₦airaland Forum

Wetin be dis sef Dyt? Make i introduce you to the real baby making jam. I still get goose bumps whenever this comes on on the radio.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DIpQ4AZSAf8

Hathor5:


You can use it to your advantage.

You mean leave the house until the music stops? Got it.

cococandy:
you do.

Do you know the funny thing? My first job ever was to literally go to clubs. Can you believe that? I got paid to club and party all night. Maybe that's why i can't stand clubs now.

cococandy:
lived the good life huh

"cough". . ."cough". I don't know what you are talking about.

Thiwalade:
You're being unreasonable here.
No matter the useless tribalism, I won't kill you simply cos you're yoruba, igbo or hausa.

Never you compare racism to tribalism.

You insensitive lot!

Lol...You people are dumb as phuck. You live in a country where you do not even know it's history. Or is it that you have amnesia? Countless times hausas have massacred southerners for no reason other than the fact that they were from the south. I lost a friend who was serving in the North to this. You mu^u die.

Dyt:
What is Before, In Between and After?

Yeah we all know marriage is an institution between 2 persons with the aim to have offspring and companionship, but is this all we see and make of it?

I am a person that believes in relationship/marriage and tries to go far in making it work well except when it starts to affect my mental health (i cant go mad all in the name of i want it to work)

Some say marriage is easy while some say its a hard work, we all have different opinions..
I for one been married before, it didnt work not because i couldnt try but (my choice anyway)

I am considering going into another and all the things that we do that counts now may not in few years, I mean the sexiness, the kamasutra and all, well of course i am not just gonna be offering just sex, we both got more to keep us going for a 100years to come (my favourite part is the friendship and companionship)...

I am scared sometimes waking up to him every other day and same way it excites me

How has it been with those married for 5years and counting? the joy, feeling, the tears, the arguments, the sex, I mean all of it....

It's complicated. Hi Dyt. The most important thing you have to bear in mind is the person you eventually marry will not be the same person in 5 years, 10 years, 15 years, etc. As human beings we want experiences and those experiences change us for the good or the bad. The ability to have and keep a healthy and happy marriage is the realization that changes in the character, physique and attitude of your spouse will occur and you have to adapt to these changes. When you get a job, have a baby, go to school while working, etc will put pressure on you and definitely alter the way you behave. You and your spouse must adapt to these changes. Another problem is this mindset, especially among women that because you are married your mission is accomplished. Girl, that is when the work really begins. Remember, there was a reason he married you and you married him. It is hard but both parties have to try on a daily basis to keep the illusion going. Not trying to do so is one of the main reasons people cheat. "Oh she's getting fat". "Can you imagine, he now has a pot belly", etc. Believe it or not, my wife literally looks the same way she did the day i met her more than 20 years ago. Yes i know it's hard to believe. It's didn't just happen by magic. As i am typing this, she is downstairs doing jumping jacks, sit ups, push ups, and whatever exercises in her regimen to keep her shape and keep looking sexy for me. This after 3 kids. She will put any 20 year old to shame with the way she looks. She's 44 but you'd think she was 24 by looking at her. On my part i'm lucky. My job requires me to be extremely fit and look good so i ain't got a choice. Lastly, finances. If both your finances are screwed up then both of you are screwed. It will not matter how sexy you are or how handsome he is. This is the reason both parties have to plan and make joint decisions in matters relating to their financial future. I had to learn this the hard way early on. Marriage ain't easy but if you can master these 3 core foundations of change, finances, and physical well being you'll always be ahead of the game. Always.

cococandy:

You laugh. Na serious matter that time.

Hathor5:
I love this song crazy for various reasons.

I wanna soldier! I got a soldier!
Sexy song.
Let me dance for a few minutes.

I dedicate it to my lovely brother from the food family pippimp.

Women and Beyonce. Smh. I you wan cause trouble just play her music around my wife. I no go hear word again.

ValCon888:
One thing I know for sure; the policeman wouldn't have placed his knee on the black man's neck if he was white.

It's a pity, but after this protest dies down it will happen again.

Racism is strongly institutionalised in the US.

Meanwhile in Nigeria. . . . . . . . . . .

ibkayee:
Nom nom

Lol...you are funny. Is that how you chew?

Wasn't really in mood to cook anything tonight. Made this crunchy chicken quesadilla and washed it down with this old school. Brought back some serious clubbing memories. Couldn't wait for this song to come on and use the opportunity to snatch up anything breathing withing arms reach to head for the dance floor Lol.......


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1gI7s2ZCepI

lenghtinny:
Oh! So it’s only wannabe gangstas that are harassed by these cops....

All I can say is don’t be in a hurry to judge what you haven’t experienced. Not everyone is a Tupac or biggie wannabe. Making a decent living doesn’t exempt you from being messed up should you come in contact with these skinheads. Besides racism ain’t all about violence, there are subtle ones too.

I’m not a politician. I’m not here to fix rot in any system. The point I want you to see is evil comes in different shades regardless of what you define it, be it tribalism or racism.

I’m not here to pick which country is better between naija or usa because that’s not the point.

The guy that was killed could even be a white ass worshipper.

Besides who told you I’m benefiting from the tribalism going on in Nigeria.

Don’t get it twisted.

And i will never experience it. You know why? True story. Every time a cop stops me and asks for my drivers license, i smile and hand it to him. He checks it, smiles and says "thank you very much sir. Have a good day". Every freaking time. Do you know why that is? Because i know to be courteous and cautious with anyone with a gun. Be it white, or black. The rule of thumb is, when a cop asks you to do something you do it period. Resisting arrest is the worst thing you can ever do because the outcome will not favor you. Plus, if America is so racist why do i have white men and women under my supervision? I mean it shouldn't happen in a racist society right?

lenghtinny:
You are only talking like this because tribalism is the only one you have experienced out of the two.....

But I assure you none is better, in fact racism is worse if there should be any comparison.

Just in case you didn't understand, let me break it down. I'd rather live in a country where there a pockets of racism than in a country where tribalism is rampant. Plus, you will not fix the rot in your own country but are experts on how to fix others. It is because you don't know. You talk as if when I walk around, white people just come out of the wood work and start being racist towards me. I am yet to experience any form of racism and that's after 20 years in the US. If you respect yourself here people will most likely give you respect. If you want to be a wanabe gangster then expect anything.

RuudVanNisteroy:
No tolerance for freedom of speech.

Brunicekid:
So, you mean what the guy said is a lie

As much as i loved the poem this is not freedom of speech. We know Lai and saraki are thieves but you can't go around throwing accusations publicly without proof. Not just what you think is proof but what has been proven in a court of Law.

RuudVanNisteroy:
No tolerance for freedom of speech.

As much as i loved the poem this is not freedom of speech. We know Lai and saraki are thieves but you can't go around throwing accusations without proof. Not just what you think is proof but what has been proven in a court of Law.

kneehighbootz:
Why don't you leave Nigeria for a minute and focus on the topic at hand?

Should America with all their talk of being the "greatest country in the world" still be having public lynchings of unarmed black men in 2020?

Where does this happen in a so-called first world country? What moral rights does America have to be the world police when things like this still happen and in broad daylight for that matter?

What happened in that video is sickening and inhumane! Jesus Christ.

If anyone can still make comparisons after that watching the video, talking about Nigeria, SARS blah blah blah, you are sick.

And why should we do that? Any person with an ounce of brain power will know that if you live in poo you don't talk about the condition of other people's houses. That's common sense 101. What you low IQ people don't seem to get is bad things happen everywhere. What matters is the reaction of the citizen of the country it happens in. For sure those guys will be punished. In Nigeria what would happen? I'll tell you what would happen. Nothing. And worse is you will not protest this hard about the loss of life of your fellow country man. Guy focus on the rot in your country.

horlarwereleh:
You are not okay sir

Oh, i'm very very ok. In fact, i'm well. You on the other hand are delusional. How many Nigerians have been slaughtered by the Nigerian police and the news never even saw the light of day? And even when it did, did you protest this vigorously? Una can comment on another country police but close eye when your own police worse one billion times over. Suffer no go kill una.

ayshacom:
And they killed somebody, the only punishment the culprit had is been fired. Smhd

One thing I know for sure is they will go to jail. I know you will retort that it's not going to happen but i live here. You don't. So you can't tell me how things really work here. On the flip side, if it was a Nigerian policeman would it even be news? It's absolutely normal for it to happen in Nigeria and you will not protest as vehemently as you are now.

Primusinterpares:
So lock down affected the proposed date of our wedding so against all odds we decided to move along with the wedding.

The following precautions were taken.
1. Social distancing during the ceremonies ( TM & White)
2. Less than 50 people in attendance.
3. Sanitizer n nose mask were in place.
4. Temperature of Guest were checked before entering the church ( White wedding)
5. No reception to avoid crowd.
Just cut cake, share packaged food n drink in takeaways.
Snapped pics n proceeded to honeymoon.


To God be the glory it was a success.

Really? Am I looking at the wrong picture. Social distancing with those guys sitting in the back. Ok.

Naijabad:
Says a man who has no hope or means of leaving this shit hole.
Do you know that the living condition in American prison is much better than the living condition of 60% of free Nigerians in Nigeria?

Well said.

HundredWays:
see my friend, the racism in America would make u think u are still a Slave... The government don't givva Bleep about the blacks too!!


America system is aided by hype, but the black people are suffering, big time suffering!
U can go to jail for 20yrs just for slapping the white folk

Hmm. Slave you say. Lol. Ok. And i've lived here 20 years. Why would i want to slap anyone. Dis place no be naija where you can just put your hands on anyone just because you feel like it. You'll definitely go to jail.

FlackoJodye:
you havent experinced racicm before,o boy i have experinced both and i will tell u racism is worse,it has a more damning psychological effect on people ,tribalism exist,even sterotypes exist between imo and anambra people, even sterotypes exist btw mbaise and mbano people in imo state(abeg jazz down)

Lol. Thank God i haven't. But what i've experienced is tribalism and it was hell. Imagine that job you wanted so bad but couldn't get because you are not hausa, igbo or yoruba. Or living in the North and getting slaughtered because you can't speak hausa. One reason i got out of that hell hole called Nigeria. Been here 20 years and not witnessed racism once. Born in Nigeria but experienced tribalism everyday. I'll take my chances with racism. There is a big difference between stereotypes and racism. You got it confused.

Cococandy, you need to watch "into the night" on Netflix. You'll thank me later. Craziest series since Lost. Just make sure you set your audio to French to enjoy it. It's midnight and i'm still glued to this damn thing.

ArcherPrime:
Please never ever compare racism to tribalism, rasicm is not funny at all�

Lol. What is worse than people of your own skin color and race treating you like trash because you are not one of them. Una like to ignore the obvious truth.

HundredWays:
[b][/b]

Trash

Question you should ask is, na lie?

TheGiftedOne:
Racists

Better to live in another man's country where racism exist than in ones own country where tribalism flourishes.

As if ring go prevent person from cheating. Children.

9jaBloke:
She's going to be a giant

To deduce that we have to find out how tall the mother is.

Lake of thenOzark is lovely place to be but located in a God awful state.

Goodmarlian:
African-Americans should return to Africa their homeland since they are not wanted in America , Africa can absorb them all yes ,after all they will bring development to Africa because more advance in science and technology and civilization unlike the Homebase Africans.

My opinion though.

Em', **courghs**, i'd rather face the racism in America than face the tribalism (and much more worse things) in Nigeria.

E don don ooooooo.......

GboyegaD:
I'm only supporting your position Sir.

I know. I mean if i get started on the topic of trump i will never stop. I thoroughly dislike that dude.