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Bannedlargedx2:
You can still play 3 midfielders and have osimehn and Boniface on the pitch

Abi with three midfielders you do not need your forwards to mark all the time.
Na marking dem come do for field
If you keep marking, your attackers will not penentrate the opponents defence.
Modern football has defensive ideas that are extreme. These defensive ideas need to be reviewed.
I thank God for Guardiola, he at least shows you dont have to defend every second.
Abi wetin now.
Somebody was even telling me that even with three midfielders and 4 defenders in a 4 3 3, the forwards have
to help the full backs and so we cannot play with 3 forwards.
We simply need to maximize the talent of our forwards and stop worrying about defense every time

Gerrard59:
China is actually a consuming nation, but the wealth to be at par with Western countries, especially the US, has not been attained. China currently consumes a lot of French and German goods. The consumption of these goods delivered huge profits to German carmakers and French luxury goods makers. Na why Bernard Arnault rise for wealth rankings. Additionally, to a significant extent, American farmers before the trade war by the US depended on China for continuous consumption. As the trade war continued, the Chinese diverted to South America where farmers are delighted and getting richer.

The Chinese have the potential to be a major consumer as the US provided more Chinese get richer. This is why the CCP is investing across high-valued sectors. However, the West is apprehensive because this erodes their influence and power. I applaud and admire the Chinese for their sheer hard work, persistence and determination. An instance is electric vehicles. Apart from Tesla, most Western carmakers never took it seriously, but the Chinese did. And should EVs become popular as envisaged, they (the Chinese) stand to benefit a lot. Ironically, Western nations are at the forefront of stopping this ascent because it will displace them from the top. Whether China refuses to be bullied is left to be seen.

The same applies to India. People have the means to consume when they have money and are at the apex of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. So, we cannot expect ordinary Indians to consume like Americans when they have not solved the basic needs of life.

Another thing that scares the West is so-called climate change. As the rest of the world gets richer, they will begin to copy Western consumption patterns. This has been noticed as China got richer. They burnt more fossil fuels and consumed goods regardless of whether it affected the climate. So, Westerners are antsy that should other parts of the world get richer as them, the planet is in big trouble because these people would consume just as they (West) did. That is partly why few elites are looking into other planets. Their fears are further exacerbated as the proportion of Whites dwindles while others, such as Pakistan, India, Indonesia and Africa, balloon.

If you can access this article's comment section: https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2023/10/28/world/africa/africa-youth-population.html you will read the fears and apprehensiveness in them.



It would especially if the bulk of immigrants are from cultures which are antithetical to Western civilisation. All cultures are not equal. Some cultures are more equal than others. Carry Ibibios to Somalia and move Somalis to Akwa Ibom. In the next decade, Somalia will be a place people will look forward to visiting, whereas Akwa Ibom will turn to a terror-laden society. That is the difference in culture.

Also, people from different cultures tend to make a society unsafe even if that society is prosperous. Prosperity leads to increased safety, but homogeneity plus prosperity solidifies that safety. Norway is safer than France. South Korea is safer than the UK. Why? Both Norway and South Korea are prosperous and homogenous.

The future of an increasingly diversified Western world looks like Brazil, with social tensions here and there. It worsens if a significant proportion of the populace adheres to prehistoric beliefs that slow societal development and advancement.

In the future, I see more Europeans emigrating to Chile, Argentina, New Zealand and Uruguay so they live amongst their type. Again, if you notice, these countries are safer than most immigrant societies and communities in Europe.

Stuff is Africa can only develop if we invent stuff like solar and electric cars ourselves. We need to steer our youths into science and technology.
We need a Yoruba Elon musk and a Thomas Edison from Anambra

dinachi:
Only a mad man or woman will believe this nonsense accusations from Wunmi the lesbian. Before I proceed these things are facts.

1. Wunmi is a known lesbian who was sleeping with his(Mohbad) female manager another known lesbian.

2. Wunmi was also sleeping with other members of the record label.

3. Wunmi due to fear of being exposed have refused to do a DNA test for the said child she birthed for Mohbad. She has joined hands with another known lesbian runs woman Iyabo Ojo to attack Mohbads father.

4. Wunmi the lesbian is a known prostitute before Mohbad met her. It's a well known fact.

5. Mohbads father singlehandedly raised him. The mum ran away.

6. If anybody deserves what Mohbad left, it's the father. He invested in that boy Mohbad before Wunmi the lesbian saw him and decieved him to marry her.

7. Liam is not Mohbads child but probably Samlarry who was codedly fucking Wunmi while Mohbad was alive. There's a secret test already carried out which have confirmed that Liam is not Mohbads son. That's why Wunmi the lesbian is paranoid. That's why she used her lesbian God mother Iyabo Ojo to say that whoever wants to fund the DNA test must first get she and Liam visa to USA to do the teat there. The idea is that when they are there, they won't come back. They want to run.

8. The only thing left to prove the truth is a public DNA test. This will put the matter to rest.

As usual mohbad wifed a LovePeddler. The girl even looks like a club girl or runs girl or maybe a stripper. She is not a chaste woman. I don't trust her at all. She might not have killed him but she seems capable of anything.

Dennisochampa:
All my own be say Make the guy get justice...
Every other issue can be trashed out later...
We need to know who killed this young upcoming artist....
If we don't find out who did..... Many more like this will happen because this one and many others in the past have been swept under the carpet...!!!!!

Who killed mohbad....
We are not interested in DNA for now...
We do not want to know who is sponsoring who....
We need to know who killed mohbad!!!

Crime Investigation is more complex than you think.
They need a DNA test because if Mohbad is not the father of her child, then the person who
impregnated her might have killed Mohbad.
There is circumstantial evidence.
Also, all the people she says are threatening her on social media need to be questioned.
Crime is a complex thing

Blueelf:
That is why I said in an earlier post that if Napoli with a far better midfield than ours struggles to create chances for Osimhen, what do you think will come out of the SE

Osimhen will look like a local league player because of our poor midfield

Don't expect much from him in tis coming AFCON

Somebody should talk to peseiro about our midfield and he should please listen. A 3 man midfield would work. Just put Raphael onyedica behind iwobi and ndidi and we will create chances. Ndidi is now a more creative player.
PESEIRO SHOULD LISTEN

Damioduso1:
. Yes no injury worries The two Victors Can now prepare for Afcon now . My only fear is the pre afcon friendly matches we going to play against Dr Congo and Burkina Faso in early next before the afcon

He should use it to test fringe players. Especially experiment on our midfield try nwabili as a keeper. Onyedica alhassan jibola adebola (u know who I'm talking about) in midfield. Try desserts moffi etc in attack

mostob:
For the last time, there is no 10 again. Football has evolved. You need to move on.

All this na terminology.
U mean a central midfielder that creates chances. Whatever u call it u need a central midfielder that can control the midfield
and create chances. I can call it anything. Besides I think ndidi is evolving into a box to box midfielder

mostob:
Playing with one winger doesn't work too. It makes the team unbalanced

There is no imbalance anywhere. With 3 forwards the opposing team will be occupied and the three midfielders will work hard.
We are very dangerous that way. Imagone simon boniface osimhen troubling any defence. The rest of the team just has to wirk hard. Iwobi pure am nwakali or alhassan yusuf as cm while Raphael Onyedika plays dm. All the midfielders should just load passed to the front three.
Defending wingers from opposing teams is oveerated.
IT WILL WORK MARK MY WORDS

Danielnino00:
On paper, this is a deadly combo..It just needs the right midfield set up to suply the chances...
IMO, 3-5-2 will be the right set up. There's no light er playing 4-4-2 when the wingers themselves are more goal minder rather than being creative

When we play 4 4 2 it will be with 3 central midfielders and 1 winger. Something like 4 3 1 2. Playing with 2 midfielders does not work in the modern game

Rukevwe999:
Some of what you said are what some fake alphas use to console themselves. Any woman who rolls with a broke man because he is alpha and gives a great sexual experience has issues, and would abandon the relationship when she's had her fill. Understand me, I'm not saying that money should be the only way to attract women, but women have a lower sex drive than we do. Rather they value material security over great sex.
Again the rich simp has an higher advantage over the broke alpha. He can become a alpha tomorrow while the broke alpha would have to work two-times harder to become rich. Being rich has it's advantage in the sexual marketplace: First, the he has more options and can change women as he likes with his financial power. Unlike the broke "alpha" who manages a few women whose loyalty cannot be trusted. Second, with money your environment changes, you can travel to different countries and meet more beautiful women of other races. You can also connect with high valued women, models, actresses, daughters of powerful men etc while the broke fake alpha wears a paper crown, competing with his kind for the low valued women in his locality.

Any man who is broke but prides himself in his ability to attain sex from women effortlessly needs to do some self reflecting.
At the same time any man who is rich and cannot channel his wealth properly to his advantage in sexual market place is like a fool who will always part with his gold.

Let us be honest with ourselves. As a man it is a thing of joy to be able to take care of your women and the children theu have for you. It makes u feel responsible.
Its shameful if u cant take care of your wife and children no matter how u truly love them.
U will feel hurt and less of a man.
Alpha without money is an irresponsible Bleep boy. U cant 100 percent blame women for wanting financial security.
Too much poverty reduces your worth as a man. That is why they tell us men to be successful from childhood. It is important to have money and contribute positively to the development of society.
Ok how will i feel if your father did not care for you and simply abandoned u and your mother in the name of alpha male and erect penis.
I will hate your father like 2pac did.
There is balance in everything.

Nomyth:
I just don't understand this recent idea of always assessing a player solely on where he plays. This is so simplistic and very misleading.

We are talking about the AFCON for God's sake where a lot of other countries will be presenting players from various leagues in Africa! Not as if our opponents are bringing players from real Madrid or Barca so I don't see the reason why someone playing for Orlando Pirates can't make the team.

The Egyptian team that won back to back Afcon titles doesn't have a large number of players playing in Europe.

You know what, the club issue is misleading.
If you can remember, a player like Mohammed Aboutrika is better than a lot of European players. Especially players
playing in average teams like fulham, everton or sampdoria.
I dont uderstand myself.
Even Morocco used players from the Moroccan league in the world cup. The player that assisted Morocos goal against Portugal
is from the Moroccan league. Take note this is even the world cup and not nations cup. His name is yahia attiyat allah. Also take note
that morocco is a team that uses European based and foreign based players a lot.
A good African league is better than any league outside the top 20 European leagues.
I dont even think the nordish league is better than a good African league.
We are too fixated on Europe.
We should concentrate on team tactics and what a player adds to the team and not only the league everytime.
Some European players are overrated.
Im not saying we should not used them but that should not be the only criteria.
What we really need is a good coach that will bring out the best in our players.
The logic of better league/club is probabilistic and only true 70% of the time.

LivingSage:
This is good.

But why baring their brezzz
Celebrating virginity with nudity is not reasonable

It is. In many cultures female nude virgin festivals had nothing to do with sex or promiscuity.
Our fore fathers were not bothered by female nudity.
It is when the white man and arabs came that female nudity became a big deal.
Virgin festivals are part of African cultures

heartofcity12:
Just to jerk off 🤦‍♂️ , tell me why these 304s won’t keep cashing out doing what they’re doing.. 🤷🏼

I dont understand, all that money just to see her dance naked.
Is it simping or what. Or he has not seen a woman's naked body before?
O ga oooo
O ga baje.
The girl no even too fine.

Kelechi Nwakali named man of the match in gd chaves vs Vizella match

According to allnigeriasoccer.com, nwakali was named man of the match.
In fact, he was everywhere.
read below. Those who are saying he has not improved in his new team need to eat their words.
Only God knows the future. Besides how can someone not rate the Portuguese league? Have you heard of Eusobia, diego jotta, luis figo etc.

'Was (almost) everywhere' - Portuguese media laud 2015 Fifa U17 WC Golden Ball winner Nwakali after MotM display
Published: December 02, 2023
'Was (almost) everywhere' - Portuguese media laud 2015 Fifa U17 WC Golden Ball winner Nwakali after MotM display

Super Eagles midfielder Kelechi Nwakali was chosen as the Man of the Match after his outstanding performance during Chaves' 2-1 win over FC Vizela at the Estádio Municipal Eng.º Manuel Branco Teixeira on Friday night.



In what was probably his best performance since arriving at Chaves, the 2015 Fifa U17 World Cup Golden Ball winner showed for the ball at every opportunity and pulled the strings in midfield to inspire his side to their third win of the season in the Liga Portugal.



Samuel Essende put the visitors in front inside twelve minutes but Héctor Hernández restored parity as the game edged towards the half hour mark, before Jô scored what proved to be the game-winning goal two minutes into the second half.



Nwakali registered a game-high three key passes, completed two take-ons, won one foul for his team and was accurate in 86.1 percent of his passes.



Portuguese sports daily A Bola has lauded the former Golden Eaglets and Flying Eagles captain for his performance against FC Vizela,



"In the core emerged the true lungs of the team: Kelechi . The Nigerian was (almost) everywhere and demonstrated that he has the ability to give and sell," the newspaper wrote.



Nwakali was the joint-best rated player at 7, along with Leandro Sanca, Jô Batista and Héctor Hernández.



The former Arsenal starlet has appeared in twelve matches in the top flight this season, registering two assists.





Ifeanyi Emmanuel

allnigeriasoccer.com

cococandy:
No. They should open up to other men. Men should emotionally support each other. Every time you guy gather you’re plotting how to get access to as many vaginas as possible instead of building yourselves up.

You think it’s effeminate to want more out of human interaction other than sexual gratification and ego strokes. If they ask you to go to therapy, you will say it’s not manly. Feminists are not your problem. If anything you need us but you are in your own way.
It’s a pity

The problem with some of us men is we see our interaction with women as ONLY ONLY sexual.
How to get a lady into bed, how to sex a lady every time.
We do not understand that women have their strengths and we can even help women to discover and use their strength.
And as you said, we don't help each other emotionally enough.
See, Queen Esther in the bible used her beauty to save a whole nation from extinction. This is the real power of beauty.
The pick up artistry woman seduction mentality we men have limits our thinking. It even makes us pursue sex to the deterement of
developing our self, potentials and talents. I mean its a problem if a man can impregnate 10 ladies but does not even have 1000 naira in his account and does not care about the children. It will only create a generation of single mothers who have emotional problems and dysfunctional children and homes
A lot of men also have emotional issues they cant tell anyone. They may try and tell the woman in their lives but it may
not be enough.
I THINK MEN AND WOMEN SHOULD MEET SO THEY CAN CROSS FERTILIZE IDEAS TOGETHER AND NOT BE IN A COMPETITION TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF EACH OTHER FOR SEX AND MONEY.

LenaJon:
Please, us there any body here willing to accept a female at their site? Please, where is your site? I'm willing to come work there. I need money to complete my rent. Some sites here don't accept me. Please, I'm willing to come work there if you'll accept me.



Thank you!

Do u stay in ibadan

HellVictorinho6:
will they agree?

When something is a need u have to agree. We need philosophy the way we need air and sunshine.
We will continue to retrogress without it.
Ok another example the western world is selling us sexual liberalism ideology and we are buying into it. Single mothers everywhere.
What is the meaning of sexual liberalism do we want our children to start having sex on the road.
We need answers to all sorts of questions. In religion we need an explanation for our religious experiences.
Ok what is education. For example why study engineering without inventing anything.
Why are we so superstitious.
We are in trouble without philosophy.
What is happiness. Why do people commit suicide.

Nigerians arr badly in need of philosophers. We do not apply logic to anything. We are a society living by our instinct. Our belief system is basically very poor and non existent.
Okay we simply do not understand introverts. Stuff as basic as that

villagereporter:
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This argument is similar to some real life experience whereby a certified mechanic would claim to be far better that an apprentice mechanic and would bring out his notebooks on highway to check for a fault whereas d apprentice would av known what is wrong by mere listening.

One thing I av come to realize is that everybody has their own aura, grace and demons but by bit the the three combination have not allow Nwakali to flourish not because he is not a good player but those three have not had a dimension of agreement

Yeah as a midfielder nwakali is better than aribo. I can say that to anyone anywhere. I stand to be quoted.
I can say it in front of guardiola fergusson or the greatest coach in the world.
Aribo is even better as a forward as in winger or support striker.
Playing aribo in midfield is like playing dirk kuyt or amokachi in midfield. It will be sub optimal.
There is no jupiter born of a woman that can convince me otherwise.
The issue is we have bad coaches without an objective scientific and analytical opinion of our players.
Peseiro rohr do not understand our players and their abilities. Play aribo as a winger or support striker and see a meastro but play him in midfield and see mediocrity.
Our coaches are doing guess work and dint really have a tactical formation or game plan

DieRich5:
u just need to have sex more, I think most people do it cus dem rarely have sex and dem love sex too

Some boys I know will say this: I rather pay for sex than for me to do masturbation nd u will spend a lot on it I think dat mindset can reduce it a little bit

The more u see sexy girls the more u wanna do it nd picture dem, Even tho u have the mind to talk to her most of dem are doing hookup as side hustle

The way the country dy go so just focus on money and live the life u dream of nd secondly sex will never be Ur issue, fam

Its way easy for a guy who's doing okay to fvck many girls without spending on dem than a guy who don't have enough
Put Ur energy on something meaningful nd fvck for fun at the end, if u wanna be a player

But being a player ain't fun tho to me.......DR5 sign out

Stuff is there are levels in which u pay for sex. There are cheap girls who can go for under 10k and so u dont waste too much money. 5k 7k girls dey. At least get bleeped once or twice a month so u dont have scarcity mentality.
The problem with simps and some guys is that they may even overpay for sex like paying 100k 150k or their whole salary for pussy.
If u go night clubbing u will see all those affordable olosho girls.
If u need to pay for sex at least dont bankrupt yourself in the process

BascoVanVeli:
Samu goal!! Their Papa

Samuel chukwueze is like tijani babangida in his style of play. He is not finidi.
Thats just to take note when making comparisons to older generations

Odunayaw:
A coach that has won CAF CLs playing beautiful football and coached Al Ahly is who you belittled like this? Haba

Na wa. Hes quality coach. And with the players we have he will do well

chrisooblog:
If they should try it e go end in mega tears for both parties

If tom saintfelt becomes our coach. He will be like the new Westerhof which iis what we need.
His record in African football is impeccable.
Get ready for a world cup semi final and an afcon trophy.
We have the players.
We just need a good coach

Wizywiz:
@op that one small na....few weeks back a girl of 20+ told me she's had 4 abortions for 3 different guys and currently has 7 guys she sleeps with for money......cold catch me.... imagine how many she has slept with and how many she will add to her numbers before she gets to 23.

And someone will wife this kind of girl. Na wa

Kog45:
Peseiro Dey collect kickbacks Abi no be so…if na local coaches we for don Dey shout Uzoho Dey settle nau.

All I know solution to our goalkeeper is in NPFL and am rooting for Christian Nwoke.

If peseiro was a local coach he will have been sacked by now.
He is worse than Amodu, Eguavon, Keshi etc
Rohr is 10 times better than him. In fact, Rohr's first 3 years were fantastic before he fell off.
Peseiro is not giving us any memorable match, performance, players or anything.
He is the worst coach (local or foreign) we have ever had.
Its really terrible.
We should fire him and manage our local coaches they cant do worse.
55% is better than the 20% that peseiro is.

Kog45:
Even Mahrez free kick can beat any keeper,people just don’t want Akpeyi in goal,reason why they always criticizing him though he too can be annoying

Daniel Akpeyi is
1. Playing regularlly in the South-African league
2. Has the experience at international level.

Im surprised this clown called Jose Peseiro is not calling him.
He should be first on the list

This is the thread for a new pan africanism for the 21st century and beyond
We Africans must define, redefine and understand ourselves in this modern era.
We will cover
Education
Culture
Religion
Science
Philosophy
Sexuality
and any thing else in this new thread

For starters i will remark:
African cultural and ideological system is basically not scientific but largely animalistic
Now, animism is the belief that the world is made up of spirits which can make an
individual superstitious, backward in science and unable to proffer solutions to
simple problem that require human reason
This is one of the reasons why Africa is backward (A cultural reason).


Also, we examine Afrofuturism
and Africas place in a technologically developing world and
Africa's place in Science fiction.
Anyone can contribute in this exciting journey into Africa's future

MetalJigsaw:
Try and comprehend my english bro. I didn't mean Rohr is a good coach.

But he's obviously better than JP

Eguavon is better than peseiro.
In fact his tactical decisions were quite good. He had his mistakes but he was on the right track.
I will analyze him later.
Peseiro is a terrible coach. I will give him 30 percent

Rizzputin:
It seems like every other casual conversation I have with men these days drifts into the subject of female nature.

Specifically how women are wicked and ruin men's lives.

What a lot of these men fail to realize is the roles they play. And one way they do this is by putting themselves in the boyfriend zone.

The bf zone is just as bad as the friend zone (maybe even worse). And like the friend zone, guys are the ones that put themselves there.

Now, you probably already know I'm a big advocate of becoming a hook up material rather than bf or husband material. It's a surefire way that makes a girl WANT to fùck you (and do it fast).

It allows her to bring out her slutty side for you. The side she'd usually hide from her bf.

Someone asked me how to avoid falling into this boyfriend zone trap. So, a lengthy answer to that question lies ahead…

To achieve this, there are DOs and DON'Ts. The things to DO to avoid the bf zone and get seen as a Hook up material will be for another day. Personally I use Lust Oriented Topics (LOT) and Frames to achieve this.

However, you can find a good number of the DON'Ts in this post.

And you should pay close attention because many times in seduction, the difference between having a girl see you as a hook up material she loves to fùck OR a bf guy she can bill or manipulate lies in the DON'Ts you should run far away from.

To set the stage, take a good, hard look at these comments:

"I picked her up… someone who hasn't seen 100k in her life. I bought her a car of 4mn. She said it's too small and went for 12mn… yet she left me after her business started doing well"

"When women start making money they misbehave" "I'm scared of women they're such evil and wicked creatures

Each comment you just read captures the sad essence of what it means to be locked up in bf land.

If I asked you to name a common theme amongst them you'd probably say the men invested heavily. And you'd be right. But there's something deeper.

You can find what in this comment: "women are such evil and wicked creatures "

You see, men have egos the size of a football field. Making it easy for us to shift all or most of the blame on someone else. Especially women.

To these men, they're blind to the roles they played in their predicament.

Tattoo this in your brain: A Woman's behavior and actions is the reflection of the man

Write it down on the walls of your room if you have to.

Because if you present yourself as a bf, a bf you will always be. Women adjust their behavior to the man or men they're around.

Weak men in society? Trashy women are created. Weak guy? Cheating gf. Bf zone guy? Billings and manipulation. Hook up material guy? Endless amount of free, passionate knacks.

Before we unpack all the bf DON'Ts you should run away from like Tinubu…

Let's zoom in on why the bf zone is such a bad idea:

---Why the bf zone guy finishes last

● Can you guess at which stage a woman is most manipulative? If you said "in a relationship" you're right

When a girl starts calling you her bf or husband BEFORE she gets sexually intimate with you, she's giving a signal.

That currently, she sees you as someone she can manipulate. So she's in a hurry to lock you down and bill you.

It's like that guy that's wondering why working class girls act independent before dating but suddenly start billing him in a relationship. He is a typical bf zone guy


● Another big reason why the bf zone is a no go area is her slutty side.

You see, girls are not stupid. When you present yourself as bf material she knows she has to live up to the expectation of a gf.

And we all know how much we want our gfs to be presentable and good. Therefore, she'll act (read: pretend) accordingly.

In your mind she's soo happy to make you her bf. But for reasons far different from yours.

You've found a girl you can take to mum. She's found a naive man she can bill and take her mum out of Sapa.

Being a hook up material stops this from happening to you. Because to her you can solve one of her problems: her urge to get fùcked.

● It gives a false sense of hope.

You might think girls don't like the guys they put in the bf zone. They do. Infact, a lot of them are charming and charismatic.

Very few women will pick a total loser to be her bf or husband.

That's why the moment before she makes you her bf is filled with her stroking your ego.

Telling you how much you'd make a good bf. Listing your attractive qualities and making you feel in top the world

Soon, you start falling for her. Believing her manipulation. To her, it's all a game. And she's setting you up as her escape from Sapa plan.

Now, let's dive into those DON'Ts you're probably eagerly waiting to know...

Ready?

---DON'Ts you should avoid from falling into the bf zone

● Taking her on Dinner Dates

Nothing screams "make me your bf pleaseeeee" like carrying a girl on dinner dates.

Sure, it's slightly possible to do it and still be seen as a Hook up material. But it's an uphill battle.

And I have no intentions to make things harder for you or myself. Especially if you met her online.

Dinner dates are just too much: Too much pressure, too much effort, too much investment.

I mean, you just met her and you're suited up to go on a date at a fancy restaurant. And you're surprised she didn't want to Bleep you after spending 30k? Lol

Recently I watched a tiktok where a girl described a rich, handsome guy she met online. They kicked things off fast and 2 nights later they were out for dinner

The guy was dripping. In her words, he looked like he had money. She had already planned on the trips they'd go to in her mind.

Yet when the guy invited her back to his place… her answer? No. Not gonna happen.

If inviting a girl to dinner is bad, inviting a girl to dinner you met online (think Facebook, tinder and whatsapp) is terrible.

Believe it or not, majority of girls active online on those 3 apps are looking to explore their fantasies. They want to experience those fast hookups they read in novels

But only with the right man. That is, the hook up material man. Going out for dinner just puts you several seats back. Almost back to the starting line. Bad move.

Rather than dinners, do a chill bar, lounge or a cinema. Or when possible, straight to your house


● Next up, is trying to impress or impressing her

Some guys are starting to realize why impressing men is a bad idea

Many others are stuck in their old ways of using money, cars etc to get a girl. However, the majority are often surprised why impressing women is such a terrible idea

After all, they hear phrases like these from women: "Money makes me happy" "Money is my love language" "If you don't have money, don't come near me"

The logical brain of a man goes "hmmm she said she wants money so let me impress her"

Only to find out the more he impresses or tries to, the further the coochie goes away

Let me tell you a story, over the weekend I was cock in deep in someone's soon-to-be fiancé when he sent her 25k for the week.

If someone gives me that money in this Tinubu era, I will bless him. But her? She was too concerned about the dìck neatly lodged in her mouth.

After we were done, we went downstairs to spend part of the money. Later on she told me that's how the guy does from the day they met. Always trying to impress her with money or his achievements.

Of course she said she likes the guy. But she doesn't really lust for him(he lacks hook up material vibe)

The biggest problem with impressing women is because they know they are not special. So when you take your hard earned resources (money, time and attention) and spend it on her when you barely know her, her respect for you disappears.

In her mind, how can I trust his leadership when it's easy for him to give up his resources for me.

That's why you hear girls say stuff like: "We just met and you're doing all that" OR "We just met and you're telling me that"

Does it boost her ego? Yes Does it make her feel validated and happy? Yes. But does it make her coochie wet for you? Absolutely NOT.


● Question/Statement Matrix


There are a host of questions and statements that place you neatly into the bf zone.

I'll go over three of them.

The first one: "Tell me about yourself"
No statement makes a girl roll her eyes than this.

If you asked your female friends what's one thing they hate guys saying, 80% of them will pick it

Why? Because they don't even know themselves. And it highlights a lack of experience in a man.


"Where do you see yourself in a serious relationship in the future?"

Imagine you're out with a girl on a date. Then she pops that question.

Whether you like it or not, the thought of her wanting to be in a relationship with you will cross your mind.

That's exactly how she feels when a guy asks that. And to her, it's too early for such pressure.

So what she does is to start evaluating you for bf material when she should be looking at you as someone to hook up with.

Then, the journey to knacking her becomes longer than trekking from Lagos to kano.

"I'd never do that to you…I would support you. Let me help you get that"

You know that moment when a girl starts telling you how badly her exes or besties have treated her?

Then a guy jumps in telling her he'd never do that. Or he'd be different and treat her right.

Or he'd support her no matter what if he was the one. Lol. Doing that puts you in a long list of guys auditioning to be her bf

Sure, she sees you as safe. Like such a sweet guy. She tells you how much your "empathy" makes you a good bf. You're smiling… "I don catch her"

No, she has caught you.

2 months later when your bills and investments have crossed the 200k threshold and she's still cheating, you're wondering where it all went wrong.

Well, it started from those comments.


● Being too available.

Calling her Steady. Texting her a lot. Going on multiple dates with her BEFORE you're sexually intimate with her is a fantastic way to bf zone yourself.

Avoid being too available at her request before knacking her. It's a bad spot to be in.


● Avoid being her therapist

Girls are emotional creatures. And there's a host of things that could potentially trigger sadness in her.

When that happens, she's going to look for a naive man to offload it on.

You do NOT want to be that man. Girls want to have fun because it's easier for it lead to knacks.

Sitting there acting like her therapist to her never-ending problems just delays your progress with her

There was a guy here I advised who was toasting a girl in a relationship.

At first, she was feeling him because he was displaying hook up material qualities. Then he switched to bf zone guy activities and things started to fall off.

I had to bring him back. Make him understand that what she wants is to have fun and Bleep. Not for you to act like a therapist sponge and soak up her negative energy

She wants to forget her problems with you. That's why it's important you avoid dwelling to long on her problems

One or two lines to empathize with her and you change the subject.


So that's it. A bunch of DON'Ts you don't want to get close to.

I'll write about the DOs later.

But coming next is a detailed break down of why women lie and how you can drastically reduce or outright prevent them from lieing to you. So keep an eye out for that

The first one: "Tell me about yourself"
No statement makes a girl roll her eyes than this.

If you asked your female friends what's one thing they hate guys saying, 80% of them will pick it

Why? Because they don't even know themselves. And it highlights a lack of experience in a man


Basically you said girls dont even know themselves. Which means there
is something seriously wrong with the female gender. How can a
person not know who he or she really is.
It means she takes on the identity and preferences of the person who
last bleeped her. Women have a sick mind.
Someone on this forum said we men loose who we are because of our penis
I cannot loose who i am because of a person who does not even know herself.
This female gender is sick and stupid.
Forget about this sex, they are not worth chasing.
What is sex anyway? Something they enjoy more than us.
You are just making it obvious the female gender is not to be taken seriously and seen as sex objects
HOW CAN SOMEONE NOT KNOW WHO SHE IS. IS THAT NOT CONFUSION AND MADNESS?
Women seem interested in childish things. So telling her she has sexy lips and you want to kiss it
is better than sounding intelligent.
Women are nonsense if this is how to get them.

Guys not every greenlight is greenlight, is she creating rules for you, does she want you to enter her frame, don't be fooled by any woman especially guys that are in the prime age of marriage, women around that age are more desperate and would join religious bodies to ensure you never see them sexually as you and her follow the celibacy route to marriage, she's creating rules for you because you are beta, she gave her virginity and youthful years to a nobody but wants you to endure sexlessness as proof that you love her, it around this time that her spiritual antenna becomes sensitive, it's this period she doesn't want to pollute herself with the world, it's this time she wants you to be serious, hardworking and god-fearing. Don't question her or her past because doing so means you are questioning her devotion to God.

One issue is that most ladies loose their virginity to irresponsible and ras men. Things like okada man carpenter bus conductor some drug addict somewhere etc.
Then they want to marry a decent man and even form entitled or expensive