laugh.


Another close friend of mine who we have been having series of threeesome with married men rushed to Yul page on Facebook to dropped her insults..I shocked


I will be so foolish and stupid to join the bandwagon of emotional women to dragged Yul. Who knows I might fall in love tomorrow with a married man, but God forbid! But who knows? Yul second wife never envisaged or believed that she will end up as a second wife today..If care is not taken she was one of those that swear that she can never be a second wife or look at a married man twice, but today what happen?

GOD forbid o....but what GOD won't forbid is what you're wishing a fellow woman like you....so be rest assured when you finally settle down with your very single husband.... another woman will share that his glorious dick with you....as they....what goes around comes around.... whatever a man sow so shall he reap....keep clapping got Yul you hear

We already know she's number one.....the undisputed part is what I don't get

Our celebrities setting the pace.....

It is also insensitive to ask Nigerians to donate money to your cause and with all your success, why asking poor Nigerians for money they struggle and work hard for?...as for me....my shishi,....you no go see

Is Yahaya Bello really contesting? Hmmm

So controlling now translates to peace....it's alright

Officialgarri:
See how he rubbed the glory of his generation in the ground.

I don't know if I need to get checked, but I practically don't feel anything whenever I get close to a politician or celebrity.

You're not alone

What this child need is love from his father. He acts out because he feels unloved. If only the dad will scold...yes...whe he errs and also show him love when he does right. The boy feels pained, wounded and unwanted bn that the dad is with another woman rather than his own mother. Only constant love and assurance can change that mindset. Deleting his pictures and labeling an underaged child a drug addict will only cause more damage.

Osashalom:
I want to mention something about the spirituality debate. You don't believe in God? Fine, I'm not one to judge, cause I'm not the judge. Why is it so important for many of you to mock those of us that do? If we're wrong, what have we lost when we die? Nothing! How does our believing in Jesus bring you any harm? You think it makes me stupid? Gullible? Fine. How does that affect you? If you're wrong, your consequence is far worse. I would rather live my life believing in God and serving Him, and find out I was right, than not believe in Him and not serve Him, and find out I was wrong. Then it's too late. There's no shame in my game! I believe in Jesus Christ. He said deny me in front of your friends & I will deny you in front of my Father (Matthew 10:33-35). HE'S COMING BACK...Greatest man in history, had no servants, yet they called him Master. Had no degree, yet they called him Teacher. Had no medicines, yet they called him Healer. He had no army, yet kings feared Him. He won no military battles, yet He conquered the world. He committed no crime, yet they crucified Him. He was buried in a tomb, yet He lives today. His name is Jesus. 
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I believe in JESUS...If I don't,....wetin I gain?

Believing in HIM is gain to me....not loss...HE is the only way to the the FATHER...our creator GOD

I feel sorry for him and I pray he gets the help he needs. I believe there are certain things we won't get and understand here....but time will tell all

Will young and vibrate actors play the role of elderly men? The movie industry is big enough to accommodate both young and old

finson:
Good day all,

I was working in Lagos as expatriate. I am married and she was fully aware at the beginning of the relationship.

I had sex with my gf on the 6th day and I pulled out.

I told her that month that my contract has been terminated by my company and I have to go back to my country.

On 27th day I met her (5 days before leaving the country) and she asked me if I am sure that I pulled out on time when we had sex last time and I told her yes and she told me that she is asking the question because she has not seen her period.

When I left the country 2 weeks later I chatted her and I asked if she is doing well. She told me that she is not fine. I asked "why ?" And she told me that she is pregnant. I was very surprised and I called her. That day she told me that she was just joking with me she is not pregrant and we talked about everything.

Last week she told me that she is pregnant. She shared with me a test results on a paper where the date of the pregnancy perfectly matches with the date we had sex.

She told me that if her family is aware of the situation they will disowned her and she immediately shared with me some requirements to apply for a job in UK where 2 million NGN are required and she asked me for support. She also deleted the image of the tests results.

When I asked her to share with me she told me that she does not want me to be in trouble if my wife see that document in my phone. I insisted to get a copy and I told her that she can be assured I will not keep it in my phone. She shared back the document after cropped the letterhead. I insisted to get the full copy and she sent another one after striketrhoughed on her name.

I told her that I don't think in Nigeria the only option available for a woman who gets pregnant is to travel to UK even if her family will disown her. I understand that the situation is not comfortable but there could be other options. Even this process to go to UK can be unsuccessful, and if it is the case, this amount of money would have been lost.

I am not from Nigeria and this story seems suspicious to me. I am currently abroad, there is no way I can verify what she is telling me. I don't also want to open it some of my friends there.

To be honest, I never planned after I left the country to cut communication with her or to support her. But I prefer to support her whenever I have the opportunity to do. I don't know now if this story about the pregnancy is true or not.

If you have any experience in this kind of situation please share with me. Any advice is also welcome.
Please don't judge me.

She's lying.....and well....if there's any truth in it...tell her you will support her through the pregnancy and after she gives birth and DNA confirms that the baby is yours.....you will then make arrangements for her to join you abroad.... believe me story go change

Adultery get plenty hidden packages. This is just one of them. Be faithful to your partner

Wesmichael:


Amoye Grammar School
P.O. BOX 35
Ikere - Ekiti
Ondo State
12th May 1985

Dear Honey,
Hope you are fine,if so doxology. Time and ability plus double capacity has forced my pen to dance automatically on this benedicted sheet of paper. I hope you're swimming in the wonderful pool of Mr. Health there. I am also parambulating in the cool breeze of wellness here.

Sweetie pie, the reason why this miraculous thing is happening is because, honey, I love you spontaneously, and as I stand horizontally parallel to the wall and vertically perpendicular to the ground now, I only think of you, since you are a fantastic and fabulous girl, put together as fantabulous. I implore you to decipher this my anthem of love oozing out from the innermost pendulum of my thoraxial cavity.

Darling, please stop haranguing with the feelings in my heart because I love you more than a snake loves rat.
To me each day I start by dreaming of you. Each time I see you, my metabolism suddenly halts and my peristalsis goes in reverse gear. My medula oblongata also ceases functioning.

Crazy, crazy, crazy you may say but this is verily veritable. If only you knew what is going on in my encephalon, you would prostrate. That's why I need to see you vis a vis soon for a better elucidation through tete a tete. No hyperbole & onomatopoeia, simple candidness.

Only you and me are protagonists in this subtle affair. As I cogitate and ruminate over the last episode, I genuflex before the Omnipotent and implore him to let this affair emulsify.

By the way, I was bamboozled, scintilated, exhilarated, and left in a state of prolonged euphoria by the contents of your missive which was quite edifying and exalting. It left my bio-chemistry in a paradise-like equilibrium.

Empirically speaking, I love u chemically... I don't ever want to see gloom and doom looming over your angelic live portrait. Let my appellation be scribbled across your heart, with indelible ink. If any boy tries to ask for your companionship, tell him that u are leased and caveated.

I think I have to pen off here, because I still haven't finished studying electrolysis polymerization. But before I evaporate, I like to revitalize your memory with those encapsulating lyrics which proclaim that your catarrh is my butter, your piss is my mimbo, the world's greatest lover is me.

Catch you later. Sleep tight and don't let those bed bugs bite you because you are too sweet for them.

Goodbye for now.

Your slave in Love
Class Captain
Form 5B.

If so doxology

Igbofam:
This is beginning to look like Sabotage and a sponsored terror attack from Quarters wanting to wrest power from this current leadership.

Something is fishy

Nothing is fishy in your analysis here. Bubu is leaving soon, elections are around the corner, so tell me....why would anyone want to wrestle power from a man who's power is already exhausted? hmmm

Sad but that's what the world have regenerated to

Why not just go a real test?

suffering:
Become a moderator so you can change things for the better. If you won't you can act like me and accept this place for the trash heap it is.

Very inappropriate content they're pushing to us. Well lemme take it as it is