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Triple blessing

God bless all the destiny helpers on here

OP, did he ask you to display his daughter's pictures?

I see a man not a boy.

Nice one though

Proud father

This is what you get when a bricklayer calls himself an Engineer.

RIP to the dead

May her gentle soul rest in peace, Amen.

Goldencollins:
make me understand,lets not be biased here,does it mean there was no atom of electoral mal practice in states won by the APC that the tribunal should be nullifying elections in states won by the PDP. something is definitely not clear but with time we shall see.
feel free to quote me.

Nigerian version of democracy is a joke

How come every case that is taken to the supreme court in Abuja must be won by the ruling party?

HBP in pregnancy is very delicate. In this case, everything seemed to have been handled well initially, i wonder what went wrong after the delivery, so sad

Adorable child

iambabaG:
Did u loose anybody.. Because I lost a whole family of 5!!
D mur reason I am certain of wot I'm saying! Where is d sentiment ?

Yes, I lost my fellow country men/women/children, no wonder you are downplaying the enormity of the situation we are in.

princejayboss:
You are wrong about one thing.... When you have a househelp, you don't just make your kids lazy, you also train the maid, my mum was a doctor and my dad was always on travels yet she trained us four, to be what we are without a maid irrespective of her hospital calls and traveling dad whom always come after two or three weeks.


I have a friend who lost a son to a very crazy made after 7years of childless marriage.... So I have bad teste of the househelp thing.

My wife was re-assigned to my state and my mum helped out

So what if your mum is late(God forbid)? What if she was busy handling her own business? What if you cannot fall back on any relative to help out? You picked one case and you let it shape the way you run your home? I don't think it's the best. My mum was a Nurse, my dad was a business man. We had house helps that never ever abused us while we were growing up. Yet, even my brothers are fantastic cooks now, so wth is everyone talking about?! It's your home, and you can run it how you like, shallom.

iambabaG:
What part of d post don't u understand? I said there is a decline.. I didn't say it has stoped!!

The "Decline" part is ridiculous, you need to get your facts right before posting. It shows you do not value the lives of those that have actually died, all I see is a display of misguided sentiment on your part.

iambabaG:
In as much as I am nt interested in all dis "photo shoot".. There is a decline in d activities of d insurgents. It was an everyday occurrence under uncle GEJ.
May God empower d military 2 actualise d December deadline!

GOD BLESS THE NA..!! Say Amen..

So the number of people that have lost their lives since May 29th shows a decrease in the activities of B.H? I will withhold any form of insult, for the sake of those who have died and their relatives who are still grieving.

Head boy

tyconcepts:
This piece should interest you coming from a man


Some times, being a woman in Nigeria is quite a
task. You are subjected to absurd societal
norms, by men…. and other women. Many times,
men, even those that ‘love and care about’ their
women can’t see these absurdities as what they
are. Onuora Ikechukwu Onianwa see these
absurdities, and he has written a Facebook note
about them. His note his getting plenty likes
from women, and some men.

Onuora Ikechukwu Onianwa’s note :

I want to make a general, sweeping statement. I
know it will sound unfair and rude, and I’m sorry.
I truly mean no insult. It is just me expressing
my view on a long list of issues.

So, here we go…

Sometimes I am grateful to God I am not a
woman...

* I can’t have an education or it will make me lord
it over my man, and tempt me to be the head of
the home.

* I can’t have a job because I will become proud
and un-submissive.

* I can’t have a job that pays more than my
husband’s because it is an insult to his manhood
and he will be emasculated. One day I will even
use it to rubbish him outside.

* I can’t be single at 25, and unmarried at 30, or
without a single child at 35. It means I am
cursed, have a spirit husband or have a bad
character and no man wants to be with me.

* Any achievement of mine is a waste and useless
if I have no boyfriend or husband, and it will only
make me more arrogant and unattractive to
men.

* Heaven forbid I own a car or a house for the
same aforementioned reasons. The only place I
can live till I marry, is my parent’s home.

* Only loose women stay in hotels. If my job
requires I travel, I must stay with older people,
friends or an elderly couple who can talk to me
about this my job that won’t allow me settle in
one place and marry.

* Expensive things are not allowed. I can’t marry
quick with them.

* I can’t speak about anything under the sun
without a ring on my finger and babies who have
suckled my breasts.

* If my boyfriend/husband cheats on me, I must
endure it and manage. All men are the same.
There are no good ones around any more.

* Whatever my husband says (even common
pangolo boyfriend that doesn’t know his left
from right) I must agree. The moment we got
together, I lost my sense of reasoning and
purpose in life. his word, even if foolish, is law
and I must die to please him and obey.

* How dare I expect my husband to hire a maid or
ask anyone asides me to clean? What did he
marry me for?

* My husband, cook and clean? Am I mad? Is that
not witchcraft?

* Why should he take care of the kids while I
sleep, travel or go out? Is he my mate or my
servant? Am I a fool?

* Oh, so I don’t know I must cook fresh soup
everyday? I must be an idiot.

* So, I don’t know I must wear make-up , heels
and sexy dresses or be naked all day? Do I want
him to go out and cheat?

* The home falls apart because I’m a useless and
stupid woman.

* The marriage ends because I am a useless and
stupid woman.

* My husband cheats on me and beats me
because I am a useless and stupid woman.

* The children grow up horrible because I am a
useless and stupid woman.

* I am a useless and stupid woman…because I am
a useless and stupid woman.


Its bad enough men think this way. To see
women do it too, and fight men like me who
have been carrying women’s rights on our head
like we are the next Malcolm X, Luther or
Madiba, is shocking and sad. Maybe one day
things will get better.
I pray it does, because anyone who says the
aforementioned trash to my baby girl(s) will hear
from me, and they won’t forget me in a hurry.
Sometimes I am grateful to God I am not a
woman. I might have killed someone by now…


PS : Coming from a man, this shocked me walahi

lalasticlala, ishilove.....Please let's hear what the general public thinks.

I respect this man 100% This country is a living hell for a female. Sadly, a lot of women have been brainwashed and they are the ones who mostly carry on these evil attitudes against other women. Recently I read a post on here where a married woman shamelessly insulted another lady calling her frustrated and miserable because she is single and she aired her view on an issue involving a married woman. People will talk and say nonsense, even those in miserable marriages will feel more priviledged than you My dear sisters ignore the stuwpidity of mediocre people, realise that your life is your own and no one else is answerable for what you do with it, but you.

That looks like marble

Yolubbas and rape are like five and six.

Ruggedman:
MY VERDICT
I detest all muslims (including Buhari) with enormous passion!
I wish them pains, grief, rejection, anguish, dejection, sheer frustration, misery depression, ill-luck, wretchedness, all the deadly incurable diseases on planet earth and eventually, a gradual drift accompanied by woes into the land beyond (a horrible death).
I just wish I could grab a sword, get hold of them and mercilessly behead them one by one while their pleas to be spared amuses me.
For your info, Muhammad S.A.W (the undisputed sex award warlord) and his small carved stone (Allah) are perfectly roasting & wailing tirelessly in hell and soon, yes very soon, you guys are going to join him there cause that is where terrorists like yourselves rightly deserve.
No peace for the wicked!
Your doom is nigh.

Thank God the baby is okay

Fr. Ubaka why now

If you truly have 100 million you will know what to do with it.

GTB

edoosasere:
Pet4ril should itn eally be so. This is a language that is artificial to us. The first world nations don't over rate English language as African does

Why are you not writing this post in your native language?

Is this a country?

APC where my 5k?

Money has a language of its own, it melts many hearts

Pwettyella:
D God that will do dis one will perfect evrything concerning it,I strongly bliv in God,thanks

God gave us brain to think my sis, look for work first, then register for part-time studies.

oluwafunmilayomi:
am some1 that stay home all day, no work,nothing nothing after seeking job down the city.
i now sit and tink that wat can i even do as an enterpreneur that will fetch me something atleast to eat and to pay rent. after tinking and tinking, i concluded on selling pop corn cuz i noticed that if i start this business, people will patronize me in which that requires me to have a pop corn machine that cost some amount of money. (sad) some1 that doesnt have a dime in a bank account how can such person buy a pop corn machine.
just wanna share me life with u fellow nairalanders, cuz i know dat someday all is going to be well...*worried*

If you have a big pot at home you can start from there until you save enough to purchase a second hand machine. Or you can borrow your capital for the business

emancipation1:
Omg....father of bastards....u dont know how it feels sis.his actions arent right but it not easy to hold some things up.

Well, now he will have to spend the rest of his life in Prison. Besides, he must be impotent and he must have known something about it before now. Too many secrets in this family, he was hiding his impotence and she knew all along but thought she was helping him out.