₦airaland Forum

FrancisTony:
There's no relation between Feminism and Christianity. Just pointing out hypocrisy!

1 Corinthians 7:2

Neverthless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband.

HayWhyLawal:
Family responsibility to help out at home and I have no means to go about than to come and beg.

Jostico:
guy dont you want change? Everybody in nigeria says change and you're saying no to it.oga oo

FrancisTony:
I'm not best of a Christian, sef. I'm a deist/agnostic.

I just love exposing hypocrisy of Christian men. They filter the one that suits them.

Polygamy suits them but bible is against it and they won't hestitate to say Feminism is evil.

They are bunch of hypocrites.

Maybe if you state what your needs are actually, someone might be prompted to help.

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Feraz:
Try watching Tokyo ghoul... I heard it's very interesting... No idea though... Wanna start... As for the best fight, there are so many... You have
Madara and Hashirama super fight
Madara vs Naruto and Sasuke lame
Pain and Jiraiya super fight
Itachi and Sasuke dojutsu extraordinaire
Kakashi and Obito lame fight in the manga.. super taijutsu in the anime
Naruto and Pain epic
Kisame and Guy mehh.. just there
Hidan and Kakuzu vs Team 8 and Kakashi. intellectual

Naruto vs Sasuke as kids.. the older version was lame
Madara vs 5th Division
Kimimaro vs Gaara/RockLee - taijutsu special




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lolaxavier:
Oga, no space booking, share your opinion...

I don't want my seed to develop in black African feminist womb and grow in a womb full of ghosts of aborted kids

okotv:
You seem not to get the point.

What causes bad marriages

okotv:
yes.

okotv:
5 in every 50. Personal observation.


Anyone can say anything about marriages but does that count in the real world

My take on marriage is simple: to each his own. Don't teach anyone how to run a home but encouraged fairness. No one wants to suffer in marriage and we know that more women suffer in marriages than guys, they are just acting emotional and speaking up.

bukatyne:
See you, I did not start the 1 in 1000; Shymex said 1 in 1000 husbands are selfish as regards their wives career growth and I said it is more

My views on marriage as always been seen as unorthodox So I really do not engage people offline.

I rather listen.

okotv:
Marriage of women suffering, men smiling. I can't stand one person doing all the work why I sit and idle away. Its a union and not an boss and employee stuff. I was raised up to do things myself and won't give that up cause of marriage. If a man cannot help his wife in doing chores, he shouldn't bother marrying.


fact: Tradition hinders transformation.

okotv:
the kind of marriages portrayed on Nairaland is false and unreal. God knows that no wife of mine would go through this.

bukatyne:
All women have it Good, all Nigerian men are saints.

Happy?

bukatyne:
Who said Nigerian men are leeches or are you referring to another thread?

We are saying women are over-worked: 2 different things.

Nigerian marriages and Nigerian god, my opinion will not change.

This OP is a part of Nigerian marriage.

Not all marriages are like that and in Some, the man is the woman in the OP.

Ashamed to be associated with my roots ke? I loff. Iron and buba die

I nor get 'English' name... sweet Yoruba ones. I am using a hymn with English and Yoruba translation, will go for the Yoruba.

OK, don't like Yoruba nollywood and soups much

bukatyne:
And bashing women is not a pasttime?

Don't make me laugh

Who said all Nigerian marriages are a wreck? Who said all Nigerian men are evil or whatever?

This is one thing that gets to me...

If you have a problem with mine post, quote me and let us discuss.

If out want to address male bashers, quote them and take up your issues with them.

TreQuartista:
Flawed analogy. . .

Where is it established that eating '3 square meals' is a 'Nigerian thing'? Remember we are talking about 'traditional (or to use the loosely bandied about term - typical )Nigerian setting/family' here.

Perhaps you should define '3 square meals' and relate it to Naija?

bukatyne:
Can you pull out where I bashed Nigerian men? I like references.
My marriage is 95% (have a challenge We are going through)
I hear stories and read
And no my dad is not perfect.
Besides nobody is asking for perfection.

bukatyne:
With your logic, all Nigerians eat 3 square meals because I can afford to or all Nigerians can afford a G-Wagon because all of Folorunsho Alakija 's family can afford it.

And yes, a lot of ladies have such marriages where they are expected to be Shakira, Dora Akunyili and super star in cleaning all at nice while the man only part provides.

Timbuktou:
Bros, my slap no be here o. I reckon one slap will last these broads a couple of months

Timbuktou:
So, I've been told. Don't have a willing partner to practise with though. I might just rent some of the mgbekes on here.

Shollypopzz:
I do not take part in "male bashing". I take part in society bashing; and that consists of males, females and any other gender.

I concentrate my feminist energy on females, not males.

Timbuktou:
A la 50 Shades .

Shollypopzz:
The whole gender inequality is not only an African thing is a redundant point because feminism was created by the western world.

If they were all championing equality, I doubt there will be a need for a feminist movement.

This is a Nigerian forum, it only makes sense that most topics will be tailored to Nigeria and Africa. The people telling stories here or commenting on stories, are Nigerian sharing their Nigerian experience.

Let's not act like Nigeria is on the same level as the US when it comes to gender inequality issues.

Timbuktou:
Nna, eh. NL is blessed with the cream of the crop of society. No reported cases of divorces or domestic abuse of well-known users. We're from rock solid lineage and all have impeccable families. . However, I'm sure some of these receive hard reset from time to time from their loving husbands just to keep things in perspective and flame of love burning brighter.

duduade:
So una understand all wetin d OP write?

Dragonking:
The guy is a lucky sharp guy. And you too girl are a beautiful babe. Nigerian guys don wise up o, no one needs a deranged Nigerian lady that will send him to an early grave. If you got any sisters halla me ok.

BABE3:
I agree with damiso too and slimyem.

The "problem" is very universal.

Hollywood and Disney paint the white man as the "ideal modern man", and we believe it. The true picture of a typical western family is very different. the white man complains of his wife getting fat after babies. He also uses that as an excuse to cheat.
the white woman too complains of being overwhelmed even with the availability of dishwashers, vaccum cleaners etc.

a typical white male (young or old) still expects females to cook for him while he plays fifa '15.

Like slimyem said, the gender equality thing is going in the wrong direction.

The men are still stuck in their old ways/roles. They dont feel the need to change since its women that want equality anyways. But for gender equality to work in any setting, both parties have to actively change their ways.


I don't see that happening anytime soon.

I don't see that happening anytime soon. cheesy
We can force men to pay child support and outrageous divorce settlements. But can we force them to do dishes and help in the kitchen?