₦airaland Forum

Wendy80:
Slap ur Dad? a girl for that matter, God forbid. Most girls I know in keggites are nothing to write home about in terms of Attitudes so I'm not surprised.
OP, he should give her a good beating dn sit her down and talk to her. What rubbish.

keggite is a social club like any other
That some people are unruly does not mean we should generalize

SeverusSnape:
GEJ is a true statesman, I've always said it; If GEJ loses, He'll definitely hand over without any problems, Jonathan is not like Gbagbo.

The people around him can be deadly

SeverusSnape:
Exactly... A formidable opposition is very healthy for our democracy, It keeps the ruling party on their heels, I just hope PDP will act as that. I trust them to do that

True bro

My respect for GEJ increased with his concession

Even mujahid has become calm

in addition severussnape

We need the opposition parties to ensure APC is on their toes so that we all benefit from good governance

For me there is one point agenda

#ElectrifyNigeria

All other things shall follow

Im impressed

I wish the higher ups in the current administration can toe this line and strategise how to recover

cc: orubebe

SeverusSnape:
As you all know, I'm a staunch supporter of Jonathan, The final result has not been announced, but I see Buhari winning this election; No two ways about that. GEJ has lost the election, It's over, it has been a really tough battle, It was fun while it lasted; the insults, , The teasing and the bashing, I personally enjoyed every bit of it.
For those of you saying "SeverusSnape will soon deactivate", No way!.... I ain't deactivating, once a nairalander, always a Nairalander.
To all GEJ supporters, I urge you all to support the new government of Buhari and contribute your own quota to the development of this great nation. Jonathan has tried his best, let him just leave the rest.

That's all I have to say for now.

God bless president Jonathan
God bless the president elect, Muhammadu Buhari.
God bless all Nairalanders.
God bless all Nigerians.
God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria.
Thanks

Mods front page, Don't I deserve it??
I'm a prominent member o... lalasticlala, Maclatunji, Ngwakwe.

igbsam:
ichdodo, barcaniste and temtemi be like

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LOL

Mamatee07:
So how many states does Buhari have more than 25% in now pls

19 states

EnlightenedSoul:
The bolded is perception, not reality. Your perception can only be reality if & when it succeeds in aligning/corresponding with - wait for it - reality. Otherwise, it remains mere perception.

Psycho-trash is as psycho-trash is. Perception =/= Reality.

...believe you me.

OK
I hear you

You call it whatever you want to call it

Does not negate it as a fact

EnlightenedSoul:
A psycho-trash catchphrase. Alongside meaningless perceptions exist verifiable realities.

Nope

Its not trash.....believe you me
You filter your reality via your senses n thoughts

I'm sure you are savvy enough to know that

EnlightenedSoul:
It's more than an opinion, it's a reality. Alas, it's not something those in the perpetual business of wearing rose-colored glasses can be forced into seeing. Nor do they fathom.

Our perceptions determine our reality

EnlightenedSoul:
You do not see?

I've always been convinced [the vast/overwhelming majority of] people have no idea why, or what they're doing when they bring their rugrats into this world.

Its an opinion.. Nothing wrong with that

EnlightenedSoul:
Come on, this is beyond pathetic. Such people shouldn't be having children, period.

I don't see what is pathetic

If u women want to handle the responsibility of kids and let men be..why not

EnlightenedSoul:
This: well-said



This: quite disparaging considering the subject centers around useless inadequacy. Rest assured, your well-hidden nest egg will be of benefit to you.

Nope

It centres around people who don't provide for their kids since the women say they don't need men.

quivah:
we both agreed the guy was too forward... but neither of us know if the girl in the op is exactly what you've painted her to be in the attached quote.. you only jumped into such conclusion... i don't agree with that

I'm good, thank you sire

OK o
I hear you
Lol

Odunharry:
lol

Lol

Odunharry:
mistake men make

stories that touch

quivah:
whatever you say... just learn not to jump into conclusion as tho you were an invincible plane in the situation.

Na wa

You say im jumping to conclusion yet managed to call the guy forward for making his girlfriend Next of Kin
saying the same I said

OK.. I give you one clap
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Meanwhile, you've not been around
How are you

Jahblessme:
@pickabeau
The ogaontop no go gree.

*In Jega Voice*
Pics or ADONBILIVIT

quivah:
na wah how can you conveniently jump into such conclusion that she doesn't care about the mum?!
I'm this kind of person that finds it HARD to call, I mean it just doesn't cross my mind ..except on rare occasions. I can't remember the last time I called my grandma or any old/younger relatives..it doesn't mean I don't care or love them when they come around I give them the utmost respect and care they deserve..but to call arrrggh (just an analogy to the op's case) how much more someone else's relatives! but people who dont understand might think i dont love them(so untrue).. the girl should just at least call if she cant visit and if she's the reserved type(not the type trying to milk the man's dry).. you just can't jump into such conclusion!

but the op is too fast...and might regret his action! how can you place a fiancee in such position.. next of kin Bawo? love or stupidity!

see, let the op treat his mum well I mean very well.. cause its obvious what the op himself have with his mum is just 'na you born me' relationship.. cause I don't see why an ONLY son who loves his mum will take his gf to the site his mum is unaware of common!!!

let the op lead by e.g

The bolded summarises your position.. "BUT"

All before it na theory

Jahblessme:
Send her to her parents my pancake yansh.
Rabbish!

Pics of your pancake yansh or ADONBILIVIT

Messilistic:
You came in here with a situation hoping people will help. Yet ur being uneccessarily rude. Not everyone passing by has a solution to ur problem. If u would only have a little patience, those with the "right" answers will respond.
Be nice next time

Good response


See the caustic post from someone seeking help

#passing by

GL:
It was the same in my family. My mum was a housewife but did small businesses, which she used to complement my dad's income. People assumed my dad earned much more than he did cos she made us & the house look extra nice. Dad started getting lazy, so she worked even harder sometimes doing 3-4 different businesses. Eventually his laziness cost him his job and she had to carry the family's financial burden alone. She really covered for him though, cos she didn't want people to know.

I have seen fathers who would go out of their way to buy clothes, feed their kids, make their wives happy. I pray for such a man.

To men,
shirking your responsibilities doesn't just affect your wife, it messes up your kids. Especially if it starts when they are young.




I better start planning a massive retirement home for when your crop of 'irresponsible' men grow old. I bet the children you abandon will be glad to have a place to abandon you to.

No need for retirement home
They will be well funded in their old age with their nest egg which was kept away from prying alimonic eyes.

fellis:
But will your kids want to take care of you in your old age when you were not part of their upbringing?
They will rather be with the woman who was there for them don't you think? Even if they do show up to care for you it will be out of pity and not love.

I believe the solution for those who don't like marriage is using surrogate mothers for the men and sperm donors for the women. That way you men raise the kids yourself and grow old with them and women can finally have kids that bear their own names.
The idea of women discarding their individuality by changing surnames after marriage never sat well with me.

When your wish comes true we shall see

RoyalRoy:
[color=#000033] Whether she visits your Mum or not, she should not be forced.
Whatever she wants to do should be by her own will and initiative.

The moment when you have to tell her to visit is when you are both married and you have some right over her.


A word of advice..... Why should you make her your next of Kin? Are you so in love that after sponsoring her to school, you still made her next of kin? And take her to your "sites" that even your Mum doesn't know about?

Wake up dude....you seem puzzy-whipped already!!!!

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My thoughts exactly!!!!

Some whipping of life
LOL

choi.. see English schooling

zeb04:
No

Ezatily

And moreover she does not care about the mom but likes the son's money and property

Keg of gunpowder

I hope he has a long life

zeb04:
it is his choice pickabeau.....although it is a risky one, but isn't life about taking risk

if u were a guy or your brother wanted to attempt it, will u do it


1. Sponsor Education YES/NO

2. NEXT of KI YES/NO

what is your opinion on his making her his next of kin and sponsoring her education

zeb04:
so true.

I am naturally reserved too and soo laid back about things like that. I probably won't just dress up to go visit my MIL without an invitation or urgent reason.

Its very possible she dosnt even know she is doing something wrong nd also family upbringing matters.some people grew up in a mind your business kind of family and will never just jump to go visiting so before you take any rash decision,you better speak to her about it.

Jahblessme:
And as I said,I do not see the advantages of marriage to any woman.
Marriage or no doesn't make anyone responsible.
Exactly,who needs marriage its becoming outdated.
I ask again what is the advantage to a woman,? Esp when she ends up doing all the chores cooking cleaning washing kids plus work and then should form p orn star for night..

Abegi, the end is nigh.Thank God people are realising that its all been a big scam

I am also waiting for this your wish to come true

Jahblessme:
Marriage on its own is going to be obsolete very soon.
There's no real advantage in it for women.
Society has decieved us into thinking there's real gain in being married.
The only thing is avoiding ur kids being called bastards.

Cook clean chores kids,na woman.You go work on top yet come home and continue plus no help?

So of what use is a man then?Thankfully the world in general is wisening up.No need to marry,split all bills and yea you can live next door.

Cannot see wait for the dawn of an equal world!!
Soon and very soon. Muhehehhehehehehe

Your prayer may soon come to pass
We shall see who needs marriage more

Why bother with responsibility when one single mom will raise my kids.
That means I can even be more irresponsible.

I pay my steward or stewardess to cook and clean my home

So who needs marriage....


PS we need more women like you so we can have less women who want marriage tieing us down
Yay
Equality

Hmm...conspiracy theories

freecocoa:
Cc: Pickabeau1 and Crackhaus

Just as I suspected

The product of the witch is an angel..

crackhaus:
Diabolical enough to use pictures of her own grandchild for ritual purposes, funny insinuation considering how said diabolical MIL can still take a pic with the child at another time.

However, I can't rule out the possibility of one having a diabolical MIL but if she believes that fighting a supposed witch in the physical is the best way to overcome the devil, then she's got a few screws loose. . . or has she forgotten night will come.

I'd rather not believe she thinks her MIL is diabolical, she just doesn't like the woman...period!

She believes it...I tell you


Let's wait for the op to tell us her feelings about his mom

Cc: perfectionist