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TV01: it was not science it was ideological lobbying.
Cases abound of 1. people who have renounced the lifestyle and 2. people who have willfully chosen it.


TV

Well...I'm not going to argue that
The prevailing ethos now is what it is
They also have a strong lobby group

It is better to br seen as a woman hater than being homophobic

Lol

It's also a means of showing sophistication n liberal attitudes

cococandy: Who told you he looked middle aged?
Assumptions.
Was I mid twenties when it happened?
More assumptions
How do you know he was in his late 30s early 40s?.

Whether you believe it or not,some people hide their marital status so well when going out to hunt new babes. Some of the girls only find out when the deed is done.

Anyway believe what you will.
Bottom line is whether the outside person knows or doesn't know,the responsibility to protect the marriage belongs to the married person. Not the outsider.

Believe what u will also

Girls should stop opening their punny to every tom dik harry...maybe there will be sanity

That cleaned up dude I r eyeing..someone made him attractive that u could see.

cococandy: Story time...
When I was in school there was this man I met at friend's wedding. Mr B.
He started asking me out seriously and trying his best to drive down from ph to owerri to come and pay me surprise visits at school.
Many of my hostel mates then knew him because he would come without informing me and if I wasn't around,he would wait outside the gate until I come back. Sometimes he would go if I came back late and then my friends would tell me ''that man been come again o. Ha''
One day he opened up and told me his pastor saw my picture on his phone and told him I was the one God revealed to him as his (Mr B's) wife.
Kept putting pressure on me to give him my parents' contact so that he'll make his 'noble' intentions known to them.
All that 'apparent' seriousness was to make me feel his a good guy with good intentions and make relax around him enough to open my legs.
As an asideI've even heard of guys going as far as introductory marriage rights to get into the pants of a very strict principled lady and disappear once their mission is accomplished. So don't think every single girl dating a married man knows he's married)
Continues..
Until one evening I received a message 'leave my husband alone. Go and find your own. Husband snatcher # **unprintable names**'
I was surprised no be small. So I called the number and confirmed truly that that was his wife. Mr B would travel all the way from ph to owerri to woo me and form Mr romantic while denying his wife at home.
The sad thing was that after trying to convince madam B that I didn't have anything to do with her husband like she thought and didn't even know he was married,she still saw me as the enemy while ignoring the fact that the onus of protecting their marriage rested on both of them and not me the single girl outside.
Well I tried to make her see that I was on her side but she was blinded by stupidity.
Kept saying she knew how her husband uses ladies and dumps them that it would soon be by turn to be dumped and her loving husband would soon go back to her.
That I should not think I've won as I'll be dumped like a piece of rag and he'll be with her the madam(main chick )
................................................................
That's the mindset some women have when their husbands cheat on them. It's always the fault of the girl outside. She seduced him. She charmed him. She did this or did that. Forgetting that the man made the first move of betraying his marriage by looking outside to start with. A man who's determined to cheat will cheat. Even if all the single girls outide reject his advances he'll do it with a married woman. The cheater is the only constant in that equation. He's the one that needs to be changed if a different result is desired.
I'm not saying this because I think women don't cheat. I'm saying it because it is women who are more unrealistic when cheated on.
That's what I like about men sha. Cheat on him and he sees the problem which is you.
But cheat on some women and they'll leave their problem(the man) and face the girl outside.

Story for the Marines

You saw a well dressed man looking responsible middle aged and assumed he was single

Your naïveté is astounding
For you a woman in her mid to late 20s to be believing a man in his late 30s or early 40s not married or at best a divorcee or widower is comical

At best you are an exception ...

Girls know.... Why do girls want some other woman's 'useless' husband

Why coco why?

TV01: Can you please point us in the direction of this "conclusive" scientific evidence.

Cheers

TV

TV!

This science has prevailed on governments to grant them these rights..

Its a moving train

Lol

freecocoa: Who makes the first move?(not encouraging anybody btw), most times the girls don't even know the men are married.

Some of these single girls just want money from these men so it means nothing to them, the man who swore to stick to his wife is the cheat here, therefore the men should be the ones answering questions.

Most times d girls don't know what?
Story for d gods....


Believe that and believe anything

so the revolution is to make himself hated

itachi realised late the importance of comrades

same uchiha brother.. different name

freecocoa: Duh! Why would a man who took a vow go after a single woman? What's wrong with his wife?

Duh... Tell me something new.....so they solicit the woman for sex and companionship and suddenly their sense takes flight....
what is so exciting about another womans property..
Women just want to take something of another man's

SAMBARRY: why don't you answer ya question yasef because I know you have an answer to that.oya o.the dance floor is open
I'm still waiting for the answer o

We have heard enough of NL women's indignation on men
Why do these women have no self respect
Ehnnn..

Tell me.. i dey wait

SAMBARRY: I taya o.as if it's not the buyers encouraging the sellers to keep the business booming

if the sellers close their shop.. the market will close

Sambarry ... how market

Lets hear from the singles first

why will they just fall down and open their legs for another woman's husband

crackhaus: As the spirit leads Indeed.
Picking up multiple ideologies and not realizing that one might actually oppose the other in its basic agenda if carefully looked into.

MizMyColi
Tallesty1

My nominees

The second story is so funny

man wants to speak to wife

H.. beat

HA.. beating

HAPPY .. another beating

HAPPY BiRTH.. more beating


HAPPY BIRTHDAY... "oh..is that what you wanted to say all along.. thanks honey"




Since he decided to marry a woman on a whim and is still staying in a marriage where his life is at stake, he loves the relationship
The sense of power he has over her - divorce threat nd withholding kids from her is a high for him
I hope he does not get too high and goes to heaven from there from poisoning after she harvests his sperm

LOL...

So many -isms, not enough people to be -ismed
Leading to one person carrying multiple ideologies as they feel in their spirit

crackhaus: This is just one of many examples on the web, there are others...you can check them out if you want to…

Pseudo Feminism
False or fake feminism.

When Women act or say they are self sufficient and don't need Men for happiness. Also striving for equal rights and equal standing.

Basically being independent from Men's help and becoming self sufficient, yet not dismissing the social perks. Which if they did, would make them truly self sufficient.

Note:
I am NOT saying that Women have no social disadvantages and that Men have no social advantages.

Female: I'm not going to have sex right now, I don't want to. I should not be treated as an object because I am a Woman. I am going to be strong, I don't need any help from Men to be happy.

Male: Ok. I think that is good.

Female: Good, hold my bags and come shopping with me, and my birthday is coming up, buy me a gift. $500 minimum.

Male: Cut the Pseudo-Feminism crap.

decepticos: no srguements from me oh, my question is why is eph's wife, after being turned by a 'lower vamp' gets special treatment from "the big bad wolf", does he acknowledge Eph as a threat.

possibly... he sees thru d vamps

Can u put up a screen shot of his FB page
Is this true

Shirley07: Believing in his name doesn't make you a christian either.
Read Matt 7:22-23.
For your info, I do not discard Paul's gospel of Christ but I don't abide by his doctrine..

What makes one a christian please


I don't even know what to say again. When a professing xtian casually throws the tenet of its faith yet says she follows Christ doctrines

Shirley07: The same disciples that believed circumcision was part of requirement for salvation?
The same disciples that believed salvation was meant for only the Jews?
They all forgot Jesus last word to them was to preach the gospel to the whole world. He didn't tell them to be formulating one law or the other.
And yeah, Jesus freed us from the law of sin and bondage. We're no more under the law .
Meanwhile, a true christian must be submissive, irrespective of his/her gender because love itself is a submissive act.

Ok...i hear u....

All d best

Shirley07: Christainity isn't a belief though, it's a nature.

It's not a belief...?
Hahaha..


Explain this please...

John 1 12

12 But as many as received Him, to them gave He power to become the sons of God, even to those who believe in His name,


When u have people quoting bible n discarding Paul...see half baked theologians

It is best you stay with your ideology which even see the bible as an instrument of male domination

You guys r flippers

Mondisweets: funny enough i never mentioned it here, you just had to bring it up and this is like the second time in less than a month. Its pathetic, you really need to stop it if you have a life, kindly concentrate on that please

I have a life....concentrate on yours too

Ok...playtime over

Explain custody types...

Shirley07: That was the disciples' ideology.
Don't be mistaken, Jesus fulfilled the law by dying for our sin.

Disciples that spent their waking moments with the Christ

Those words r not mine but His

After dying for our sins.. what next....

No more living under authority..?..

No more Caesar?

All is well n dandy in the world.. ..no order...right

Mondisweets: i haven't even mentioned it more than 5 times since i joined NL in 2012 and for some reason you have mentioned it on every single thread you quote me. How it concerns your life, i really wonder

No..my dear

U mention it any time when u want to make points....


Back to d issue... explain custody types

Mondisweets: why does my degree bother you so much that you have to mention it everywhere you see me

U mention it everytime
I will not if. U don't again....


Educate us on custody types ooo

Don't derail. d issue

Shirley07: I imbibe Christ doctrine. Is that too much for you?

Christ's doctrine!
Hahaha....

The same Christ that says he came to fulfill d law
The same law u lot cannot uphold

If u cannot see marriage of a man n woman as an
Archetype of Christ n d church... Then I don't know which one u r following...

coogar: shirley na feminist?
come on, she's been disturbing me since last week to get her a blackberry phone. does that one even know what feminism is all about? unless feminism is giving out free puff-puff, she cannot be interested.

Lol...

Mondisweets: you cant call it an argument when u don't know full and primary custody is the same thing seriously just go to sleep though

So educate me if I am wrong

Lawyer mondi....

Request for a refund of d fees n go into public speaking

RayMcBlue: Laughed out loud at the Animal Farm reference. Funny novel.

Anyhoo... Ultimately, it all comes down to greed and self interest. Human nature 101.

Yep....

decepticos: the reason I agree with this is quite simple, some vamps were weilding guns and looked like they were members of an army of a sort, and yes they killed the careful nanny's daugther too sad.

She was infected

Mondisweets: please just go to sleep

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Nonso23: Na so we see am o!

U beat me to it..grammar cops

coogar: christ on a bike!
jesus was talking about the structure of marriage i.e. the indissolubility of a man and his wife within a marriage, whether it be monogamous or polygamous.

When feminist quote Bible.. U know the world is soon coming to an end

Is it not the same bible that says women should submit to their husbands..

cococandy: Still as defined by you.
If you won't accept facts presented by your opponent as basis for an opinion but would rather insist your opponent has other reasons for their argument.
Your definition of logic holds no water.

But then no one is examining anyone on the definition of logic. So you define it for yourself and play by your own definition.
Adios

#for today.

Adios..

Mondisweets: FYI the correct phrase would have been, "ask for a reimbursement of your fees"
Coming from someone who doesn't know that full custody and primary custody is the same thing, you should even have your pre-school fees reimbursed... epic fail

Yes....error..i m using a mobile device..thanks

You are right... I meant your school should refund your fees or you ask for your fees to be refunded you paid as you have obviously not shown any legal acumen here...

Well you understood what I was saying...

Don't use grammar to escape

dastranger: I've bn observing you. waa gbayi.. you too dey make sense logically. Things God did not forbid, but because of our selfish interest, we forbade them and make it like God forbade them.

Exactly....

Making traditions of men to be scripture..

Implication and not explicit..
.

Thou shall not steal.....explicit
Thou shall not kill.... Explicit

The verse on putting wives away was on divorce ..explicit

Maybe the verse outlawing polygamy is in the Nigerian bible..

Nonso23: Obviously! That's the bane of this thread and i'm trying my best to rub it in.

Women using sentiments since 1860

When they were d victims.. All was good
Now there are new victims in town..now they scream marginalisation,.Mischief, infidelity..Etc bla bla bla

Mondisweets: The main issue is child custody not homosexuality
Making someone do it against their will is wrong, if they don't want to be part of it, they don't.

Listen to yourself

I gave u a scenario where kids wiill not want to go to a marriage of their mother to anew father since they still have feelings for their father.....but they have to be there.

Now i say their rights r violated......

Which right.....

Return your law school fees

The issue is that this woman was shafted which happens to many men worldwide... They lose d kids n d home..

Face it mondi