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sweetcocoa:
I'm a woman but can we leave sentiments aside for a minute and try to be realistic?

Having read both sides of the story and now kinda confused because everything is still not clear, I must say that, the OP must be very very verbally abusive, she doesn't sound like someone who respects people at all.

Yea, she's hurt and all but is this how to vent? Why all the names calling? I don't remember the OP calling her names in his thread, he wrote that she deserved the slap(which is wrong) because she wouldn't stop with the insults and she's here proving him right.

I'm not supporting the dude o but this babe no try at all.

Thanks for your objectivity

I find it amusing that gender is excused by females as being tenable for rudeness or being uncouth


I can slap you
I can cuss you

You can't but take it from us

Because we are women...

Bullshît

MizMyColi:
Sadly you're correct.

But I'm kynda hopeful......

Nothing wrong with hope

mcdokwe


So what is your plan now

kaboninc:
[size=18pt]THANK YOU!!!![/size]

So I look forward to that of babyosisi and cococandys'.

LOL

You don't need to look forward too much

There are those who have the news of babyosisi

Pity those threads get deleted promptly...

Too late

The die has been cast

Insults have been said
Blows have been thrown
The guy is not as buoyant anymore
The lady is not respectful

We are witnessing the last sparks of the flame that was.

MizMyColi:
That said...@OP and Macdoks...please....if you can, avoid these kind of scenarios (Thread opening I mean).
And if you can't then bring it on. Some of us, like me, are willing to offer unsolicited help if we can.
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kaboninc:
They say you are actually the first to smell your shit.

So you can say your own shit does not smell.

All shiit smells.. dude

Some are just oblivious or pretend to have perfect lives

kaboninc:
I pray they don't.

Some people's shiit does not smell

kaboninc:
The BASHING PARTY has just arrived!

Not surprised though.

I look forward to the day babyosisi will come to Nairaland for advises. Don't call me Fayose yet.....

And that lady, cococandy....

I look forward to that day.

They will use another moniker

coogar:
[size=18pt] when a woman tells me yes - she has given me the rights to lead her. it's as simple as that.[/size] i have zero tolerance for bad friends.

Simple

https://www.gq.com/blogs/the-feed/2014/03/03/05-BILL-MURRAY-CLAPPING.gif

Ok...

Now shes sharp...

Vickybee:
Lol, I don't really care - i'm just jubilating with the woman. That's a badass girl.

Sharp girls rock!

cc: pickabeau1

You are not being clear with your points

Which right are you referring to...

Are u saying it is right for a woman to have a right on non existent assets

So if I divorce my wife today and she becomes a billionaire in ten years time I have a right to that money

Read before you answer

Cc: vickybee

Which right are you referring to

They had divorced long ago

How is she entitled to a portion of assets that were non existent at the time of the divorce or do u have more information aside the original post




Cc: vickybee

how is it cool...

Ujsizzle


Funny episode so far

Kai having conscience for what he did to bonnie
Caro having no conscience at all

So unlike her

okotv:
Ferrari all the way

It was a rhetorical question dude

The team winning the year is known n vettel is not in that team

okotv:
I expect Sebastian vettel to win this season.


#teamferrari

Does he race with a Mercedes

So the season never ended..Lol

Lewis is the new Seb

Driving into the sunset

Jencejyde:
After being in an out of form so some time, Ramsey for me has to be the player that really turned it up today. Shame we are at the end of it but hopefully if he can stay fit and consistent along with the other performers like santi, coq, kos. then its a real chance we have to end the season on a high.

The bolded was said at this same time last season and the season before that and that and that....

When will this circus stop
Every year Na a the same thing...suffering and smiling at the Emirates

Please who has that arsenal chart

UjSizzle:
Guys, when Stefan turned into the ripper the first time, who brought him back? Elena or Damon?

We know Stefan is Caroline's emotional switch which is why she wanted him to turnoff his humanity too. But if he's asking Elena to bring him back, then it mean he's still got feelings for her, right?

Pickabea have you seen this episode?

Tx.for the hailing

Not yet
Will do soon n buzz u

Arsenal fans be like Hype Williams


Le Coq
Abou Riski
Walcott

Una like to dey hype

akinsadeez:
Yes, I remember the time you guys were seriously under fire and I disagree with those people. I don't think you guys should consult us everytime you are to take decisions. putting tehn in charge implies that we have trust in your ability to take effective decisions. You should update us regularly though on the decisions you have taken and the current state of affairs.



That's d point. No matter which option you take there will still be disgruntled people. If you use the money for another project some people will say they donated specifically for Djdola's case. If you use the balance to set up d mom, some will still say they didn't donate their money for d family. Asking for our preference will not change that. It is inevitable.




I don't have a preference. I trust you guys to sit down, consider the issue from all angles and pick the best option. Whichever option you guys go for will not stop me from donating if another case comes up and I am willing and able to donate. You guys are doing a great job btw.

Thanks for your confidence
Trusting tehn was the norm before but this case experienced a level of second guessing, rancor and bickering I had not seen personally even to the extent cab fare for transportation was queried

We had to forego the stipends for case workers in this case because of this same animosity.

We had discussions on what to do but being conscious of the issues means the approach was to table before the people lest another series of controversies start.

Bear with us and thanks for your trust

Akinsadeez

Yet you r aware that when some people attack tehn when decisions are made seemingly without any consideration from the people
I used seeming because all decisions are well thought out yet our integrity as called into question by some here

If an option had been provided to the house to roll over some or all of the balance for another project, some people will accuse tehn of diverting money

We considered carefully the ramifications of each option before tabling to the house.

If your preferences is for tehn to roll over the funds to another case..state it

Seun the administrator has stated his.

Gboliwe

It was not the brother

esere826:
@r231

Only those who donated money through your organisation should be the ones to make decisions on the money
and the weight of individual donation should be the weight of their authority in this matter

this might sound harsh, but
the donors provided money for Djola and not to religion, clerics or any relative whether poor or rich
they also trusted that TeHn would use the money sensibly for Djola

so it falls back to the donors to decide,
and for TeHn to step in and exert closure if the donors are not able to decide

Thanks for your suggestion and confidence in tehn
This was considered

TeHN decided to bring up this issue to Nairalanders to decide upon so that accusations of inpropriety, diversion and fraud will not surface again.

strange

The kpomo is now more important than the beef

what a soup

so who is the main chic and the side chic

Kellygold:
My question here 'Is this proper in Naija'? What do you advice, the person affected is following this conversation.

Don't make it about a naija thing

Its even expected you take care of your elderly ones

let the girl work and send some money to her parents or save some of her own loot for them

veave:
I'm sure there are other existing family members. They can rotate abeg. If you must get married, then provisions should be made for such instances. If mama is sick and needs special attention, I can understand. But packing your things and comfortable living with a newly married couple is what I do not understand.
Let the girls mother come and join them. Let her even stay the whole year

Without knowing the specificities of this case, all you can do is make assumptions

veave:
Honestly, i don't know why a man would want to subject his wife to such kind of mental stress. If his mother and sister do not have a place to stay, he should rent an apartment for them abeg. Somebody will marry and cannot enjoy her husband. Na wa oh!

Have you considered he may not be able to afford alternative accommodation

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after praying , advising and fasting season is over

babyosisi is back to her bigoted twisted ways