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Premiumwriter:
that's not your boss's wife making advances at you. It's unemployment that's seducing you.

And probably a few broken bones.

Sha try relate with her well, make sure she understands that you can't sleep with her.

Not telling her directly, but always playfully get out of her reach each time she touches you. Act a little shock, smile and move out of her reach.

Try avoid spending time alone with her if you can.

You can't report her to oga because oga will rather sack you than confront his fiancee.

And don't try to tell her to stop or confront her because she go make that place hot for you.

You can't reject a powerful woman throwing herself at you. Women can't handle such rejections and she will make sure you pay for it.

So the best thing is to play along. Remain friendly. but always draw a line, and make yourself unavailable to her as much as you as you can

Joebayo217:
Why Rogers I no like dis man at all make man u find a very tactical manager

naptu2:
https://www.state.gov/secretary-blinkens-travel-to-kenya-nigeria-and-senegal/

chatinent:
When you are running a degree abroad, you are studying to becoming educated.

In Nigeria, you are schooling...with no hope of being educated or getting a job. That's why they say school na scam (Nigeria)....not education (abroad).

Abroad, it's called tutors.

In Nigeria, lecturers.

Abroad, free modules.

In Nigeria, recycled expensive rubbish called handouts.

Abroad, you have discussions, interviews, responses and peer-reviews...before assignments.

In Nigeria, tear a sheet of paper.

Abroad, you have a zeal in attending classes.

In Nigeria, “course rep, where is my attendance? Who has paid for my handouts?”

Abroad, A shows you are a bright student. You may never get to get zero...they'll be marks for attempting.

In Nigeria, A is for God, B is for Lecturer, C is for serious students which comprise those interested in sexually transmitted grades, and yahoo boys.


Abroad, you can request for extensions if you miss assignments.

In Nigeria, who is your father to walk into my office to authorise me to give you grace?

Abroad, there is serenity to learn.

In Nigeria, you are always on pressure. How can you learn?

Abroad, you are addressed respectfully by your surname...“Mr. Smith, I am afraid you are going to have to go on detention for a week.”

In Nigeria, “hey, you...Kai, if you do as if it is not you I am talking to eh, I swear to God. I will show you what you haven't seen all your life. It's not a threat. You'll carry this course over.”


Abroad, tutors get sacked for thinking of attempting to make things difficult for students by their actions or inactions.

In Nigeria, go and dare report a lecturer. Your days in that school will be the days of Methuselah.


Brethren, no matter the urge you have, never you argue abroad you are from Nigeria.


These are two different worlds.

Nigeria is an international village forced together for administrative convenience by colonial masters! Nigeria is not a country!

With these few points of mine....

Thank you.

Racoon:
These are the people who saw Nigeria birthed during the pan-nationalism era and equally saw how it lost it in the quest for national development.

Rest on mama. Pls what about madam Victoria Aguiyi Ironsi & Mrs Rose Njoku(wife of Lt.Col.Hiliary Njoku)?

Pecoleee345:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6653469/another-marriage-crash

So over last weekend.... I called family meeting my mum, elder brother and I went to my wife parents house... her family members were present.

They wanted to resolve things between us but no one gave a Bleep about me....they asked her to speak and she said alot of things both truth and lies.

I was lambasted from both sides and I let them finished properly before dropping the bomb......I looked into her eyes straight up and told her am divorcing you.

They were all stunned.... they were now interested in my side of the story.

I decided not to say anything.....am not the type that bad mouth people to score points or look good (my ex-wife is very good at that)....I just told her family to demand the truth from her.

My advice to young men.

1. Make sure u know the background of the lady u wanna get involved with....the way of life etc.

The mistake I made was not evaluating her background...... We came from completely different backgrounds....eg where she comes from people talking crazy and shouting at one another isn't a big deal but me it was a Taboo infact in my parents' house u can't talk with high tones for normal discussions.

2. See forget love and looks...... Make sure you know the main reason she wants to marry you.

I know she loves me but she had another motive which is am meant to give her everything she wants in Life.... She had that mind set of her responsibilities is totally dependent on me.

She told me she can only spare or borrow me money towards doing anything in the house but it is my duty to provide anything she wants even the riddicules ones.

3. For your peace of mind stay away from most ladies raised by single mothers because most her poison to hate men right from teens by their mother.

They are mostly insecure....they believe all men cheat and can never trust.
Comes with mad jealousy

They mostly have anger issue.... they will tell you I don't take shit... trying to show they are strong and can't take what their mother took despite you not doing any shit.....they want to have say in everything just to show you are equal.

They are always quick to be on the defensive
Just to mention a few

I once told my wife am not like your father when I couldn't take the policing, sneaking and threat anymore.

See as a man no one gives a shit about you..... people are sympathetic towards the female and expect you to take whatever she throws at you but you need your peace of mind.
The society has made it possible for women to get away with lot of things.

If you found a woman you want to marry please put love aside and get to really know her background well......cohabit with her for 6month......lastly even if you don't have money, please borrow and go for comprehensive medical check up with her.... (check your sperm count and the state of her womb) please.

Reiyvinn:
Don't be a slowpoke, Copa America never had a fixed time they ran. They even started as an annual tournament.

No dey colour everywhere with ignorance abeg.

TOPCRUISE:
We want a foreign coach not you. You that made enyeama resign. A Nigerian player that's as good as Ronaldo and Messi will be frustrated under a Nigerian coach like Siasia and Oliseh

PlayMaker14:
This my Delta brother is one hypocritical funny clown...

You want the job you openly blast and ridiculed for owing you some months salary?

You want the job again where you step on people's head and disrespect some members of the football federation who was trying to bring you back to sanity?

Your short fuse and bad temperament will not even let a club from Ghana league or the lower division of the Nigeria league let you come close to their staff.

superstar1:
See these clowns. You were deaf and dumb when Unknown GunMen were running riot killing security agents and burning down Govt infrastructure. You are now lamenting when security agents are unmasking unknown Gun Men.

Madam, please respect your age! If your were quiet when your children were misbehaving and could not rein them and their instigator in, as well as their guarantor and chief Uber driver, then save us the crocodile tears!

sanmitee:
No wonder after Xavi, former captain had long gone, Messi has neither won the UCL nor any of the World best awards at all since!? . Many players gone and came, Cr7 never lacked success (national level inclusive). Only a delusional 'greatest' tag.

Bottom line is give it to them both, none is the greatest. But both are great players.

AllenSpencer:
No need reporting to security agencies.


Just keep calling on God.

AlhajiNatty:
Are we still on this??
You don't need anyone's validation. Just do the damn job you have been (s)elected to do and stop seeking for attention like a lonely puppy.
Obasaki, I can see that you must be a Chelsea fan. You folks don't know a thing about being magnanimous in victory. You people are ready to celebrate and rub it in everyones face from now till December. We no go hear word again.

Simplyleo:
This is what I saw

Chicastle:
This project was started in December around 18th, 2019 and it's not up to one year I was there live, julius Berger great work now I can drive down to D line
Mr project is working

SolutionMee:
Dope.

All thanks to Mr president.

Buhari is a visionary leader. Despite his shortcomings in terms of education and exposure, he's still able to replicate 21st century development in Nigeria.

sanmitee:
No wonder after Xavi, former captain had long gone, Messi has neither won the UCL nor any of the World best awards at all since!? . Many players gone and came, Cr7 never lacked success (national level inclusive). Only a delusional 'greatest' tag.

Bottom line is give it to them both, none is the greatest. But both are great players.

spendoon:
This is Lagos not New York ooo