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Olabowale, olabowale:Hmmm, thank God for the lives of the women in your life. It's not by force that I begin to go there and showing any heat as you did in my own story. Why? Lol, because salvation testimonies are not a matter of competition! If you want to share your story, it should not be predicated on what I do or the person I am. Just be yourself, and life will be easier.olabowale:I hear. People who engage in good conversations do not have to force themselves to be noticed or competing to share their own stories. Do enjoy - Jesus loves you. |
@Olabowale, olabowale:What is there to explain, Olabowale? When I made an effort to tell my story and explain that same thing, you guys exhibited your restlessness until the thread was locked. It wasn't as if there was a competition in sharing one's testimony, but it surprised me that it played out just as a few people offline have warned me. I learnt from that experience, and can only thank God for the wisdom of those ladies who raised the warning (stubborn me, I didn't heed them in time). But since then, I have taken their advice to not waste time engaging you guys where you won't be reasonable. So, please understand why you're wasting your time forcing all this effort to show the same restlessness. olabowale:I wasn't ignoring you. The one thing I won't do is start arguing aimlessly with you. I know it must have been tough to disgest the news that someone who was raised as a muslimah could be changed: and thereto, I have received all sorts of insults on my person and parents. Yet, I am learning through it all to love the same people who feel that way - because I know and have been where they are now. Olabowale, I cherish the friendships that God has blessed me with since sharing my story - and I'm going to treasure the advice of one of them who dissuaded me entering any arguments. If there's talk, I can choose to join in or quietly observe. But if it has an undertone of insults and brewing for arguments, I will simply fold myself away from there. God blessing - Jesus loves you. |
@huxley, huxley:You really need to broaden your mind, huxley. It is beginning to be a big disappointment that you would even suggest Dawkins "draws from" . . philosophy. The guy is a zero on it - and his mates have pointed it out in no uncertain terms. The one thing I often find in many people talking loudly like this is that they don't even know what they are arguing about. >Sigh<. My dear sir, please stretch your mind a bit more broadly and understand that Dawkins is the least person on the list to draw from philosophy - he just doesn't have a clue what it is! |
@huxley, I find you reposte rather roundabout turn and yet not quite up to it. What do I mean? From the very onset, I have appealed for reason rather than caterwauls; but it doesn't seem like you're inviting a dialogue and still have a knack of choosing your "style" in discussions - even if that style is rather a put off than help to your cause. However, here's something that I was wishing someday soon we would examine: huxley:You may not have read any other other atheists who disagrees with Dawkins; but that does not mean there is none whatsoever. huxley:Great. Maybe the style is much more important to you than the substance of the discussion - which is why for the sake of sanity I have obliged to sit back and watch the drama as it unfolds. Warmest regards. |
@Olabowale, olabowale:Lol, I've often said that it's not in my least interest to engage in such answers for now as I don't want to enter a theological debate with Muslims till further notice. The time will come when such answers may appear in my testimonies; but not now. Jesus loves you. |
It's alright, ~Lady~. . . I've been worse than that the way I've addressed others at times. So I can understand. Blessings. |
[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=116335.msg2879308#msg2879308 date=1222890903]Ma'am you may have forgotten that Jesus was accused of worshipping demons. But the above verse is a reminder.[/quote]Lol, you're a wonderful interpreter! Where did they accuse Jesus of worshipping demons? And which one of the Catholic definition did you find there among dulia, hyperdulia, and latria?Edit: In other words, if they accused Jesus of such (worshipping demons), does that mean the Catholic Church does the same? |
@Chrisbenogor, Chrisbenogor:Lol, something is missing here. The point is that: (1) I only directly referred to Dawkins for one reason alone: his nuances and clichés have been severally used in derision against others. Let us suppose that someone else's nuances are being used, as well I would have mentioned that other person. My mentioning Dawkins should not be interpreted to mean that I thought he was representing atheism quite well: and if anyone should remember, I have made that point clear several times. (2) when discussing with people and expecting them to make fruitful contributions, one does not set out to first deride them and seek every excuse under the sun to maintain such a position as if ridicule serves anyone any profitable purpose. Why should we or anyone "expect" such from any other? These two are the main issues here and not merely the mentioning of Dawkins. Other issues about the penchant to revel in statistics on these matters have been dealt with. Personally, I'm not disturbed about Barker's number of years as an evangelist - I'm quite aware that Judas Iscariot walked with Christ as an "apostle", and yet several times he was warned about his inward condition. Did Judas not perform miracles? Oh yes he did. But what about his defection? That is the point that would have made very interesting inputs so we all learn to see the issues involved in things like this. But no, rather than listen, we are being entertained and advised to "expect" ridicule. For me, I was waiting to see what really is the motive of discussing with my fellow discussant(s) if the one thing that underscores their invitation is not to expect fruit of genial import, but rather the very thing we all disdain on either side? That is why I have said that if this is where it is going, I would rather sit back and watch the drama unfold. Cheers. |
@huxley, huxley:Lol, what factual statement was in Dawkins' nuance of "faith-heads" against others, especially when there's only ridicule in that cliche? I know at what level I think, and using this as an excuse for continuing your attitude indicates to me that you may not have carefully considered what I said in my repostes. huxley:Please huxley, don't even go there! I'm totally shocked at your brashness this evening. Are you the only atheist that is totally unware that Dawkins was not doing SCIENCE in his rants? Or am I the only person who has come across other atheists who are too ashamed to hold up Dawkins as a face for atheism? Your assertions are flying all over the place - and this leaves me wondering how you could be downplaying Dawkins on the one hand and then fronting for him on the other. ![]() huxley:I don't think anyone called for the opportunity of being insulted with Dawkins' nuances - is that not misrepresentation enough? Afterall, I did mention that faith involves reason! How come is it that many times you guys sound so unreasonable and want to stay on that page as if it is the finest quality to present about the shade of atheism you argue for? huxley:I'm sure people are going to do so; and others have been doing so. Your attitude is surprising, because before even considering what anyone has to say, you still have this default mentality that they must first and foremost be ridculed. Dear huxley, you will never impress reasonable people with such attitudes. huxley:That's the point: why "expect" ridicule? What does that add to your atheism? It seems to me that even where there is a move for reason, the case is being gradually confirmed that reason is a hard and expensive commodity to possess from those who have a default mentality that theists must be faith-heads (or, as he says elsewhere, "egg-heads" . We thank you for the ridcule; but perhaps a lesson to always take to heart is simply this - such ridicules do not help your cause.Cheers. |
[quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=116335.msg2879229#msg2879229 date=1222889974]Don't forget Jesus himself was also accused of doing the same as the Catholic Church.[/quote]Ye right! Like bowing down to graven images and using the bronze serpent as his excuse? Or by giving the hyperdulia worship to Mary? I don't know where He was accused of doing the same as the Catholic Church in these matters. |
That's why it may help us to celebrate some of these things even if they happen rarely. We need to appreciate that there are still people with integrity that inspire us in our day - and it doesn't have to be a worthy news based on religion - as in the example above, there was no hint thereto. Do you have some worthy news to share that could inspire our appreciation? ![]() |
huxley:Well, huxley, . . . in as much as you sound the warning, don't you suppose that the warner also himself ought to pay heed to the warning he sounds? ![]() |
@huxley, huxley:Ahem, ahem!! This is somewhat hard to digest. Not a disciple of Dawkins and yet you are so used to his nuances. I wonder how many people would be convinced about that; yet I don't hold you against your claim.huxley:You don't suppose "evidence" will be offered when you have derided those whom you hoped to engage in a fruitful dialogue. This is the lesson atheists have to learn constantly. |
@~Lady~, [quote author=~Lady~ link=topic=177698.msg2879117#msg2879117 date=1222888781]Hmmm I gotta disagree, I don't think David is a good example. He doesn't know that there are 10 commandments, he thinks there are only 9. And he doesn't know what Christian virtues are. So I don't know about that. I actually wouldn't be shocked, I would say "aha the truth has come out, he was never Christian after all"[/quote]That was not reasonable, to say the least. This type of attitude is a sad occurence among many who assume they know too much about other people. My observations. |
Olabowale, olabowale:Lol, it is quite amusing that you're forcing yourself to be noticed. You arguements constantly confirm how the muslim blood will forever be antagonistic to Jews and Christians. It was not until I left Islam behind and forever that I came to understand why Islam is so opposed to the "people of the Book". No, I'm not interested in a debate; not interested in arguing anything here - my many arguements have shown that you guys have nothing to offer, and there was nothing new in the way you all reacted in your assumed "truth" that turned out to bless nobody. You can antagonize as much as you want - but what is that doing to you personally? Why are you so restless to prove the very thing I stated about the Muslim behaviour towards Christ? Isn't it ironic that the more you shout about the religion of peace, the more your attitude is proving the direct opposite? I had a challenge from a Muslim who almost got me to go to the Muslim section and debate him. He is still waiting - because I made clear to him that nothing attracts me there. He wasn't amused about that reply; but his vitriol only made me sorry for him and hold him in my prayers. I wish the same for you, because you really have no clue what you're doing. It's a sad world for people who force themselves the way you do; but I was once like you and even worse - and if Jesus Christ could change me, you're not a hard job for Him. Jesus loves you - Jesus is Lord. Enjoy. |
huxley:Lol, take a look at the way you addressed Christians - the very people whom you hope would "define what Christianity is". See - this is what I have always tried to get your attention to: attitudes matter in delivery of our message. The moment you assume that theists are "faith-heads", not only have you deliberately insulted them, you have also categorically closed the door of dialogue. It is not as if Christians are unwilling to dialogue; but the readiness of some atheists to tend to ridicle is a recurring element that closely the door of dialogue. And who loses in the end? If you assume that the loss is to the same people you're seeking answers from, then a most basic question is this: why seek answers from them when you have already closed the door to dialogue? Indeed, huxley, while advising others that "this is a very bad way to argue or debate", perhaps it should have occured to you that name-calling and aspersions are not the best of ways to open a debate! huxley:We know such things do not speak for Christianity - just as much as I could readily list the hideous and very shameful frauds of most atheists as well: would such speak for atheism as a whole? This is the wonderful thing about statistics - the moment you begin that journey, never assume that your fellow discussants have no such statistics to present against your claims! I have said so on several occasions. But then, why would I have posted the example of Dawkins? As I said, I simply wanted to demonstrate the hypocrisy in those who demand a high standard from others when they themselves have no such integrity in their CVs. Dawkins is incidentally the very man who wasted no time deriding and mocking Ted Haggard on the latter's fall into shame. Is it not ironic that the same Dawkins could not hold himself even after he'd been cautioned on his "rather unpleasant little lie" (Andrew Brown)? So, if an avowed atheist such as Dawkins could himself peddle such moral laxities in his own life - even in academic corridors, the seat of learning and scholarship - then we are seriously in trouble if at any rate we try to cover up such shame. So, what's my point? Simply this: the big "H". A dialogue of honest enquiry is not best served by deriding those with whom you hope to enter into such a discourse. The moment we use such pelters as "faith-heads" (Dawkins' pet nuance) against intelligent people, there's already the undertone that you have made up your mind that Christians are not people of "reason". You did not even make for a possible allowance to hear them out before assuming a derisively "dawkinsian" slogan of "faith-heads" against them. Hmmm, is that not the very prejudice that atheists are often too quick to scorn from others while they themselves (atheists - "some" atheists) are all too comfortable to resort to as first aid? Dear huxley, a dialogue that hopes to be fruitful is not best served by derision as a first cause. You used an expression from Dawkins against Christians (you may not agree, but go back and find out who have used that cliché). In one line: it is unnecessarily offensive, and bound to make your fellow discussants quite reactive. Christians are not "faith-heads" - they are intelligent people who reason as well. Regards. |
@huxley, huxley:Granted, at least nobody is saying that Dawkins represents atheism. Even I have also noted that he is not the highpriest of atheism. I only referenced him because his clichés and nuances are the readily dished sauces served in discussions involving atheism. However, one cannot disconnect Dawkins from atheism quite namby-pambily. No, because his rants are still being circulated by many who see themselves as atheists and applaud him as the vanguard of what is today referred to as 'new atheism'. For all of that, Dawkins is not a handsome face for atheism, agreed. However, one cannot claim that Dawkins does not make any claim to morality by any stretch. That is seriously hiding the truth with a huge question mark. As one who has been harping on the "evils" of theism, he should himself be concerned with his own morality. Hence, it would be a very laughable antinomy for such a man to point accusing fingers at others about morality, while hoping to excuse himself from any responsibility to live morally. There's a word that describes such an attitude: hypocrisy with a big "H"; and for any atheist who parades himself/herself as passionate for truth, but seriously lacking in moral integrity, one should rather sadly shake their heads - not in disdain, but rather in pity. The feature news I reposted from Telegraph is a very small example of how these men can be so blinded by their own pride that they cannot stop for a moment to examine their own hearts. If it was a Christian who was pandering that "rather unpleasant little lie" (Andrew Brown) in academic corridors, atheists around the world would not listen to any excuses of that Christian not making any claim to "a moral high ground" (acc. to you). This attitude of readily accusing others of what we ourselves cannot endure, simply shows the accuser to be a carrying a big "H" on his back. I don't mean to sound unpleasant; but truth has to be told if only for once making you guys see that such brigand slurring by atheists does nobody any good - much less they themselves. Bottomline, it is not just Dawkins we should be ashamed of - we should be ashamed ourselves for trying to excuse him for his moral failure. |
@huxley, huxley:Please don't even go there. I know how many atheists often do this; and to turn round and make this a ready slang against Christians is sadly the very hypocrisy among atheists that put off many people. Let me show you why that is so by responding to your previous post. |
lelele:Ahhhhh!! I am so sorry! Look at me playing here when I have very important issues to attend to! Don't mind me - I just iggy-ed those gentlemen filling my screen with insults on YIM and decided to come here. Hmm, I'll go back on just now. Sorry I kept you waiting! Awww. , here's a warm hug for all that wait!! ![]() |
The problem with atheists and their ilk is the fact that they practice exactly what they accuse theists especially Christians of - hypocrisy, insult hurling, disrepect, and the most important of all - bigotry.Please let me borrow the above line from you, erudite poet, just to illustrate a point about some (pls, I said "some" of the most vocal atheists in our backyard. Often it is said that these people are passionate about truth and make a lot of noise about integrity. Uhm. . . I'm not quite sure that these are the finest points about this don of Oxford. So here:Curled from the Telegraph.co.uk ~~ ________________________________________________________________ [size=14pt]Dawkins does it again[/size] Here is a really ugly spat between Professor Richard Dawkins and my old friend the science writer Andrew Brown. In an article for the online Guardian*, Brown has accused Dawkins of circulating a "rather unpleasant little lie" about the philosopher Mary Midgley to whit, that years ago she gave a damning review to The Selfish Gene without having bothered to read the book. The allegation boils down to this: back in 1995, Dawkins told Brown that Midgley had confessed to reviewing his book without reading it. Brown thought this was utter nonsense: Midgley's damning review was very detailed and obviously based on the text. Later, Dawkins told Brown in an email that it was all an unfortunate confusion. Matter settled. But now, to Brown's amazement, Dawkins writing on his own website has again accused Mary Midgley of confessing to reviewing the book without reading it. Brown can hardly believe it: What makes it almost literally incredible that he should write this is that he links in that post to her original review, so that anyone who bothers to click through can check the evidence for his claim. It is true that some of the quote marks have fallen off her quotes from his book, but I am sure that he recognises his own words even if not everyone else does. Mary Midgley wrote to him some weeks ago asking him to withdraw the allegation. No reply. Well, he's a world-famous millionaire and she's an elderly widow not nearly rich enough to wave lawyers at anyone. But it is all rather sad for anyone who believes in the power of reason. Some people posting under the article have suggested that it's a storm in a teacup. I don't think it is. Dawkins needs to clarify his position if he can. ________________________________________________________________ * the online Guardian*, article says: "Physician, heal thyself Richard Dawkins demands evidence for every factual claim and yet he cannot let go of an irrational belief about one of his critics" I have often called for a a sensible handling of issues where the real questions of the day could formulate the issues we need to discuss. Okay, my apologies to those who may feel a bit distraught at my referencing Dawkins as if he alone is the highpriest of atheism. No, I don't think so - and there are quite a number of other folks who are as vociferous as the don of Oxford. Problem is that these folks will spend all their lives harping at theists (aye, Christians) as the most dishonest people on earth. We don't need to travel far to examine where these men stand on the scale of integrity. Imagine a man of his standing playing the hypocrisy of a school rascal. Baa! ![]() |
Wordsmith:Edit: @Wordsmith. . Erudite poet, calm down sir! Lol, I feel you and had anticipated that someone might react on that. Actually, the term ("faith-heads" has been popularized by Richard Dawkins who really didn't know what he was talking about when it came to writing about Christianity (another term he liked so much to pander about is "strawman/strawmen" . Anyway, there are quite a lot of atheists who have simply left the likes of Dawkins to his rants, and the rest of us do not necessarily need to be upset. That is why I've often tried to ask our friends to focus more on the real questions of the day and not this exrcise of pitting reason against faith. Those who seem to think that faith is without reason unfortunately fall victim to their own unreasonable inferences. . . because they constantly fail to understand that faith involves reason. And yes, it is true that Dawkins is known for accusing people of the very things he is quite guilty of himself.Isaiah 1:18 - "Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD" |
Here's one such worthy news: from Yahoo News! [size=14pt]Struggling dad hands over large cash find[/size] https://d.yimg.com/i/ng/ne/itn/20081001/11/3444362674-struggling-dad-hands-large-cash-find.jpg?source: http://uk.news.yahoo.com/itn/20081001/twl-struggling-dad-hands-over-large-cash-41f21e0.html |
Sometimes I stumble across some worthy news. 'Worthy' because these are the things that are worth celebrating - the virtues that we can all aspire to, but alas! we often lack in great proportions. Can we still find people of such virtues who celebrate life in such a way as to inspire us? Do you have some 'worthy' news to share as well? You're welcome to share them and let's inspire one another with virtues that make life worth living. Warmest regards. ![]() |
Keep on Praying. . . in all things, give thanks. Father, we thank You for the opportunity to pray in Jesus' Name. Inspite of the intensity of the persecutions, we pray, O Lord grant our brethren the strength to stand firm for Your Name open the eyes of their persecutors to Your Love build our brethren in India and let their testimonies cause many to come to know You. In Jesus Name. Amen. |
@litlepikin, God bless you far above your greatest dreams - now and always. ![]() |
@huxley, huxley:I wouldn't be so assuming if I were you. What is contradictory in His clear injunction that He promises His presence to those who keep His word? It would rather have been contradictory if He had promised His presence to those who deny His word. Edited: huxley:Reasons for all kinds of metanoia will come in at some point; however, I thought initially that the thread set out to find out "Who Is A Christian Or A Muslim"? Anyhow, your point is germane to the discussion overall, I think. |
@Chrisbenogor, Chrisbenogor:I've always admired your astute and keen sense of observation. Yes, there's a lot going on besides my very busy schedule; but someday soon, I'll be more around. Cheers. ![]() |
huxley:Have you taken the time to understand that it was the same Lord Jesus Christ who said that not everyone who calls His name is actually living according to His Word? |
Dear @huxley, I wonder what the purpose of this thread actually is - whether in spirit it was truly aimed at understanding Christianity by knowing who a Christian or Muslim is; or to make a case for conversions from those positions to atheism. The thing that often makes me sit back and marvel at this drama is man's proclivity to revel in statistics of such nature. One could quote statistics of conversions, deconversions, interconversions, reconversions, or any other metanoia out there. But is that really the issue at the end of the day? Just about the time I started asking serious questions in my former religion, indeed I came across a lot of people who had converted from atheism to Christianity as well as left Islam and became atheists. Among some of those who abandoned atheism and became Christians are few names that come to mind: ~ C.S. Lewis ~ Helen Joy Davidman (wife of C.S. Lewis) ~ Francis Collins (geneticist) ~ Alister E. McGrath ~ Nicholas (Nicky) Glyn Paul Gumbel ~ William J. Murray (son of American atheist Madalyn Murray O'Hair) . . . and later on I heard of: ~ Miranda Threlfall-Holmes q.v. here I'm sure a Muslim who craves the wonder of statistical quotes would soon jump in here to give us an encyclopedic list of those who became Muslims (of course, by default no mention of those who left Islam and became atheists). . the wonder of it all is magical! However, after the statistics, then what? I can relate in part to the experiences of C. S. Lewis who was tauted by atheists as having not been an atheist before his conversion! By that, I mean that so many Muslims themselves have said repeatedly that I was never a true Muslim before I became a Christian. The question would now be to understand the foundation of such assertions on all sides, viz: ~ who really is an atheist and what infact is atheism? ~ who really is a Christian and what infact is Christianity? ~ who really is a Muslim, and what infact is Islam? Certainly, there could be so many more added to that list; but I restricted myself to those mentioned in yours for the present discourse. I believe that when we begin to ask the real questions here, the interest in statistics would fade to the background and we shall all gain insights that we never thought of formerly. I would not be selfish to turn this interesting thread into a platform for telling my story; but I'm sure that most people would agree with me that it may be pertinent to mention aspects of it between making a point. As someone who has been on either side of the theisms under review, would it help to share a few matters between times as to clarify the view points here of what it means to be either a Muslim or Christian? Even though not many people would agree with what I have to say (especially Muslims who keep accusing me of knowing nothing about Islam befor I left), then at least I could say a few things about what it means to be a Christian? It would help us better to move from revelling in statistics of metanoia to facing up to the real issues. If otherwise, perhaps it may be far more interesting for me to sit back and enjoy the drama as it unfolds. Regards. ![]() |
Emma4u2c:@Emma, How body? We all know what you pointed out and have discussed it many times till it is retired. I don't think anyone was making a point of going to church or staying at home from birth. Yet, I don't read anyone trying to join issues with the author. Speaking for myself, my concerns are rather that such statistics seem to always exhilarate us on either side while we make a seriously weak case for the issues we celebrate. Whether it was a theist becoming an atheist or an atheist becoming a theist or deist, I often find that these events occupy us much more than the real questions of life connected with issues of this kind. One such real issue is to understand that we are all reasoning people, and "reason" is not the prerogative of those who argue on atheistic platforms. To pit "reason" against "faith" is to muddle issues up - and that is why so many people walk away feeling none the wiser. There is no transition from faith to reason; for reason is involved in a life of faith. |
@huxley, Lol. . I was just smiling at your posts that I found myself typing "huxley" as my password! Is that part of the dream consciousness you were talking about just now? Just kidding, even though I did type your username for my password. ![]() huxley:Okay, I grant you your ideas. The point, though, is that dreams do not work out the way you view them as tending to occur by and large. I saw you were careful to highlight those pointers in yours; but I had had a brief look on the subject prior to this thread being raised; and that was why I offered that you do a bit of study on what oneirologists have found. The point is that dreams do not tend to occur based on things that occupy our wakeful thoughts. No, they don't tend to occur that way by and large. There are many people who know that they have had and continue to have dreams totally unrelated to issues that have occupied their thoughts while awake. These are not isolated nor in the minority. For this reason, one may find it difficult to digest that you would offer to explain the occurences of dreams so narrowly or simplistically. |
October 1. It is well with all Nigerians and those who wish for her prosperity. Psalm 122:6 Pray for the peace of Jerusalem: they shall prosper that love thee. |
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If you want to share your story, it should not be predicated on what I do or the person I am. Just be yourself, and life will be easier.
. We thank you for the ridcule; but perhaps a lesson to always take to heart is simply this - such ridicules do not help your cause.