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carefreewannabe: I am still joking and I feel very relaxed when debating. I have no energy left in the evenings to feel aggressive. I have more important issues to deal with at the moment so I don't feel aggressive when I am online in the evening at all but sorry if I come across as such. All I decided to do is to voice out some certain things more loudly and clearly and I will continue. I know why some people do not like it but I am not here to win fans.

carefreewannabe: Stop pretending. You never liked me.

AjanleKoko: LOL.
Do you know, some women even 'friendzone' their husbands after a while.
They only wake up when the man gets attention from outside

Missjargo: jest tryin to mess around a bit

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Most of those stuffs are about genealogy and to some extent the origin of the tribe/ethnic group ..at least where I'm from, we have what is called the Mvett although very interesting, it doesn't tell much about the culture per se

CAMNEWTON4PRES: BTW, pickabeau I forgot to add that I'm still pondering on the possibility of such dynamism , since African history ain't well recorded it is difficult to know if indeed our cultures changed and how many times ...I have to admit that my brain can not accept the fact that we always practiced the Same culture (pre slavery nd invasion) esp because most African ethnic groups migrated a lot and were even in migration during the invasions/genocides (wrongly called colonization)

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Like I said it Must come from within + there are things that shouldn't change or shouldn't be thrown away , things which are not negotiable

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Lmaoo tpia5 na wa ooo

Please Kingston, don't mind the brainwashed slaves, knock their heads and move on, you can't save everyone, we should only make sure that the 1diots roaming our continent don't become the majority, imagine that girl saying she became wiser lmfaooo and the other fellow to say that his culture evolves lol tho , I believe culture is dynamic to some extent but those changes have to b made from within and voluntary:..furthermore there's a difference between dropping your culture and changing it, to bad most did the former...
I had a gf, who was always complaining that I'm too traditionalist, wth does that mean

Tho fulaman didn't mention or single out women, denying that they are the weakest link and the most brainwashed is like denying the existence of the sun @fulanigirl

Fulaman198: I understand it wholeheartedly, the problem is that I'm not happy about it.

Herrmes: Okay, I was actually expecting to see handsome guys, to my bewilderment I saw what I saw, Mehn love is so blind.

TV01: I looked over the "oldest spinsters" thread. I feel bad for those of them that really want marriage. Hope it happens right and in good time. I can't be a hypocrite though. If I were single no chance for any of them. Too old, not fine enough, no compensating attributes.

As for this 57 year old. Are we forgetting she's a Jazz Practitioner?


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tatiana009: I actually consider that to be really smart of the women , you use the system to get what you want men have been doing it for centuries so let the women have fun.

naijababe: I don't know about it being seen as step up is true but as a people we are bedeviled by many socially and economically.

naijababe: Don't be so sarcastic now. Having their cake and eating it of course

tatiana009: Well a lot have realized and started dating men of other races. People usually say black women are the least desirable to men of other races but I've come to realize that it isn't about the color but the figure. The big booty thing, wide hips thing isn't attractive to most men of other races so all black women will have to do is be slim like the white chicks. You'll notice most white men who are married to black women are married to the slim ones. Let the black men get married to women of other races too and let the world evolve once more.

coogar: no, you cannot!
we don't have the affirmative action bullshyte here. subsidisation is a form of rewarding behaviour. taxation is the opposite, and is a form of curtailing behavior.

when you want to reward single deadbeat moms for having kids out of wedlock & birthing illegit kids, subsidise them and give them free money.

someone is working somewhere to provide that free money - the money is coming from american prison system populated mostly by black men.

the smart US government continue to rob black women of their husbands & pay them back in vouchers, 1 litre of milk, section 8, welfare, etc plus innocent kids without fathers.



you must be very intelligent.

that's exactly why men in this section ridicule the so called feminists here. they aren't really fazed about the idealism but the economic advantages attached to it.

the average nigerian feminist has calculated her returns even before she joins the movement. she wants to keep the house, kids, cars, etc to herself and this is the only reason she's a feminist!

Missjargo: Op! Are u wealthy? Cute? And single? Cos am available.

TV01: IFF the story is true, it's still hard to picture.

She's 57 years old and has 13 kids.
Do all the men pay bride price or does she pay groom price? Who provides the roof under which "thay all live peacefully?"

Is their a hierarchy? Senior husband, 2 of 4, junior, smallie etc. etc.
If it is about the rutting, how does she avoid favouritsm?

Mens libidos are typically higher than womens. How will she manage this. Or satisfy them all regardless (perhaps her juju prowess will help here?).

In a fair market, she may be able to interest a few wretched, down and out steet roaming half-mad destitutes. But not much more.

Wait 0! I researched the story a little. Apparently she said only tall dark-skinned hotties between the ages of 25 - 35 need apply. They should be previously unmarried, no kids, degree educated and financially solvent. Good grooming and GSOH will lead their applications to be favourably considered !

I quite like her nerve. Me sef am turning matriarchal.And to think some of our NL sistas can't get a single wan. Berra go sit with this badt gyal and learn what's up .


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blackbeau1: We really don't have men anymore. Just boys pretending to be men

crackhaus: She better pray for it man.

But honestly, I'm surprised I'm the one pitying this woman here, no female who commented on this thread has/wants to give birth to more than 3 or 4kids in their lifetime (and best believe they know why)....so how come they're hailing her on and are not bothered about elasticity, tearing, scaring, breakage, and to top it off, constant banging from three men total to add to the trouble of the blessed Kitty.

I think I'm a feminist.

crackhaus: Hence my pity.


Another reason for me to be pitiful. She's a traditional healer, meaning not wealthy...heck I could bet she barely has enough to survive on. I seriously doubt she owns extensive farm holdings.


Okay let me agree it's about providing for the family...which still begs the question, what African man with plenty money or wealth would get into a marriage with a 50-something year old woman with 13kids from two men just to provide for her? Abi young fresh girls don finish for that village

I think these men she marries are as broke as her, probably more broke even...hence their eagerness to latch on to old overused cargo, no pun intended



Yes clearly.

AjanleKoko: My thoughts exactly when I read this. Some student researchers trying to pigeon-hole the world, based on very limited information that they have. Just by looking at the map you can spot tons of errors. Imagine classifying Zambia and Zimbabwe as 'Islamic countries'

crackhaus: I'm using that instance to prove that any new man she marries will not be coming in because they want to provide for 13kids that aren't theirs...but because they will be getting a taste of her sexxually, hence my earlier comment in reference to her cooshie.

Regardless of whatever motive she has for marrying two other men, she will still be getting phucked constantly and be birthing more kids because clearly she enjoys that.

Enahi: Hey don't take it personal,besides I wasn't referring to all Yoruba ladies. Let me also make it clear,I don't know much about Igbo ladies. I can write a lot about Yoruba people because I grew up,Schooled and have few of them as Friends. I also have relatives that are Yorubas,so I know them well.

Enahi: Yoruba girls are not difficult to woo o,am not hating but they are cheap. It depends on how u package yourself,a yoruba girl can sleep with you for money or anything she can get from you. My previous place of work had staff quarters,my colleague in my room was a Yoruba lady. She was engaged,but she was at the same time sleeping with a male colleague which everyone knew about. She would go sleep in d guys room,eat his food and collect money from him. I believe you just need to package yourself,they are cheap.

2 CHINYERE NWABUEZE
The Ohafia Abia born plus sized actress has been engaged since 2009 but hasn't walked down the aisle.

BIMBO AKINTOLA
all kinds of people from left, right and centre, looking for me saying they want to marry me. Please, I’m using this opportunity to tell everybody, I am not looking for a husband!

4 RITA DOMINIC- It's Not By Choice That I'm Unmarried

38 year old beautiful and petite actress had disclosed that she will settle down once she meets the right person and that she didn't choose to be single at 38.Hopefully, our dear Rita will soon find that right man.

ADA AMEH

No way! I am like Mount Zion, I can never be shaken. Some men love them big. If you throw your left arm, you will touch flesh, you throw the other arm, you will touch flesh.

BENITA NZERIBE- I Can Even Marry a Wheel Barrow Pusher
That is to say,even if the guy is a wheelbarrow pusher, I would marry him so long as my heart is with him.”

12 NKIRU SILVANUS- I Don't Mind Being a 2nd Wife

Nkiru Sylvanus, has declared that she can hook a married man for marriage if the need arises.Sylvanus, while speaking on Sunrise, a morning belt programme on Channels TV, said: “I’ve said it before that if ladies don’t stop this nonsense they call ‘one-man-one-wife’, many of them will get to 40 and still remain single.
“There are more women than man.“Go to churches, the number of single ladies is in most cases is three times the number of single guys.“And some the guys are even jobless.“No good jobs.“Well, some ladies are beginning to realise their folly and one of them has taken the lead to break away from the craze.”
The former aide of the Imo State Governor, Owelle Rochas Okorocha, reiterated further that if the first wife would not make trouble and she is ready to make the man happier, she can consider being a second wife.
In her words: added: “If the situation and the person is good, I would go for it.

14 TONTO DIKEH- I Have No Plans For Marriage; I Only Regret Not Having a Child Yet.

crackhaus: Okay clearly you're thinking from another perspective...that's fine.

But please pray tell, what do you think she means by this emboldened part.



Emphasis on duties, care to share what these duties are?

Also, is it the duty by law for a man to raise and provide financial support for children that aren't his in Zimbabwe or any other part of the world?

Danhumprey: Well,let's just watch as things unfold. If Suarez's appeal against the ban slammed on him isn't considered,it mean he will resume playing football in October. But before then,Enrique might be tempted to get the best out of the players available to him. And when Suarez return,it won't be easy for the coach to alter the formation he has been using while Suarez was serving his ban.

nani667: Nice Anime episode Yesterday... Now we know Madara awakened his Ultimate Susano right after he took his brother's eyes..... So Sasuke should also be able to unleash the Ultimate Susano anytime soon.... Since he already possesses the Eternal Mangekyou Sharingan....

Two more episodes till the end of these fillers...... ✔

Enahi: Oh well I don't know much about Igbo girls,I can only talk about Yoruba girls since I know them very well.

TerryCarr: which is bad if you're a poor nation or like to keep your culture alive
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