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SportsRe: FIFA Sends Nigeria’s Super Eagles To 2026 World Cup. by philkay(m): 2:04pm On Feb 18
The news is genuine
TravelRe: Nigerian Man Sells His House In Lagos For N60m, Relocates To UK by philkay(m): 5:35pm On Nov 26, 2025
Itiskdg121:
Yes, with digital banks like Renmoney. Check the Locksave annual interest rates
I keep wondering why the bank is not well known the interest rate made gan ni
PoliticsRe: I Married Regina Daniels At 19, Not 17 - Sen. Ned Alleges Blackmail Against Him by philkay(m): 11:32pm On Nov 10, 2025
[quote author=Dotherightthing post=137424698]13 is age of consent

Before you crucify me, go check the section 218 of the criminal code act of 2004[/quote

It's 14 years]
FamilyShared Responsibilities In Marriage: A Modern View by philkay(op): 9:17pm On Nov 09, 2025
About two years ago, while driving home, I overheard a young lady say to her friend, “I can’t marry a man who does only one job.” Her statement caught my attention. As I looked at her from my car, a deep sense of pity came over me. It wasn’t because of her ambition or desire for comfort, but because of the unrealistic pressure such a mindset places on marriage and family life.

Many people today believe that a man must carry the entire financial burden of the home. This outdated expectation often leads to serious consequences. When a husband feels compelled to overwork himself just to satisfy his family’s needs and societal standards, the result is usually stress, burnout, and sometimes, an early death. The tragedy is that the same wife who once demanded financial perfection may later find herself alone, forced to shoulder the very responsibilities she avoided sharing.

Marriage is not a business contract where one partner provides income while the other only enjoys the benefits. It is a partnership built on mutual understanding, shared effort, and teamwork. Both partners must contribute to the well-being of the family financially, emotionally, and domestically.

In this modern age, women are educated, skilled, and capable of contributing meaningfully to the household’s finances. When both partners share responsibilities, they create balance and reduce unnecessary pressure. Likewise, men should not see house chores as a woman’s exclusive duty. Assisting with domestic tasks strengthens the bond between partners and models equality for their children.

The idea that a man must do multiple jobs just to prove his worth is harmful and outdated. What families need today is cooperation, not competition. The measure of a successful marriage should not be how much one person earns, but how well both partners support each other in love, respect, and shared responsibility.

A happy and lasting marriage thrives when both husband and wife understand that they are teammates, not rivals each contributing their best to build a peaceful, balanced, and fulfilling home.
TravelList Of Banks Canada Accept For Proof Of Fund In Nigeria by philkay(op): 7:31pm On Jun 05, 2024
Please I really need assistance on the list of commercial and micro finance bank Canada accept for proof of fund. Thank you
PetsTragedy: Oau Losses Staff To Lion Attack by philkay(op): 6:41pm On Feb 19, 2024
PRESS RELEASE

TRAGEDY: OAU LOSSES STAFF TO LION ATTACK

The management, staff, students and the entire campus of the Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife, Osun State, have been thrown into mourning following the untimely death of Mr. Olabode Olawuyi.

A release by the Public Relations Officer of the University, Abiodun Olarewaju, stated that Mr Olawuyi, a Veterinary Technologist, who has been in charge of the Zoological garden for over a decade, was attacked this afternoon, Wednesday, 19th February, 2024, by a 9 - year old male lion when he was feeding them in their den at the Zoological garden of the University.

The other members of staff who were at the scene of the incident did everything within their power to rescue their boss but the wild cat had already caused severe fatalities.

On hearing the sad news, the management team, led by the Vice Chancellor, abruptly ended an on going meeting for an on the spot assessment

Vice-Chancellor, Professor Adebayo Simeon BAMIRE, was informed, on arrival, by the Acting Director of the University Health and Medical Centre Dr. Tirimisiyu Olatunji, that all first aid and medical efforts to save the life of the victim proved abortive.

Saddened by this tragic event, the aggressive Lion has been euthanized.

Mr Olawuyi has been taking care of the lions since they were born on campus about 9 years ago but, tragically, the male Lion killed the man who had been feeding them.

The University management has sent a delegation to the widow and children of the deceased, imploring them to take solace in God who gives life and also has the power to take life.

Meanwhile, the Vice-Chancellor, Professor Adebayo Simeon BAMIRE, has ordered a comprehensive investigation into the immediate and remote causes of the incident.

May the soul of Mr. Olabode Olawuyi rest in peace.
https://www.osundefender.com/breaking-lion-kills-oau-veterinary-technologist/
Science/TechnologyHow Do I Stop Unnecessary Advert On My Phone? by philkay(op): 1:39pm On Sep 22, 2022
Please I really need someone to put me through on how to stop unnecessary advert pumping on my phone. Thank
HealthRe: SA Health Minister Tells Foreign Patients They Are Overcrowding Hospitals by philkay(m): 5:32pm On Aug 24, 2022
TMKsouth:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fl9Ohy0HYyk

A video of Limpopo province's health MEC (minister) Dr Phophi Ramathuba lashing out at a Zimbabwean patient at a government hospital has sparked an outcry in South Africa.

The MEC is heard telling the patient that migrants are to blame for her department's stretched budget.

Dr Angelique Coetzee, a Solidarity Doctors Network board member, said the MEC was out of line.

“This patient is a victim of the drama between the two countries. Even if they cross the border illegally to get health services, it’s not their fault. She [the MEC] wasn’t supposed to embarrass her like that in front of people.

“It was unethical, unprofessional and out of line. She should have addressed that at a different level,” Coetzee said.


She added that the constitution makes it compulsory for anyone to receive emergency medical attention.

Dr Mike Ramothwala, from the Limpopo department of health, endorsed the MEC's statements, saying: “The last statistics showed that 80% of women giving birth at Musina hospital are illegal Zimbabweans and SA women sometimes didn’t find beds to give birth on. We are trying to fix our healthcare system but we can never do it unless what our MEC is saying is addressed.”

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.timeslive.co.za/amp/news/south-africa/2022-08-24-backlash-after-mec-blames-belittles-zim-patient-for-squeeze-on-limpopo-health-budget/
They should utilize the opportunity and general revenue for themselves by increasing the medical fees of foreigners
FamilyRe: Is It Advisable To Marry A Man Earning 100k In This Present Economy. Ur Sincere by philkay(m): 5:27pm On Aug 24, 2022
Blessedmercy8:
He's earning a 100k and wants to settle down. Can you as a lady earning a little above him agree to marry him?

Is it advisable to enter into marriage with such income considering the situation of the economy?
My sister the true be told, most guys between 25 - 40 years even above earns less than that. If you love you man, and he's hard working and he works smartly, pray to God, his income will improve. Thank your God you are also working, you will suppliment his income. Above all, for now don't have more than one child until income increases.
TravelRe: Nigerian Man Shows Impressive Transformation Years After He Relocated Abroad by philkay(m): 5:41am On Aug 03, 2022
[quote author= post=115325252]Update From . COM

A Nigerian Man who relocated abroad has shared photos to show his impressive transformation, Reports.

The Medical Doctor Shared ThrowBack Photos of him, As Sighted By On His Social Media Handle, working in a Nigerian hospital.

He Then Shared recent pictures he took at a hospital abroad.

He Wrote in the caption: "If trenches was a person!! We don't always look like what we have been tru!"

See Photos As Obtained By Below:

Source: BLOG[/quote]If you look at the picture critically well, nothing really special about it, the only difference is the camera quality. He's fat and has potbelly in Nigeria than the abroad. The camera effect makes his look better in abroad, lobatan
TV/MoviesRe: Do You Remember This Old Nigerian Advert? (Video) by philkay(m): 3:48pm On Aug 02, 2022
[quote author=officialwdhtv post=115313277]Do you remember this old Nigerian Advert?

Indomie generation...una well done o grin


https://m.youtube.com/wa

It's now #200 now, see the advert #2... Inflation has affected the price also
PoliticsRe: The Misconception About Votes From Northern Nigeria by philkay(m): 8:00am On Aug 01, 2022
He's totally not right.
The North hold an Ace to win any election in Nigeria because of the following reasons
1. They have more number of voters than the south
2. The North is united unlike the south, hardly you will hear north west, north central or north east. You will only hear it went they are distribute our national resources
3. The south is not united, South west will never want to support, The Igbo, while will the south south support the South East
4. It will be very easy for the north who is united to get the presidential candidate, and give either the south west, south east or south south vice presidential slot.
5. The southerner doesn't vote like the Northerner.
PoliticsRe: Is Your State’s Water Board Still Functional? by philkay(m): 10:01pm On Jul 17, 2022
Odin13:
I have a property by transform .. via mount road ..
Property beside the church.. the woman grinding is on my fence
Came to check on it and already out
That's where I used to live... The house facing the church
PoliticsRe: Is Your State’s Water Board Still Functional? by philkay(m): 5:21pm On Jul 17, 2022
Odin13:
No water board in Enugu.. stop lying for likes

I Dey meniru by akwunano.. agbani Road..like this and Na well dem Dey drag

Beside where dem Dey dig borehole for 80k

Modified

Water board runs in Enugu city center ..

But not agbani Road down to garki and it’s environment

Not sure if uwani ..

Thats still not okay.. water board is meant to supply water to Enugu state ..

That’s how it’s done else where not just city center
Enugu state government has water board, but it's not functioning.

Which side do you live at Meniru?
BusinessRe: Should I Report This Suspicious Transaction Or Play Along?? by philkay(m): 2:54pm On May 22, 2022
McCoy662:
Good day my good people out there.
On February third this year, I got a message from GTBank that a GTBank account has been opened for me, with my account number. The message did not specify who, from where or why the account was opened for me. I tried to contact GTBank customer service but i got no reply from their WhatsApp number. Now this morning, I got a credit alert of ₦5 through GTB GAPS services from IJM INTEGRATED SERVICES LIMITED.
I've not heard about this very company before and all my google searches are not helping matters at all.
GTB GAPS i learnt processes funds that are paid in batches.... It's a kind of E-cheques.
So i really want to know if anyone received the same message or does anyone have any idea where this whole thing is coming from. Do i really need to report to the bank or just ignore?
Messages are sent to my small phone; i should have attached screenshots.


Admins pls help me push to fp
The company exist, there are two directors in the company and it was recently registered, if you need more details about the company, I can give you
FamilyRe: My Father Is Dragging My Mom's Property With Me by philkay(m): 2:43pm On Apr 16, 2022
GraciousGod190:
As much as I hate bringing this here, I need advice on ways to go about this..is it right for a father to drag his wife wealth with his son, knowing fully well, the son is now a grown man.

My mom left us with lot of properties she acquired as inheritance from her father and mother side, been the only surviving child, while she was still around some relatives wanted to grab some of it...claiming she's a woman...but seeing she had a grown up son which was me they had to maintain and stay on their lane... besides my mom was never the sluggish type.

Now, my dad is trying to drag this property with me, saying he wants to sell some of the land without even informing me... he his claiming some of house rents and lavishing it on frivolities anyhow.

Yes he's my father, he trained me up to this stage that I am, but by right I thought Those properties are mine already.since it's inheritance that's supposed to be passed down to her offsprings.....if am wrong please someone should tell me.
If your dad married under the Act, he is the first person entitled to the properties of your late mum.

In my own opinion, morally your dad should have left the properties to your care, he shouldn't even claim it

Your family is not in order, please don't be offended
TravelRe: No Refund After Payment: Peace Mass Transit Loses In Court by philkay(m): 7:57am On Apr 09, 2022
They dare not try this with me. I purchased peace mass ticket from Enugu going to Ìbàdàn in 2017 after finishing my service as a year old lawyer. After waiting for several minutes, I was told I can't carry a particular good to the bus, I blasted all their staffs they sharply refunded my money.
PoliticsRe: Gowon Rejects Obasanjo’s Plot To ‘Instigate’ Ex-Presidents Against Buhari by philkay(m): 7:46am On Apr 09, 2022
Mooh247:
cool



Foolish British trained Generals that took over from Awolowo, Akintola, Tafa Balewa, Sarduna, Micheal Opara forming youths only to fvck everything up and remain in power till they turned Old farts

Gowon --- Civil war 3 million fatalities
Obasanjo --- Odi massacre, Ife modakeke crisis, OPC crisis, Militancy
Buhari ---- Boko haram, Bandits
Babangida ---- June 12
Ojucrook ---- 3 million fatalities

.
Ife/Modakeke crisis didn't happen during Obasanjo tenure, in fact he was the one that settled it.
PetsRe: Have You Ever Been Chased By A Dog? Share Your Experience by philkay(m): 2:42pm On Mar 09, 2022
There's this dog close to our house that wanted to bite me. It was one Monday evening, September, 1999 we were playing suwe in that compound. I just mistakenly stepped on the tail of the dog. The dog was scared, ran away and ran back to face me. It almost bite me, up to this present moment, I didn't know what raised my hands and hit the dog with my blow. Immediately I hit the dog, it ran away and I ran away too.
EducationRe: What's The Slogan Of Your University? by philkay(m): 8:31pm On Feb 25, 2022
pelmart:
For Learning and Culture

Great IFE
OAU
EducationRe: What's The Slogan Of Your University? by philkay(m): 8:30pm On Feb 25, 2022
GOFRONT:
AGE QUAD AGES... ALUTA CONTINUA
OAU
RomanceRe: Even If She Breaks My Heart This Is Why I Will Beg Her To Stay (pictures) by philkay(m): 8:46am On Feb 24, 2022
It's not good to beg someone to stay in a relationship,but everything depends on the causes of the misunderstanding though
PoliticsRe: FEC Okays New Salary Structure For Police by philkay(m): 9:04pm On Dec 15, 2021
Upworkwriter007:
The money is still trash. Police constable II earning 40k will now earn 50. A married man in this present Nigeria?
Most of them are not granduate oh... Most constable are just Young new recruit which are not married
HealthHow We Were Vaccinated In The 1960s And 1970s by philkay(op): 8:49pm On Dec 06, 2021
How AK47 were used to vaccinated us in the 60s and 70s
Indomie generation will not know

CareerRe: Young Graduates: What's Your Creative Idea That Requires Funding by philkay(m): 1:25pm On Nov 21, 2021
Op wants to steal ideas
PoliticsRe: IMF Tells FG To Remove Electric And Fuel Subsidies, Give More Jobs by philkay(m): 2:09pm On Nov 20, 2021
How many times will Nigeria government remove fuel subsidies?
RomanceRe: My BIG Joystick Disgrace Me Every Time!!! by philkay(m): 12:55pm On Nov 20, 2021
Cut it
Crime*osun Police Arrest Owner Of Hilton Hotel, Rahman Adedoyin, Over Alleged Killing by philkay(op): 7:41pm On Nov 17, 2021
*Osun Police Arrest Owner Of Hilton Hotel, Rahman Adedoyin, Over Alleged Killing Of OAU Student, Reveal More Details*
https://amiloadednews.com/2021/11/osun-police-arrest-owner-of-hilton-hotel-rahman-adedoyin-over-alleged-killing-of-oau-student-reveal-more-details.html
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Would You Advice Someone To Study Law, The Noble Profession In Nigeria ? by philkay(m): 9:54pm On Jun 20, 2021
If I come to this world and find myself in country like Nigeria, I will prefer to study law... The system is so porous, you can easily make it in the profession just that most people doesn't want to work but just become rich overnight. People are too blind to see opportunity around.


Law profession is better than most courses because once you're called, you have what can sustain you throughout your live, you don't need to start looking for work. You might not be rich oh but you will get the basic things of life. Just be humble, pray, work, you will get there some day.
CareerRe: My Current State Of Mind by philkay(m): 5:08pm On May 21, 2021
Where are you, location please?

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