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hotwax:
Because relationships are based on lies.

I dumped a lady last month too...after sex.

She told me she only had sex once in her life. Infact the day she was disvirgined was the last sex she had.

When we had sex last month, her hole was so wide I was wondering if she has gave birth before.

...again!!!!
Hot wax ....u r really hot though

Hmmmmmm.....I don't know if this is true shaa
Maybe the person below me av sth to say
But wait service don enter... U av the intention of taking her home right?.....in matters like this concerning marriage shouldn't be taken lightly...... If u don't trust pls explain things to her...know how to talk am make she no vex.....
Good luck,,,best of luck....is too early to be having trust issues shaa....
Listen to ur hrt

Davash222:
Only a fool would believe Borbrisky is not fuccking Tonto.

...it sounds so weired

eitsei:
lolz...go over my posts again, I never bashed virgins...being chaste is a virtue which I respect but now in our present society, I (emphasis on I) I don't think being a virgin is enough

...nah u sabi
.....whatever rocks ur boat

eitsei:
nobody is living in denial....I'm just being realistic.. whether you like it or not most women of marriageable age are no longer virgins, with everything happening right now and what our society has become you can hardly see a virgin to marry...so why deceiving yourself looking for what you may not find
so I'm saying one shouldn't lose a woman that may add a lot of values to his wife because of her virginity, it's ignorant to think because someone is no longer means their values has now diminished...you will know a good woman when you see one irrespective of whether the hymen is still intact or not

...u av started talking sense now...
But y were u bashing virgins b4.?....
It takes a lot of determination n discipline to be one....
I feel for the victims of rape n abuse
Always call a spade a spade
Character is the first thing to look out for..... But being a virgin is very good too

Beverlyjean:
Keep on living in denial... I hv brothers and I know how men think ... Everyman wants to marry a virgin..everyman might not want to date a virgin, but everyman wants to marry a virgin... No man is comfortable knowing that his wife hv 4kd a number of guys b4 him ...it breeds disrespect subconsciously

seconded......I av a lot of cousin brothers n to shock u all of dem want virgin wife.....
Even the one wey him ex don reach 30.......all these ppl saying trash about virgins wants dem secretly..... Although there is more to a woman than virginity...but virginity speaks a lot about that person

torqque7:
No be u dey do female miseducation forming hard chick and giving bad advice to ladies that would cost them their relationships? So u self dem break ur heart?lol smh just like linda ikeji that was forming feminist and making young girls feel men are not important only fornher to go and get pregnant and tried hard to get the man to marry her,stop the fake life and allow urself to be happy.

As for ur relationship if u know u like him then better drop that ur useless pride and contact him to know y he hasnt been in touch.Goodluck.

.....is not by forming miseducation... He's keeping me in suspense..... And I don't wanna cheat....
Good luck to ur too

Lightangel65:
He may just be busy, he doesn't have to call everytime

..he doesn't behave this way..

My question is this:
1. can this be a red flag
2.is he tired?
I don't want to look desperate or too cringing....

M not demanding ...
I don't inconvience him
I try as much as possible to manage what I av....
I don't cheat...

I personally think I shld stay on my own till he calls me ....
Let me preserve my remaining integrity left.....
It hurts much
I don't want to look desperate

M not demanding ...
I don't inconvience him
I try as much as possible to manage what I av....
I don't cheat...

Pls I don't know if am not lucky in rlships......
Sometimes we luv ppl who don't luv us.....or who don't av our interest at heart.... I don't like long distance rlships..soni decided to give this one a trial.
For like days getting to a week,,,,he haven't called.. Even though we r having a church program... But he isn't the general overseer... But dedicated ooo
I wonder y he haven't called for sometime now.....the last time we talked was on Sunday.....
Unlike bf,,,,and I truly likes him a lot.
Can that be a red flag....m patiently waiting for him to call me....
On a second tot ..but no matter how busy u r for days u shld av called ....
What's ur take on this?
I feel am not lucky in rlships.... May be I shld take a break.

Pascopele:
Good day everyone, I used to be an advocate of "don't check your partner's phone" but yesterday something struck me, a girl I've been asking to marry me was seriously asking me for 3k after my mom called in her presence that she needed money & my girl is aware I was under pressure that morning to raise extra 105k for materials after I invested six figures into my business, & she's aware I'm the father & husband in my family since my dad passed early 2019, she was begging for this cash like her life depends on it, now I decided to peep into her first bank account which is not the only bank account she has, I was shocked to discover.....

Your Acct 305XXXX356 Has Been Debited with NGN20,000.00 On 26-NOV-2019 18:56:35 By ATM WITHDRAWAL-1033101303221 UBA OKIT/OK. Bal: NGN1,519,624.81CR

Please is this fair?
I'm scared if I proceed with this relationship to settle with her I might not get support even when I'm drowning and she's floating, I always give her before now but business is just picking up and I am not happy with the way she's going about the 3k issue

How can I fix this?
I feel like walking away but my heart is so loving her..

What can I do?

...the one way I don spend is still peppering me
Sometimes I feel is gud wen u give ppl space

Hahaha...wen I tot I av seen it all
Lol...but wait is it necessary?

Someone u luv not Calling u for days ...is it a red flag.......or am I doing myself

Am I d only one ..hu haven't experienced true luv...like am I?
Sometimes is as if we luv d wrong ppl...
God I pray am lucky with 2020......

Heloct:
I do this most times

...hahaah...that's just me

omohlexy:
You never really deserved it girl. You Pulled someone down to own it. Be ready for the sorrow that comes with getting victory by pulling others down thru cunning. You can no longer bleep,eat,or sleep with out someone calling you out. soon your scandal will hit the media big time.

.......who did she pull down
She was qualified till d show ended... Don't blame ppls misfortune on anoda soul....mind u am not a fan of mercy or tacha

burggerx:
One thing that scares the hell out of me about my girlfriend is her attitude. When you talk about a disrespectful and unsubmissive lady, my girlfriend is the headquarters of all the disrespectful and unsubmissive ladies I've ever met. Even if she does something good, I don't tend to notice it because her bad attitude has already overshadowed the good side of her

Even if she acts respectful to me, it's so obvious she's only forcing it since it's a trait she lacks. Just when a little brawl ensues, curses and abusive words are usually not far-fetched from her mouth. She has even insulted my family before during a heated argument. The only thing my girlfriend is yet to do is to beat me up

I believe they say respect is earned but I've done everything a man should do to earn respect from his lady yet this lady talks to me like a kid. No sign of humility at all

My girlfriend is not only dominating but toxic and does not accept correction. She makes it look like giving authority as a man is slavery and she questions my authority every time. The annoying part is that she argues a lot and always wants to be right at all times. Feminism is written all over her to the extent that even in movies, my girlfriend will have the back of a woman who is unsubmissive and disrespectful to an innocent husband.

Although she acts like a respectful girlfriend in the presence of my family but my mom in question is smart enough to know that she's only faking it despite trying all my best to portray my girlfriend as someone that gives me joy in the face of my mom

Before my mom traveled to the UK in September, she sat me down up to three times and advised me to let go of this girl if I really want to spend the rest of life with peace of mind and that if I insist on marrying her, she doesn't have a choice than to respect my decision but she will remind me of her advice which I didn't yield to if I eventually end up as a frustrated man in the future

I've tried to terminate the relationship but she cries and makes the whole thing look like I don't love her and that if I do, I should be able to cope with her flaws. There was even a time she told me she doesn't have a choice than to respect me if I marry her and I was like WTF!

I have decided to call the relationship a quit once and for all since I'm not in for any future drama. I don't want to end up with a woman that will be rude and disrespect me in the face of my own children.

But there's one question I want to ask is that, can a ride girlfriend ever change after marriage? Is it worth taking the risk that she will change with time?

...don't do sth..that will leave in perpetual regrets
2.keeping on playing with fire.. Ur eye go soon open...
Luv is blind marriage is d opener that will open ur blind eyes....

calamitous:
Please where can i get one around lagos ?

...not in lag
Check any govt hospital.... U need this drug bf 3 days I think.....correct me if am wrong ppl

fanoffemi:
Hello guys,

Please advice me on what to do, I've been seeing this guy for close to 6 months now. We use to be friends and av known him for like a 8years... but we started dating just six months ago. He seems nice and very loving at first not until I noticed that he doesn't communicate like he use to

Not a day will go by without us getting intouch with each other, if he doesn't call me I make sure I do (I believe that relationship is a two way thing) so I don't wait for him to check on me before I do. Even if we can't call we'll communicate with text message. And I could remember that before I agree to date him he use to send me alot of swt text messages and WhatsApp msgs but now everything has reduced

At first I confronted him but his reasons was not really genuine (can't really recall). Well I still send him messages. And just recently I couldn't find any of my pictures on his phone again, I asked him what happened to my pictures but he said that he's phone wiped off and he's gallery was affected..... I knew he was lying because that excuse sounds dump but I don't have the strength to start an argument that day.... he even changed what he use to store my name on his phone..... it was then I concluded that something is happening

All this while I haven't demanded for anything from him, not as if I put some kind of pressure on him (although my pastor has been asking me to invite him to church but at his own convenience) The only thing I usually ask from him is t-fare wherever I go to his place. And I usually tease him that I would like to meet his mom.... he use to respond that we'll fix a day to meet her.... meanwhile he has visited me and meet my parents a couple of times during this period.

The last time we had sex he didn't use protection and he intentionally poured everything inside, at first I was surprised and scared... I asked him why he did that he responded that nothing will happen by this once pouring.... I just kept quiet, however he used protection when he wanted to go for the next round..... few weeks back I help him to get something online paid for it including delivery, he hasn't refunded me and i didn't bother to ask him for the money till date

We use to talk and gist about how many children we would want to have, their names, future aspirations and lots of stuff. I haven't been myself lately due to this low communication and its affecting me generally. Kindly advice on how to handle this matter or I'm I dating myself

..if only u can use my formula
1.pretend like u don't care
2.don't call him
3.this guy is using u.....I av stopped giving free things to guys
4.if only, if only u can stop this mumu isih feelings and face reality.....
5.he doesn't luv......forget him

calamitous:
Hey guys i need your help regarding this ;
My girlfriend and i werent on talking terms for a while a while , six months to be precise , but last week she started talking to me all of a sudden and we kinda shared one or two mutual feelings that led sex . but while she was about to leave i kind off saw some drugs in her bag when i asked her the purpose of the drugs she replied that they were for infection , meanwhile she previously told me that same morning that she needed some money to threat virginal infection. but one occurent led to one another that made me to suspect her only purpose for showing up was to infect me with hiv or some other STD. I don't know what to do regarding this issue but i planning on killing her if i get to find out she infected me with any std on purpose... Need advice guys and girls.

...go n take retro viral drugs now!!!!
Before looking for hu to kill
HIV/AIDS is on d rampant now

jhubril:
I broke up with her yesterday and got her a federal job in Katsina. Funny enough ,I thought she would turned down the offer. But she accept am sharp sharp. She is coming for an interview (just formality u know)on Monday and I'm preparing to receive her.

Women!!!

....she might come n beg u......
The way u will fall eh
Y won't she accept it..for this Nigeria

MarcusT26:
Although I have a very strong immune system but I will go for the std test.. thanks for the advice �

....wait till gonorrhea jam u n that ur strong immune system then u will know....

bodaola:
I deflowered my girlfriend early August, i could recall how tight her pussy use to be... Now i noticed her pussy is loose on like before.... Could she be cheating

Plz tell me based on experience and don't mind how I'm gonna feel. Tell me the truth straight...

Thank You all!

..loose,,,just like that..
Lie small nah

Awol1:
All I know is that what Kemi said is the truth.

All the runs girls here in Enugu see Tacha as their role model.

And I think it's not different in other states.

..which Enugu abeg