Family › Re: Man Celebrates Big After Divorce (Photo) by phemy36(m): 6:38am On Jul 21, 2022 |
Magnoliaa: So will you marry me?
That's besides the point. A real man commands submission, respect and admiration from a/his woman no matter what or who she is. Oh now I understand your type of submission bye |
Family › Re: My Ex. And Her Husband Are Now My In-laws. by phemy36(m): 6:31am On Jul 21, 2022 |
GudHardDick: We have said this countless times before that You don't date Nigeria girls, you only bang their pussy dump them and move on.
Only a simp and a mad man will feel rejected because a liability left his life. You don't need a prophet to tell you that the liability is an obstacle to your progress.
Men be Wise and not nice!! Dump any liability who feels she's doing you a favour to be in your life. Make una no dey loose guard again!!! Nigerian female should be avoided by all means |
Romance › Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Having Affair With Her Step Brother by phemy36(m): 1:01pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
liquidlove2018: Dear Admin,
My wife of two years has a step brother, Oyin that I am not comfortable with. In fact,I am 80% sure that he is not just a brother to her.
During my meeting and courting of my wife,she made me know that she and Oyin are very close. Infact,they are called twins in their family. This guy is about 29,my wife is 27. They call each other every day. They confide in each other. Most times,when we have an argument,hes the one that my wife confides in.
When we got married,he started to visit us often. Sometimes he stays for the weekend. I was cool with that but I just wished I had the same relationship that my wife has with her step brother. They were really tight. One time,he bought her some very sexy lingerie. I was really jealous but my wife laughed it off.My business makes me travel all the time and I am sometimes grateful that Oyin is around when I am not,we even call him to come so my wife wont be lonely when I am not around. How stupid I was!
A few days ago,I traveled out of town for business. I was supposed to be gone for two days. I got to my business location and things changed hence,I had to leave early morning the next day. As I was about to board my flight,I called my wife but her line was switched off. I called Oyin,his too was switched off. When I landed,I called but their lines were still off. So I took a taxi and went home myself.
I got home and used my key to enter the house. I went to my bedroom and saw my wife and her step brother in bed wrapped in each other's hands!....I was flabbergasted!....They were sound asleep. But in my shock,I said: What da Bleep!..that woke my wife. They both were startled to see me. Before I could ask what was going on,Oyin said : arh,Uncle welcome,aunty had a night mare and I came to help her sleep. He said he didnt know when he too fell asleep. Since they were both dressed although,Oyin had his boxers and singlet on,I was really confused. When I said,both of you were having sex in my bed,my wife burst out laughing. Of course both of them denied having sex. They claimed my wife couldnt sleep,so Oyin came to help her sleep.
Even though I didnt like their explanation,it seemed to check out. My wife was also dressed in her nightie but in my head,what if they finished and dressed up..some people do it...
Since the incident,I have told my wife I dont want her brother around again. She says I am over reacting considering that I already know how close she is to her step brother. I really dont know if ...
https://livelystones.com.ng/is-my-wife-having-an-affair-with-her-step-brother/ Nigerian female should be avoided by all means |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Called Me A Coward Because Of This. by phemy36(m): 1:01pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
ublight: So guys, yesterday I took my babe out to just sit out and have a swell time together in one of those lounges in uyo. I was with 3k physical cash, and my gtb debit card had over 60k. All was just for flexing.
My new Samsung galaxy barely 2 months old was in my pocket and guys I value this fone more than any other property of mine at the moment. The fone is my cash cow. The fone usually makes between 30 to 40k for me weekly.
So straight to the matter, babe said she wanted to get pizza first so we headed to domino's. Just few meters away from domino's is uniuyo town campus, and the gate also doubles as a park. And as u know, where there is a park, there are touts.
Omo four guys started shouting and pointing at me. 'na him be that. Na him be that. Catch am'.
I didn't know what to do so I kept going. I told babe to walk ahead of me like she didn't know me. I didn't know what to expect and I didn't want to involve her cos I was sure those guys were coming towards my direction. As least I am a guy I can always find an escape route.
These touts/cultists came towards me and claimed that I slept with their capons babe. That they will deal with me. I told them they were mistaken cos I don't fornicate ��.
Mehn dey began to cap. Telling me dey are vikings (like I even care. Who viqueens epp). I was scared, more than scared as dey started requesting for my fone and checking me for cash.
I swore they would not even touch my fone. What nonsense! Taking that fone would be equivalent to dragging me backwards for two years.
I jumped into one mini bus nearby and told d driver to zoom off that I will pay him. The driver being a b*tch ass nigga told me he didn't want any problems with those guys that I should leave his vehicle. Mehn my breathing heightened - an evidence that I was nervous to the peak.
I stepped out of the mini bus, and by this time it was already becoming a scene. Folks thought I was guilty of something nobody wanted to help. Their voices drowned mine their hands were all over me.
I just thought within my self that I wasn't gonna be used for suya by irresponsible and degenerates whose lives and future had been harzaded and wrecked. Heck these guys were gone past redemption. I doubt their mothers would weep over their dead bodies. I'm pretty sure their mothers had laid curses on them, regretted not aborting them. Their fathers drunk and useless, old beggars. Probably dead.
Babe was watching from a distance. She felt helpless. She would have come closer to help but I knew that was useless. I kept maintaining eye contact with her warning her not to come any closer. I could see the tears we'll up in her eyes. I felt broken, but I could not let it end that way.
I remembered the story of those uniport guys that were burnt many years ago cos of false alarm. I told myself that wasn't my lot.
Something just kept delaying these God forsaken souls from carrying out their heinous act immediately. Seems like they were waiting for more of their crew. The just kept holding on to me but took nothing.
Trust gen z's to pull out their fones to capture the moment. Foolish children. Instead of trying to find out the reason for the commotion, they felt at ease to capture and encourage the commotion.
One Rick shaw rider just slowed down to see what was going on. I saw an opportunity present itself and I was grateful. I forced my self closer to the keke. The man was uncomfortable with me approaching so he tried to move away. As he doubled his acceleration, I quadrupled mine.
Confused, he decided he was not going to watch anymore before he got involved in something bigger than he had bargained.
As he tried to zoom off, I threw my self into the air. Those boys didn't see that coming. Their grip had loosened. I jumped and clinged on the keke. The rider got more frightened and increased his speed. When we had gone a safe distance, he asked me what happened and I told him. He asked me to check if anything was missing. Gladly only a hundred naira was missing.
This was around 4pm. I told babe to go home that I was gonna see her later. Went to my hood and shared the story with one street og.
Without mentioning the frat to him, nigga told me it had to b vikings. Told me what to do if such happens again. He also tried to get me join his frat to avoid future intimidation. I politely declined, gave him 2k and left.
Got home, called babe to ask her how far. She started laughing and calling me a coward. She meant it as a joke, but it was demasculating and demeaning.
I think I am done with her. What do you guys think? Am I over reacting? Nigerian female should be avoided by all means |
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Romance › Re: She Said Try Beating Me Up Sometimes by phemy36(m): 12:57pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
Amarahobu: My girlfriend said i should beat her up sometimes when she bleeps up.
What could be her reason for this Statement?
Is it ever ok to hit your girlfriend? Nigerian female should be avoided by all means |
Romance › Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by phemy36(m): 12:56pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
victooman: Good day nairalanders,, l met a beautiful and excellent girl during my Nysc, honestly she is everything l need in a woman, We finish our service last year and started life in Abuja, she live with her sister and doing her own business while l live alone in the same town,, The problem now is that this girl mother is already pressurizing her for marriage,, she is 27 yrs and the mother is already making her looks like she is too old for marriage,, yesterday she came to my house looking all moody and worried,, when l enquired she told me her mom is asking her when the man she is dating will come home for introduction,, l took my time to explain things to her,we can't go into any marriage without been financially stable,l have a business l am running and l am looking at stability of that business in 3-4yrs time,,l told her l wont give you any specific date on when to come see her people ,,but l assured her if she stick with me God knows l wont think of any other woman during marriage,,, she told me her plan is to get married at 25yrs and l told her things dont always work out the way we plan them,, honestly l dont want to lose this girl and l also dont want to rush anything,, what do l do nairalanders... Nigerian female should be avoided by all means |
Romance › Re: Should l Succumb To Pressure And Marry This Girl? by phemy36(m): 12:56pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
Extratyre01: Give am Belle.. Na sure odd be that, she go wait Nigerian female should be avoided by all means |
Romance › Re: Luck Shines On Ladies Fíghting Over Aguba: OPMFounder Transfers Promises To Them by phemy36(m): 12:55pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
FullBlastLight: Luck Shines On Ladies Fíghting Over Aguba As OPM Founder Cancels Promises Made To The Actor, Transfers It To Them
Following Aguba’s refusal to choose a Nigerian wife, Apostle Chibuzor Gift Chinyere, the General overseer of Omega Power Ministries (OPM), has cancelled the marriage promises he made to him and transferred to the ladies fighting over him.
Recall OPM founder vowed to sponsor the actors wedding and sponsor him and his Nigerian wife to Dubai for their honeymoon.
He also promised take Aguba and his wife on a shopping spree in Dubai and a tour around the city.
However, Aguba refused to settle for a Nigerian wife despite the different beautiful ladies indicating their interest and fighting for his attention. Aguba stated that he would only marry a virgin from Israel.
Following Aguba's ridiculous demands, Apostle Chibuzor has now retracted his promises, offering them to the ladies instead.
He promised to sponsor their weddings and fly them and their chosen husbands to Dubai for honeymoon.
He also promised to give them large amount of to finance any business of their choice.
In his words;
“I am not in Nigeria.
I have been monitoring events happening and I have refused to comment.
Now I am saying something.
As Aguba has refused to marry any woman from Nigeria.
I am hereby transferring the gifts to the girls.
Any man that marries both of them, I will support their wedding and also send them and their husbands on honeymoon in Dubai.
But wedding must take place in Port Harcourt and marriage committee will follow them to their villages to confirm if the wedding is real or a scam.
After their wedding, each of them shall be given a large sum of money to start a business.
I have informed authorities, that they are to stay clear from OPM free estate.
No more causing nuisance in OPM estate. #opmgih”
~ Apostle Chibuzor Gift Chinyere"
https://www.mimidoris.com/2022/07/luck-shines-on-ladies-fighting-over.html?m=1 Nigerian female should be avoided by all means |
Romance › Re: Newly Married Woman Sets Husband Ablaze For Allegedly Cheating Then Commits... by phemy36(m): 12:54pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
bmdmix15: Ehya Nigerian female should be avoided by all means |
Romance › Re: What Does A Side Chick Offer That A Main Chick Can't? by phemy36(m): 12:53pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
SIRG120: Let me elaborate this for Clear understanding....The fact is, most men struggle with maintaining monogamous relationships..... It takes a whole lot of discipline and self control to remain faithful as a man...... Do you really think the cheating ends with just one side chick?.... Of course not..... With one side chick lies other side chicks..... When they get tired of the so called side chick they move onto the next one and this keeps going on and on....... It's more like a Path of irredeemable return........ Take it or leave it, every man has got that dirty side in them, it's just that the few good ones that are faithful suppress their dirty side....... If am to be logical here, the slogan that " Men are Polygamous in nature" is not fallacious ( Though am not in any way supporting Cheating) But it's a Psychological fact that can never be erased.... That's where nature takes Place......... But Nuture encompasses environmental factors, Proper upbringing , Sound Orientation and Personal decision..... This is where discipline and self-control comes in and that's the only thing that can stop a man from cheating in a monogamous relationship.......You can never forcefully Please a Chronic cheat, even if you're Angelina Jolie or Juliana Roberts...... The best you can do is to skillfully make them emotionally, Mentally and sexually connected to you...... That way respect comes in and when he begins to have respect for what you both share he gradually begins to call himself to order in his vulnerable moments...... With time he stops cheating completely..... At this point, there won't be any need for him to have side chicks and there won't be any need for this Question you asked...............To my fellow men out there that believe and Practice monogamy...... There's absolutely no need for side chicks...... Find that one woman that is very loyal to you and ensure you're faithful to each other........." If you can't be faithful to a loyal Partner then you have no business with monogamy". Nigerian female should be avoided by all means |
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Romance › Re: Is It Proper To Date My Friend's Ex? by phemy36(m): 12:51pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
ReverseIlamina: So Me and this girl have been friends last year on the Same Campus though we kept it lowkey. My friend noticed the girl on campus one day and they proceeded to talking stage.
My friend showed me the girl and I told him we were just friends I gave him the go ahead. But actually I was interested in the girl but I wanted to study her before making any move.
So Fastfoward, they dated for a month and broke up. He said he wasn't interested anymore and I could go for her actually. I'm now close to the girl. I had to let my friend know about it. He said he wasn't bothered but went behind my back and told my other friends what happened.
Now all of them think I'm a snake . I'm I wrong? Nigerian female should be avoided by all means |
Romance › Re: Help! My Virgin Girlfriend Wants Me To Disvirgin Her Now by phemy36(m): 12:50pm On Jul 20, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Man Celebrates Big After Divorce (Photo) by phemy36(m): 4:05pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
Magnoliaa:
Wow. No be watin una don dey preach since 1992 be that? Woman submit; man lead. So it is manipulation for me to admit that now? LMAO. The question is are they submissive |
Family › Re: Man Celebrates Big After Divorce (Photo) by phemy36(m): 3:26pm On Jul 19, 2022 |
Magnoliaa: But I don't know what the men of today are turning to honestly. All jokes apart. This one is celebrating a divorce? Openly like this and on social media? Does he have family members? Kids? Is this how morally bankrupt we've become that a man is celebrating a divorce of all things in the whole world? Is this how much our values have eroded? Publicly telling people with all his mouth that he failed as a LEADER and as an HEAD!
Because that is exactly what this is... there cannot be two captains in a ship, so I am 100% sure that he alone stirred that marriage to wreck! Women are born to be submissive, and have been brought up to be so, to follow a man's lead... a true man with the right frame anyway, so this one should just go and hang his head in shame for his lack of frame. Spits. Shai. I have never see this level of manipulation in all my life. Women are born to be submissive indeed. Continue deceiving the gullible one. |
Politics › Re: El-Rufai Angry With Tinubu For Snubbing Him As Running Mate - Daily Independent by phemy36(m): 10:51am On Jul 19, 2022 |
helinues: Presidency under Apc was a contest which all those who are interested participated in the primary.
VP is a selection I do amaze seeing people arguing with you thinking you are intelligent. You wise by half honestly. In your habit of deceiving uninformed, you keep spewing trash and some people are dignifying you with response. You are better ignore |
Romance › Re: Can You Stand A Man Who Has Slept With Your Wife? by phemy36(m): 8:36pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
Mynd44: Most men are just insecure. They can be friends with their ex girlfriends without any problem but should their women do the same thing, na war I'm interested in knowing your age. The way you contribute to some topic make me wonder if you are mature enough to be a moderator in this platform |
Family › Re: Just Let Him Be The Man by phemy36(op): 8:21pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
Reinamaria: Doing all that still wouldn't prevent "the man" from being polygamous in nature. Not so my sister, it works. You can try that and see the outcome |
Romance › Re: . by phemy36(m): 7:25pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
[quote author=FERNANDEZISBACK post=114703833][/quote]Good of you. |
Romance › Re: . by phemy36(m): 7:23pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: . by phemy36(m): 7:21pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK: Shut up your mouth rude boy..you are still a kid and too young.. dumbo go get something to do and stop clowning around..you can't handle yourself properly...
Wide mouth..not everyone who**res around..she has a life to live not sleeping around like ya..ya own share indeed..you call her a b**tch cos she didn't give you a response..can't you see how young and naive you sound..keep wasting yourself waiting for her response.. cover your face in shame..this is how you folks go about bullying ladies.. You and the person you quoted fit each other walahi |
Family › Just Let Him Be The Man by phemy36(op): 7:14pm On Jul 13, 2022 |
JUST LET HIM BE THE MAN...
If lots of women will allow their men be the men in the marriage, no one will end up divorced.
A lot of women marry men then turn them to women after marriage. They want him to talk like a woman, think like a woman, act like a woman, reason like a woman and end up a woman! Your husband can't! He is a man, always remember this and treat him as such!
He is your king, your Lord and master of his universe!
He is your husband, not your errand boy, you can't be sending him up and down!
He has an ego that needs daily massage.
He has a deep need to be respected through your body language, attitude and voice not just by kneeling down.
He has a deep need to be listened to and obeyed. Even if you have an objection, do so respectfully.
He has a deep need for sex (I don't know why lots of women hate to hear this truth, honestly, it baffles me).
He loves to be admired.
He longs for your support.
He loves to hear you sing his praises.
He wants good, quality food at the right time.
He wants you to cherish him.
He hates it when you flirt with other men (As in HATE!)
He wants you to look good and in shape for him.
He wants you to speak well of him before your friends, families and his friends.
A woman may not need all these but a man does that's why he married you hoping you will meet all these need in marriage.
Please, always remember you married a man and treat him as such. He will love you with all his heart, cherish you and you will have peace of mind and heart in marriage.
Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers! |
Politics › Re: Names Of Town That Made Up Of Ekiti State by phemy36(op): 3:45pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Christistruth00: It was during the Ekiti Parapo Wars that they all deliberately started calling themselves Ekiti as a sign of unity You are very correct |
Politics › Re: Names Of Town That Made Up Of Ekiti State by phemy36(op): 11:08am On Jul 07, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Names Of Town That Made Up Of Ekiti State by phemy36(op): 10:52am On Jul 07, 2022 |
OJODEL10: Omo iyin-ekiti ni mi ooo mo si m tun gbe ni iyin I represent Orin-Ekiti |
Politics › Re: Names Of Town That Made Up Of Ekiti State by phemy36(op): 10:51am On Jul 07, 2022 |
DEmejioba1: I represent ITAPAJI EKITI. EKITI a gbe a oooooo! Ase wa |
Politics › Re: Names Of Town That Made Up Of Ekiti State by phemy36(op): 10:50am On Jul 07, 2022 |
MetaPhysical: This is what I call patriotism.
Ekiti kete!  Thanks bro |
Politics › Names Of Town That Made Up Of Ekiti State by phemy36(op): 9:40pm On Jul 06, 2022 |
There are 160 town in Ekiti State. Ekiti State is one of the interesting state you may like to visit one day. They are friendly and accommodating. The names are: 1. Ado - Ekiti 2. Ilukuno Ekiti 3 Aaye-Ekiti 4. Asole-Ekiti 5. lgbole-Ekiti 6. Aaye-Oja Ekiti 7. Awo-Ekiti 8. Igbonna Ekiti 9. Bolorunduro Ekiti 10. Igede-Ekiti 11. Afao-EKiti 12. Eda-Ekiti 13. Igirigiri-Ekiti 14. Afolu Ekiti 15. Eda-Oniyo-Ekiti 16. lgogo-Ekiti 17. Agbado-Ekiti 18. Ibuji Ekiti 19. Efon-Alaaye 20. ljan-Ekiti 21. Aisegba-Ekiti 22. Egbe-Ekiti 23. ljelu-Ekiti 24. Aiyebode Ekiti 25. Emure-Ekiti 26. ljero-Ekiti 27. Aiyede-Ekiti 28. Epe-Ekiti 29. ljesa Modu Ekiti 30. Aiyedun-Odo-Ekiti 31. Eporo-Ekiti 32. ljesa-lsu-Ekiti 33. Aiyedun-Oke-Ekiti 34. Erijiyan-Ekiti 35. ljesa-lye-Ekiti 36. Aiyegbaju-Ekiti 37. Erinmope-Ekiti 38. ljurin-Ekiti 39. Aiyegunle Ekiti 40. Erio-Ekiti 41. lka-Ekiti 42. Aiyetoro Ekiti 43. Esinmu-Ekiti 44. Ikere-Ekiti 45. Ajaye-Ekiti 46. Esun-Ekiti 47. Ikogosi-Ekiti 48. Ajebandele Ekiti 49. Esure-Ekiti 50. Ikole-Ekiti 51. Alafe Ekiti 52. Ewu-Ekiti 53. lkoro-Ekiti 54. Ara-ljero-Ekiti 55. Eyio-Ekiti 56. lkosun Ekiti 57. Ara-lkole Ekiti 58. ldo-Ekiti 59. lkota Ekiti 60. Aramoko-Ekiti 61. ldo-lle Ekiti 62. lkoyi-Ekiti 63. Araromi lyin Ekiti 64. Ifaki-Ekiti 65. lkun-Ekiti 66. Araromi Oke Ekiti 67. lfishin-Ekiti 68. lkunri Ekiti 69. Araromi-Ekiti 70. lgbara-Odo-Ekiti 71. llafon Ekiti 72. Araromi-ljero-Ekiti 73. lgbeja Ekiti 74. llasa-Ekiti 75. Araromi-Obo-Ekiti 76. lgbemo-Ekiti 77. Ilawe Ekiti 78. Are-Ekiti 79. lgbo-Aso-Ekiti 80. Ilemoso Ekiti 81. Asin-Ekiti 82. Igbogun-Ekiti 83. Ileona-Ekiti 84. Ilepu-Ekiti 85. Isa Ekiti 86. Okemesi-Ekiti 87. Ilero-Ekiti 88. Isaba-Ekiti 89. Oke-Ora Ekiti 90. Ilogbo-Ekiti 91. Isaoye Ekiti 92. Oke-Oro-Ekiti 93. Ilogun Ekiti 94. Ise-Ekiti 95. Oloje-Ekiti 96. Iloro-Ekiti 97. Isinbode-Ekiti 98. Omuo-Ekiti 99. Iludun-Ekiti 100. Itaji-Ekiti 101. Ootunja-Ekiti 102. Itapa-Ekiti 103. Ora-Ekiti 104. Iluomoba-Ekiti 105. Itapaji-Ekiti 106. Oran Igbemo Ekiti 107. Ilupeju-Ekiti 108. Itawure-Ekiti 109. Orin Odo Ekiti 110. llure Ekiti 111. Iworoko-Ekiti 112. Orin-Ekiti 113. Imesi-Ekiti 114. |ye~Ekiti 115. Orun Ekiti 116. Imojo-Ekiti 117. lyemero Ekiti 118. Osan-Ekiti 119. lpao-Ekiti 120. Iyin~Ekiti 121. Osi-Ekiti 122. Ipere-Ekiti 123. Ode-Ekiti 124. Osin-Ikole-Ekiti 125. Ipole Iloro-Ekiti 126. Odo Oro Ekiti 127. Osun-Ekiti 128. Iporo-Ekiti 129. Odo-Ekiti 130. Otun-Ekiti 131. Ipoti-Ekiti 132. Odofin-Ekiti 133. Owode Ekiti 134. Irare Ekiti 135. Odo-Ora-Ekiti 136. Owosi-Ekiti 137. Ire-Ekiti 138. Odo-Owa-Ekiti 139. Oye-Ekiti 140. Irele-Ekiti 141. Ogbese-Ekiti 142. Temidire Ekiti 143. lro Ekiti 144. Ogbese-lse-Ekiti 145. Temidire-Ikole-Ekiti 146. Iro-Aiyeteju-Ekiti 147. Ogotun-Ekiti 148. Usi-Ekiti 149. Iroko-Ekiti 150. Oke-Ako-Ekiti 151. Usin-Ekiti 152. lropora-Ekiti 153. Oke-Ijebu Ekiti 154. Ejiyan EKITI, 155. Osun EKITI, 156. Osan EKITI, 157. Ifinsin Ekiti, 158. Awo Ekiti, 159. Erio Ekiti, 160. Obada Ekiti, |
Crime › Re: Sarkin Fulani Arrested In Ekiti As Police Unmask Notorious Kidnapper by phemy36(m): 7:12am On Jul 04, 2022 |
fabinfos: His coronation This same man was chased from Orin Ekiti after the killing of Mr Ilori, but olojudo think otherwise. Thank God for revealing him to the world now |
Politics › Re: Ekweremadu's Donor Was Given A Passport Of A 41-Year-Old - UK Doctor by phemy36(m): 11:49am On Jun 28, 2022 |
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10950461/Lincoln-Uni-BANS-organ-harvesting-Nigerian-professor-trafficked-teen-fake-passport.html A forensic psychologist, Dr. Law Mefor has described David Nwamini Ukpo, the man at the centre of the issues leading to the arrest and remand of former Deputy Senate President, Senator Ike Ekweremadu and his wife, Beatrice as a serial liar who should not be taken seriously. David Ukpo who was said to be the victim had taken to his facebook page to explain how he met Senator Ekweremadu and was allegedly lured from Nigeria to London for the harvesting of his kidney without his consent. Ekweremadu, and his wife, Beatrice, were consequently arrested in London by the Metropolitan Police and charged with the alleged crime of trying to bring a child to the UK to allegedly harvest organs. Mefor, a forensic psychologist was reacting to a Facebook post supposedly by Ukpo, where he claimed that he was lured to Europe by Ekweremadu with a promise of better life only for the lawmaker and his wife to try to harvest his kidney for their sick daughter. Mefor, in his post, described Ukpo as “a serial liar and manipulator seeking sympathy when he should face the full weight of both the British and Nigerian laws”. He said: “In the first place, one doubts that he really owns that Facebook account, which was opened less than 24 hours before the said post. It appears that some vested interests and internet contractors have taken over from where David left What I know is that Ukpo has been doing a lot of deleting and altering of details of his social media accounts since the Ekweremadu saga broke and he (Ukpo) was unmasked. This presents him for what he is – a shady, dishonest character. “But even if Ukpo made the fallacious post claiming he was tricked to London, it is clear to the whole world now that he lied to the British Police when he presented himself as a homeless minor picked from Lagos streets, which I believe is a major factor that put Ekweremadu and wife in their present travail. “All the information coming out, including his International Passport issued on 4th November 2021, his Bank Verification Number (BVN) done on 31st October 2019, his National Identity Number (NIN) done on 15th June 2021, the statement by the Nigerian Immigration Service, point to the fact that he was born on 12th October 2000 and is therefore 21 years old. “In addition, his Facebook posts do not suggest the lifestyle of minor or an enslaved person, but a full blown adult cruising life. “Therefore, I see no reason any right-thinking Nigerian should believe any further stories told by someone who obviously lied about his age in order to gain asylum and stay back in London”. The forensic psychologist and public analyst also wondered why someone, who was supposedly tricked to London on a promise of good life applied for and got a British Type D Visa as an adult. “Everyone familiar with UK Visa processes knows that the ‘Type D Visa’, being a strictly Private Medical Treatment Visa, is a strenuous and meticulous process. “Senator Ekweremadu’s letter supporting David’s visa application also fully disclosed that the young man was going for organ donation and declared the hospital for the procedure. “So, David did not travel to the UK with a student visa or tourist visa or work visa. He travelled to the UK with Medical Visa for a defined purpose and all the current stories are mere afterthought to manipulate and regain the sympathy of Nigerians, which he lost when it became clear that he lied to bring not only Ekweremadu, but also the entire nation to international disrepute. “Likewise, the story of how one Mr. Okoro met and recruited him at a construction site and both international passport and visa obtained within a week is so preposterous and hogwash. His Facebook information and testimonies of his brother and those who know him show he is into phone accessories. “Also, a careful look at the data page of his international passport as well as the visa would easily show that the passport was issued on 4th November 2021, while the Visa was issued on 26th January 2022. “It is equally instructive that David, who travelled to London since February 2022 only remembered that he was a tricked and trafficked minor on getting to the airport to board an already booked flight back to Nigeria after spending several months in London”. Mefor urged well-meaning Nigerians to shift attention from the many lies of Ukpo and faceless internet contractors and focus on saving the life of Ms. Sonia Ekweremadu, who still needed kidney transplant and also ensure that truth and justice prevailed in the Ekweremadu and wife’s case to cleanse Nigeria the international embarrassment as well as enable the couple regain their freedom and take care of their sick daughter. |