₦airaland Forum

ChoCho54:
It should be more about seeking redress than monetary gains I suppose.

Aswearugaaad

Redress? A public apology or something?
What has been said cannot be unsaid; what has been done cannot be undone; the shame that's been felt cannot be unfelt; the eyes that witnessed it will never forget so you take solace in the truckload of cash. We call it damages.

Aswearugaaad

The kind cry wey this woman go cry na e be the real crocodile tears

Samfloxin:
Don't start this year womanizing

Aswearugaaad

Jesus is Lord lolz

Womanizer:
You people should face your own lives and leave this lady alone

Na fuçk she fuçk, she no kill person

Aswearugaaad

Actually she kill pesin. If you doubt it, ask her husband.

thebosstrevor1:
I know why Nigerians can never compete with westerners in anything, the level of iq is too low in this part of the world.

Reading, comprehension and analytical skills is not available in this part of the world.

Aswearugaaad

Lies form the pit of hell.

It's either you're directly benefiting from paternity fraud or you're actually perpetrating one now. Either way, better come clean now cos you'll soon be found out.

Aswearugaaad

Nigerians will never learn. When Wike was doing something similar, people didn't condemn his excesses, now El Rufai has decided to toe the same line.

Don't y'all know that when someone does something and gets away with it they get more daring, and others realize that they, too, can do worse and get away with it.

It's unfortunate that an average Nigerian can't sue the government and win. If they could, things woulda been better.

sapphiere:
Makes sense to some extend

Aswearugaaad

Abi? And you've been crying since that you'd like to get married soon.

With this comment, I'm sure any nairaland guy who was under any sort of illusion that you have some sense remaining would have realized the extent of their folly.

You don use your hand cut your ticket

Aswearugaaad

This one na beta ewure. Mumu lawyer with poor English language skills.

Don't worry you'll soon litter your father's house with bastards na that time you go know say your jazz don fail you.

Ikjosh04:
Love is commitment, understanding the value, the worth, the importance and the significance of a person to God, to me and to society.

To get married look for attraction and compatibility, then love who you are attracted and compatible with.

Aswearugaaad

Joshu this is great advice, man.

Nightalan:
Hmm, one idîot up there said it's to motivate the poor, these guys from the East have a very shallow, and low thinking mentality. They are primitive to the core. Perhaps to motivate them into drug pushing and crimes. No moral-having, money worshipping bush babies.

Aswearugaaad

Leave us like that. Why the bitterness and hatred for godssake?
Na wa o.

Evilgenuis:
In a sane country the pastor father criminal have a case to answer RIP
young maiden.
It's better to die happy than live in misery

Aswearugaaad

How can one die happy when they are living in misery?

People will just wake up and mash up a nice string of words that sound great but mean nothing.

Advancedman:
You are dumb, do you understand the word justice?
This is not mere offence but premeditated evil the proper sentence should be what the rapist would have been handed multiply by 3.
The Bible teaches it, USA are doing it to looters.
Anybody who carefully plan to destroy another person's life is a murderer.

Have you ever suffer for what you knew nothing about?

Aswearugaaad

You dey mind am? The other dude couldn't even mask his insensitivity when he said that las las the falsely accused would be alright.

Just goes to show that so many people need to be checked into a mental health facility.

We4all:
Regardless, what the 'falsely accused' face cannot be compared to what rape victims endure. She should channel her energy to ensuring justice for rape victims. Las, las, the falsely accused will be alright.

Aswearugaaad

Really? So if you are falsely accused and your dick gets chopped off like the rotten end of a plantain you'll be alright, yeah?

Men dey see something o chai.
Smh

Fahdiga:
Two years isn't enough. same punishment that will be meted out to the rapist if found guilty should also be meted out to the false accuser

Aswearugaaad

This right here is the answer.

Taye4j:
I'm sure this fool of the century must have dropped his thinking faculty in the offering bowl while in church.

I can see you are one of those irredeemable nitwits. If you don't like what I wrote, kindly look for the nearest lagoon and.............jump.

Stupid Golliwog.

Aswearugaaad

Fact is people like you hide behind their keyboards and type all sorta trash they don't have the guts to spit in real life.

You're bitter and full of hate. It has eaten so deeply into your soul and you can't mask it no more. But I pray for people like you everyday for a minute or two, so you'll be fine.

Endure yourself till you get healed. Goodbye.

Taye4j:
Stop spewing trash and use your God given brain for once !

Now, let's assume Nigeria is as bad as you have claimed and opportunities are far in between, going abroad should open better opportunities and give you a better reason to be a good citizen of your host country.

Reverse is the case for our Igbo brothers, even with opportunities flowing like a river, they'll still cut corners, it's in their DNA, always forgetting that "short cuts will always lead to deep cuts".

Foolish people.

Aswearugaaad

That line was absolutely unnecessary but seeing as you're an irredeemable idiot, I'll let you off the hook. Daft pillock.

SilverNorGold:
Lol.. The US is a BIG joke! All my white friends there are desperately begging me to swap country with them.. Too bad things are really tough for them.. They're really suffering.. But their government doesn't give a Bleep about them.. No one really cares.. Politicians, government officials, they don't care! All they care about is to loot, rig elections and deceive the world with their well-cooked propaganda! Remove propaganda from the US and it's nothing! Reason I always tell ungrateful Nigerians to be at least grateful for being a Nigerian. Cos no matter how bad things are, we'll always be better than the overhyped US..

May God bless us all...

Aswearugaaad

Choke on your lies.

SAMBARRY:
nope. the Bible Said

ANY TREE THAT MY FATHER IN HEAVEN HAS NOT PLANTED SHALL BE UPROOTED.

He also said whatever is decreed on Earth is approved in heaven so everyone that keeps bringing unnecessary pain to innocent people must eat the bitter fruits of their works

Aswearugaaad

Brah, that prayer would make the world worse off, but I don't gotta worry cos God does only what is best. So good luck with your prayers, bruh.

Zzor:
If all you said are true then you shouldn't have come up with the initial comment,may God reward you abundantly. And yes I took absolute care of my late grandma single handedly when she became sickly while my parent just provide the major financial care,I refused my parents from getting maids for her,there's nothing you will mention that I didn't do for her with joy,the smile on her face and the joy in her heart when I'm around her was enough for me,it has made me have soft spot for aged people, I have plans to open a foundation that will be caring for the aged and neglected in the nearest future.Keep being good too

Aswearugaaad

I think you have a good heart. I also think you intentionally court controversy...dunno why. But
I just know you're a good person.

SAMBARRY:
so back to my point every rap1st will be a disgrace to himself and a reproach to his parents.ase gun!

Aswearugaaad

Doesn't that make your prayers for healing redundant?

SAMBARRY:
when you get rid of a problem,you also get rid of the source

Aswearugaaad

Except in this case you'd be populating the world with progenies of an incestuous origin who would grow up to be worse than their fathers.

SAMBARRY:
Lord heal nigeria,let every rap1st begin to rape their mothers.let them see their mothers and have Sexual feelings for her,let them not know rest or sanity until they rape their mothers,let them be a disgrace to their parents,let them be disgraced where they should be honoured.let them act abnormally where they should be helped, when they're sick,let the doctors be on strike

Aswearugaaad

Is that your definition of healing?

You are morally debased.

RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.


You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.


YOU COVERTLY HATE YOUR WIVE'S FAMILY AND SADLY YOU'RE NOT DISCREET ENOUGH TO HIDE THE DUSGUST. YOU CAN'T STAND THEM TO TOLERATE THEM LET ALONE TO EMBRACE THEM AS YOUR OWN.

I PRAY YOU KNOW THE FUTURE AND CAN SEE IF YOUR KIDS WILL NEVER NEED THEIR HELP FOREVER THAT WAY I CAN ASSURE YOU TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR ANTICS. UNTIL THEN, TRED SOFTLY.

There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.

Only God will deliver you from you and teach you different ways of doing things. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act coy.


7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.


Be Christ-like, Christ-mas is about sharing not only about eating rice.


Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money




Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment.


You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.



There's also female versions. These women marry them give them the entire world. They will never be with you or love you atall and will only stick around cause of favors they get in the marriage. They won't give happiness and after a few years leave you down the line.


It's a personality-complex. Open your eyes to find these kinds out to do the needful.

Aswearugaaad

What you wrote up there is a shit-load of trash.
You actually know nothing.

wirinet:
You are welcome. We are all in this mess together.


There is no problem with feeling aggrieved, the problem is how you act on the aggrievement.
A rightfully aggrieved wife might murder her husband, that does not exonerate her from the death penalty. There are legal or strategic means of showing her aggrievements.

It's no news that the government have failed either by ommission or commission with the Fulani herdsmen issue, even the US and other international bodies have acknowledged that. The next step is to now strategically tackle the issue. You see the York Yorubas have taken strategic steps to confront the Fulani menace by instituting Amotekun. The governors and political leaders coalesced to form the security outfit. The Fulani biased government first challenged the legality of the regional outfit. This forced the Governors to change it to states outfit backed by laws from the state assemblies. You see the issue is akin to a chess game.



Even though the Governors are soulless, they are the best option you have. They are the one with the legal and political mandate to secure the states, and they have the necessary resources to fund the organisations.
So my suggestion is to take the "@endsars#" route or "@bring back our girls#" route. Even though lots of youths lost their lives, they got what whey were asking for. SARS was disbanded, panels were constituted in each state to look into human rights abuse by SARS, police salaries were increased, etc. When last did you see police harass youths in flashy cars or with dreadlocks? The Buhari government has actually lost legitimacy in the international community and if not for the coronavirus virus pandemic that has distracted most western country, the buhari government would have been under serious sanctions by now.


I advice you guys to employ civil disobedience, peaceful protests and social media campaigns to get the Governors to secure the lives of easterners.

Aswearugaaad

I feel really helpless reading the bolded, but you raised very valid points.
I guess whatever is worth doing is worth doing well.

kabillionaire:
and what if, whose approval you need to make it legal is the very person terrorising you?
in that case, you will wait to be slaughtered light a sallah ram abi?
do you know how many lives that are lost in the hands of these bloodthirsty fulani herdsmen?
do you have any idea how much damage they've caused?
I believe you're not yet affected.
and you think after mowe it you'll not reach Lagos?
na waoh for you ooo

Aswearugaaad

This is the point I've been tryna drive home since bro. You're on point.

The people we've been looking up to to save us are the ones selling us out for a place at the feet of their Fulani masters.

We can't stand by and watch these people destroy us. With each successful attack, they grow bolder.

I don't even live in the east but I'm not stupid.

wirinet:
That's according to IPOB and it's supporters, but according to Nigerian law, IPOB is a terrorist organization. It has been gazetted. So unless the government removes it from our laws and the official gazette, IPOB remains a terrorist organization in Nigeria. It just like the Gulen Movement in Turkey. It is a terrorist organization in Turkey but it's not in the US.

You guys need to learn to separate your emotions from reality if you want to make any progress.

Aswearugaaad

Brother thank you for your input.

Now it is criminal and quite malicious to tell people not to feel aggrieved when you have given them a name they do not bear, meanwhile the Fulani herdsmen who have even outdone the dreaded Boko Haram are being treated as kings.

Now on the issue of making progress, what do you think would have been the right approach?Please don't mention the Eastern governors - those guys are soulless. We have been clamoring for our own security outfit for a long a while now, but it's quite obvious that the security of their people is of no importance to them.

Most people just criticize without a better alternative.
So what would you have done better? I'm hoping to hear your view on this.

favor914:
The Government of Nigeria is the terrorist, & ipob is the Government? The sooner you leave Nigeria like kanu the better for you, you have no future in Nigeria, & have no plans of trying to develop yourself., [/b]you want to use so called Ipob emancipation to hide your failures?

[b]Cowards the Nigerian Army will wipe out your family & ipob in 6 hrs, they wouldn’t find your remains to bury.

Aswearugaaad

Sorry o, future detector. I'm glad to tell you your future-ometer needs recalibration.

Anyways, with comments like yours I can say you truly deserve your leaders. I'm sure you were one of the protesters seeking the dissolution of the rogue SARS police unit, but you're here campaigning for violence on innocent citizens. Hypocrite.

Over-bleached mgbeke.

ada9ja:
this alone shows u dont understand me at all.....u re just defending IPOB blindly

Aswearugaaad

Glad you Mentioned this. Ask yourself why anyone has to defend IPOB if not because they've been wrongly and unjustly classified.

I get your point of view, but I'm only saying that if those whom we've tasked to protect our lives and property have sworn not to do it, should we remain defenseless?

Your answer to the above will help you see where I'm coming from. I'm not a blind supporter, infact, I have issues with some of Nnamdi Kanu's utterances and believe he should adopt a new approach, but on this particular issue, ESN is a goal.

ada9ja:
u didnt calm down to read my comment before you quote me.....
whether IPOB is a terrorist group or not.....it has been proscribe as one by the government (which i do not support), so anything from them will not work, that's what am saying...i have been saying this...charity begins at home.....the igboland needed more attention than what IPOB are looking for, if only IPOP can channel their energy to the governors and see Igboland develop, then we focus on seperating our self from Nigeria...eastern states gets allocations and they have better IGR but nothing to show for it as other states even the state MNK came from is the least developed in eastern state, yet he has not carry is crusade of fighting for injustice to that state but Nigeria...creating such Security network is only trying to make the government look justified in proscribing them cos that how terrorism starts

Aswearugaaad

I read your comments really well before responding.

My point is this: does it look like the eastern govs give a hoot about their people?
Is it when we're all dead that they would act? Should we wait until such a time that we can't step foot in our own hometowns cos they've been overrun by the rampaging Fulani herdsmen?

The Nigerian government has been killing IPOB for years now. This would have been enough for any other group to pay them back in their own coin since that is the language they understand. And Boko Haram has demystified the Nigerian Army and shown us that they ain't shit when you face them fire for fire.

But IPOB has never been and will never be a terrorist organization.

The Nigerian government is the terrorist not IPOB, and people like you are the ones giving them GINGER.

ada9ja:
I solely support any security outfit from the east but not from a proscribe group because as a country we all should know is dead on arrival, so why support something good that can't hold ground for long? Assuming the eastern governor can bring out such, fine but through IPOB is going to be a waste.

Aswearugaaad

Why on this green earth was IPOB proscribed?
How did self-determination become terrorism?
Why do stupid people call IPOB a terrorist organization?

So since the lily-livered eastern governors have decided to remain chickens, should we fold our hands and watch while the herdsmen continue to decimate our people?

If what IPOB is doing is terrorism, then the whole idea of terrorism is lost on me.

Gadafii:
one pata-meter makes one benzemeter

two pata-meters make two benzemeters

three pata-meter makes three benzemeters

pata iyabo, wan ti lo

pata jumi, wan ti lo

wan ti gba lowo e, ko mo lo, G-STRIN Payint to borrow


babe, first goan count ur payints

Aswearugaaad

Oh ma lawd! Guy how you take sit down compose this very nice parody of the nursery rhyme? I was actually singing along and laughing.

ehinmowo:
Sorry jawe! I was carried away ni. Yes. And I am throwing myself into it 100%.

Aswearugaaad

Na so people dey take fail exam ni o. Nicca ask one thing, you reply with anoda thing. Hmm