Family › Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by philexcel(m): 6:53pm On May 04, 2023 |
beekind: I am a 38 year old Nigerian American citizen dating a 26 year old Nigeria girl. I grew up in Nigeria but travelled out to the USA when I was 25 years old, I am a citizen now and doing really well for myself. I met a beautiful and godly Nigerian girl on facebook and we have been dating for some months now we are now thinking of marriage, she is in Nigeria while I am in the USA.
Some weeks ago my dad asked me to do some tests and send to him, (He is a medical doctor), I did them, turns out to be fertility tests and all was perfect. I just told him about my fiance and my plans to get married in some months time and he said she has to do fertility test before he can agree to the marriage.
This was very shocking for me as he insisted that it is his position, I haven't told my fiance cos I dont know how to and my fiance is scheduled to pay my parents a visit for the first time in Port Harcourt in 2 weeks time. My fiance is from Delta but lives in Portharcout as my parents while we are from Port harcourt.
My dad has said if I cannot tell her that he will, what do you guys think ?
Honest advise please and admin kindly push to front page for wider advise.
Thanks. When I wanted to get married in my church I was subjected to series of test except fertility. I did genotype, hepatitis, HIV, even pregnancy test for my wife to be then. I really believe and supported fertility test to would be couple before marriage. |
Sports › Re: Achraf Hakimi Dances & Celebrates With His Mother, Friends, Family (Throwback) by philexcel(m): 3:12pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
dominique: Op are you sure this is a recent video? Even Hakimi himself knows he can't dance yet, the court is yet to rule on child support and alimony payments. His monthly income will be used to determine this. Then there is the rape case still hanging on his neck. Trust me, Hakimi can't possibly be dancing wherever he is right now. This is most definitely not a recent video
Meanwhile, the wife was using her money to run the home while he was busy stashing his own money away to his mum. Then he went on to cheat on her in their home, now he expects her to walk away without a dime and Nigerian men are applauding this? May Hakimi happen to all your daughters born or unborn. That girl is not Smart. How can your husband earn a million pounds a month and you are the one running the house with your money. I trust naija girls. No no no |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: West Ham Vs Arsenal (2 - 2) On 16th April 2023 by philexcel(m): 2:09pm On Apr 16, 2023 |
ominilongest: Under 1.5
If u have money stake and come and share me money after winning...
I swear I see am for my dream. Bro Dem don score 1 less 8min. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Brighton (1 - 2) On 15th April 2023 by philexcel(m): 1:28pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Match way Dem fit draw. Run away from Chelsea and Liverpool |
Family › Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by philexcel(m): 1:25pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
EponObi: Achraf Hakimi divorce story really touched this one  Just imagine Hakami used that his wife. The guy by now is a gonner |
Sports › Re: Video Of Neymar Jr Reaction After Losing 1million Euro To Gambling by philexcel(m): 6:15pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
CaseSensitive: This life no balance sha. If I lose 1million naira to gambling for this Buhari regime, 10 years depression sure die. I dey tell u. The day I lose 20k at a go. I just weak. |
Investment › Am Available For Your Data Entry Jobs by philexcel(op): 3:39pm On Mar 28, 2023 |
Good evening house. I am a computer graduate with good knowledge of Microsoft excel and a fair knowledge of Microsoft Bi etc have my own laptop. I need data entry remote jobs. Am ready to work part time. |
Politics › Re: Governors Ranked According To Number Of Votes Gotten by philexcel(m): 10:28am On Mar 27, 2023 |
muyico: Yeah! Am deeperlife member. Many deeperlife member didnt ve voter card talkless of voting. U re right Why didn't they vote? Is choosing our leaders a sin. Even if Heaven is our goal. Are we not still expected to make earthly impact? It is well o |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Bournemouth Vs Liverpool (1 - 0) On 11th March 2023 by philexcel(m): 3:11pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
As a Liverpool fan. Am really vexing. What is there to beat Bournemouth. Bournemouth is not playing anything outstanding that Liverpool with there crop of players can't subdued na. Real Madrid is definitely going to devastate Liverpool come next week. They should not even bother going to Spain to play. they are not playing with desperation. Bournemouth for goodness sake is 7odds. If that is the only match u play this weekend u are definitely making something. |
Politics › Re: Labour Party Reacts As State Chairmen Predict Doom For Peter Obi by philexcel(m): 8:11am On Feb 24, 2023 |
blabulu2000: BOOM 💥
When i see some Yorubas that hate Tinubu i just Laugh they forgot that he brought YORUBA back into the game of politics when we have already lost our space in in this democratic era after Obasanjo sold us out without looking back!!!
The PDP (2011-2015) didn't have a single yoruba person in the top 8 political positions of Nigeria
1. GEJ- President 2. Sambo- VP 3. David Mark- SP 4. Ekweremadu- DSP 5. Tambuwal- Speaker 6. Ihedioha- Dep. Speaker 7. Katsina-Ala - CJN 8.Anyim Pius -SGF
Tinubu brought us back into the game and now we are back in the top 8 , and we currently have OSINBAJO & GBAJABIAMILA in top 4, 2023 is also our chance to rule this great country but some of us are lost Since you are now among top 4. How has it benefit Nigeria and Yoruba specifically. I don't know what is wrong with Nigerians. Both tribalism and religion has taken us nowhere |
Politics › Re: ‘COVID-23’ Ravaging Nigerians Due To Cbn-induced Naira Scarcity: Ganduje by philexcel(m): 12:25pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I and all Nigerian Christians will vote against Peter Obi because he's a divisive and dangerous catholic that must not be given the mantle of leadership. We Christians will rather vote for a Muslim than a bigot like Obi  You are born against not again. No sane Christian think and talk the trash you type. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Meets With Ooni Of Ife, Osun Traditional Rulers (Photos by philexcel(m): 6:23pm On Feb 02, 2023 |
TheNiceGuy: I laugh at those Obingo's stupidity who always try to separate Muslim from Christians in Yorubaland because of Pandora criminal.
I'm seeing my king here and he's a devoted Christian. Meaning he doesn't buy you people's delusions Your king won't. He is not among the masses. Economic policies can't affect them to the point of suffering masses |
Christianity Etc › Re: Did You See Pepper In The Last 8 Years, Oyedepo Asks Nigerians by philexcel(m): 1:15pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
xevove2061: In that whole 16years, was it aa bad as the last 8years? No mind the guy joor. PDP no better but APC worst. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Did You See Pepper In The Last 8 Years, Oyedepo Asks Nigerians by philexcel(m): 1:12pm On Jan 14, 2023 |
Mendelssohn: This god of man talks too much. Must every administration patronize you? Some of you self. Na lie the man talk?. You don't have to like him. Infact hate him it changes nothing for him. But for this buhari matter na true the man talk. Nigerians see pepper |
Health › Re: Man Collapses And Dies While Purchasing Fuel In Oyo by philexcel(m): 7:16pm On Dec 30, 2022 |
Righteousness2: Condolences!!
Probably a case of Evil arrow. Arrows are flying up and Down.. The devil, his agents and evil men and women are not resting!
Be Fully Fortified in GOD ALMIGHTY! Not in mouth but indeed! Evil arrows do exist I agree with you. But this man's case smell of underlining health challenges not necessarily village people. |
Celebrities › Re: Sammie Okposo Is Dead by philexcel(m): 6:09pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
GOTVee:
Even though I'm a born again Christian, I knew he would soon die when he started living an adulterous life. He sang fake gospel songs to deviate the minds of true Christians from the ways of our lord Jesus while sleeping with several women behind the scenes. Very unfortunate to share Same religion with him. It's better we Christians adopt polygamy like our Muslim brothers than deceiving ourselves in front of our lord Jesus  Your statement shows you aren't born again. This is not how we talk in the kingdom |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Manchester City (1 - 0) On 16th October 2022 by philexcel(m): 2:36pm On Oct 16, 2022 |
Laggafin: I pity my Liverpool oo Am a Liverpool fan, because of the stuttering start of the season many are rating Liverpool to lose. I don't see man city having it so easy today. Even pep knows. 1GG worst case a draw. Liverpool won't lose at home to city. |
Business › Re: I Mistakenly Borrowed From A Loan App #15,000 To Pay #19,500 In 2 Weeks [Pics] by philexcel(m): 3:22pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
TRADELYN: But why covering the name of the Loan App is what I don't understand. Na palm credit. I know their interface |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Contract Job In a multinational Company Vs Permanent Staff by philexcel(m): 2:17pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
Bro go for the pay. U have needs to meet, don't you. If you are a family man you will understand that 155k has advantage over 80k. Am a contract staff with over 150k monthly. If I see permanent 80k. I won't go for it |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Manchester City: Community Shield (3 - 1) On 30th July 2022 by philexcel(m): 9:18pm On Jul 30, 2022 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Suleman Reacts To Having Extramarital Affairs With Actresses (Video) by philexcel(m): 6:06am On Jul 28, 2022 |
posty56: sadly many sheeples. , won't believe the allegations ,they fear all this fake men of God pass God himself , they're afraid to think for themselves, I have seen multiple videos of Suleiman naked not just mere allegations. yet nothing Hmmm. Which multiples videos. Abeg joor |
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Politics › Re: Funke Akindele: My 20 Million Social Media Fans Will Vote For Me (Video) by philexcel(m): 5:48am On Jul 15, 2022 |
Am your fan doesn't mean I want PDP. Am your fan for Nollywood not for politics. |
Travel › Re: Canada Releases Damning Report On Nigeria, Issues Travel Advisory To Citizens by philexcel(m): 4:37pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Funke Akindele Nominated As Running Mate To Jandor, Lagos PDP Candidate by philexcel(m): 12:10pm On Jun 30, 2022 |
PDP never ready win Lagos. Who is Jandor self. Even Funke Akindele popular pass am |
NYSC › Re: Burial Photos Of Corper Who Drowned In Bayelsa Boat Accident; Friends Mourn by philexcel(m): 12:38pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
shilenji: If you'll be taking boat rides anywhere or know you enjoy traveling by water. The least you could do is learning how to swim, even if it's the rudiments. Your life-jacket is a waste if you don't know how to keep yourself afloat. Rip to the dead. True talk i have never entered a boat in my life and I am way beyond 30years. I don't think I will enter one if I can't swim. I remember an excursion years ago with primary school children to badagry. I refuse a boat ride to the slave point of no return cos I can't swim then. |
Crime › Re: Family Suspects Foul Play As Akwa Ibom Man Dies After Meal With Lover by philexcel(m): 12:32pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
aumeehn: Kullu Nafsin Za'ikatul Mauut (Every soul shall taste death)
They should free the woman, even if she is the one who killed him, a day will come when she will also join him in the hereafter. Still not enough reason to kill people |
Travel › Direction Urgently Needed by philexcel(op): 6:03am On Jun 22, 2022 |
Good morning my people.
Just got a job at island.
Please how do I get to Lagos island from Abule Egba bus stop. Thanks |
Computers › Re: What Valuable Digital Skill Can I Acquire With This Laptop? by philexcel(m): 9:31pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Stevenson20: Use it and play bet9ja. don't listen to this guy. you will definitely lose. betting site na scam. |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Attack Kaduna Catholic Church, Kill Three, Kidnap Some, Injure Others by philexcel(m): 6:32pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
Such as become normal. so bad that things like this happen and we forget and move on as a country. No investigation, No prosecution
Deborah burning Owo killings
Now this? |
TV/Movies › Re: Ti Oluwa Nile - Tunde Kelani (Movie Discussion Thread) by philexcel(m): 2:26pm On Jun 11, 2022 |
Watched this movie as a kid. The thing fear me then no be small
Back to the story. The otun guy na serious crook. Twist the whole story behind the land to win the court case for his accomplice. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Looking For A Data Entry Specialist by philexcel(m): 9:15am On Jun 02, 2022 |
mommaJ: Hello Nairalanders!
I am looking for someone who is experienced in data entry and is very familiar with Excel. This is not your average data entry job, so only contact me if you are confident in your skills.
However, I do think a Biochemist will do well in this project. Pay is fair, depends on your skill. Is a remote job. If am interested |