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Cococandy


What do you have to say to GSKing point

The man was being forced by society to conform hence d deception

Can't u see he was d victim

cococandy: No.

I did have a debate with one of them some time ago and she won the debate by having more points.

It didn't change my POV but I only stopped arguing about it because I could not prove with facts that such kids are affected by having gay parents.

The most award winning point being that since straight parents raised gay kids,so who are we fooling by saying gay parents will only raise gay kids.(That one got her a million likes)

I still believe every kid needs a dad and mom.
I won't debate that with them again until such a time as when it is PROVEN that kids are affected by gay parents.

Then I'll have substance to back up my stance when next I go against them.

OK....interesting.....

cococandy: You're the one who quoted me to say the disgust thing.
If you read it elsewhere, your bad.

I've answered your question a thousand times. A very genuine answer that transcends the right to have sex between two siblings.
If you can't give me a reason how locking up drug dealers is a denial of human rights,then you should have by now seen why ince'sst is outlawed too.

Because for the zillionth time (it affects the next person-the child- negatively).

If you're too stubborn to throw in the towel,your cup of tea.

One wonders if you believe you've to be right all the time.

I accept your points...
Let's leave this for now..I will get back to you


So let me ask u this

Do you believe gays should be able to adopt a child or have one by surrogacy

cococandy: First 10 percent is a big percentage.
Second did you study genetics?
Third if the law is allowed,what stops the brother and sister born of the same brother and sister union to mate or marry?
( They most likely might want to since their brother and sister parents were happy together)

Which increases the chance to 80percent.

What stops the grand kids borne of this same brother and sister mating/ marrying within their own nuclear family or from the next branch of the family tree(cousins)?

Does the law now make sense to you?
Or will your hatred for gays not let you still see it?

You're the one speaking from a position of disgust. Stop projecting.

I'm amazingly detached from what other chose to do.as long as the next person isn't affected
You're clearly not.
This is all about gayism

I never said the word disgust.. You did or if not you carefree then....my bad if not you

I don't have any hatred for gays but I wonder if you do

You have not answered any of my q...all u e doing is being defensive

If gays are free and enjoy human rights to love and be loved why should transgender, zoophiles and brother-sister lovers be dened their basic human right

why can't you live and let live


You are seeing your position is becoming tenuous hence deflecting

Its not about me or you


Its about human rights and equality

Or are u not a proponent of equality again

5minsmadness: I ignored the thread. I saw the post that inspired it.

One thing women don't realise is that men ARE beasts. Yes we are. We have little feeling, little emotion. We are logical creatures. And we learn very fast.
By the time they poison the first man and throw a party to celebrate the death of the second man, we men will take over. We will poison more women to get the sexy vixen outside. We will celebrate the death of our nagging wives by marrying a new one a week later and fucking her in front of her children.
Men are beasts like that. We are hardly outdone.

Two wrongs never makes a right.

I have learnt to ignore certain threads so as not to get unnecessarily aggravated.

My guy...u better read it

Also there is a thread on polygamy..

Some posters were implying they don't know what they are capable of doing if faced with it

Women......

crackhaus: America knows as always

Lol...one of then even said american preachers are not hypocritical
That you can know when he is dishonest..

cococandy: For the millionth and one time. The kids to be borne of their union.
If that's not a good enough reason for you,you and I shouldn't be debating either

So with all the facts that only 10 to 30 percent of kids from an incestuous relationship are at risk of congenital defects..you continue spouting this your line?


Do u think kids raised in a 2 father or 2 mother scenario are better than those raised by a man n woman who JUST happen to be related

Are u advocating sterilisation of couples with genetic issues so they don't have kids who will be a disturbance to you

Heck..why not make laws to sterilise parents who could have genes with downs syndrome since it affects the next generation

Coco's.world..where disgust determines which laws reign

cococandy: You're the one going in circles.
Maybe you need to take a break and come read again.
Homosexuality doesn't affect me or anyone apart from the couple involved.
Inceest affects both the couple and their next generation.
If allowed,the soceity will receive a healthy dose of deformity which will be passed if it continues.
So the law isn't about how the law makers feel about it.
But is based on the possible consequence which they are trying to avoid.
If that is not logic to you,I wonder what is.
Who's talking of making decision based on disgust?
You're the one using disgust as your yardstick here.
Homosexuality disgusts you so it should be banned.
Incesst disgusts you so likewise.
Both to me are not desirable. But what appeals to me shouldn't be the basis on which laws are made.
What makes you even think either of them disgust me?
I'm more about consequences than how I feel about them.
I've learnt my feelings shouldn't decide how others live their lives.
So my point against ince'sst isn't based on feelings but logic
If brother and sister can mate without producing a kid. Then knock me if I try to mock them.
(I go just face my front)
Sadly it will affect everyone at large. Hence this.
You on the other hand are all about disgust. Trying to use incee'st to paint homosexuality black. So don't try to turn tables.
You've been given a good reason why ince'sst shouldn't be allowed.
If you decide that reason isn't enough,(because that reason can't be applied to homosexuality) the good for you.
You stop at the line where it hurts the next person's existence duh

Dbestmax: U know I think Homosexuality defines d fact dat same sex mating is actually wrong..hw can u insert a dickk in a place meant for removing excreta...
Dat tells it all....
homosexualty is not individual right...rada...an infringement to individual rights...coupled with ignorance...totally devilish

In that case any further discussion between you and I is not needed

Because the same argument that led to acceptance of homosexual can be applied here

Who r they hurting

I am waiting for cococandy response

crackhaus: Maybe because it sounds cool, who knows why most people do some things that they do?

Just following any ideology that sounds cool
Yesterday was gay pride
Today ita transgender and queerness

Who knows..

5minsmadness: Marriage is unconditional. If either partner sets a line for the other to cross then it becomes inevitable that such a partner will cross that line. You cannot poison someone you love even if he hurts you. That's just the truth. It means you didn't marry him or her for the right reasons either.
A man should be able to forgive his wife if she commits adultery. A woman should be able to forgive her husband if he beats her. Moses only put the clause of 'except on grounds of adultery' because the people were hard of heart.

Yes I said it! Forgive the person or there will be no need for marriage! 'Till death do us part' is not a physical statement it is spiritual! There is wisdom in it! If you can't do it then don't come to church. Go do traditional wedding where all it take to divorce your wife is to return her bride price or divorcing your husband you show him your ass. Do not come to church!

Nice one bro....I feel you

I am just being practical

Have u seen the thread on mourning a husband who died but was a cheat

dastranger: My dear, no where is it mentioned in the bible that it is forbidden. henceforth, you cant overrule it

Maybe it is written in the Nigerian bible that polygamy is a sin

Dbestmax: Dis is Soooo strange

Why strange

What is your opinion on homosexuality

cococandy: And I thought he was kidding.

And those psychological changes poses a threat to other people hence the ban.

Cigarretes are harmful to your health.
Cholesterol is too
Alchohol is too.
There's no law prohibiting them.
It is your body. Do as you wish. You'll only be warned of the possible harm to you.

A law only comes in place when your consumption of such things makes you a danger to the next person.
That's why drinking isn't a crime but drinking and driving is(it affects the next person)

Ince'st is too because it affects the next person(the future generation)

So what's living and let live by allowing someone do something that has the possibility of affecting the next person negatively?

Just give it up pickabeau. You don't have a point this time.

You r still going roundabout in a circle

1.How does incêst affect YOU
Simple q

2. Does homosexuality affect you.how

Explain please....


Using disgust to determine another's human rights
I expect logic

As sagamite has said he is more disgusted with homosexuality than incëst

So where do we stop

Thank you for that crackhaus

I was wondering myself when she says post feminism is a wave of feminism when its goals are to show feminism is not necessary anymore

All these -isms that people identify with...funny

With the rate some women are making silent threats to kill or poison their hubby if he steps out of line or as they see fit

They will not even mourn

I think divorce should be further destigmatized

It is better to divorce than DIEvorce

cococandy: Neither do I want to be locked up.
So why jail me for drug runs when I'm just doing business like other business men out there.
Denying me The right to buy and sell.

Because that decision doesn't end with me or you alone. It affects others.

Now kindly stop trolling
Or
I'll stone you with the bone of the chicken I just finished eating if you won't behave

You are side stepping my q

Drugs are harmful and introduce psychological change in the users.

What is harmful in two loving people who just want to be together... They just happen to be related

Why r u being selective in your bigotry...



On trolling....

U r d one trolling...selecting answers based on your feelings or whatever belief seems expedient

If your mantra is live n let live
How does it affect you what a brother n sister do in the comfort n privacy of their own home


Mind you these are the same reasons that led to the acceptance of homosexuality

Dbestmax: Did u jst say dat or wia u jst thinking it

No...I mean it
After all in the same Europe
..my gay friends love each other and no one is hurt by them

cococandy: It doesn't disturb me.
Read my earlier posts.
If you and your sister can get sterilized,
I'll be mighty glad to greet you Mr and Mrs pickabeau at every meeting.

Makes it easier for her even and for those who knew her before. No change of family name etc.

No...I don't want to be sterilized
Our love must culminate in children like everyone else

Why deny us rights available to others

Some parents have genetic issues n may have kids with other congenital diseases n are not sterilised

Why d double standard

Carry go...

SAMBARRY: in that case let me go and spread my designer mat in another place
matter settled

khanivorous: WORD

When the nanny saw that her oga don turn ' crocodile eye', she knew water don pass garri....

Characters with naija gene plenty for this show... Hard men knowing when to run... Chai

Yes ooo...Na her foolish daughter come enter yaw a


Who r d vamp-like killers

I like the series....slow n has scope for development


Reminds me of d the stand

SAMBARRY: in pickabeau's voice "ok'

Yes o...in sambarry mode

Cococandy...

Im still waiting for your answer to my q

I love my sister.. She loves me
We are both adult.. No mental illness

Why can't we be together

Why can't we live n let live...

How does it disturb you Or anyone else

Do u mean you belong to the school of Post-feminist feminism.. I only know of third wave

Guess there is more to be discovered

carefreewannabe: Post-feminist wave, which has the best interest of MEN and WOMEN at heart.

funny post...

wehave inculcated too many western traditions and despised our own

nowadays pry schoools even celeb halloween n vals

BABE3: [img]http://.net/i/154.gif[/img]

i dont see d correlation between d op n the rant against adults i referred to

SAMBARRY: if another bigger person do you wetin them do that pikin on your birthday you go happy?



You people just keep forgetting the golden rule. DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WILL LIKE THEM TO DO TO YOU. By the way what stops the adult from scolding her after her day. Must she ruin it for her?

freshdude2: Pickabeau1, why you dey fear? You don dey eye one okpeke for area?

More seriously though, Lastpage has made a lot of sense. A while ago, I spoke to my wife about the lies of monogamy, in hindsight that was suicidal considering comments here. You should have seen the look she gave me. It took me a while to convince her I wasn't seeing anybody else. I would never go for a second wife and even if, God forbid I were to divorce today, I would never remarry. The situation is extreme as is, why hasten my appointment with the Maker?!

i no fear bros ....

na strong person materially n spiritually dey marry more than one wife ... but i love d insight so far into the mind of some women albeit even the so-called educated and empowered ones...

You never know what lurks deep within

BABE3: That's exactly where the problems in polygamy stem from. The "old" wife hates the idea of sharing her man yet she stays; shes doesn't only stay; she stays and have more kids for this "useless man". Then, gets all her family memebers to start defending her; the new wife too does the same.
Hate is contagious; Love is contagious. If the "old" wife is cool and calm with the "new" wife, the love will spread. If she's not, the hate will spread.
Evidently, women are the problem with polygamy.

i agree..

@lastpage ... superb post as always
No wonder one could smell the silent euphoria in this thread when a woman did not mourn her dead cheat of a husband https://www.nairaland.com/1910608/when-cheating-spouse-dies

The joy of some of the female posters.....tragic

Why dont they leave the marriage for the 'despicable' husband?

Since i cant have him, no one else win.. why dont these women let the useless man go?
Na by force?

This is evidence of the silent maleficents we have nested in relationships or marriages who are waiting for the opportune moment to strike when something does not go their way.
They will do it with glee and no remorse.

MAY God help us

evil truly resides in the heart

the heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? - Jer 17.9


hmmm......Thanks for your honesty. You actually stated what a lot of women have slyly implied but could not say..
Posts like this make me scared of the kind of women we have nowadays

Onegai: From what I have seen of Polygamy, being a Divorcee is harder but I'll take that badge any day, any time.

If only men knew the lasting damage such an environment leaves on their kids...

If men could be made to understand the value of Self-Control and not cheating, the effect it would have on their kids...

OP, speak to a 1st wife, speak to a 1st wife and weigh your pros and cons according to your needs, not your wants. I wish you the best, as I am not sure I can accept your decision calmly. I'm the sort to react later: my hypothetical polygamous husband will not realise that 10 years after marrying more wives, I will poison him. And I will not regret it. I know myself, I know what I'm capable of (sad and true). I know what growing up in a polygamous home did to me and my brothers and sisters (how we all struggle to keep good monogamous homes now, because we never saw a peaceful family, we had no good examples)..

na u know... make una turn the adult to pikin naa

SAMBARRY: why you bend ya mouth like that . No be truthshe dey talk.infact let me join the 3 other people that clicked like and add my own like too.




peke.ahen

Idrismusty97: What is the title of the movie?

Uneducated betrayal part 1

tellwisdom: You dated him for 3years and he's still poor??..then you are a witch. Free the poor boi from your poor spirit

wickid!!

educative

matuidi


Neymar!!!