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My boyfriend is responsible nd i don't take him for granted!
If she takes you for granted because you responsible she doesn't love you!

IamD18:
There are possibilities that Laycon is guilty of the accusation because he's always talking about sex and seems to be obsessed with sex talks, couple with the fact that he looses control and concentration when it comes to woman matters.

There are also possiblities that this lady is chasing clout, but then... will a lady be bold enough to chase clout with something like this, having known that she'll bear the consequences if proven wrong?
In my opinion, this shouldn't be overlooked, It should be looked into to know the truth.

Don't be too sure, some ladies can be desperate!!

As rich nd influential davido is, some ladies still came up with pregnancy lies so who is now laycon that any desperate woman can't lie just to chase clout? Some ladies can be shameless trust me.

PrinceofAgoAre:
Do u knw dz doesnt make sense anymore.


mynd44
dominique
lalasticlala

this girl keeps fake information abt me nd yet nothing is being done abt

Is this not an evidence admitting you bighap?
It is people like you that made it difficult to help gunine people on nairaland!!

We have them many on here, there is one that has been trolling me because i reported his scamming thread to a moderator which was deleted.I don't believe all these sob stories i read on here honestly!!

Y'all should please avoid a moniker known as princeofagoare, silentgroper
His old alternate monikers are koffos and bighap(now deactivated).
His real name is kofoworola oladapo emmanuel he uses Polaris bank.

uthlaw:
I'm not talking Schengen!

Is Poland not part of shengen zone? Hw can you say one can spend 900k including flight ticket to Poland?
I have never heard of a visit visa for two years duration for countries in EU or shengen zone !!

Moreover how can one hustle with a visiting visa?

cococandy:
1) Asian style Chicken fried rice, Lobster cake and side salad

2) stuffed peppers. Stuffed with cheddar, mozzarella, chopped radishes, chopped mushroom and diced chicken

I just love the fact you cook different varieties of food from other countries. Just be wondering how you learn them perfectly

Wow! Wow! Wow!

Etinosa1234:
Bro why are u stressing ur self over that guy...

That man is the owner of Run away from ur father's land Plc and the author of the bestselling book "How to enjoy the fruits of another mans labour"

Noticed the way he jumped to their defence calling them gypsies and not wanting to accept government help

Assuming this pic was abt Nigeria , he'd have added it to his 12462 reasons to hate being a Nigerian and leave ur father's land

Just recently, when a foreign born Nigerian wanted to invest in the country, the only thing he could tell him is that he should go to Rwanda because he'll not succeed in Nigeria...

This same person, when u ask him to list out the problems of Nigeria will be quick to add and blame the govt for unemployment whereas he Jus drove a way a potential foreign investor..

Countries are looking for investors, This one dey drive the one wey dey Come hin side

Las Las na we dey do ourselves...

Someone said if they take all Nigerians to Europe and bring Europeans to Nigeria, Europe will deprecated greatly and Nigerians will be dying to come to Nigeria...

Yes... No doubt Nigeria is bad but it is a clear example of how the people in this country are,.. if majority of us are good, the country will be better but it's not, that's why we are where we are...

Glad you also saw that comment!! I have known him to be so ignorant!!

Hathor5:
Can you send me this plate in an email? It looks so delicious.

Check your email asap

mariahAngel:
Looks really nice and balanced.

Yeah thanks

Good morning

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
I know what you mean but you I think he can only be manipulative or controlling if I present myself to him as a liability, at my age I take care of my own needs in an honest manner , without my family's assistance and if this relationship leads us to marriage , which would not happen yet, I'm going to make sure to give myself respect by
not piling all my bills on his head�
I do work and I'm involved in several investments and at times he wonders how I do it , I guess that's the edge I have.
many of the type of women who are controlled in relationships and marriages are those who turn their man and husband's into their parents and depend on him to do everything, times have changed , I would not accept any ring until I have a stable source of income , that's why I started early and so far so good.
my man is not manipulative in any way, I'm confident about that, I voluntarily give him respect but I don't disrespect myself in the process, he also had second thoughts about US but we gave it a try and its far better than what we expected , he's quite supportive and encourages my academic life and career goals.

If all you said are true then it's perfectly fine.
What matters is respect you have for each other!

Beautiful pictures of black women nd white men

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
I'm 19 and also in a relationship with a 30+ years old man , my brother is well aware and has given his advice, its not a secret , we're not hiding anything, he's not married , I'm all he has.
I don't think I'm easy to manipulate , because if that was so we've spent a lot of time together but he has not had his way with me, he is willing to wait but I'm not , I have a mind of my own and know what I want
age is just a number , if there's mutual understanding and strong communication and a little bit of compromise you'll enjoy being with anybody.
I have to grow a little faster and try to keep up with his pace
and often times I drag him down to my level and we play but most times he's over serious , I'm already used to that�
I've learned so much from him and its been a year now
a lot of times I feel too small and a lot of time he reminds me of my age but he still gives me my respect and any other thing I need, he has compared me to his exes who didn't understand somethings that I do , so I always feel his small woman
and we gave ourselves nicknames too � I have peace of mind right now
I hope this is helpful

Whatever rocks your boat dear, I will just advice you b4 settling down with someone older make sure you know this person doesn't have manipulative personality!
My friend is 22 years old got married to a 36 years old man this year,she got married as a virgin but trust me the husband was really hard on her that she couldn't walk for few days!! She told him she wanted them to wait for two years to have baby naso brother no gree impregnate her but unfortunately she lost the baby(miscarriage) that i almost cried!! Nw she wants to go back to Italy for her master,uncle talk say she should do her masters in Nigeria. I asked her if she noticed these signs when they were dating she said no!!
It is obvious that man is manipulative nd will control her more in future! She can't make decisions herself now!!
Generally older men love younger women especially the naive ones,i personally don't go for anyone older than 28,my boyfriend is 28 years old nd we still gat pretty age gap honestly.

Please b4 settling down make sure he doesn't have trait of someone controlling!! If you check comments on this thread,you will realized guys are looking for younger women to control.

My colleague at work is 37 years old, after his experience with older women he vowed to look for someone as young as i am because they are obedient and can easily be controlled nd i wasn't shocked! Typical Nigerian man wants a naive lady that can dance to their tune!!

Older men that you can't play with them they will start reminding you their age

Zzor:
what is this pant washer saying,hope you have ironed the pants you washed

Lol so he wash panties also? I thought he only begs with numerous accounts

flyingpig:
which province or city
Before or after tax
Monthly or annually

Here is your second answer.

Why will i choose when i can get all qualities in one man?

Hathor5:
Cravings satisfied.

Now you talking!! I always thought you don't eat swallow

flyingpig:
which province or city
Before or after tax
Monthly or annually

Montreal
Don't know,i will ask him when he wakes up.
Monthly.

For factory worker is 2000CAD,this was b4 corona virus.

Sorry for your loss May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace!

Please covid is real o, nobody in my area wear nose mask no more, everyone just living like nothing happened!! My dad's friend ex wife got infected,this virus is damn real!!

Let me follow this thread sharp sharp,i will be updating it with pictures nd listing pros and cons of interracial relationship.

Palema007:
PettyPrincess will love this thread... She loves interracial relationships and advocate for it.

Lol you used the old spelling hence i couldn't get your mention.
Thanks so much for bringing my attention to this thread

Well said!!

DenreleDave:
Op u r not petyprincess?

Are you okay?

ZIINI:
Even that that ptyprinces of a girl usually insult me but I sometimes chill I remember reading a thread on travel section
And I mistook her for a girl that said she has been to Poland before and so I asked her not knowing she's not the one
And she replied me in a very unreasonable and stupid manner and honestly I didn't abuse her that day I just sent her a laughing sticker
Lefulelu I swear no be mouth if this babe see me for street she no fit ask me street address not to talk of even talking to me or abusing me
But see her now Calling me a troll and a sexualized guy[b],come to think of it even if I wan sexualize shey na like that girl wey look like tick comb I go sexualize with[/b]
And thank God say you sabi the kind woman wey I dey always like (heavy duty).
Omo internet na very fuckèd up place to be cause dogs will talk to you cats will talk to you, monkeys will talk to you 18 yrs old newbies wey never get sperm for prick go follow you yarn.
It's no pro I'll get other forum's to read contents.

Look at the person y'all are begging on his behalf
If only y'all know the kind post he uploads nobody will beg on his behalf!!

It's just so hard to believe a 45 years old man could be a troll

He is even bragging lol

SenecaTheYonger:
Nah, op. This is too much. I just posted a comment in support of you but I had to delete it when I read this screenshot. Nope, can't support you.

Don't mind him,the mod uploaded it on one thread in travel section i even commented that day.
This person is a full-time troll,he has trolled,sexualized nd called me bitčh in different threads.He even said no man will marry me lol
He is only remorseful because of the ban.
This is what happens when you live on nairaland,imagine a full grown man laying curses like a two years old kid

lefulefu:
wait i dont get it..u sent an insultive mail to a mod?

Heavy curses,picture below is what he sent
If I was the mod i will give him 600 years ban

I hope justwise don't unban him, this person is a troll and sexualized ladies on most threads! He is a menace on travel section also.

He is only apologizing because of the ban, he should upload the curses he lay on travel section mod! Picture below is the heavy curse.

LINTUNE:
it goes both ways..men dating nairaland women are also trying, it takes so much courage to date women with so much bleeped up mentality..

Lol sure

Zzor:
haha handsome small boy,hope you have not started having sex

Babe you should be a comedian Most of your comments makes me laugh hard

[quote author= post=94315769]More about this Dm for Price issue,,
This is what we came about some weeks ago.....

A few days ago, I saw some locally handcrafted sandals being promoted on social media that caught my attention because of how beautiful and distinctive they were. I was pleasantly surprised.

So, when I saw a style that had somewhat unique detail and finishes, I was very interested and immediately posted a comment under the picture.

“Love these! How much are they?”

Two days later, when I’d almost forgotten them, I got a notification of a reply.

“Please DM for price.”

For those who don’t know, on social media, ‘DM’ means direct message and is the typical way to ask someone to contact you privately.
The delay and their response made me lose interest entirely, so I didn’t bother to ‘DM for price’. And yes, I found it a bother.

What’s most troubling is that this secrecy about price is not restricted to local sandal makers, but is a widespread practice.
Many companies with pages on Instagram and Facebook routinely post pictures without pricing or proper descriptions for a wide range of items, including clothing, shoes, bags, art, accessories, home decor, furniture, hair, skin care products, and even food, and instead ask that you ‘DM for prices’ if interested.

PRICE SECRECY

It is a critical teachable moment for business owners and consumers, particularly in this digital age where e-commerce, effective online communication and customer engagement are key pillars of the future of retail.

Many businesses will either see explosive business growth or devastating stagnation as they navigate the next few years. As a result, I posed the following question on social media:

Why should a customer DM for the price of a product you posted online?
Are you doing business, or keeping a secret?


I then explained key business principles behind transparency, which I will outline shortly.

My post triggered an avalanche of responses. I knew that several consumers had similar sentiments, but when over 1,000 people engaged me on Instagram alone, I was taken aback.

The responses from Facebook and Twitter were also incredible.
People were so vocal and passionate, it was clear I had struck a nerve for many.

I could barely keep up with the hundreds of comments bemoaning this practice of businesses withholding prices and asking customers to either send a private message, call for details, or, worst of all, visit the location.
Users even called out offending companies, tagging them in the comments and insisting they ‘read and learn’.

TRANSPARENCY IS THE BEST POLICY

Although some entrepreneurs had seemingly good reasons for withholding prices from the public, I believe many are losing money and damaging their brands in the process. Here’s why:

Customers love transparency.
They are less trusting of companies that hide prices and may feel that the business is shady and will increase the quoted amount if it perceives the customer can afford to pay more.

Customers like control and real-time information.
A basic customer-service principle is that customers like to feel and be in control.
They’ve become accustomed to real time information in the digital space.
They may also resent being asked to take several actions or steps based on company policies that appear mindless or don’t serve them.

Customers don’t need complexity or extra work. Businesses should make their customers’ lives easier at every opportunity.
In this highly competitive digital space, customers have many choices and lead complex lives.
The easier it is for a customer to buy, the more likely it is they will if they perceive utility.

Stop competing on price.
Compete instead on unique value as competing on price is almost always a race to the bottom.

It’s unproductive.
It can’t be the best use of a business’ time and resources to hide prices then respond to a wide net of people individually with the same answer ­ DM for price

[/quote]You gave some very good points,personally i always check prices in comments section if the person keeps on replying every person asking for the products price "send a dm" I loose interest immediately!!

Jaubdu I respect that guy so so much!! You don't have to shout redpill on different threads to make me respect you!! He fought for funmisctiqueen nd doesn't care what nairaland opinions about his gf. That's how a real man should be!!

As for lefulefu the yansh lover that one go like women o

Girls dating nairaland men are trying sha,especially if you controversial avoid men here for sanity of yourself!!