₦airaland Forum

SegFault:
How am I bitter? Is it not the truth? Are Africans not just occupying space and breeding more instead of helping humanity? When they send vaccines and aid, we will start shouting "666", "depopulation" this, that when we don't even add any value to the world. To the other continents in the world it would be better if we just vanished, if you ask me if it is painful yes it is, is it annoying? Yes it is. What can I do? Nothing, because even if you talk from now till the next seventeen years nothing will happen.

as you said you are just bitter for nothing

Dynamiceagle:
I got the Xiaomi redmi 8 some weeks ago, and i must say that it's amazing, 4/64GB.
The speed is something else, download is very fast even with 3g network, i don't bother about charging always because of its strong battery, the infrared for remote is dope and it covers quite a distance, has compass, good processor, it doesn't hang, doesn't get hot even after heavy usage.
Xiaomi have good products generally, it's good

xaiomi marketer sighted

La. Click la die

greatbrian:
He might not be a Muslim. Am not a Muslim but trust me, Islam is a religion of peace. If you go to the early days in Rome and Greek you will see the way try kill in the name of God etc. Take for example in the book of Samuel when God told Samuel to go slain the amalekites. He said he should destroy everything even to horses donkeys chicken etc. He should live ntin alive. What can you say about Christianity been a religious of peace too with that? Shebi the same Bible says when them slap ur right cheek turn the left and pray for your enemies? Why then did the same Bible spoke about killing if xtianity is a religion of peace. My point exactly its our redefinition of religion that kills. both religion are of peace and war depending on what angle we choose to see

this makes no sense. Let's analyze the convo
Person 1 Islam is not a religion of peace
Person 2 Islam is a religion of peace ooo
Person 2 let's go back in time we will see that Christianity was not peaceful

You have not shown us anything mr man, you are just dancing about like a masquerade.

NB: i think both religions are rubbish

chatinent:
Excuse me, inviting her to your place clearly infers sex. Why are you chasing clout? I guess the praises from your likeminded persons will ginger you as though you made a right decision or did sth that's worth a trophy. I don't say you should help her with money. I say you become mature. This is not meant to be rude. I'll advise you stop subscribing to the sex and money games. Grow. If you are old enough as you claim, marry.

if he invited her to his place; "and so". See they are both adults one person should not try playing with the other's head na

SweetBuns:
so because she got pregnant, you assumed she spent all her time hopping on dicks and different beds??

you are not okay upstairs

she was definitely hopping on something! It's seems that thing she was hopping on has put her in her situation.

Lucyspa:
Am interested.. Can we chat?

and so the Bush meat moves closer to the trap!! Ghen! Ghen! Ghen!

Lustknabe:
Hello friends!

I am 28yo white man from Germany and I looking for nice black women to make babies with so the woman can then move and live in Germany. Making babies with man from Germany automatically means you are allowed to move to Germany, so this is your chance! So here is what I thought: You visit Germany and we meet, then we make love (very sweet and gentle, I am good lover) until you are pregnant with my baby. Then you go to government office and say you pregnant from German, so you automatically get residence permit. German government also pays you good money for having children here, because birth rates are low, very low. Then you can live here and child automatically have German passport. I think this is a great idea and win-win for all, because all I want is making many beautiful mixed babies with beautiful black women.

If you interested please write me I looking forward to make love and babies with some beautiful black women.

XOXOXO,

Jonas

i think the op is really German, but he is surely a predator there are lots of stories like this of oyinbo men taking our women abroad and subjecting them to serious sexual abuse when they get to the oyinbo's country. If you are a woman heed this advise if you follow this guy out of the country you are in trouble he will lock you in hi basement and have kinky sex with you even if you escape can you speak German language? A words is enough ooooo.

Akharmony:
And what about the dedicated corporals, Lieutinants colonels, Brigadiers who died miserably on the frontline discharging thr duties, there death is not worth investigating, are they not intelligent�they are not Nigerians, they are not from rich homes and can't afford the cost of going abroad for aviation trainings.Honeslty i think so many blood are crying in the forest.

they died in the Active line of duty this is a different case entirely

Zoey95:
I don't know why we are all just bringing issue and making this thing a political issue. am an Airforce personnel, and if u are conversant with our base in Mando, where the incident happened was at the mammy market. so why making this thing look as if they killed her. God knows everything. and let's leave the fate to God. between we are going to lay her to rest next 23rd of this month in National military cemetery in Abuja. you are all invited to pay your tribute. and last salute.

we should leave everything to God? Is that what they are teaching in the military?

Chai!

The op should quit. He is like a snail that has overgrown its shell

azvm:
2014. i met a guy on Nairaland, i'll call him C. i'm not a new member, only using a new moniker. I was 27, him 29 (now we're 32, 35). i'm yoruba, him igbo. we met in Religion where we were encouraging one suicidal, depressed dude in a thread. he PMed me abt liking what i wrote then the friendship began. we had things in common, had interesting discussions, talked about ourselves and families, problems, etc. we agreed to be in a ldr, communicated mostly over email, whatsapp texts. we've done video calls too several times and till three years ago but i put a stop to them bc he was always asking me to show him parts of my body

2016. i was doing a school research project i needed a website for. C told me he knew someone in Nigeria to build it for me, said he would pay him the money, about $100. after the website was built , a week later he started hampering me to return the money, hurling insults at me, telling me i stole his money and he would tell everyone i took his money and ran. i told him i thought the money had been a gift. we were in a relationship, i didn't think i had to return it. after all the verbal abuse i sent him the money -actually sent him more than $100, then he was happy. it wasn't until i told him how bad his behavior was towards me that he apologized. after this, he wanted me to visit him in Nigeria (we had talked abt me visiting Nigeria since 2015) but i couldn't make it. he soon quit talking to me, disappeared. i didn't hear from him at all for three months, no calls, no nothing. i ended up meeting a man here, a Jamaican. i wasn't attracted to this man, we weren't in a relationship. i don't want to get into these details but i was sexually assaulted and lost my virginity, at 29. i reported to the police last year, it's still an ongoing police case. i somehow blame C. i've felt if he hadn't disappeared i wouldn't hv fallen into the hands of this rapist. C knew my goal was always to save myself for marriage like i had been doing.

rewind. some background. before i met C, i was in a relationship when i was 25, in 2012.
2012. i met a yoruba guy my Uni. he was an international student. we never had sex due to me wanting to wait for marriage. we kissed, hugged during our weekly outings. we saw each other once a week for movies, dinner, bowling. he ended up cheating. 7 months later, i broke up w him. this dude is history but is who i consider my ex if you ask who my ex is. i consider this relationship my first ever relationship, the only real-life relationship i've ever been in all my life, though a non-sexual one.

back to C.
2017. he did encourage me after i told him what had happened to me, provided moral support. but he then disappeared again. when he contacted me four months later, i was upset, we exchanged some words over email- mostly me calling him dishonest, unfaithful, untrustworthy, which were all true. he took things too far and was verbally abusive calling me horrible names and using the things i've told him about myself to insult me, like the sexual assault. he apologized later but i was quite hurt. we decided to start anew for a relationship mostly doing whatsapp texts and email as usual. he isn't a phone call person, he has the tendency to need his space for a week a two- i never complained.

2018. he disappeared again this time for 8 months, from april to november, no communication at all. i had told myself to forget about him. he suddenly called my phone one november afternoon 5 times. when we got to talking he confessed he was engaged to an igbo girl in Nigeria, was busy making preparations for the marriage but her family were making too many financial demands so he opted to call it off. i was shocked to hear he had been engaged. i told him he only contacted me again since the marriage plans didn't work out. he apologized, said it's me he wants to marry, i'm a simple girl, i'll give him peace of mind, blah blab blah. he wanted us to start where we left off. i told him i no longer trusted him but said we could try again, see where it goes

2019. we continue and things were fine till Valentine's Day. a week before V-day he said he loved me, promised to never leave me again. on Valentine's day i got no Valentine's message from him either or email or whatsapp, no call, nothing. meanwhile i would see him on whatsapp. fast forward to two weeks later i needed a logo for a blog of mine. i found a guy on nairaland for it. initially i wanted to send C the money to give to the guy but i decided to send him the money myself, i sent him the money then C started ignoring me. long story short the guy didn't send my logo after receiving the money. i told C, asked him to call the guy for me to release my logo, he refused. after this, i stopped communicating with C myself this time, he didn't contact me either, not till later last year

2020. fast forward to last month he told me abt his laptop which got damaged after a power outage. i started looking online to buy another laptop for him ( i didn't tell him ). my plan was to surprise him, send it to him for his birthday in October. we chatted on whatsapp the next day, i was doing my best to make him feel better, asked him what laptop he's using now, other questions to show him i care. all of a sudden he went of on me calling me deplorable n all sorts of names, saying stuff he knows will hurt me. i dunno maybe he was having a bad day or what. i told him i was planning to buy another laptop for him but he carried on insulting me. i blocked him. asides, his communication towards me recently has been sexual -he's always talkn abt wanting to make love to me, how attracted he is to me ( he has my pics ), how i'm his fantasy. he emailed me days later talkn abt me being the love of his life. he first refused apologizing for all his insults said over whatsapp, he said he doesn't need to apologize before i forgive. he finally said "i'm sorry ok" days later, i told him there's no more relationship. he says he doesn't want to let me go, i'm the only one who understands him. lately i've been thinking abt sponsoring him or going to nigeria to marry him. despite the fights he hs been my friend over the years. plus i'm thinking being in the same place may help us bond a lot better, start a family someday. my fears are he may not be a good father or husband, will be abusive, or i may find out he's got a wife in Nigeria. what do u guys think i should do?

*he's still on nairaland though not too active. he may or may not see this thread... it wouldn't matter either way.

op this guy is unstable if you continue with him despite all the signs you have seen it will end in premium tears for you. The guy is only interested in your money and body

bigbananai:
i read a thread on nairaland where one scumbag was contemplating abortion.
there is no difference between these killer cultist and these hoes that open their legs to Bleep and when pikin come u kill the pikin in the name of abortion. all girls reading this that have commited abortion and guys that have asked their gfs to commit abortion , all of u are killers like the cultist. see dont even quote me to defend your reason for askingher to comit abortion or quote me to tell me why u are commit abortion because listening to you is like listening to a useless cultist that trys to tell me why he killed

better the babies are eliminated from the gene pool, their parents don't have � good genes.

Constantjohn:
When is the future

that's the point

I am here to read comments because I know I might be in this man shoes in the future

All the kit he was wearing didn't protect him. Rip man

Music � to my ears

ZiriMane:
Read Proverbs 18:16
Most times your generosity may endear you to them and grant you favour before them.
A little "Sir, please use this to recharge your line" or "Ma, use this one to buy bread" might have done the magic.

I don't and won't encourage corruption in form of bribery. However, good deeds like these speaks volume for us.

and you think this is not bribery?

Am i reading this right? It actually says "the company will discontinue sale of the product in America but will continue to sell it all over the world". Even when people are saying the product causes cancer the company still wants to continue to sell this cancer causing product ehn

Another piece of sh1t blowing hot air up our azzes. This politicians are infuriating

PdP and APC are both useless party, they are just the umbrella thieves hide under to steal our common wealth.

Life is just unfair in this country, there are people that have been in prison for over 10 years because they stole ten of thousands or maybe hundreds of thousands. Look at this piece of shit that stole billions of pension money yet the court was reluctant to sentence him to prison for a long time, how are we supposed to deter looting in this country if our courts are like this?

Seriously? This is really small compared to what the common man eye's see from the police in this country, your family is one of the reason this country is the way it is, i only hope it could have be worse for you

oloriooko:
Sourceless info

baba use your eye

See twist upon twist ooo

Death is really close to us right now. RIP Udom

RIP to the dead. The living should learn and do right by other people because some day it will be you people will be paying last respects to.

Solves a lot of problems Edo people are facing (idlot people)