Just 5 words- let her go for it
Thank your star that you found a hardworking lady and not the lazy type that will sit at home waiting for money

peacefull:


Yes!!
Even when I'm confusing, I can still keep my smile and laugh

Thank you so much!
I really really appreciate you!!

by the way, is employment rate low in Japan? I mean is it very easy to get a job there?
I'm planning of emigrating to Asia or North America

peacefull:


Yes! I think my marriage is good.
But sometimes I'm confusing, misunderstanding etc just like when I joined this website.

Thank you so much for asking me!
I appreciate you!!

you're welcome.
Don't worry, everything confusing will become clear on day

dangerousdaddy:
Good evening people. Please don't mind my English. My post is actually out of pains and frustration and i may not type with the correct words.

I'm a 31 years old guy. I'm actually very bad with spending because when i have money, whoever asks from me gets. I am under alot of pressure lately especially from those around me. I am the 1st child of my parents and have so many responsibilities.

I got my girlfriend pregnant and she moved in with me. My parents were never there for me so i vowed i was going to be there for my kids. Hence i do all i can to make sure my daughter and her mum are OK.

The girl in question is a torn in my flesh. Totally different from when we were dating without a child. Nowadays, as soon as i get my salary, she wants to buy this, she wants to buy that even though she knows i receive less than a 100k and i have multiple loans i am paying back because we moved out of our old apartment due to space constraints especially after she delivered.

Whenever i don't have money, there is never a happy moment in my home. But if i come home and bring money, we become very good friends. She wants to live a good life which is not wrong but I feel when she knows how i am managing, she ought to understand and bear with me.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was, i was yet to be paid, i had 700 with me. I gave her to make some food because we had the basic food stuff in the house.... Rice, beans, ogbono, spaghetti, garri, Egusi.... Palm oil. So basically all she had to buy was fish or something to put inside the food.

I came home after a hard day at work and met an empty kitchen. When I asked for my food, she asked me what i expected her to cook with 700 naira. I got so mad and left the house but since it was late (it was close to midnight), i decided to come back. In my anger, i started asking her why she's treating me badly. And the next thing is, she called her mum to say I'm fighting with her and that i pushed her to the ground. Her mum replied and said that if anything happens to her daughter, she would hold me responsible. That she didn't give me a wife......

Now I feel i should just end everything and let's go our separate ways before it becomes a case of domestic violence. I never want to see my child grow up to see me fighting with her mum always and being unhappy. I believe a child that grows up in an unhappy home is always at a disadvantage. Please help me guys. I am in pains.

I hope this makes front page

I don't want to comment but I just have to drop my own 2 cents. What sign are you waiting for again?
Firstly the lady is not someone you can marry. Her attitude says it all
Secondly her mother already told you that she did not give you wife
Thirdly this lady accused you falsely by calling her mom saying you are beating her
Is it until she fake injury and tell police you did it? Separate yourself from her, send her away or you rent another house. But always take care of your daughter. If she is in school already, collect the school account number and pay school fees directly. If you send money to this type of women for your daughter upkeep I'm sure she will spend it

Just seeing this thread now.
Hope your marriage is doing well

Funny though. You are not alone on this. Most African parents never educate their children on sex because they will learn it in school or on the internet

I just don't see anything bad in it since they don't ask you to take the responsibility

VistolFarm:
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With this new way of getting free Gigabytes, you can send up to 7GB to another Mtn Users, also with one Mtn Sim card you can transfer the Gigabytes to many Mtn line and the code is working fine with #0.00! balance.

It is time to enjoy what I have been enjoying for the past 7 days, I was not intended to drop this tweak this time around because it is what is really fetching a lot of money into the pocket of hackers now and nobody wishes to reveal the secret for free but I don’t blame them because most of them spent a lot of money to get the tweak.

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Due to one of my recent post about How To Get Mtn Free 500MB And Accumulate Upto 30GB From My MtnApp which many people complain that is no more working while am still flexing with it, anyway, I decided to drop this one to replace it for you guys.

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It only lasts for one Month
You can browse with it on PC/Tablet, Android, Apple phones, Symbian, and Java Phones with a simple configuration.
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I’m sorry, I don’t intend to stress you, but for security purposes, the code can’t be drop here.


For the full detail on how to get it done; drop your email address through the comment form below and the detail will be forwarded to you as soon as possible. Understand that the comment box will be closed as soon as we detect that the code is no more working.

When you came late and you met the comment box closed, please don’t drop your email in another thread as you did last term when I posted the Glo Chocolate Tweak. This is because I hate sending you outdated information.

Hope this info helps? Feel free to share this post with your friends using the Share buttons.

this blogger na bastard. so after clicking on his link he/she want us to drop email again

Amotolongbo:
Please learn to leave this country to developed worlds with first hand IT skill

IT skills like?
Please give examples

Babisha10:
Is because we don't have crisis or u re not reading or listing to radio

I agree if you say that you don't have crisis but don't tell me i don't listen to news.

Some days back I read it in news that some Chinese phone were discovered to steal user data in South Africa. Later in Kenya it was discovered that Tecno phones were also stealing user data and spying too.

After listening to that news i stopped trusting Chinese phone

Is taraba still a state in Nigeria. It been a while i read about them in news. Including zamfara, gombe

One of the reasons I love FCMB is that they are quick in resolving issues like this. I was debited 4k by UBA ATM and I went to the bank to complain. They refunded my money back within 2 weeks

demoBaba:


Don't say that.

Rug is going out of market now

We used rubber carpet before rug now who's using rubber carpet now.

people are still using carpet. In fact i prefer carpet to rug. rug brings out odour when wet or dirty

Arrewa:
declare your Biafra... And stop all this noise.

We are not holding any igbo man.

The last time we gave you guys quite notice.

All your governors including your elders were all kicking and wailing begging for forgiveness.

shocker alert. It not only igbo that will declare Biafra, other regions will go too. So it will remain your fucking landlocked states

Arrewa:
Igbos Sha!

Tomorrow someone will come to tell me that Igbos are the smartest people in Nigeria.

So for una akpu brain...HausaFulanis don't have Christians... Kanuri and Nupe don't have Christians.

The only people that have Christians in the north are the southern kaduna and some other tribes in the north central.

So you people declare north central a Christian region and decided to give them the name "middle belt" and declare all Hausa and Fulanis in the north east and north west as Muslims.

Wow!!

Let me educate you.

We have thousands of Hausa Christians.

We have thousands of fulanis Christians...

We have Hausa and fulani reverence fathers and pastors here in the north.

We have thousands of churches here in the north where Christians among us do worship.

Adamawa has large number of Christians

Taraba has large number of Christians.

Bauchi has large number of Christians.

Gombe has large number of Christians.

Borno has large number of Christians.

Kano has large number of Hausa and Fulani Christians.

Just that Muslims are always the majority in Northern Nigeria.

The only Christians in the north having problem with their Muslim counterpart are the Christians in southern kaduna and jos which is a supremacy battle.

Have you ever heard of fulanis Christians and Muslims fighting in bauchi?

Have ever heard of Hausafulani Christians and Muslims fighting in kastina?

Have you ever heard of Hausafulani Christians and Muslims fighting in Sokoto??

Have ever heard of Hausafulani Christians and Muslims fighting in kano??

That's why you igbo extremist declare all of us as Muslims

Here in kano We don't only just have Hausafulani Christians and Muslims... We also have "maguzawa" traditional worshipers! Yan Bori! We have large number of them. As long as you don't insult Islam. You are good to go.

You can even worship stone in the north we don't care.

this one is crying. If you like cry from today till tomorrow we will split

Darkandbrown:

Can you state the verse pls

“You must not approach a woman in her menstrual impurity to have sexual intercourse with her” (Leviticus 18:19)

alakhumeorobo:
I lost my nairaland account, so I had to open another one, you can still reach me on alakhumeorobo thanks

check this thread and reply

Imoala:


Yea my brother good question, is not compulsory but its necessary, ashes or palm oil rubbed on the fresh faces of the yam will deprive microbes from the soil to come close to the yam seedlings inside the heaps until they germinate
Ashes help to turn the immediate soil area of the yam seedlings to alkaline which microbes abhor alot
Apart from the hot sun that spoils yam seedlings the next spoiler is microbes,

can i use Palm oil and Ashes together? I have already rub with palm oil but I feel like rubbing with Ashes to be on a safer side
Also can I plant now (September) since raining back now although I'm experimenting the planting

alakhumeorobo you are needed

Youngext:


If it only happens at noon, it's the temperature, there's too much heat in the coop.
But when they breath, do they make any sound like they're sneezing or screaming?

If no, then it's the coop, there's not enough ventilation and it's too hot for them.

IF yes, you have to treat CRD:
Garlic, ginger, turmeric, cayenne pepper extracts 30ml in 1litre of water (organic)
Tylosin or pantadox (synthetic)

most of my birds of experiencing CRD, please will i grind the garlic, ginger, turmeric and pepper together and later add water? Or i should grind everything together with water in a blender? Please how will i do the mixture?

Also how much is Tylosin and pantadox?

Waiting for your reply ASAP

Zimri:
BARBARY LIONS, RARE AND MAJESTIC.

THIS IS NOT YOUR REGULAR LION

this one is old already that is why it has a black mane

rottennaija:
He just should have order the screen from aliexpress and get it fixed

can't i fix it myself after getting the screen or i should take it to engineer

Check the courtesy, it the family of the lady

Qsand:
They should not open those schools until next year o. Lemme finish mastering my graphic design and Web Development. Missing one year will not kill anybody. Why are people even rushing to graduate? Entering a labour market that a lot of them are not even ready for?

so because you are learning graphic design you think you have make it right? Something your mates have learn before gaining admission

Onlinebar:
This has always been my belief. A Lion might see you and pass. But if you ever encounter a Tiger, it would always try to kill you.

a tiger that has not have any encounter with human being will as ignore for the first time except if you are too close to it territory or it cubs

Visit the network office and complain. They should be able to refund you

Nairalander your food is ready

This design is cute