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xynerise: In my place, polygamy is frown at. My religion also forbids it

We are all africans..I will like to know this tradition
or is it a modern thing..

Imnot talking from the religious angle

Even okonkwo had 3 wives

bellong: I have made friends here and still making.


The law of life unlike science says "Like attracts Like". If you are good, you will attract good people and vice-versa.

No matter how anonymous the forum is, a discerning mind can see through the good people here.


First question you should ask yourself is, "are you a friend.." (I do not mean an acquaintance)?

Deep and i agree
He that seeks friends must show himself friendly
U cant giv what you dont have

xynerise: Her comment was full of hate. She just had a flashback

yay,... been meaning to ask which tradition forbids polygamy
religion yes.. but which culture

nice thread

real issues here

snazzy

Hubby has 75 percent of the issue
Since he is not stepping up. dont get yourself worked up
Live in peace with her and help her as much as you can during her pregnancy and birth (sister to sister) so tha your conscience will be clear
You dont want them to label you

buggaboo: The market forces of demand and supply will always determine the balance of power.
It simply boils down to how replaceable you are. Whether man or woman, If you can be replaced easily with an equal or better person then your partner holds the power in the relationship.

Unfortunately for women, on average they are more replaceable than men at the moment.

they use these language to try to bully guys into submission

BlackKenichi: That's because a lot of modern day women have been subconsciously indoctrinated into feminist propaganda.

Interesting though such language is not limited to the feminists here
Even other ladies use it routinely

Nice work on the pic by the ladies

they always use the same words

its a fact females here delve into insults at the slightest opportunity so no need to join them

Its always about balls or small dik or impotent or somtjhing


Why are NL females obsessed with geneetals

Below are the words they commonly use

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choi...see gangup!

na only u waka come.. mencade

these babes don mean u today

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mencade5: Well done

how is work by the way?

i for call kullyie join.. but she don calm down when the tsunami brought back her ID from the dead
I hope she does not go man hatin mode again

We dy push am ... small small

The issue is really powerful..


Hamas is sworn to destroy Israel and they are the govt of the PLA

Until they are removed.,.. nothing will happen

Israel too will not stop building on the disputed territories so the PL believe Hamas is better suited to faceoff

So catch 22 - who go stop

luvablesam: The tin tire me o.....i dont support terrorism buh i want palestinian freedom...e dun do....isreal shld stop the blockade

why the assault on mencade

Some of the female posters here are worse and full of bile..

some make it a business to hate on guys..

luvablesam: Can i come in? btw wat do u guys think abt d hamas Vs Isreal ish?

That issue is some medevial ish

No one will listen to each other

They will stop and start and stop and start

drakeskull: At last, my payment finally refunded.

Update the first post and post screenshots

Doclight: oh what a pity.

A malaysian?

A commercial airplane was shot down yesterday
298 souls

Doclight: Welcome on board ma'm/sir. how weekend things?

Im fine. Thanks
weekend--- we pray for the departed souls on the malaysia fligh

Thanks.. i wonder why no other poster of Igbo origin has explained this obvious reality

chulla12: Anyone conversant with Igbo culture will tell you that there was NOTHING sexual between the two women involved in this type of marriage arrangement. This sort of thing happened when the "woman husband" was barren in her original marriage.

The only reason why she claims "husband" in this scenario is to have full ownership of the child that born to the acquired wife, in union with her husband. I'm not even sure that the "new" wife had any say or rights in this scenario as the children born are noted as belonging to the "woman husband" and the real husband.

This is an insurance policy for barren wives as most women who allowed outright polygamy (i.e. legitimate second wife) when they were barren lost their place in the home when the second wife gave birth to children.

Buchi Emecheta referenced this tradition in one of her novels...The Joys of Motherhood, I think.

There is no reference to actual Lesbianism or Homosexuality in Igbo culture, as far as I know.

This is another fun room..

#Following

henrijin: I thought the story was about Mikel. I was wondering why he should have any problem at LA airport

kolo...

naijababe: Jeedus!!! Really?! Okay ngba yen o
All those office affairs that start at the Xmas dos nko? ...............i can't shout abeg!

interesting...

Fulaman198: You could very well be right

It was only taught to the commercial students..... not science students

Those who know of history were self taught

naijababe: Anyone who believes otherwise is a tool abeg! The same white folks ho cheat without recourse

Its an immensely popular statement held by so many female posters here... they hold rigidly to it sadly...

All naija men are cheats except their fathers, brothers, uncles and sons.

I think History was being taught only to a few

Fulaman198: I heard that they dropped History from a lot of Nigerian Secondary schools as well. I think Pagan9ja is for Africa, though I don't know his agenda in this thread.

coogar: you are right!
armyofone & chillisauce told us nigerian men notoriously lack self control when it comes to sex. that was about 2 weeks ago, how could i have forgotten?

dont mind them...even carefreewannabe... they just love hating hitting on naija males


Damn.. another tragedy on Malaysia Air

story.... no one is carrying anything...

cheating is a universal phenomenon .. thats all.... blacks and whites, asians...

http://nypost.com/2014/07/09/hooker-accused-in-google-execs-overdose-death/

armyofone: Johnny's behavior no get race or ethnic now...
Johnny behaves same all over.

Answer d question plainly..

If it was naija man,... u lot will have a field day ... now its a white man.. u are saying cheating is universal...

Its a white man...

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nice.. pls tag me when u do\

Coldfeet: Will try and do so thanks.

Abeg who has any information on the chibok girls

Nice one

Can u open a thread on snial farming and share your experience

Coldfeet: Giant african land snails A.K.A GALS are considered an economic risk in most western countries as they can breed millions in just a couple of months! The effect it has on the farm crops are one of the reasons these countries prohibit their import. Many whites don't eat them rather they are seen as disease filled pests! Which is true but then we blacks have been eating them since God knows when and nothing mega! . Americans have got there own specie of snails that don't multiply like our GALS do but I tell you an African man will not touch it we see those species as poisonous (talk about one mans meat being another's poison ). Anyway as it stands no crime was committed so the owner will just have to count his/her loses and forget about ever bringing GALS to the states alive or dead/BBQd. For those unemployed graduates shouting no job GALs farming is VERY lucrative and requires little capital to start if at all any sef! I farm them for consumption I started with the wild ones that is I got them from my village farm these ones are better and produce more than majority of the ones sold in the market which may be second hand snails. Egg shells, fruits and vegetables are some of the foods snails eat. A little trick I was taught on how to get snails in the wild was to place peeled pawpaw skin or pour fruit juice at a clearing where snails may be found come back later and you'd be surprised at the number of snails you'll find there.