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Vivipop: Z... . The country looks beautiful

yes it is,,,...... though naija is too... they have better packaging

Vivipop: Choii!!! I must go to Brazil.

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EnlightenedSoul: Please, you're killing me. Freed under homosexuality?? SMH

Hope she's good too. I know she disabled though.

You are missing the point...

What he has been saying is that what seems weird today with time becomes normalised

Homosex was a taboo just 40-50 years back so using harm to classify the benigness of an act is not totally the best approach

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EnlightenedSoul: Both.

No, I haven't seen skllz.

that means he is guilty of incest but can be freed under homosexuality..

she did not respond to an email i sent her long ago..

hope shes good

strictly E Soul is right on definition of pedophilia however broadly in usage the two can be classified together


Pedophilic acts is the crime... and arises from the attraction
Not all attraction leads to crime


http://www.health.harvard.edu/newsletters/Harvard_Mental_Health_Letter/2010/July/pessimism-about-pedophilia

There is no cure, so the focus is on protecting children.

Pedophilia, the sexual attraction to children who have not yet reached puberty, remains a vexing challenge for clinicians and public officials. Classified as a paraphilia, an abnormal sexual behavior, researchers have found no effective treatment. Like other sexual orientations, pedophilia is unlikely to change. The goal of treatment, therefore, is to prevent someone from acting on pedophile urges — either by decreasing sexual arousal around children or increasing the ability to manage that arousal. But neither is as effective for reducing harm as preventing access to children, or providing close supervision.

The understanding of pedophilia has evolved over time, so each successive edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) has defined this disorder in a slightly different way. The current edition, DSM-IV, categorizes pedophilia as a disorder only if the sexual fantasies or urges involve prepubescent children (defined as 13 or younger), if they last at least six months, if the individual has acted on them, or if they cause marked distress (including legal problems). The DSM-IV also specifies that a person be at least 16 years old and at least five years older than the prepubescent child.

The draft version of DSM-V, now undergoing review, proposes several changes to the diagnosis of pedophilia. One is to expand the definition of this disorder to include hebephilia, an attraction to children who are going through puberty. The hybrid category, pedohebephilia, would consist of the pedophilic type (attracted to prepubescent children, generally younger than 11), the hebephilic type (attracted to pubescent children, usually ages 11 through 14), and the pedohebephilic type (attracted to both). In another significant change, the draft suggests that the use of pornography depicting prepubescent or pubescent children for six months or longer should be considered a symptom of pedohebephilia.

Key points

Pedophilia is a sexual orientation and unlikely to change. Treatment aims to enable someone to resist acting on his sexual urges.

No intervention is likely to work on its own; outcomes may be better when the patient is motivated and treatment combines psychotherapy and medication.

Parents should be aware that in most sexual abuse cases involving children, the perpetrator is someone the child knows.

Zedric: The 1st step u have to take to understand this is to get rid of the sterotype u have about some cultures being greater than others. Do u think if the Egyptians had treated their culture the way we treat ours, it ll be has celebrated has it is now. Maybe i was wrong about how i put it, i think it will be better to say "ALL CULTURES HAVE THE POTENTIAL TO BE GREAT"

Better

E Soul

Have u heard from skllz

Zedric: All cultures are basically great. What differentiates the cultures is the attitudes of its people. If the people believe in it, they can make it greater. Conversely, if the people neglect, it is gradually neglected to the background. And thats where the problem arises, neglecting your ancestors legacy to hype another man' culture. Would you allow your son drop your surname for another man' surname cos he feels urs is "uncool"?

So at your age..your father still monitors what u do

Why do u call it hype...

You just stated now all cultures are equally great. Could it just be choice or experiment


Dunlop tyre
Pirelli tyre....all the same...tyres

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Zedric: Ofcourse, they are all equal. All any culture needs is to be valued by its people. Simple

If all cultures are equal n great

Then if u adopt any culture other than what I was born with.. It shouldn't be an issue

shymexx: That won't stop anything if there's a system and style in place. Ever wondered why certain Brazilian players, who were top scorers in Europe never used to make the Brazilian team? Mario Jardel? Elber?

C'mon a lot of German players play with flair, that's lacking in this generation of Brazilian players, and they're Europeans. It's about the system and style you want, not where the player plays.

Elbe n jardel were not jogo bonito players

Your lines are lame

Yawn..

Does your calling genitals make u feel good

Ratchety mannerisms...

Zedric: Sure. Take the hausas has a case study, if they didn't respect thier language like their yoruba counterparts, do u think it will get the international regocnition it has now? There z even a BBC hausa

If every culture is great
Do you agree no culture is less greater or more greater than another

See a troll calling others her trademark name..

EnlightenedSoul: He clearly stated that the [supposed] acceptance of homosexuality in this generation would lead to incèst being highly esteemed in upcoming generations, making homosexuality the precursor for incèst in confines of his statement. As pointed out, it's a fallacy plain and simple. In that trend, what was homosexuality's precursor on it's road to acceptability?

Consensual or not, homosexuality and incèst are not the same.

Just a question

If a man sleeps with his son...which is it

Homosexual incêst

Kinkybraids: Ok, Thank you to all those who commented and advised me (good or bad) . I really wished people read the post properly before accusing me of many things but on the brighter side some comments were really funny and helpful . There are some things I will take away from this thread in preparation for being a good wife as many good points were highlighted but do not get me wrong I am not 'desperate' for a husband as so many of you suggested (without reading what my post asked of you) therefore please stop sending me Pms.

I Think the main lesson here is to work on being the best me and the rest will follow in time and within God's vision...but I really do like the idea of attending networking events and being more out there at places where I can meet people that are likely to meet my requirements.

Im not really sure how to close a thread but this is me officially 'closing' it but everyone is welcome to continue flirting and making jokes or giving advice or bashing me ect...Its called freedom of speech

Just send a mail to the mods that you want to close the thread

What next...


CAPs lock me to oblivion?

All your insults just show the depth of your non-intelligence masked as belligerence.

LOL...
A weird fellow u r
Rather than accept you messed up... And you are the same person that talks of improvement and all...

OK..wallow in your delusion
Toodles....

I don't even get what the debate is about now

Is it gay marriage or incêst

Last I checked it was who is socially more desirable black males or females

MissMeiya: You need to look up the word provocation.

Did I insult you
Only you have used uncomplimentary words rather than accept you made a goof

You calculated times assuming he drove for those 17 hours

You stated here usa has 3 time zones


Rather than accept you did not consider all the options you start insulting...

Very smart of you...

MissMeiya: Did anyone say he drove for 17 hours? I didn't. Actually NO ONE DID. Dumbass. Did I quote you? Stay out of my mentions rétard.

Insulting without any provocation sounds rëtarded to me.

Driving for 17 hours and 17 hour journey are not necessarily the same thing ..



You clearly can't have a discussion without delving into insults...tragic

Keep to your notions..

kavey10: You seem not to get what Angela98 has been trying to pass across. The reason you see it as a personality disorder instead of the human nature at play is because, you have emancipated yourself from such backward thinking & attitude THROUGH EDUCATION(in various forms: family background, environment, school etc).

To be honest, being self-aware is the best thing to happen to one, but the sad truth is not everyone can be emancipated. You logica are educated and self-aware NOT everyone can attain such standard as you, angela98 and I.

I still go with angela98, this case is PRIMARILY human nature(nasty,brutish and selfish etc) only proper education absolves all. Thank you.

Exactly....


Survival of the fittest coupled with short-termism

CFCfan: In fact, there are 6 time zones in the US. 4 of them - Pacific time, Mountain time, Central time and Eastern time cover the continental United States.
The other two are for Hawaii and Alaska, which aren't in the continental US.

Thank you...

Maybe she can learn a few things....

Fulaman198: Please tag me when idiots make another post like that again so we can tag team these women into submission (not literally lol).

MissMeiya: So you don't know the locations in question and you're telling me I didn't consider time zone

I get annoyed with stupid questions.

1. The US has only three time zones and New York and Kentucky are in the same one.
2. Even if he crossed a time zone, 17 hours from his departure time would still be 4pm in his original time zone. Time travel is still impossible.

Your second statement is true...assuming he drove throughout the journey


I thought u were a stem student....

I'm just hearing from u that there are three time zones in the US

Cfcfan is that so...

MissMeiya: https://ww.sooziq.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/01/anigif_enhanced-buzz-035.gif

They both live in the same time zone. Even if they didn't 17 hours is still 17 hours.

No where did location feature..are u assuming?

17 hours is 17 hours but u assumed that leaving at 11 will mean he arrived at 4...

Gifs don't advance your point..

MissMeiya: Both of them were stúpid. But the guy is the one who behaved like a psychopath. Who drives SEVENTEEN hours to meet someone they met on the internet two weeks prior?

If he got there at 4pm, that means he left his house at 11pm THE PREVIOUS NIGHT. That is terrifying behavior.

You are not considering time zones

Tosyn007: Its Kishi

Won't be surprised

logica: I thought about that; but it is still direct competition which while being extreme and unacceptable is still within the realm of "survival of the fittest". Which is why if I am bidding for a contract in which hundreds of millions are at stake and therefore involved in a cut-throat competition, I will definitely invest plenty in security. And is still different from a situation where you are assassinated by a dude who just feels you are "oppressing" him because you have more money.

That's why i called it selfishness
Which is not unique to any sub human groupings...