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Akious2k2:
Bros, you should have been more diplomatic about it since you're not giving her the 5H... That's quite harsh
No be say she dey ask for phone nah

Is Baba diplomatic

Y tk her serious wen she already said ur crazy... ?

ZikZikZik:
I onced opened a thread detailing how I’ve been dating someone who basically was very cold and not active in the relationship anymore.

https://www.nairaland.com/5405758/brother-reason-matter

Well there’s a new twist to everything right now, she actually ended things last month, she made in her words that “I love you, but not as much as I used to, I no longer adore you the way I used to” so we split. Well for the past couple days she’s been calling me everyday checking on me, we’re having these long conversations like when we initially started the relationship 4yrs ago. She asked if it was okay if she kept calling to check on me and I told her, it was okay since I don’t hold grudge against her and understand that people fall out of love..The truth is I don’t see myself dating her again, I’m beginning to just love her as a close friend because we know so much about each other and we used to be each other go-to in difficult times when everything was good. My question right now is “is it safe to keep this kind of communication?” I told her clearly I’m starting life over at this point in my life... And if you ask me, I’m more concerned about having her as a friend than a companion rather than just losing her completely.

U already doing it, keep it up it might seem difficult but at d end u will come out victoriously... Let her do d calling and also letting her know u moved on..

Magnoliaa:
Nope. This isn't true. Sure, one's personality plays a role in how one grow up to be, but nurture/environment does, too.

You really can't tell how a child will grow or who they'll become looking at just their present location/situation. There's a possibility the child will grow up different if they'd been raised in a different country, family, place.

Do u know u might be living in a bad environment and still be good... there re so many pple would lived d ghetto life but came out good cos dey believed so..

Make mistakes and learn from it..

daddycee91:
Met this girl on FB some days ago and she said she has a job which I was cool with...we kept chatting and getting to know each other & all of a sudden..gbam!! She lost her job, she needs this, she needs that..oh God!! Someone I'm just getting to know?

Bro urs is even beta met a gal collected her noba didn't call her DAT day had to wait till d next day to call all she could tell was DAT she has not eating, I should send her money for her to buy food even if it 5H.. I asked her if I was her Dad and if I didn't call won't she find a way to eat...

Its also been taught in schools e.g puberty and stuffs like unwanted pregnancy and diseases.. just like dey say pikin wey wan spoil go spoil.

All of d above

All d above

MrTrend:
Very correct

Haba!! eh bbn ds bbn DAT..

I concur wit d guy above me.. keep owing until she comes clean or d lawyer tells me who d landlord is..

Finally its coming to end we can all rest for once eh..

Nice..

ikorodureporta:
source: https://dailytimes.ng/stop-using-toothpaste-to-tighten-vagina-expert-cautions-women/?

lalasticlala

Chisos!! how's DAT even possible

LillyVal:
Dear men,

Please your girlfriend should come first before football, or any other thing at all

A woman that stays with you, even make you happy by doing somethings, then boom football comes into play, y'all act like we ain't even there, see that thing u guys do is not good oh

Football will always be there, but the love of your life might not always be there, choose wisely guys

My dear if u love ur bf as u say u would also give him DAT happiness wic he also desire...

paul1995:
I swear that shit is crazy now looking stupid for what she did don’t even know how to react to it

Just tell her Y u did was cos u wanted to know who really was behind it..

LillyVal:
Can you marry someone infected with HIV/AIDS because of love

I don't think I can... knowing fully DAT d person life is on d edge

Been in ur shoes once even accepted d gal to find out who was behind it... But sometimes I wonder Y ur gf would wanna test their bf eh..

Simple...

Bro dis is 21st century didn't u sync ur contacts

NiRfreak:
If we all notice of late, unlike in those days, we will realise there is this proliferation of guys who are well into their late 20s and early 30s yet still having no mind to take a lady serious in relationship that may culminate in marriage. In fact their mind is far from marriage and on something else - which is, travelling out of this country.

Yes that's the truth and the reason many guys aren't planning to marry is because they set their eyes on crossing the frontiers of this wretched country into a more sane country, so there's no point to form a serious marriage oriented relationship because the goal is to jet out of the country.

So ladies, here you have it, the reason you can't find a husband today is mostly not about you but the guys who all are bent on leaving this shit hole, cos an average guy of marriageable age today is planning to leave the country, In fact has been denied visa a multiple times yet not giving up.
Many guys won't tell you this, but it's the fact. May God provide your husband.

True talk..

Pettyprincess:
Are you romantic yourself? When last d you surprise her with flower? When last d you surprise her by cooking her favorite meal?when last d you get a movie ticket for both of you to watch? When last did you kiss her on her forehead nd tell her she's the most beautiful woman in the world?
If you haven't done any of this,you should not complain then!!

Flower ke.... wic naija babe will love u give her flower except ur talking abt money in place of d flower..

Speechless... he shall be healed oh..

Here to read comments and know why..

I just dun get it, is he ur rumie?? If NO den Y not ban him from coming to ur room.... Hmm guy u try to even leave ur own room for ur fellow man... come be say na gay

She would av mentioned she need JESUS...

While ask since uu know her cup is full, dump her and move ON..

MondayOsunbor:
It is said if mbsise man and a viper enter your house at the same time you are safer killing the mbaise man first.!

Let's forget d proverb here and know d genuine reason Y her parents didn't oblige to it.

Y don't u ask ur parents their reason for u not marrying an mbaise person.

The war in NL is becoming more interesting day by day BTW d alpha male and feminist.