ty4real123: This particular story is very objective in that this frustrated lady is proclaiming she never solicited for the aid from her suitor and was betrothed to him at a tender age without her consent. Now her level of education and exposure can't allow her to marry a 45 year old illiterate.
Let me be as Frank and polite as possible, my name is Lucy and I am from Edo State. There is this present suitor of mine who is about 45 years and wishes to marry me.
He sent me to school at age 15 when he was yet struggling, my parents earlier on betrothed me to him when I was six years and I assumed it was all a childish gesture.
He assisted in the market of my mum and bought a taxi for my dad. We lived in a bit of comfort courtesy of his benevolence. Well, I never forced him all this while.
Now take note am a virgin so it's not like we were making love.
I have practically lived my life in his arms. He was committed to the relationship while I was committed to making my parents happy. Recently he bought a house for my dad and is currently building one for my mum.
I have since graduated and started working in a first-class international IT company. What I presently earn would double whatever my suitor has seen in his life. Now he has proposed and I declined this infuriated him and he approached my dad in bitter complaints.
Now the family has called a meeting insisting I must marry him.See I can't marry him because of my exposure and he is uneducated. How do I attend board meetings dinner with an illiterate? How do I face my colleagues that would be laughing at me?
I have offered him 200 million as compensation to be paid 50 million a year for four years, he refused, my mother has threatened to disown me, my dad has not eaten since.
My suitor is worse he seems to be on life support because he has been dumb since without speaking to anyone. Please, what wrong have I done? He can start again I have the money to compensate him.
What do you advise I use in approaching this pressing issue?
Puregold3: Hi nairalanders, I really need your help.. My boyfriend do chat with my friend and I don't even know about it until I saw his chat with her... He told her most of the things he tells me e.g the amount gets as his salary... I just feel like I'm not special anymore and it got me so jealous.. please help me
...give him space.. If he loves u he will come back.....I use this strategy often.
Ahhh!!!,,uhhh!!!,,,oooo!!!,,,,oh yes oh yes...right there... What am I even saying... Talk for anoda day....my head is paining me....biko nu don't mention me
pcguru1: If I knock your head 21yr old. Go hustle and make a man of yourself and come back to be a man of the soceity like me, and have as much orgies as you want.
Sometimes when you are in a relationship, and your guy makes you cry a lot. Just take some time and ask yourself this question:
AM I DATING A GUY OR AN ONION
WHY DO GUYS LIKE MAKING LADIES CRY IF THEY ARE NOT ONION??
.. But wait this onions are beautiful.... Some av food but cannot eat ...some can eat but av no food....some av food and can eat ..Glory be to God Amen!!!!!... Think through this song ....this Is relationship for u
NobleRomm: DISTRESS CALL FOR AN URGENT INTERVENTION IN ENUGU STATE UNIVERSITY OF SCIENCE AND TECHNOLOGY!!!
Enugu State University of Science And Technology (ESUT) just Impose a sudden development levy on all the students of the school which is as follows... (a) Medicine and surgery :#300,000 (b) Pharmacy:#250,000 (c) Medical Laboratory Science:#250,000 (d) Law:#250,000 (e) Nursing Science: #150,000 (f) Other programs in the university: #50,000
we condemn this Extortion entirely because this Levy is an attempt to unequivocally increase crime amongst students in our dear Citadel of Learning. What will be the Faith of our parents who struggle to pay their Wards School fees? What will be the faith of those hardworking students who denied themselves comfort in order to pay the high school fees of ESUT?.
The management should know that many of her students pay their bills without anybody's intervention.
There was a Time that the school management forced the year 1 student to pay the sum of #15,000 for matriculation and no one stood against it. Lecturers Extort money from students by making text books compulsory.Imagine forcing students to buy textbook that worth #2,500 each for Ten courses every semester.Without the school management doing anything about it and without them considering the high cost of living in the school area.
Can the School management tell us why they failed to conduct students Union Government election in the past academic session?. Because as it stands now the School management decides on everything that is happening in ESUT.,
For those who may say that this does not concern them,should remember the word of 'Martin De Murner (1946 Germany).
Wetherefore oppose this Levy and illegal extortion by the school management and lecturers.I want to use this great medium to call on the attention of the Federal Government, State Government, National Association of Nigerian students (NANS) both State and National Body, NANS ZONE B leaders and National Association of Enugu state Students and all reasonable people in Nigeria to critically look into this Matter before things go wrong in Enugu state University of Science and Technology.
We should carefully take a bold step in correcting this madness in our ESUT, because a day will come when we will wake up and realized that ESUT School fees is now #250,000..
Dear Governor,Our Peace loving Leader His Excellency Rt. Hon. Dr. Ifeanyi Lawrence Ugwuanyi, Please come to our rescue.
#God Bless Enugu state University of Science and Technology! #God Bless Enugu state Government!! God bless The Federal Republic of Nigeria!!!
I've been wondering, you just met your dream kind of man/woman, first few days you both fond of each other, chatting, calling and texting each other, as a guy everything you say is funny, as a woman you re washed with compliments, sweet talks, you guys hang out and all that. Next thing he invites you over or as a guy you invite her over. Then the real deal happens, sex!!!!!!! Then next thing no more calls, even as a lady you no more find him funny, then wide communication gap sets in, next thing is just hello, hi and it ends there. What exactly could be responsible for this my country men and women??
...because the devil( d**k),,,came to steal n destroy
This is gud...I like it..wedding is just for one day.. The way my cousin borrowed cos of him wedding eh... He still dey run around for moni shaa.. No peace of mind.... Cut ur wedding expenses according to ur size.... Hml to dem
I've been so disturbed about the strangest thing ever happening to me for the past one month.
I met an elderly woman early April at my barber' shop where I do come to charge my phone at night whenever there is no power supply(same as the woman). I went the 2nd night, still met this same woman on the same mission at the shop. She noticed my hairstyle and asked me what style it is, I was like it was just a partial dreadlocks but I haven't locked it fully to make it firm. And she was like she likes it.
And she went on to ask my name and some details about myself which I did. And when I told her i'm an igbo guy she was soo happy and told me clearly that she likes me more.
I was already admiring her as a mother(meanwhile we already exchanged contact) not until she called me on the phone 3weeks after we met and asked me to come to her house. After entertaining me with dishes, she moved close to me and started showing me videos on her phone...while scrolling through the videos i saw lots of matured porn and I was so shocked. She asked me what was wrong? that I should relax. I told her this is not right! I told her she could be my mom. She was just like it doesn't matter.
The most shocking part of it is that this woman claims to be a prohetess and a minister. Even on her facebook timeline, she addressed herself as a prophetess. I could disclose her facebook account but something inside of me tells me it will be too cruel and unjust of me...please people all I need is advice I don't wanna fall into temptation. She lives on the same street with me. She's new there......Please I need advice!
...exchange of oil. U r still there... Nah u sabi...destiny destroyers
I've gone through TWO major heartbreaks, one more monumentally painful than the other.
Here are some ways people break up. Have you experienced any of them? Which one do you think is more painful?
1. The Ghost Breakup - You meet a guy/lady. You talk ALL the time for days/weeks on end, then suddenly, he or she stops responding to your calls/texts. And just like a ghost, they vanish without a trace.
2. The Phone Call/Text Message Breakup - The easy/Coward's way out.
3. Face-to-Face breakup - The classical way.
4. The Wrecking Ship - Here, the two parties end the relationship with an intense emotional and/or physical fight.
5. The Long Overdue Breakup - Here, both parties are no longer interested in the union but none wants to be the "bad guy" by calling it a quit first. Eventually, the relationship dies a natural death.
**Personal Note - If you are NOT in a long distant relationship, then breaking up over the phone makes you a COWARD!!!
.......ahhhh..oh yes...it makes u stronger n more strict.....is gud to experience it once at least......intact is gud.....is inevitable so is gud...very natural as d air we breathe....more real than love... No mentions abeg
brownnikky16: This Nigerian couple decided to make history on their wedding day with a massive cake which has never been seen. The picture of this well-designed and giant cake has been trending online.
The cake as so big that it effortlessly dwarfed the couple. The beautiful cake stole the show during the wedding as many wanted to take pictures of it. Popular talks have it that it might be the biggest cake ever seen in Nigeria in recent times.
For sure, a structure like this will cost a fortune.
Some ppl are saying the pregnancy is d guys and some r saying is not.... Bt as I come dey think loud y d blood stains?....like y? Expected date of delivery EDD is +/- 2 weeks....bit I don't know for pregnancy itself
But u need to do a forceful probing of that ur gal. I just weak...tell ur mom.... Maybe u can wait till After childbirth make sure u do s DNA test bf any yeye marriage Have u considered asking an O& G consultant? I think he will be in a better position to clear ur doubts.
Westernlove: Brown and dark skin ladies are the best. I can confidently tell u they have the best Cookies. Although light skin ladies are more attractive. What turns me off about some light skin ladies Is some of them have this natural fowl odour, ranging from their hair to their skin. It's not like they have poor hygiene or something, I think the odour Is just kinda natural. Although someone might not perceive It on heavy fragrance users. Niggurs who have dated lots light skin ladies would relate to this. Another thing I noticed about some light skin ladies Is, They might have a very clean and colorful cookies but It Is not always perfectly structured and bulky like the brown and dark ladies cookies.
Pmtvng: Recall recently the controversial actress got people talking when she used the Holy Bible as an ash dump while she was filmed smoking, praizenews report.
However when she was trolled by fans and rebuked for the act, she threatened to use the holy Quran if pushed.
Following the backlash she received by su7ocial media users, the actress stated that she only fear God and God is never confined to a textbook.
henrypsexy: Nollywood Actress, Etinosa Idemudia has demanded for N10million to be transferred into her account before midnight, before she would release the video of herself smoking on a Quran.
Recall that the actress recently used the Holy Bible as a ashtray while smoking, and she boldly posted the video on her page for Nigerians to see.
Immediately the video went viral, Nigerians attacked her in their numbers for disrespecting the Bible and dared her to try it with the Quran.
Reacting to this, the actress earlier asked for a Quran to be given to her, so she would mess it up in two seconds. Currently, it appears the actress changed her mind, as she has just demanded N10million before releasing the video.
According to her, she can’t be serving entertainment to Nigerians and giving content to bloggers free of charge, without any
Some Nigerians are insisting that fear has taken a grip on her, and she’s just using her N10m demand as a camouflage to divert people’s attention from her matter.