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olamoses75:
In all you do, don't be this guy.

From redpill tutorials

1. She does not love him and is only marrying him for his money. Money is the only reaso why she is with him
2. She has another man somewhere that is sexing her.
3. If she marries him she will commit paternity fraud and still be sleeping with the man she really loves.
3. The red pill is a life saver and an emancipator
4. Women sometimes marry for financial security and not for love and it is dangerous.
5. He should lie to her that he does not have any money again and see what she does again

olamoses75:
As a man, always be ahead of your game with a woman.


Back in 1994, Gabriel met Christina at a party and they really hit it off. They ended up getting married even though she was 30 years younger than him. They were happily married for 20 years.

However, Christina eventually decided that she wanted to get a divorce. But when she went to her lawyer, she was shocked to hear she was already divorced from Gabriel 20 years ago.

And this is because 4 months after their marriage, the couple went to Dominican Republic for a vacation and Gabriel divorced her there because that's the only country where one party can file for a divorce without informing the other party.

He said he did this because he knew one day Christina would divorce him and try to take his money. Who be fool?

There is something wrong with that gender.

This is from the horses mouth. I mean a woman said this about simps.
Let me add. Its easy for a simp to rape a lady because they spend so much money and effort. Imagine a guy who sends a girl he barely knows 500,000 naira. The girl asks for more and after spending close to a million naira the girl comes to his house but says she doesn't want srx as she us not yet hus girlfriend. He could get angry and rape her.
So simping could lead to rape accusations. Putting so much money and effort into a woman leads to desperation anger and confusion.


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Decoding Whether He’s Simping or Sincerely Pursuing You
Despite their similarities, being pursued and being simped for couldn’t be more different.
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We’ll be honest: We, as women, really enjoy being pursued. We like knowing that the guy we’ve had our eye on is interested. We love feeling like the object of someone’s affection. We enjoy the thought of him deciding to ask us out, planning a romantic date, and opening a door for us. More than anything, we like to be pursued because it lets us know that we’re special, chosen, and sought after.

But maybe you’ve experienced a guy who was a little too eager to get on our radar, a bit on the desperate side for even a modicum of attention from us, to the point where it was a turn-off. There’s quite a fine line between being wooed and being groveled for — a world of difference between being chased after and being begged for.

After all, we all want a guy who’s willing to pursue us, charm us, and win us over, but a simp? That’s not for us. Hang on, what even is a simp?

What Is a Simp?
Simply put, a simp is a person who goes way above and beyond to impress, flatter, and placate someone they like, practically treating them like royalty. However, this treatment is one-sided, unreciprocated by their crush. When a guy is simping for a girl, he might shower her with compliments, buy her random gifts, send sweet texts, pay for her meals, bend over backward to impress her, or remain too available to her.

But wait… Some of that sounds like…normal flirting. So what’s the difference between a guy who’s pursuing you and a guy who’s simping for you?

He’ll Leave a Little to Your Imagination
A guy who’s simping for a girl will give her the complete boyfriend treatment, all without getting any sign of interest, commitment, or reciprocation from her. She won’t ever have to wonder what it’d be like to have him as her boyfriend because he’s already acting like it.

A guy who’s pursuing you will leave you wanting more attention, the kind he only offers to his girlfriend.

But when a guy is simply pursuing you, he’ll want to leave a little bit to your imagination. He’ll show you affection and give you special treatment, but he’ll withhold just enough that you’ll be left wanting more attention from him — attention that he only offers to someone he’s officially dating.

He Won’t Be Afraid of Boundaries
The number one sign of a guy who’s simping is his lack of boundaries. If the object of his affection tells him to jump, he’ll ask how high. There’s nothing he won’t do to be in her good graces, even if everyone else around him is discouraging his behavior or he’s borderline embarrassing himself or she’s openly dating other guys. There is essentially nothing she could do wrong in his eyes.

But for a guy who’s pursuing you? Of course, being in your good graces is also a priority of his, but not at the sake of his boundaries, dignity, and self-respect. He might go out of his way to surprise you with your favorite iced coffee or always make sure to send a cute “good morning” text, but he won’t let someone walk all over him. And you’ll be capable of doing something wrong in his eyes (which, by the way, is the sign of a healthy guy).

He’ll Let You Hit the Ball Back
A guy who’s simping for a girl will be in a completely one-sided relationship, giving her all the affection, attention, and adoration he can muster, thinking this will get her to finally realize that it’s been him all along. But he’ll do all of this without even waiting for her to show interest back or give him a reason to show her this kind of treatment.

A huge part of the courting process is like a dance, with one person making a move, and the other moving in kind. When a guy is chasing with you, he’ll be waiting for you to hit the ball back — to be the one to text first sometimes, or to initiate a hand-hold, or to offer him evidence that his efforts aren’t in vain.

He’ll Want To Be Impressed Too
A simping guy will go above and beyond to impress the girl he’s hoping to win over. He’ll constantly be talking himself up, making his job sound more important than it is, or dress to the high nines just for her. He’ll do all of this without ever wanting to be impressed himself.

A guy who’s pursuing you will want to know that you’re a catch as well.

But when it comes to dating, guys aren’t the only ones who should impress, and a guy who’s simply pursuing you will know that. He’ll obviously talk his best game on the first few dates, wanting to set himself apart from any other guys who might want your attention. But he’ll be waiting for you to impress him, too — to tell him about your aspirations, lifestyle, job, or anything else. He’ll want to know that you’re a catch as well.

He Won’t Feel Entitled To Anything
Perhaps the worst part of a simping guy is that underneath all of the compliments, the free meals, the friendship, and the hangouts, he’ll feel entitled to more from his crush, even if she’s never shown any signs of interest. He’ll secretly believe that if he jumps through enough hoops, she’ll have to date him eventually. Every “kind” act of his comes with an ulterior motive.

Obviously, if a guy is pursuing you, he’s hoping the relationship will grow into something more. The difference is that because his pursuit isn’t totally one-sided, he won’t feel entitled to commitment or intimacy — he’s simply exploring whether a relationship between the two of you is in the cards. The motive behind his kindness is to see where the relationship can go, not to build up brownie points that he’ll one day use against you.

While simping and pursuing can have some overlap, they ultimately couldn’t be more different in how they’re executed, how they come across, and their intentions.

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Karlifate:
Dear [young] men,

Displaying physiological effort when speaking to woman turns her off...

It makes you look “try hard”

The key is to exert an IDGAF mentality.


You aren’t afraid to offend her, get sexual, and display authority over her.

This is what lotsa men fail to do.



In summary: Put yourself on the pedestal, not her. 👌

U see if you discover your purpose, destiny and talent in life you won't simp for any girl. Great men live for their dreams and not pussy.
If you understand how unique you are you won't put any lady or person on a pedestal in the first place.
Zuckerberg invented Facebook, Newton discover gravity, Bill Gates became the world richest man, victor osimhen great footballer.
If you ate pursuing your passion and you feel important women will look like feaces shit to you. In fact you will be so arrogant that they will complain that you are proud. Imagine working on a cure for cancer and a girl is wasting your time. If you understand your destiny you might slap her. I n fact, you are doi g her a favour by Bern around her for sex or anything. Time is precious men.
It's not only about sex but saying what is on your mind. Just say whatever.
I like philosophy and I can tell any woman around me that the universe is vibrating without caring if she likes it or not. She us not the queen of England or sime goddess.

Ericmaestrooffi:
I’ve no intention to smash even though she’s very attractive, I just want to help her.

And yes I’m in a relationship but long distance (my gf is working in another state).

Stuff happens. Women are funny.
The seduction may come from her. She might fall in love with you and try to seduce you. It happened to me before.
Can u resist it when she tries to seduce you.
Don't underrated female sexuality. Living with you could make her develop feelings for you.
If u can resist at that stage then let her stay bit it's better you dont

tosyne2much:
OP needs a knock on his head

Not even Ebenezer Obey, Sunny Ade, Asa, Orlando Owo and Lagbaja made your top 5 list

How about majek fashek. Guy was in a league of his own

heartofcity12:
Let these women keep teaching these simps the hard way like this, a simp and his money part ways..
When we try to tell them here, they call us all sort of bad names and get trolled heavily, y’all simps will always end up in blogs as objects of ridicule and mockery like this simp, it’s not a cuss. #trp

Most Nigerian men need a dating coach tha
T will guise them on how to Interact with women. Simps plenty.
A dating coach does many things. Your body language, your dress eense, your belief system, self confidence, social skills etc. Even personal self development in business and career. It all comes together I. The dating scene.
I know most of us men won't agree but we need it. We nigerians including me are not used to seeing psychologists but we need it. Men need counselling and we should not shy away from it.
You have to believe your are special before other people do.
He believes the girl is more special than h8m and is putting her on a pedestal.
As a man you have to discover your greatness and move with it. You only appreciate people who appreciate you.

komekn:
Unfortunately the players don't decide it's the club.

It's apparent that Chelsea are not completely convinced about VO and it seems the fans are not that keen either.

Arsenal is doubtful and Liverpool is just rumours so far. VO is a quintessential number 9 that thrives in a pyramid system, that is not how these teams play.

And his price £100+tag makes it very hard for clubs to gamble.and or take a chance on him. It's a kind of all or nothing.

Napoli will like the £100 million plus but know that without VO next season, they will struggle even more than they did this season..

So Napoli will not sell him for anuty lol essentially than £100 they may do a player swap . But let's see the coming month's will be interesting 🧐

Shortly after winning african player if th year last year, osimhen did a fantastic assist in a match for napoli. In thr nations cup last group match osimhen made a defence splitting pass from midfield but the player he passed to was offside.
U font watch osimhens game. His technicality and all round game will get him into arsenal and Liverpool easily. The way he keeps centre backs busy is even good as the wingers and midfielders will find space to operate.
U are saying pure nonsense. The only weakness I. His game is offside awareness and his finishing has to improve. U hVe been saying this stuff for sometime.
OK look at the penalty he eon against south africa in afcon.
Also there was a season he won more penalties than a lot of other forwards in Europe. Mr liar he can play even in Barcelona. Just work on his offside that's akl

Rizzputin:
Simple.

When the sex topic comes up, don't avoid it. Just stay with it. Be calm... share your thoughts and opinions in a chill, confident way

Ask about hers too. While talking with her.... picture yourself fùcking her. And let that sexual energy move through your body. Embrace it. As the interaction proceeds, she'll feel the energy and get turned on

Be bold to make moves on her. You have to understand that women LOVE sex.

She's been dying for you to get sexual with her and bang her.

When you do this, she'll test you. Remain calm, don't overreact. For me, I ignore most shìt test with a smirk

A woman testing is her natural inclination to love tension. That's why she loves drama. That's why they love sneaky sex. That's why they love threesomes and fùcking in public places

So she will want to put you under tension with testing & drama to see how you react.

Act offended or reactive and she'll think your weak and leave. Remain calm and her attention increases.

So to recap, talk about sex with her in a calm chill way. Don't laughing and giggling like a girl. Just talk about it comfortably. Tell her you love sex and how passionate it is. But that you love sex with a special kind of woman. If she asks you what that kind of woman is just tell her " you find out later" with a smirk


Do not attempt to hide your sexual desire. But don't be desperate.

The reason women lust after me is because my sexual desire rubs off on them.

So allow yours to come out but don't be desperate about it.

Many guys have asked me about this. Seems getting things sexual is a common problem from guys.

Later, I'll pen a comprehensive guide on it. But this should be helpful for you

Young man you are harnessing sexual energy which us a basic crude but powerful energy of the universe, humanity and human relations. Its present in every human being. Thats all. I'm not good in the details anyway.

However, try and encourage youths to go into something that will develop them. Entrepreneurial skills, intellectual development etc. No be everything be sex. Woman etc. We all know sex is innate to everybody male or female. But then, there is more to life than having sex.
Teach young men more useful things. How to be succesful and respected in society. How to harness your talents etc

heartofcity12:
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This is the tragedy with the female gender. You are supposed to enter into long term relationships or marriage with the person you love.
It's heart breaking and tragic to marry a man you don't love probably for money, social acceptance or other selfish reasons.
I mean this is someone you will grow old with. Its tragic of them. With this mindset it's easy for them to commit adultery since the love is not sincere. No wonder paternity fraud is on the rise.

TheSuperNerd:
His Creative Quality in tandem with his finishing is one of the major reasons he can play alongside Osimhen and Lookman in attack in a 3-4-3 or 3-4-2-1 or 3-4-1-2 or even 4-3-3.

By the way have u noticed chukwueze has improved in his last 5 matches.
If he goes on like this he will be established in ac milan
One thing about him is that at his best his underlying stats are good. Things like short creating actions. Defence splitting passed attacking sequence contributions etc.
Also I think the competition at ac milan is bringing out the best in him. He either plays well or gets benched. That's the way to motivate him

TheSuperNerd:
Bundesliga's Team of the Season Star, Victor Boniface now on 20G/A (12⚽️ and 8🅰️) in 21 league games.

28G/A (19goals, 9 assists) in 31 games across all competitions. A Top 23/24 season overall for Victor "the dancing assasin" Boniface.

He is like a modern day samson siasia. Very skilfully and creative forward

SAMUEL chukwueze with an assist for ac milan
He is gradually improving

heartofcity12:
Can you just imagine..

I don't understand. Why do they now complain when their husband or lovers cheat on them. This confused gender seems to enjoy cheating husbands. So a man that cheats on them is now attractive.
No wonder bad boys treat them badly. They seem to like bad boys and are somewhat narcissistic in attitude.
There is something wrong with this gender.

Dizzyyish:
I like how her profile picture is mainly her bumbum.

It perplexes me how shallow a woman's mind can be that her buttocks has more prominence than her facial profile in a picture. That a sentient creature's buttocks, where feces are excreted from, is more of an identity than her own face.

Someone said it that women have the tendency not to evolve beyond their sexuality. It traps them and underdevelops their mind.
If we men understood that girls are people like us with problems we will not place them on the pedestal simps place them

From my findings finidi believes in possession football and his teams create a lot of chances. Thus he will do well.
I read about his tactics. Will post more later.
Remember he was a coach in spain

Afrobasic:
Dude, you are correct with your thinking, although I think all african tribes (not only the small ones) should be eliminated - having only major tribes left will lead to major conflicts still.

Now, a lot of people are going to foam in the mouth at the thought of this, but just know your proposal is actually a valid step in the right direction for African progress.

Eliminating african cultures is mental slavery. Neo colonialism, expoilation, inferiority complex and stupid mentality. That's what they tell us anyway. That we are inferior and don't have a history and you are confirming it.
They deceived our ancestors with a mirror. In anotherc30 years they will tell us to have sex with animals in the name of lgbtq woke feminism ideology.
What is needed is an Afro centric modern ideology and not this copy copy inferiority complex nonsense.
The Chinese, Arabs and Indians just adopt they don't copy.
I watched a documentary in which a Chinese man made a scientific discovery and he was saying it in Chinese and the Europeans translated it into Englus.
We need an Afro-centric philosophy.
EMMANCIPATE YOURSELF FROM MENTAL SLAVERY BOB MARLEY SAID SO

kingxsamz:
Lol, first image has nothing to do with whatever you're talking about. Last image is an Ai photo. and the rest could be made by anyone. No one is coming for your kids. By the way, as a Christian you shouldn't have any business with non Christian tv shows, movies and music. So keep your kids away from such contents and you wouldn't have to worry, okay?

Our kids live in a social world and not in heaven. They will be influenced. Their friends will do it. A lot of people in the younger generation are already tolerant of lgbtq

chisupport:
As long as we continue to lazy around and waiting for the western word to do everything for us, this is what you get.
Unfortunately, We don't care about taking charge, so We completely depend on western countries for everything. This is the outcome.

We don't control the media..We don't care
We don't control technology..We don't care
We don't concern ourselves with inventions and Innovationa..We don't care .

We don't care about anything meaningful



So, anything they give to us, is what we get.

This is Africa's biggest problem. In fact that us the truth

jesusjnr2020:
Pregnant Man In Kid's TV And Dolls: Are They Now Coming After Our Kids?

When they said they were coming for our kids next during the last LGBTQ+ pride month parade, it appeared they weren't playing at all, but had already put mechanisms in place to actualize their abominable agenda.

I was watching Nickelodeon a few years back with the kids of a close relative after I paid them a visit, and on a TV station and show that supposed to be meant for kids, i saw something that shocked me to bits.

It was a man whose tommy protruded like that of a pregnant woman lying down on something that looked like a hospital bed.

Although I didn't know exactly what they were talking about, being ultra alert to the devices of the devil, I didn't need to know but immediately sensed it was a strategy deviced to subtly implant homosexuality ideas into the minds of our children.

I knew the idea was that once they saw the pregnant man in the show, the next question would likely be how a man could get pregnant.

And how else could a man get pregnant but the same way a woman gets pregnant, by a man since a woman cannot get a man pregnant?

That's how they intend to subtly implant such homosexual ideas into the innocent minds of the children, so from childhood their minds would gradually start wandering into the forbidden territory of homosexuality and by the time they were grown up, the abominable idea would have stuck and it would be hard for them to be disentangled from it.

Now they've even taken it a step further to make dolls of a pregnant man, called pregnant Ken.

And guess what, it was made by the popular brand called Barbie that uses to make dolls for children, but are you surprised?

You shouldn't be because they are very determined and using all the means and resources at their disposal to target our kids as they said.

That's why we can't afford to lose guard or be caught napping at this time because the wolves have come all out to get our kids, and they're not even hiding their plans any longer.

Hence why we should endeavour to be fervently prayerful and watchful for our kids more than ever to prevent them falling prey to these predators.

God bless.

Men you are slow. They have been planning it for 30 years. There are big university academicians, business men, artists etc backing the lgbtq agenda.
Since the 80s or maybe the 69s. They are targeting the next generation. It is a strategy and they are very intentional.
We Africans just copy anything like Robots. They have a well detailed plan. They even use psychological strategies

TheSuperNerd:
Decent midfield player. Hardworking off the ball, can press and also get forward. A decent dribbler as well. But in truth, his passing isn't exactly tops but just decent enough.

Olawoyin will be a fine addition to the midfield but isn't exactly gonna bring us that x-factor quality in the middle game in terms of what exactly stands him out.

How about fisayo dele-bashiru

Freshtruth:
After Ejaculation , you will realise that you have been stupi!d for spending such huge amounts of money plus stress on something that doesn’t worth it . If you had given all the money to your parents, you would have received fresh blessings than wasting it on smelly dry Kpekus. Most times they don’t even appreciate it yet they say you used them . How ?
It’s men that are being used Biko

Freshtruth

The vagina breast etc of a woman is just full of flesh, blood and excreta. Its just blood and flesh. Its not worth the stress.
I wonder why we men are so carried away.

RickyJesus:
Black people need to learn how to take pride in things because they are good, not just because they are old.

African languages are regressive, primitive and backwards. They serve no purpose but to divide African nations and cause hostility between peoples who are essentially the same. This is 2024 what the hell is the value of a language that doesn't even have a word for yellow, or have any measure of degree or even a vocabulary beyond a 10 year old level? Language is the fabric of thoughts and one who has a primitive, backwards language will have primitive and backwards thoughts.

This is why all pointless African tribes on this maps should be eliminated and formed into a few major groups; Lingala, Hausa, Swahili, Amharic, Somali, Arabic, Yoruba and Igbo. The only other language used in Africa should be English.

What the hell is so good about these "African cultures and traditions" anyway? Where these not the same cultures and traditions that left us 600 years behind the rest of the world? Wake the hell up and cut away this silly degenerate nonsense. It is only a hindrance to our development. We can start new cultures and new traditions, this trash doesn't have value just because its old.

~ pleep

You thoughts are not well developed. I will help you
1. The issue is that African culture is Animistic. Animism is the belief that the world consists of spirits that is why we sometimes attribute everything to witchcraft.
2. There is still some knowledge in African culture. For example the ifa oracle is a mathematical system. Also our ancient herbalists have discovered a lot of useful herbs scientists are working on.
3. You have a point ad we are not a thinking race. If you observe the West thinks for us and we copy them blindly. We seem unable to evol6an ideology of our own. From solar technology to nudity they do all the thinking for us.
4. As per language some science textbooks have been written in yoruba, igbo and other African languages. That deepness of thought will be created when textbooks are written I. AFRICAN languages.
5. There are some deep thoughts in African culture like Arodon which means nothing in yoruba or umodoye which means knowledge turns into understanding.
6. Nice try. Generally we Africans are very shallow minded and lack deep thinkers. We just copy and paste the white man
7. Language is important in understanding history. When you wipe put language you wipe out thousands of years of history. That is a problem.
8. Africas past is full of a lot of useful knowledge if you see beyond the surface. OK what of the great Wall of Benin made by africsns that's technology
7. Nice try but there are better solutions to what u are saying

3kay945:
I think this is temporary cos those that have it saved somewhere will always dig it out and the cycle continues...

Some badh guys have it saved on laptops and drives..

https://www.repscan.com/en/about-us/

This company specialises in deleting online videos with their software.
Also, if uploaded online it can be identified by the software and deleted again. It doesn't solve the problem 100% but at least it helps.
The dark Web is still there

It should bev16 and not 18
Secondly, how about the case of prodigies and geniuses. Such people need special educational attention

Chukwueze cross led to commotion in thebinter milan box 18 which led to a goal. He us actually playing well and contributing to the attack.
He has really improved

TheSuperNerd:
Watching the synergy of Michael Olise and Eberechi Eze week in, week out for Crystal Palace against teams is something. Two #10s in a 3-4-2-1 behind the top 9 is sexy.

Same system beat Liverpool.

So on this system there are 4 central midfielders if I may ask

Get it now

Quality20:
Instead of discharging old boyfriends and old ways, these types of girls will just hang these pregnancies on their husbands.

Are they afraid that their husbands may not be able to impregnate or what? You see some women givin their husbands pregnancies from not only one boyfriend but upto two or more.

Anyway, nairaland women, pls help us out on why some modern day girls behave this way- or is it now a bad thing to marry modern day ladies?

Mist modern ladies are simy psychologically dogs. They ate too srxually promiscuous and her sex addicts.
The problem is most men overrated and worship ladies because of their beauty and sexuality.
Most ladies are sex slaves to their former boyfriends.

TheSuperNerd:
Stanley Nwabali with another cleansheet and top class performance for Chippa Utd away at Supersports Utd in the SA PSL.

His side won 2-0 and Nwabali dropped this.

Players like Olisah ndah and ibrahim olawoyin might be better than some of these top 5 league players but people will not agree.
The scouting system is not always perfect.

[quote author=IyaTola post=129538776][/quote]You have a sub conscious desire to exploit your sexuality and thr man you sent your nude exploited this. As a human being you are emotional and sexual and in your emotional and sexual state, you sent your nudes.
You need to control yourself next time. No man will tolerate sending your nudes to another man. Any man that asks for your nudes is wicked and is psychologically manipulating you. You women can be childish.
Your boyfriend will find it hard to take you seriously. Stuff like that makes u seem like a LovePeddler or porn star which may not be so.
I can never encourage a lady to send her nudes to me. If a lady send me her nudes I will delete it and try and correct her.

olamoses75:
Men do not benefit from marriage!!!

1. He is 72 years old.

2. He has retired from active service.

3. He worked all his life to raise his children.

4. He deprived himself of life's pleasures to pay for expensive school fees and living expenses for his children abroad.

5. They are now well-off in Europe, Australia, and America.

6. His wife, aged 62, has relocated to live with their children.

7. He remains alone back in Nigeria.

8. His children barely call him.

9. He has to start life all over again as a bachelor.

10. He struggles with high blood pressure and other ailments associated with old age.

11. How much longer will he survive alone?

12. This is the reality for most working-class monogamous men: their old age is often lonely and, in many cases, sad.

13. No matter how good the man is, women tend to love their children more than their husbands. The older he gets, the less use they seem to have for him.

14. So, what do men truly benefit from marriage?

15. They sacrifice so much but receive little recognition for their hard work, while the woman seems to reap all the benefits.

It’s a man’s world they said but for the women and children in reality.

Dear men, this could be your situation in the next few decades. What are you doing about it? What is your retirement plan? Care for your self as much as you fend for your family. Love yourself. God bless you.

Aklahyel Goni

My grand father married a new wife when he grew old for thos reason. My father said he could not be cooking eba at 73.
This is why polygamy should be tolerated. But modern educated man will not listen.
Also the extended family system can help. I mean a young relative can live with him.
We Africans should not throw away the baby with the bath water in the name of modernism.
We only need to modernise what we have.
The blue pilled ideology the western world is selling will produce lonely men and suicidal teenagers.
Single mother phenomenon will produce lonely women in their 40s in need of husband. U can't be 43 as a woman without a man and be forming feminism. Women will soon start marrying men even if the man is poor. Loneliness is a psychological condition money cannot solve.
We just need to modernise our African values. It is well