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goodnessme1:
Yoruba muslim at it again.



I dont know why yoruba christians are well behave than yoruba muslims.

Are you serious? The igbos v. Yoruba foolishness is not enough? Is this actually a thing? We don't need this, we honestly do not need this ma.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Igbos are far greater than the Yorubas in every aspect. Go and argue with your keypad.

We are still begging your sense to come back home. Oponu alailopolo.

Bede2u:
it really is..but the post isnt hate...its a joke...wen i saw it first, the caption was enugu guys when they see anambra girls

And in light of the numerous challenges this country is facing especially with the different tribes, such a joke is in poor taste. As if you don't know the depth of hatred and bitterness yorubas and igbos display against each other here on Nairaland.

Bede2u:
he married tonto dike

Uncle, Tonto Dikeh is now the standard for South East ladies abi, that you are fighting to claim her as one of yours just to prove a stupid point. Common sense is truly not common.

sinaj:
This is what I knew feminism to be, but my dear not anymore. The word feminism has been so abused lately which is why people like Cuppy nd so many others are diassociating themselve from it.

People abusing it does not change its true meaning. Your profile says you are female, if you truly are, 10000 people calling you a man does not change your sex, does it?

I don't see how disassociating ourselves from feminism changes anything. Anyway, it's not the appellation or label that matters, your action is what truly counts. I don't see her standing up for equality of everybody anyway, so she is right not to call herself a feminist.

sinaj:
I noticed that lots of feminist are divorcees, single ladies, jilted gfs, people in troubled relationship that just hide behind it to vent their anger against men with their conflicting opinion.

There are lots of misguided feminists, people who don't really understand the concept and hide under it to wage verbal war against the opposite sex. Even men are guilty of this.Their understanding of feminism is limited to domestic duties.... Cooking and kneeling down for instance, which is not what feminist is about.

Meanwhile, what true feminists are saying is simply equality of the sexes, don't deprive me of chances I am qualified for because I am a woman, don't consider me inferior or beneath you because I am a woman. It's as simple as that.. Domestic duties are just a minute subset of feminism, one of the ways you can demonstrate equality of the sexes. My husband is not so superior to me that he cannot cook if he has to OR he so wishes to. It's left to us to determine how we want to do things in our house.

I acknowledge the differences between men and women, physical and biological differences, we look different, we react to things differently, whether due to nature or nurture, but regardless of our differences, we are EQUALS, nobody is superior to anybody.

psychologist:
Truly Ndi IGBO are taking over


1,2 and 3 are all igbo's
Thats massive

Lolzz. Thats the way the NBA election process is structured. The last election were all northerners. So nobody is taking over anything. Its rotated among geopolítical zones

ClassRep001:
Nigerian girls are the worst set of people you should ever consider to have anything to do with.

Morally they are bankrupt.
All brain dead, fuuking dirty set of people with stinking underwears.

I stopped doing local a long time ago..
They are the worst set of girls in the world.

Especially the ones from Apamu Oduduwa region

People, I took some minutes to go through this human being's previous posts, nothing positive, so much bitterness and hate being churned out from one person.

I shudder to imagine what his insides must look like, not to talk of smell. This in my opinion is his way of crying out for help, maybe he can still be saved.

Please take a minute to speak peace into his storm, maybe there is still something of value, no matter how little, worth saving in him.

God bless you, Mr classrep that is not morally bankrupt but has sniffed the stinking underwear of all Nigerian girls and has been with all the women in world to know that Nigerian girls are the worst.

May your circle of relevance extend beyond the screen of your phone.

The conversations. So wise, so smart!
Hardly a book he had not read.
Very selfless, he would always put others first.
Ticked all the boxes too except the most important one.
I will always be grateful for the 2years I had with him.

YouareaBITCH:
;DThis humanitarian service will show u the clear difference between Nigeria and France. There will be no recognition watsova

You call this humanitarian service?
You are really comparing this to the purported rescue of a child?

mykel25:
And some ladies Girls are here not replying DM thinking every guy is a player kwantinue

Some even screen guys with his profile picture trying to calculate d weight of his pocket....

I'm taken, Def not speaking 4masef

Don't blame the girls. Too many messed up men in this world looking for whom to mess up like them. Besides, it's hard to reply a guy with an obscene moniker, a ridiculous picture and a signature that suggests he is half as smart as a 5 year old. Trust me, it would take compelling circumstances to look beyond that.

Out of the broken pieces of our past, God can build an edifice of hope.
You ma’am surely deserve some accolade.

Let’s not be insensitive, okay.
A life (so young) has been lost.
empathise if you can or just ignore.
And there is a lesson in there for us all too,
Baby proofing a house is sine qua non to child raising.
Sometimes, we cannot be too careful really.
But these parents are suffering right now and are beating themselves up,
Even if they were careless, they have paid the ultimate price for it.
Let’s show some empathy please.

KINGOFJAPAN:
I make noodles with plenty water

I listen to sad songs when I'm sad so I can become even sadder

I watch Anime porn

I like my nipples sucked (I'm a guy)

I make legit conversations with myself

Your number 2 and 5 is sooo me.

When I am sad, I imagine my situation is worse than it actually is just so I can get sadder or cry harder.

I totally enjoy talking to myself, I don't think that's weird though.

I always silently support the villain in a movie and this is the first time I will be admitting it to myself.

I stop watching a movie once I suspect it won't end the way I want. I hate realistic movies or books, I mean we watch 'make believe' to escape our realities.

One of the first things I observe in a guy is whether or not he has bum bum.

You probably made a decision already and you are just looking for validation. Anyway, I don't know the lady's story but if your account is a true representation of all that happened, kindly end things before death/severe maiming do you part.
From your story, I don't trust you too, you will probably become friends with another lady someday and a knife will probably be the closest item to Aunty when she finds out.
She will probably get a good lawyer and spend just 4/5 years in jail while you are gone forever.
Let's avoid all that and stay alive OK?

Taiwofait:
Hello everyone,

This is the 1st time I am posting something like this and it's because I don't seem to know what to think or do anymore and I strongly hope this get posted.

I am sorry, but the epistle is quite long. I just have to try and explain as explicitly as I can.

I am a 27 year old guy, a Bsc holder. I am in a relationship with a 24 year old lady who recently had her masters from my school as well.

We are both in love with each other however we have trust issues.

On my part I used to be a flirt but I immediately dumped that character immediately I met her. She became everything to me. Our 1st few months of our relationship I was very loyal, caring and I was everything I should be, unfortunately along the line I started discovering some irregularities and after some investigations I discovered she wasn't as clean as I thought. She's still decent though but truly it affected me because I had total trust in her.

I didn't exactly go back to my former ways but I did started trying to find an alternative should incase she disappears on me [something I later discovered was a bad move] because she kind of found out and that made her distrust me as well.

Consequently, we didn't trust each other anymore, but every other thing was in place. We loved and cared alot for each other.

Our relationship lasted a year with a whole lot of drama, so many break ups and make ups and very recently something happened and that is the reason I am here to ask for your help.

During one of our misunderstanding periods, I met a lady in traffic and gave her a lift, no bad intentions though, we got talking and became good friends. I told her about my girl and the issues we were having and she empathized with me, gave me some tips that can help us. She was just my friend, nothing else, as at that time.

I couldn't tell my girl about it because I knew she was just gonna assume she's another side chick [remember we had trust issues] unfortunately for me she found out about her and she fought me over it. Eventually she decided she was gonna break up with me again just because of the lady who in the real sense of it was actually my friend and not a side chick. It was painful though because even this time I was innocent.

I got pretty close to this my friend to the extent we more or less started dating. Unfortunately, I discovered this girl was best kept in the friend zone as I discovered some things I can't cope with as a man. Also I couldn't get my mind off my supposedly ex girlfriend. So I called her back up and tried to settle things with her.

I truly love this girl and I don't seem to be able to get away from her. I had quite a number of issues I was dealing with but then, I also understand nobody is perfect. She's someone I would love to spend my whole life with.

She came back and we picked up again, but this time, I determined not to try anyone else even if she's not being straightforward. I decided to put in my all once again, be faithful and loyal to her only. [although it was difficult to convince her about that because I have said that to her a couple of times before, meanwhile, I didn't mean it then, like I do now]

I told her about my friend and she supposedly forgave me. We have been doing fine for a couple of weeks now, no distractions, nothing, coz I cut communication with all other girls including friends. But sometimes she would just act up, insultively and at the end she would say she just remembered some of the things I have done to her in the past. I don't get angry, I always stay calm and I believed it was just a phase and I believed she would come around with time. And then the worse happened.

Today she was going through my gallery and she came across some of my pictures and videos with the lady, nothing erotic, just some playful pictures and videos together. Truly, I actually forgot I had it there. That probably got her really mad and before I knew what was happening, she was hitting me, repeatedly, it ranged from slaps on my face to real punches, she broke me nose, I even bled quite seriously. As I type this epistle I have pains all over my body.

Now, I am not a weak guy, I am quite a strong and muscular guy, I can take her down with just a punch,

But I did nothing, in fact I deliberately allowed her to hit me because I believe that would help her let her anger out. But she proceeded to pick up the pressing iron, she tried to destroy my phone, she even tried to pick up a bottle until my neighbor stopped her. She's been threatening to kill me. Now shes a masters holder, not the oshodi kind of girl so the reaction really baffles me. I knew she had anger issues sort of which is one if the things I have been battling with her.

Now here is my dilemma, with all the drama that has happened between us, I really don't know what to do. I truly love her and I wish I could have her, she's wonderful in many ways but this recent outburst is scary. I want her but at the same time, I have to be happy. We are just dating and we have all these dramas, what would happen when we get married?

As a lady, is it worth it, hitting till I bleed just because pictures reminded her of some girl I supposedly cheat on her with [Even though I already ended everything, weeks before now]??

Would you advise I still continue or should I just put on a bold face and walk away.

Please advise me, I am going crazy here and my nose and head is hurting badly.

Thanks in anticipation.

Zykod:
Don't take me too serious. Seriously, no need to fight, i'm sure we're on the same team

Haha

mrphysics:
Sure. Thanks ma'am and a happy sunday to you

To you too.

Zykod:
I dont have time for dumb and smart ladies alike, where the time? I'm not discriminating, simply stating a fact. Jesus said one greater than the Temple is here, it wasn't ascribed as sin. This is the problem with intelligence, we get too analytical and find fault in virtually anything. Intelligent people suffer from having too much of it, which is another turn -down that
*dissuade me from associating with people with seemingly too much intelligence*
[b][/b], take a chill pill. For emphasis, i havn't met more than 5 intelligent chicks, perhaps my standard may be the problem.

You will be fine o. You don't associate with people with seemingly too much intelligence yet you have never met more than 5 smart Nigerian ladies. I think it's safe to say that you naturally gravitate towards dumb people. Lol

Zykod:
I've addressed a lady wronglfully once, but it was in the heat of the moment.About the smartness thingey, i wouldn't mind putting it to test.What's your I.Q.? What's your major? I've hardly met more than 5 smart Nigerian ladies all my life.

See what we are saying. While we are advocating that we should stop calling our men broke, he goes a step further by saying Nigerian women are dumb and has not met more than 5 smart Nigerian ladies.

There sha must be something about you attracting to you or attracting you to 'dumb Nigerian ladies'.

mrphysics:
Thank you.
Imagine being in school and as you are making effort to improve your gp ahead of graduation, someone constantly tells you that you are not intelligent. Yes it can be encouraging but the person will feel bad as at the time he is addressed as such. I strongly think that there are ways to encourage someone without calling them names.

Yes, you might think you are smarter than someone that called you a who.re or ashawo. Yet, at that very point and to that persons, you are not happy he did. So the best is to seek for a way to completely avoid it.

You can't always avoid it. Horrible people will always come our way, and say horrible things to us for no reason. We just have to build a self esteem so strong that their words won't penetrate. We have to learn to deal with it.

Zykod:
Big lie @ Calling girls whores or ashawo and all those terrible words sometimes happen when you cannot match a girl intellectually


I've never met intellectually sound Nigerian lady that will threaten me so badly i will call her a love peddler, haba, how many ladies are sound? Even the sound ones are not exceptional. Even so, why should it be a basis for calling her an ashewo.

I did not say all men do that. I said sometimes. That you won't descend to that level does not mean some dumb guy wouldn't.
How many ladies are sound? Please, restrict yourself to the ladies you know or meet.

While I don't think you should call anyone broke as an insult, you cannot compare it to calling women 'LovePeddler' or 'ashawo'.

Being broke is not something to be ashamed of, it's just part of the process. It only becomes an issue when you are not making legal efforts to go beyond it. So if someone calls you broke and you are actually broke, please don't feel bad. It's just a phase.
I'm in law school and I don't have a source of income, of course I am broke. Lol

Calling girls whores or ashawo and all those terrible words sometimes happen when you cannot match a girl intellectually, and so you resort to insulting her person. It can't even hurt me, it's just your way of acknowledging I am smarter than you. You can't beat me, so you abuse me kinda thing.

Let's sha stop calling guys broke cos we are all broken in one way or the other. Lol

Ni has different meaning in different languages.

internationalman:
All the guys should know now that the girl u will marry in future is either:

(1) In a brothel servicing at least 10 people's dick a day

(2) may not be in a brothel but freelances on dick in at
least 5 areas.

The bottom line is as long as you didn't lost ur virginity before marriage accidentally, you are categorized as Ashawo as well.

We see you, international Mumu.

[quote author=Hozier post=63724405]So any girl who dresses well is a slayqueen?

It seems "slayqueen" is the latest internet slang, every Tom, Dick and Harry wants to come online and make a stupid comment about some "slayqueen" he saw somewhere. [/quote

I know right. I don't get the obsession with slay queens. If a girl prioritises her physical outlook over other things, how is it your problem? Are you sharing lives? And they managed to make INCOMPETENCE a gender issue.

MiztaSpycee:
I was shocked when i chatted with a Naija babe yesterday and all of a sudden she said she needed 1k to recharge her phone. I told her obviously she can see that am not in Nigeria but in Ghana and she said i can send it through Chisco bus driver because she doest stay far from their park in Lagos.

Trust me i was weak and blocked her. Some people might think am stupid for blocking her but the reason i did that is because as a guy, i know every guy has that responsibility to take care of a lady. But any lady that opens her mouth to ask a guy for recharge card money or money to make hair or buy their cosmetics is an irresponsible girl.

I'm wondering why this threadworthy though.

bughead:
Useless women!

Black women are one of the worse creature on earth!

Go get yourself some common sense. And learn the rules of grammar while you are at it.

Papiikush:
About 80% of the 21st century ladies have nothing to offer apart from their itchy vagina and disgusting over bleached face.

There are the same people that will later go up on twitter to scream RAPE when it happens

You should say 80% of the ladies you know and not be in a haste to make unfounded generalisations. As if you have met even 0.8% of the ladies in the world.

onegig:
As much I would want to address her concerns. I have never seen such naivety and stupidity combined in one person. So she has a boyfriend and what actually did she tell him before agreeing to spend the night with the guy?

That she is going to sleep over in her cousin's house or what? I guess. Someone you barely knew. Someone your so called boyfriend doesn't know . You just knew him from a friend of a friend.

As much as you want to avoid victim blaming, this case turns every common sense discussion upside down. What if he were to be a ritualist and had kidnapped her? What if her friends actually pawned her in for the slaughter?. People just don't for once just think things through. No one even knew the address of the guy . He just booked an Uber for her and like her sil..ly self hoped into the car in the middle of the night. Like why for heaven's sake ladies can't just even think about their personal safety for once. Once most hear basic things like ice cream, fast food and night outing. All commonsense jump out of their head. Like are you guys that fuc.king hungry or what's so special about things not more than 5k that you could treat yourself to?

She should call her mum and narrate her ordeal to her and hear her mum sing her praise to high heavens. Mtshweee

I still can't believe an adult above 18 actually did what she did.

I know right. She was just too careless with her life. It's a dangerous world. Even cautious people become victims of all sorts of evil. And there are too many free things in this story sef. Free food, free transport, free Wi-Fi, free cuddle sef, lol.
Let's just be careful people. No matter how many times we condemn rape or how harsh the punishment, some people will still be beasts and some people lack self control. As much as you can, please remove yourself from harm's way and try to stay safe

Rape is such a serious issue and so prevalent in our society today that we should not be heard saying 'she wanted to be raped'.
I have some many issues with this story. Even if you are not at risk of being raped, you don't just spend the night in just any guy's house and even sleep on his bed. Especially when you have a boyfriend. Also, why on earth can you not pay your tfare yourself?
But all that aside, if a girl/guy says no, it means no. If you are about to slide into a girl and you hear a gunshot, won't you stop? Your penis or vagina does not have a mind of its own. You control it and make the decision with your head. Even if you are not sure if she means yes or no, to avoid superstories, please just step away and leave the room. Denying yourself of that 2/3/4/5 minutes pleasure won't kill you.

stuffs4me:
Most people (especially women) believe that domestic is only against women.

More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male, report reveals
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence

And it will remain so unless people stop complaining about the gender biased campaign against domestic violence and actually start raising awareness on the high rate of domestic violence against men, like you are doing.
Domestic violence is not peculiar to women or men, adult or kids. Everyone is a potential victim, so before he/she kills you, please LEAVE to LIVE.

[quote author=Funkybabee post=62683430][/quote]Very interesting. All the best fun yin o.