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Why did they naked them? Most of their clients are old, married men who should be responsible enough to avoid such acts. They should have been handed over to the police not treated like this.

The rapist shall forever live in tribulation.

The rate of suicide is increasing daily, it is clear that we need more enlightenment on depression and other mental illnesses in our country.

Na person pikin be dis?!

It shall never be well with them.

Flani herdsmen? Is that the new name of devil or Satan.

Why didn't they listen to his explanation and offer him an alternative? Rigidity is not the best solution.

This boy looks mean and unremorseful.

Responsible people are praying for children day and night, yet this stuwpid woman is birthing them easily. I hope they are all locked up for years.

Stop all violence against women

These people are demons

May the blood of their victims hunt their offspring to the 10th generation

Mtn 1500?! Hmmmm, if this is true then there is a need to address this asap

Eddygourdo:
while I dey clean eyes to control tears, I didn't realise I was naked till things cool down and I begin see as the babes concentrate dey give me yeye attention. Such perverts

It will only work when you give people incentives when they obey the policy, offer them free healthcare in old age and have a proper elderly care system in place.

After 10 years?!

And this boy mama go dey happy say she born pikin

Young man focus on your education or else you will regret later.

Na your mate dey get first class for university.

@OP, you sef why you no use your hand cover your thing, abi you no get hand again?

Change the diet of the one that farts a lot. Meals consisting of beans and egg make people to fart regularly.

For your brother-in-law medical test is needed, he may have diabetes or maybe an STD let him go for test to get proper diagnosis.

Seriously?!

We pride ourselves as a religious country, but the things so called "moralists" living in freedom down here do in secret, is worse than what most peverts serving time in prisons do in other countries

Good!

Fake Pastors everywhere

crystaltots:
Women are the builders of lives and destinies. It’s our sole duty to choose mates with high value status in terms of morals for the sake of our offspring…

Raise strong respectful men who will know the value of women and how to treat them and women who stand by their husbands come what may. Sadly the race to be Mrs. Somebody makes women settle for less and when you decide to go against the norm you are blamed.

A cue should be taken from men of the Stone Age though barbaric they protected their women, had high values and morals..

Despite the women and girls barely covering their womanly parts rape was seen as a highly dishonorable crime but these days even a fully clad woman is raped and blamed for her misfortune.

A man may marry the wrong woman and get away with it simply by divorcing her and moving on to the next woman. A woman marrying the wrong man jeopardizes her future and that of the children if she gets divorced and is forced to raise the children on her own. The kids will not be psychologically balanced due to lack of a complete family structure and she becomes a bitter woman.

“The kids need their father and mother to grow up into grounded adults.”

Women for the love of your children do not get married to just anyone, be sure you are ready to stay with your spouse come what may; either he gets so broke, or so sick or so annoying but do ensure he is morally sound.

“You swore for better for worse so stick to your words but before you say those words ensure it is not because you feel you are running out of time or that your girlfriends have all become mummies. Truth is everyone has a different time frame for their race in this life.”

If you can’t see yourself with that man in at least the next fifty years whether he is broke, pot bellied with his guts spilling out or sick and confined to a wheel chair annoying you with babyish demands and rants then stay put.

“Yes he may give you the best wedding but will he give you the best marriage? Years from now will he choose you again all over or will he regret his decision because life’s realities brought out the real you and not the fantasy woman he fell in love with.”

I met two sisters the elder one has so little self esteem while the younger one’s eyes look funny like she is going blind. Everytime I see them roam around, I wonder why so I made my findings and discovered that their mother left their father because his meagre earning as a motorcyclist was not sufficient for her lifestyle.

She left him with her two young girls and went after a more comfortable man. The younger got sick with measles almost went blind while the elder one lost her self confidence since there was no one to shower her with the love she needed to hone her confidence.

In my little way I have tried to befriend them so I can inspire them to be better.

Our electrician also told us of how his wife left him to be with a richer man since his business took a down turn, he said he can’t take care of their young kids on his own since he needs to go out there to source for their livelihood.

Do not bring messed up kids to this world because when the home front is messed up you have a frustrated husband and kids with low self esteem.

“Women I beseech you stop marrying for the sake of being Mrs Somebody rather marry because you are ready and willing to sacrifice what it takes to bear that title.

Remember we were crafted to be the helpmate, home maker and a mother not just to our children but to everyone.”

Feel free to drop your comments.

Nice one, thanks for this.

PMB has come to institutionalize tribalism.

Fkforyou:
Have you ever beign to the North...? I've spent my entire life in the north and I cant seem to relate with all your assertions,Asides the 2 first class students who are guys, we are about 20 of us who graduated with second class upper in chemical engineering of which 5 were females and 4 of them were born and brought up in the North. You just make it seem as if girls over here are oppresed and helpless.

We are oppressed by cultural, societal and religious practices. Girls are the most victimized in restive situations like what we find in the North, remember the genocide in Rwanda? Over one million women and girls were raped. In Nigeria, South Africa, India, Congo, girls and women are raped on a daily basis. As an individual, it is not easy to live beyond the limitations your society, culture or religion places on you, it takes courage and most times this is acquired as a result of upbringing. How many parents tell their daughters that they can be the president of this country one day? A ten year old girl told me that her ambition is to be the wife of a president one day, why not the president? She says God forbid, the position will be for her husband, i guess you already know why she thinks this way.

I bet the five females in your class are from privileged families, besides their effort is like an exercise in futility as their certificates may not be utilized eventually. For a female it is all based on condition, what if her husband does not want her to work? Is she ready to compromise her marriage for her personal ambition? If she stays single, she will be viewed negatively no matter how high her achievements are.

raumdeuter:
What difference does a group of kids moving around in group make to predators?

Have you been to the North have you seen Almajiris before? they are not rappedd only that they get kidnapped regularly and used for rituals on a weekly basis without any family even missing them or noticing they are gone.

Seeing a young boy killed by a hit and run driver because he is left on his own is a common occurence

Thats for those that are not used as bomb carriers by Boko Haram for a plate of rice or those that were not attacked by Hyenas while sleeping under trees.

The girls are not sent out to be Almajiris, they are kept till teenage to be married off while the boys are sent out by age 5 when some can barely speak to go fend for themselves by begging

Tell us how this is better than marrying young girls off to marriage

Open a thread for Almajiris.

coogar:
you are a consummate rëtard!
what has this question gotta do with the discourse? if this topic is intellectually out of your league, i suggest you move to lindaikeji where the price of peruvian hair is currently trending!




what is the ratio of female phD holders to the multitudes of uneducated girls selling bread & pure water in the south where there are quintillion christians?




you are a cretinous vermin!

my objective here is to educate you to stop viewing the world with the lens of western civilisation only. other religions & cultures do exist - you need to stop watching CNN & travel the world to decongest the fluff in your cranial cavity!

muslim girls are married off early to prevent them from having sëxual urges as single women. it's a cultural/religious issue so stop ptyalising baloney like a photosensitive epileptic patient!

I will not be dragged into debating with a street urchin like you, obviously you do not have the intellect to present your clueless point without spewing filth from that dirty stinking rotten decayed hole you call mouth and your dense peanut sized brain. We are clearly not on the same level hence my conversation with you ends here.

Holuwakemmy16:
Wetin be my own?

I wonder

raumdeuter:
Almajiri and child marriage culture is an extension of the religion and culture of the North and cannot be separated from another

Children of the poor in the North go through those terrible situation and The male are worse

How are 5yrs old boys able to hustle on their own and how are theirs any better? Do you know what a 5yr old looks like and what kind of hustle is he able to do to fend for himself?

Male find it easier yet males die more than females. A 5yr old boy who sleeps in the open and is open to attack by weather and animals is better? I cant believe what I just read

At least the five year old boy is not on his own, they move in groups. Besides, they are not being raped or sexually exploited like their female counterparts who are sent into the street to hawk for their survival. Ever heard of VVF? This is only one of the many consequences of early marriage and sexual exploitation. Like I said before I empathize with every Nigerian child, but girls always have it worse than boys in almost all circumstances.

coogar:
many of them are ph.d level.....



because it's tedious having to enlighten you lots concerning how the world works. if you were born into a muslim family in yemen, you wouldn't be saying this.....



early marriage is solely based on religion. the idea is to marry these girls as soon as they hit puberty so that they don't give in to the natural sëxual urges as an unmarried woman.

the urge for sex can be very strong, especially in adolescence and in most cases, the urge must be satisfied, either in a halal way or in a haram way. islam want the former.



that's untrue....

from the hadith of prophet muhammad....

3 matters should not be delayed:

•prayer when it's time comes.
•burial when the funeral has arrived
•the marriage of a single woman when a well-suited man has proposed.



you are a lunatic!

i will strongly advise you get out of your cocoon and explore the world before you. it would give you the rare opportunity of learning about other religion/culture.

there are millions of educated women in the middle east and many of them were betrothed to their hubbies at puberty and they are also giving their daughters out at puberty.

that's their culture!

Obviously you have been living in deception all your life, you see the truth but your mind cannot distinguish between reality and fantasy. What is the ratio of female PhD holders to the multitudes of uneducated girls and women in the North? Once again typing jargons and spewing rubbish every where. You work tirelessly on here to downplay what we all know is the truth.

raumdeuter:
Are the male children born into poverty in Northern Nigeria having it better?

By age 4 they are forced outside their house into the harsh weather rain or sun to start begging as Almajiris and eating rotten food leftover by people, Many die in the process from disease and lack of care some are attacked and eaten by wild animals (hyenas) and stray hunting dogs

Pray tell which is having it easy. A 12yr old girl denied education and married to a Grand father or a 4 yr old boy that has barely known how to speak sent out on the street to beg for a living (education is not even a consideration here)

If you want to have a discursion on Almajiris you can open a new thread for that. This thread was started to empathize with Nigerian "Females"

At least the boys can hustle for food on their own, the girls are left to starve at home, some even die of malnutrition, tell me which is better? While I empathize with every child born into poverty, it is a well known fact that males mostly find it easier to overcome most of these circumstances.