₦airaland Forum

aisha2: Do you spend time you should spend working with him?
Is he financially reckless and you are picking it up?
There could be real physical things about him that may not help you grow not necessarily diabolical.
What value does he add to you?
What habits do you pick up from him good ones or lousy ones?
What kind of company do you share with him?

If you were a focused lady, always reliable and calm then you start dating a " bad" boy who may like fast life and money you may loose yourself and things around you if you are naive.

What did you start doing differently when you met him that makes you loose all these things?

Then again it may just be a bad patch you are facing no necessarily his fault.

Sometimes we meet people and all of a sudden we have so many good things happening, it could be that the person helps us stay focused gives us rest of mind so we are at peace to give our all in what we do and so see positive results.

From your story it seems you are so caught up in his own issues that you fail to concentrate on you. Being supportive is good but don't loose yourself in the process. You sound a little young and naive not too sharp in the ways of the world probably have been sheltered most of your life just taking a wild guess lol.

Misogynist2014: :O Ladies having these are scarce ,I mean very scarce but I think if the lady in the fairy tale could tame a Lion,it is not impossible for a MAN to tame his wife to fit his taste.

optimism91: If one could find a woman with all these (RAW) matrial. What else? But, believe me, there are men who have wives that provides them with most of these qualities, yet, they still run after other (fake) materials. Its all in you. What do you really want in your marriage as a man. Because majority of us married out of sentimental reasons. There is always two sides in every coin. Same goes with character.

NobleG1: You claimed to have those degrees and yet you couldn't express yourself in simple English! You probably bought your way through school.
Shame on you and the morubond Nigerian Education System!

cococandy: I didn't see where the write up says she mocked him

dlux: Hi everyone, just taking a look at recent events. Divorce cases & men cheating from bible days till date. Please a sin is a sin but its well established that men will bleed & keep bleeping women around them. Not justifying it in any way but i think its time women start making counter measures rather than losing their homes & family over one mistake. Its cliche anyway

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NobleG1: What's wrong with you inept "nairalanders'? Why can't you write a simple English? It was hard reading through your gibberish! Is this what Nigerian Education System has become? I guess you would claim you're a graduate. It's utterly disappointing!

iwakolewa: I'm posting this on behalf of a friend,don't know what to advise. .....

I've been friends with her for over eight years now, we are like sisters,about six years ago, her boyfriend crossed the line and asked me out...I got furious and told her about it,but she didn't end the relationship with the guy,they had a little quarrel and reconciled. ...four months later,the relationship ended.. she found out he was getting married.
I've been married for over five years now ,and I have been praying for her to get a good guy to settle down with,and over time, she's been in and out of relationships,she's kind of naive and meek...more like guys take advantage of her meekness.

Two years ago, she met a really cool guy,we all like the guy and it was obvious he likes my friend and they've been dating since then. ..and now,they have set a date for their wedding at the end of the year....

My kid sister came home from school some days ago,they had an award night where she won some awards and she was showing me pictures, I saw my friend's fiancee's picture on her phone with some of her friends, she's never met the guy before,I asked about the guy and she said the guy is dating one of her friends,my friend is in her late 20s,my sister is 19,I was so shocked I kept asking about the guy from my sister.

Now I don't know what to do,I love my friend, don't want to break her heart, but I also don't want her to get hurt...Please advise me on what I can do.

kingslayer: A friend of mine had this experience while going back to his home on the mainland after clubbing at the island..

Am sorry i can't go into details,& am also not a good narrator but just read this.
Please guys,i decided to share this story so that my fellow nairaland guys would be careful with the way they pick up gals to take home after clubbing & other late nite parties.

This friend of mine went clubbing on the island, and he hooked up wit a pretty gal,which he planned to take home for the nite as usual,according to him d gal asked to go to his place,so he took her in his car driving back to d mainland.while driving she was giving him a B.J & he ejaculat.ed in her mouth..she swallowed it,then wen they got to the somewhere on d middle of third mainland bridge she asked him to pullover and he did then to his greatest surprise the gal opened the door & jumped from the bridge into the open ocean..
And that was d beginning of his sorrows..we have adviced him to go see man of God for serious deliverance but he refused

imasleek: The school is in akobo. thanks

eyeview: This is a woman who at her age should have drawn closer to her maker but she instead uses her show to make derogatory statement against God and Jesus christ. A woman who at her age should have been contented with her looks after countless plastic surgeries,but she keep subjecting herself to more plastic and enhancing surgeries. Its sad that she never made it alive from this last one, its sadder that she died at the peak of vanity. It would be saddest if she didn't make peace with that God she fondly mocked while her other vain friends and transgenders laughed.
I would have said Rest in Peace but I would be lying if she didn't know God.

imasleek: yes

imasleek: i came from akwa-ibom to ibadan. i graduated from u.i. i stayed on campus all throughout my uni

Godmystrength: We both have our responsibilities and no one is over burdened with endless responsibilities

Godmystrength: This is what you said

and this is my question

Godmystrength: Na wa for you o . So you actually took that serious? I need no post on NL to know if he is a husband material or not.

And you left my question unanswered.

SAMBARRY: Shikin Perry perry so you are looking for an embodiment of all of that in one woman while you will be doing what if I may ask




well you will see her when you go to your bedroom, sleep and dream

Godmystrength: Really? says who? I don't think i know. I want to know

Maybe i want to know if hubby is a husband material abi

msmon: Your point are very insightful, informative and educative.
I hope you'd be able to provide answer to this question;
1. How long have u been married? *smile*
2. Who is a husband material?
3. Can one find a wife material with all the attributes u listed?

Looking forward to your response.

Godmystrength: 19 points and still counting . Okay.
Sorry to bother you but since you know about wife materials, please tell me little about how to husband materials in other to get these wife materials.... Thank you.

Unionised: Simple...

When you see the MATERIAL she's wearing, then you know.

#this book, I can judge by its cover#