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Family › Re: My Problem With The Respect Shown To Men In African Societies by pickabeau1: 1:52pm On Aug 04, 2014
Thats good


You made a lot of points i accept though some are not totally factual now

I see girls learning karate now and they seem to enjoy it
More ladies are taking self defense classes

I agree with you on the fact that he who pays the piper dictates the tune.. especially on racial issues


The world is what it is...a lot of vices.. immorality, indiscriminate abortions, embezzlement and misappropriation of public funds, terrorist deaths... theres a very interesting thread on campus prostitution..

May God keep us

Note : this is not limited to Nigeria only... globally there are issues...



delishpot: WWell not money per Se. But property, wealth, income. Be it sheep, cattle, army, war heads, weapons, etcland etc. Who ever has it has power over who ever doesn't have.
So it's same all aspect of life. From gender, to cultures, to slavery.

I was not fixed on the topic as a whole. I was just giving my view as it pertains how I believe the society should work. Esp marriage and also giving what is messing our society these days.
No mind me. Just read and nodd at the part you like and ignore my off topic parts.

Just delishpot's lamentation. This Nsobu Uwa Don confuse me. I am tired seeing how this sweet world is becoming evil and full of deaths, disease and pain. I Don tire.
TV/Movies › Re: Naruto Information by pickabeau1: 1:37pm On Aug 04, 2014
nani667: Obito was manipulated by Madara, true, but all Obito did was for Rin, frankly Obito didn't give a sh*t about Madara sama's plan.... Obito didn't even plan on ever reviving Madara, twas Kabuto Kun that just ruined his plan by reviving Madara......
He could not do it all without reviving madara...
He had an evil side already...madara said he needed a push.. he had observed him from the shadows
rin was the push
Family › Re: My Problem With The Respect Shown To Men In African Societies by pickabeau1: 1:35pm On Aug 04, 2014
delishpot a long post but i cant get the thrust of your argument

Are you saying that money is the cause of sexism

I like your point on the importance of a caring husband

population did not need to be employed by someone else cos every one farmed to feed himself and family and did not need a degree to do that.
Now it's different, money is the fuel that runs the engine of our existence. Education, medicals, food, shelter, going to work, etc etc. When the government does not provide the basics it's all man for himself.
This is why men are quick to ask for $ex and women are quick to give it. Each one knows what the other wants. Even young boys now offer to satisfy old women for cash.
Family › Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by pickabeau1: 1:28pm On Aug 04, 2014
grin grin grin grin grin grin

there is no smoke without fire
Autos › Re: My Own Pre-order Tale With Inspired Autos (Finally delivered, resolved) by pickabeau1: 1:27pm On Aug 04, 2014
alexisalex: Of course, everyone knows Inspired delivers and always delivers.
i think he is just too over whelmed with too many customers and since there is really no genuine competitor he is having a field day.
thats my own assessment.
Note I am not in the know of this specific deal which was not handled professionally
The acquaintance of mine who bought a high end car months ago complained of the same issue
another he does not pick calls

He comes off looking like he does not care about d "small man".. bad idea
That small guy today will be the Don tomorrow

These are major issues
Autos › Re: My Own Pre-order Tale With Inspired Autos (Finally delivered, resolved) by pickabeau1: 1:20pm On Aug 04, 2014
Idowuogbo.. wetin i go talk

I have not personally dealt with him though i know people who have
He delivers but just issues with customer interface and followng up with people.. thats all
If he can just work on that with this plan to recruit 2 staff, i hope it will allow him to focus on business development
Literature › Re: How To Survive A Zombie Apocalypse-shorts By 5mmadness by pickabeau1:
5minsmadness: grin
Bros I hail o. I don leave family section for una make I come update grin
angry angry angry angry angry

Oya.. update grin grin grin

Update

Nice one... Early strains between the Doctor and the soldier....Lets see how the relationship progresses
Jokes Etc › Re: Internet Arguments (in Pictures) - For Laughs (Upload Yours too) by pickabeau1(op):
Jokes Etc › Re: Internet Arguments (in Pictures) - For Laughs (Upload Yours too) by pickabeau1(op): 12:54pm On Aug 04, 2014
Jokes Etc › Re: Internet Arguments (in Pictures) - For Laughs (Upload Yours too) by pickabeau1(op): 12:53pm On Aug 04, 2014
Family › Re: Did He Do The Right Thing By Keeping QUIET? by pickabeau1: 12:52pm On Aug 04, 2014
aisha2: So one should spend the rest of their lives in fear and praying that it doesnt pop up instead of telling the person who sleeps next to them at night and sleeping better?
I prefer to take charge of my life, Everyone has done things they are ashamed of including me, but better to say the truth let it SET YOU FREE than live with a lie and in fear. We say we are a people of faith yet we refuse to practice it choosing what we think is wisdom but really foolishness.
Not an easy decision.. phew...
Jokes Etc › Internet Arguments (in Pictures) - For Laughs (Upload Yours too) by pickabeau1(op):
Family › Re: Did He Do The Right Thing By Keeping QUIET? by pickabeau1: 12:36pm On Aug 04, 2014
@aisha2 .. your points are solid and i wont fault them.

But that is why it is not the easiest decision one has to make - to choose a partner for marriage
Which is why cohabitation is increasing sef..

As humans, we have things we are ashamed of ,even to ourselves, not to talk of others. One only prays they dont matter or such things pop up

As i stated earlier, this lady should just be hopeful no issues prop up
Family › Re: Did He Do The Right Thing By Keeping QUIET? by pickabeau1: 12:23pm On Aug 04, 2014
Makes sense



aisha2: Then they should not be married, marriage is a life time and you cant put up a life time of pretense wouldnt cut it.

Life is not ideal hence we should not add extra burdens to it and then come and live in fear and misery. I will always preach against managing and pretending just so you can marry.
Marriage built on deceit, secrets and dishonesty would come back and bite you, we all have our weaknesses oh and bad pasts but for me till you find the one who accepts you warts and all you havent found your spouse.
TV/Movies › Re: Naruto Information by pickabeau1: 12:14pm On Aug 04, 2014
Tosyn007: It was cos of his father..
Yes and his mother too.,.. she was not as good as she was potrayed
She was wicked too

Have u not seen the concluding season
Family › Re: Did He Do The Right Thing By Keeping QUIET? by pickabeau1: 12:12pm On Aug 04, 2014
aisha2: If you cant fully disclose your past to your spouse then you shouldnt be married.

There should be no secrets you should be scared off, so that when someone comes thinking he/ she has your past details and talks to your spouse the spouse should be comfortablly say "Yes I know, she/ he told me"
If you have not found the man/ woman you are comfortable to do full disclosure with then you have not found your spouse.
I will rate your post 100/10 however life is not so ideal
We have nominally agressive people who have to become docile just to land into marriage
Just before the tsunami, i remember a thread by a female who professed that some of her ideals had made her lose relationships and she now has to chill out so as to hold on to the one she is dating now.

I really wish this lady has no fertility issues due to the abortions she has had or else the past will be made present grin
Family › Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by pickabeau1(op): 12:07pm On Aug 04, 2014
Exactly.. they engage in all these causes to have a chance to feel better as human beings

Thats why they got pseudo scientists to reassure them that the foetus is a clump of cells so they are justified in not killing life

It is life... appreciate that even if you have to kill it




TV01: Thanks.

Nah! They don't really care about endangered species or the environment of any of those other things. Those are just sops to re-assure themselfves that they are "loving, caring, human-beings" - who are incidentally happily celebrate the murder of their own offspring usng the deceitful language of choice/rights/equality.


TV

**clump of cells? Did you know a babys heartbeat is clearly discernable after a couple of weeks? before most women even realise they are pregnant. And relatively speaking, we are all just clumps of cells**
Family › Re: Family And Careers- Break Or Make by pickabeau1: 11:59am On Aug 04, 2014
richyblink1
Quitting her current job maynot mean he wants a housewife
However he has not said much so i dont blame you for your assumptions
Family › Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by pickabeau1(op): 11:35am On Aug 04, 2014
TV01.. the sad thing is that they care more about endangered lions, tigers or some animals as against any concern for foetuses calling it clump of cells

Nice write up.. succinctly put
Literature › Re: How To Survive A Zombie Apocalypse-shorts By 5mmadness by pickabeau1: 9:04am On Aug 04, 2014
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TV/Movies › Re: [SPOILERS ALERT] MARVELS Agents Of S.H.I.E.L.D - Fan Thread by pickabeau1(op): 9:03am On Aug 04, 2014
MizMyColi: Our Dear Ward won't hang and surely, His end won't be like that of Nina cheesy Let's just keep our eyes fingers crossed wink
ok..lets see
Family › Re: Feminists: If Your Children Don't Want To Submit To You... by pickabeau1: 9:01am On Aug 04, 2014
eighTHREAD: that's the only language unreasonable people understand. IMO grin
Dude.. you need to calm down when making points..

The other thread on prostitution.. insulting others .. not cool
TV/Movies › Re: Naruto Information by pickabeau1: 8:59am On Aug 04, 2014
Tosyn007: Who?
Zero.. I thought youve watched code geass
TV/Movies › Re: [SPOILERS ALERT] MARVELS Agents Of S.H.I.E.L.D - Fan Thread by pickabeau1(op): 8:09am On Aug 04, 2014
MizMyColi: Well, undecided Better 1 than 2 cheesy I insist he didn't kill the dog, I don't recall being shown the fracass/corpse of the dog na cheesy He only made it seem like he killed it, but in reality he didn't wink
And I am saying jog it... this is something i just watched yesterday.. he let it run then killed it

Better 1 than 2? No... Ward should hang,,, though i know they will bring him in again

Series nowadays must have a betrayer so its not new.. After they made Nina Myers bad,, nothing fazes me anymore
TV/Movies › Re: Nollywood Movies Of Western Quality by pickabeau1: 8:05am On Aug 04, 2014
Tsotsi is a super film but i have not finished Mother of George


Have u seen Rebelle: War Witch


Last Flight to Abuja is not bad
TV/Movies › Re: "Though I’m Over 50, Marriage Is Still On My Mind" - Ngozi Nwosu by pickabeau1: 8:01am On Aug 04, 2014
grin
Family › Re: Adichie’s Feminism: Vacuums And Fallacies By A. Gonzaga by pickabeau1(op): 7:59am On Aug 04, 2014
MrAnony1

Commendable efforts but you are wasting your time with these people

To put one right that men have and women dont have shouldnt be so difficult?

They want equality in promiscuity.. without repercussions

Thats all
TV/Movies › Re: [SPOILERS ALERT] MARVELS Agents Of S.H.I.E.L.D - Fan Thread by pickabeau1(op): 7:55am On Aug 04, 2014
MizMyColi: Come to think of it, He had to! He knew they'd find a way to survive eventually afterall they're AOS badass scientists cheesy cheesy......I will not condemn ward as out rightly bad grin besides He did NOT kill that Dog.....he only made it seem like he did. He told the Dog to RUN away!!!! angry if my memory serves me correctly cheesy
No..... he let it run away and shot it from distance.. jog that memory again

Are u aware Fitx has brain damage and Simmons only survived because Fitz gave up his life for her
Education › Re: Campus Prostitution: A Growing Concern In Nigeria by pickabeau1:
While your moral crusade is commendable, selfless Maya is being realistic

men are the ones that fuel this trade.
Men use their ill gotten money to pamper these girls

For those going abroad to marry, you need to see what girls are doing abroad.

Google escort agencies

Go to Asia...united States.. Dubai .same thing


I'm male but we are also responsible for this

Sandijey wish you all the best
Don't worry we have kids here with no experience in life.. just spouting posts.. .some of them are the future aristos...

cr7lomo: I Wunt argue wit u cos it's certain that ur d reason y dey say girls hv fish brain. U might even b a teenager or may b 20 21 , I Sudnt b dragging wit u here . I can Neva marry or respect a woman dat loves me because of d material tins she gains from me because Money comes and goes , same way I can't marry a girl just cos she knows hw to 4k or dat she's very pretty because dat also fades . Happiness and contentment is within u , d moment u start lookin at others to impress , u will come crashing ( fact of life ) . Look at d diff between Genevieve and omotola , that alone Sud mk u wiser. If this is d way u reason , in no time ur bf will dump u or u will dump him if he has financial issues because u r materialistic . Now I don't blame y naija guys prefare foreigners to marry . Naija hoes like u r gone . Tufiakwa ur reasoning , well na ur life sha and I wonder d type of advice u will giv ur kids . People like u end up experiencing what dey dint expect , then u will change. Again , what else can u offer apart from 4k . Ur bf givs u dat money monthly not because he loves u but because he can afford it and he knows u r materialistic , bliv me , when his ready to marry , he will look for a wife , then u will go to romance section and open a topic " my bf dumped me after 4 yrs for anoda chic" . Girl, giv urself brain
TV/Movies › Re: [SPOILERS ALERT] MARVELS Agents Of S.H.I.E.L.D - Fan Thread by pickabeau1(op): 11:29pm On Aug 03, 2014
MizMyColi: I'm all Yesssss to Ward.....whatever happened to giving people a second chance Huh? Besides, Ward wasn't left with much of a choice wink the backstory tells us that much grin
Noooooo....ward ditched Fitz Simmons n killed a dog
TV/Movies › Re: Naruto Information by pickabeau1: 11:28pm On Aug 03, 2014
Tosyn007: Its like a drug used in Code geass...it makes kinda non-challant to surrounding situations, makes you happy
Seen it..but can't remember

Nice anime.....


His parents were d cause

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