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That's some sacrifice there....

Welldone

Though with telecommuting and flexible work policies.. Such can be worked out

EnlightenedSoul: Well, as a preface, I don't raise a stink about daycare provided the child's guardian is wise, responsible, and tediously careful in their choosing. Much like assisted living facilities, child care services are very much a necessity in our society - I've worked directly with the two demographics, and I say this matter-of-factly.

That being said, I was raised by two working parents who absolutely despised the very thought of daycare, and a mother whose greatest horror tales involved babysitters. Yes, babysitters. I could tell you that I, as a child, had a more-than-healthy fear of strangers, and highly suspected everyone I didn't know of either being a demonic babysitter or ruthless kidnapper of sorts But I digress...

The framework simply involves the two working parents planning for the baby, and coordinating working shifts in such a way as to allow one or both parents to be there for the child at all times.

The female rights defenders are missing the key issue
he is jobless.. she is job full

Finish...

It is better to live alone on the roof than with a bad wife

SAMBARRY: I said go

Barka de Sallah

SAMBARRY: who is stalking who? Who's been ranting all over the place when I just turn small table, I never even turn am finish you dey cry fowl. Just go with your wahala

Na ram u go cry as per say Na Allah
For both of us who dey rant now

Yes and no


Yes as it is seen as too much trouble and people are cohabiting

No as people know Its a standard

Even gays wanted their relationship to be known as marriage as against civil partnership

Lol

SAMBARRY: so you still dey loiter around me. You no dey hear word ni?


So sambarry is so irresistible that you find it difficult to obey simple instruction to scram

Why dont u stop quoting..
U r calling n stalking me me yet trying to turn d table...

Dont quote me after this....

SAMBARRY: abeg scram.is it by force to quote.BACK OFF!

....
You must be feeling funky tonight

SAMBARRY: o puleeaaaasssseee shut the fk up

Continue showing your class ...

Godmystrength: Mr Pick, what kinda person are you

What kinda question is this. ..

lawrenceunaa: na her manager bank Account

Lol..dem dey get agent now..

PenSniper: Ah ha, didn't you see SAMBARRY's showroom up there ? Ofcourse, market is booming. Anyway, nobi my question, make the owner answer.

The market is booming

Yes ooo

Shirley07: By accepting Christ and forsaking his/er sin. ''Be ye therefore perfect even as your father in heaven is perfect''- Matt 5:48
Potraying a sinless life is exactly what makes one a christian and that's where the holy spirit comes in to lead and teach.
Christ himself said 'Except a man is born of water and the spirit, he can not enter the kingdom of God'- John 3:5.
Don't ask me if I have the holy spirit..

Very true
However to grow from a babe to an adult you need meat.

Living as being led.

What's the issue here again..

You said it's a nature as against a belief

TV01: Morning,

You want me to scientifically disprove something that has not been scientifically established?

That's beyond even my renowned prowess !that have


TV

This is funny

However these people have scientists that have given them theories and postulations to justify opening and keeping that door

The issue now others want to come in through that door

Nongender
Transgendered
Queers
Etc

Trypant: Story for the gods! When I was married, I never cheated and never planned to do that despite he's cheating and not sleeping @ home. But now dat am single again without a child, its married men dat care soo much and show u with money than single men! And most of them are really good in bed!

Another honest female.


The rest are coding online...

SAMBARRY: Abeg dress Jare

U sef dress...

carefreewannabe: I see.


And you think that the single folks are as culpable as the married ones right?

Assigning percentage is not the issue.
One may be more guilty than other...

Depends on the specifics....

gangwolf: I hate fillers. But i really enjoyed those two mecha Naruto fillers.

I did also...

Like a pain naruto

carefreewannabe: They are PRIMARILY at fault.


And so, what is your point? I still don't get it.

Both parties are culpable

carefreewannabe: They think that it is the married person's responsibility, be it a MAN or a WOMAN, to protect their marriage. Married people promised to be faithful, not single people. Very simple.

What IS your point?

So in your opinion the married person is solely at fault?

Mintayo: Agreed that the married approach the single BUT why can't the single just say NO!

Yes...not in all cases
We have testimonies of married men being chased now
Remember the prophecy says 7 women will chase one man..

Tallesty1: I will like to see her answer to this question.

U fit catch breeze?

chlowi: Are you seriously saying all the. Men in the age brackets you mentioned are all married? Lol, ,, unbelievable!!! Any married person who seeks a single is to blame not the single...

OK..noted

carefreewannabe: They can but they don't want to.

So what's your problem?

Beautiful
Another honest lady

So what's the topic about

Why r d females blaming married folks solely for something that both parties are guilty of

bukatyne: I knew it

That your problem was with the women and not cheating singles

Married man chase single lady: lady should say no
Married woman chase single guy: How can an old expired lady toast a single guy

It is the ladies innit?

Not a bad thing.

I am sure you conducted a survey to know that married women's stuff expires.

It is all good.

Let married people keep waiting on singles to help them keep vows they made voluntarily.

Yes a married woman propositioning a young man for sex is out of the ordinary


However as you noticed but failed to comment on ..the man said NO...he lost d opportunity


Why can't girls say NO

Try n read other's posts n digest it before u jumpeefending women incessantly

tonychristopher: This is not the end of her life . I missed a good opportunity in an oil servicing firm cos a married woman with a wrinkled Toto wants to taste my kini ..naturally I am a sweet dude but in my place or where I come from in Igbo land we abhor it.. I took off

That Lady is smart anyway but in a stupid way..she should have married that man

But she did the wise thing

Wish her luck

How do these women proposition men..what boldness and self belief to believed they are still relevant in d market.


Don't they know men want tight punny..not old kid expanded ones..

ukandi1: I am a married man... Now, do u know how many women still chase after me even with d ring in my finger?

Hear this : i onced asked one of them why she will want to get intimate with me.

Her response: my dear, i know u are married. D difference is that u will not marry me . But i am tired of heartbreaks and one man dating about 4 to 5 of us at d same time and thinking its a game. D pain is so much when u realise u cannot get to keep dis single guy to urself alone. As for u, cos of ur respect for ur wife and what society expects from u, u cannot be loose even if u wanted to..
I was genuinely troubled, how many single women are being preyed upon my single men of my generation? Why are men indeed foolish? Why do we treat women like sex objects only?

If not for my religion that forbids it, i will gladly be among d married men that date single women since d single guys have relegated d worth of womanhood to sex objects and dice in a Ludo game

This is the answer our females posters done want to hear.

This is interesting....

Did u discuss further with the lady

Is she aware u can't give her full attention also

Is she aware that u may also have babes all around town

Not you...but I mean d married man

EnlightenedSoul: Potty-trained and speaking intelligibly within a year, are you kidding?
No, I wont be taking any "breaks", but especially considering the importance of early childhood development and etc, I fully expect to be there. It's all about having a system, planning.

Yes I wondered too if a year wasn't too unrealistic

So can you help with the framework of this system..not specifics

Since you don't want to use daycare and I see u as a career type lady
It may help someone

bukatyne: pickabeau will tell you it is because the single guy was wayward

What is the guy's own? Did he stand at the altar with the husband on their weddng day?

No need to paraphrase my words...
It seems comprehension of my post is the issue

Both parties are culpable...you get?

tatiana009: What about in a case where a girl supports polygamy and thinks it's okay for the man to marry a 2nd wife and so she won't think she's doing anything wrong? How do most 2nd wives come about if not through adultery since they most likely were already dating. So what I mean is that to some people a married man is still allowed to date in order to pick the new wives. That is why it's still up to the man to know the kind of family that he wants and act accordingly

Why will she embark on a exercise of deception and roundabout polygamy.

If the man wants to Marry her..that's A different kettle of fish
I never said the man was innocent...yes he is partly culpable..that's all


The majority of women we are talking about know the man is married, they even have as boy toy and yet they are praying for husband....

Puhleezze....

bukatyne: The single ladies culpable of what?
Did they make a vow of faithfulness to the married party?
If there is no crack in the wall, no lizard can enter. If a married person doesnot make mockery of his/her marriage, no single person can.
Leave the singles, they are not the problem

Noted...single women who sleep with married meen will be declared blameless on Judgement Day since the married man committed d sin n not them...

Hallelujah

RICHIEKIN: bad market lol

Very bad market

Some women who have dated or are still in a relationship with a married man assuaging their conscience that its the married man who is guilty..

Hahaha....as if God will only punish one person

Clowns

bukatyne: What is not clear?

The OP was clearly referring to single men and women yet by magic, you pick only single ladies

A man sleeps with a single lady and the lady is to blame

I am curious to know who will be wrong when a guy sleeps with a married woman

If what has been said is not clear to you thus far
Let me reiterate

No party is solely to be blamed

The men are guilty
The women that open their legs are also culpable

Is that clear.....

SAMBARRY: I taya o.giving filthy excuses and here I was thinking pickabeau is a decent gentleman, I didn't know he's just all the same with them. They just all the same. Yuck!

And I also thought u were a lady

Solely blaming one party in an event that involves two people..

Not very logical...
Yuck

tatiana009: In the context of marriage yes if my husband chests on me he gets all the blame. He's the who owes me respect and loyalty and not some random girl out there who dosent even know me. The single women out their have different levels of morals and upbringing, for some that grew up in polygamous homes they don't even feel bad about dating a married man because they feel that a man is allowed to marry multiple wives so maybe he'll marry them afterwards. The point is there will always be men and women of questionable characters out there who will be eager to engage in adulterous affairs and that is why it's up to the married party to uphold his vows.

In the law ignorance is no excuse
No party is solely guilty nor blameless

cococandy: Then let him stay faithful to the person who made him attractive. Did they point a gun to his head and force him to woo a woman outside?

The sanity of marriage depends on single girls?why don't the man bring all the girls in the world to his wedding so that they'll vow not to open their legs for him so that he'll be faithful to his wife?
Since his faithfulness doesn't depend on him but on the outside girls.



'Ridiculosity'

I gues you just argue for arguments sake

Just like you argue for the sake of arguments
A man cheats with a woman and in your book..the man is solely guilty..?

Absolute bollocks!

bukatyne: Only women sleep with married men

This is not clear...clarify...

cherryice: you are kidding me, right

Who knows...

vanbonattel: I ask again, why are you telling a lady to tighten her laps, do you know where she breathes from?

Hmmm.......u may have a point

Some of them breathe through there...

No wonder it has to be open all d time all d way...