This is not a big deal to me though...
As long as she hasn't come to me to tell me she isn't doing anymore...

So op relax.... the relationship is still on....she hasn't called it inconclusive

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

So what does she use her money to do?

You're wasting your time man. That girl is certainly involved with someone else at your workplace.

IT WILL END IN TEARS!

Oga you sef listen to the reason it doesnt even make sense. collect your ring and cancel your proposal shes a cheat

SO BEFORE YOU COMMENT ON A POST IN NAIRALAND NOW, THEY WILL ASK YOU


ARE YOU A MUSLIM
. EZIOKWU

theTransporter:


Am not interested in the ring or the kingsmen, am just interested in the fact that she's above you (not a little above you), meaning she gets more pay than you right?, but u take care of her bills with your own pay, may I ask what she does with her's?, aren't you the one who is supposed to be saving so that you can "collect list". Continue draining your energy. Men that want to grow look 4 asset in a wife and not liabilities . My one cent thoo

De story fake die. I can't be collecting the same salary with my wife n be spending on her. Abeg waiting she de do with hers.

I have said it before and I will say it again.All I need to marry a woman is Love and understanding.
If no love,weather she's on a higher or lower cader,if no Love found.My Guy Gbaga.

BlackfireX:
Spiritual problem that hate her putting on her ring...

2 things are involved:


A. She has spiritual husband
B. She has a physical husband


So my friend you are the side chick, don't let the real husband (s) catch you o.




*walahi this weed they give sensible nonsense

Got me laughing out loud I swear down.

peterangelo:


The rate at which guys complain about their girlfriend is alarming.


Is like girls are winning. The table is turning around.

Guys are becoming more emotional tgese dayz

faithfull18:

Nah, she may not. A proposal isn't marriage.

What if it doesn't end in marriage? And suitors already think she isn't single.

Then what is the essence of proposing when ring won't be worn by both parties
Since all we do is to emulate the white culture so let's dance to it

it's obvious you will do the same
Just tell ur bf not to waste his money and time

Sonnobax15:
Kukuma marry yourself na..

Ring doesn't define a marriage.
Are you aware that RCG doesn't exchange rings, but bible.
A cheat will will cheat
Haven't you seen a husband cheating his wife, haven't you seen a wife cheating her husband?
Yet they wear rings

Don't you see that she has been in that stage you are putting her now before? Don't want to place her egg in one basket beside you are the least of her expectations!

Guys save yourself the heartache and never ever propose publicly or romantically to any woman! If you dated properly and did the right thing, you and your partner already have an understanding of marriage. In fact, going to meet her parents is a much more serious sign of love than this rubbish you youths do nowadays of audio proposals and shenanigans! You're a man for bleeps sake, ACT LIKE ONE! You want to wed someone that you've not lived together with, you think you know her behaviors yet you get angry over little thing like a ring....Dude marriage should be the last thing on your mind, your relationship ain't ready. I mean if a common ring is enough to have you typing on Nairaland like a lunatic then my friend marriage will have you ready to jump off of third mainland bridge....Fools rush in only to rush out!

bonnyhope:


Guys are becoming more emotional tgese dayz

This lockdown has restricted our foreign connections and making us stick to local connections that are suprised seeing us stuck to them.

You are over reacting. She already told you her faith is against it

As if ring go prevent person from cheating. Children.

I wonder what he will do if she don't wear wedding ring

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

marriage nor be film trick o

drightguy:


Succeeded in rewinding front and back

What are you seconded ? Are you telling us that you got nothing on you head to comment? Rather than seconded to that unfaithful female comment? Keep being a simp, too much simpii will surely get you killed one day.

Norman4real:
this here is my only concern from all your issues you stated. This woman is smart, she is saving and probably investing her money wisely while you are foolishly spending yours on her. Otherwise regarding the engagement, you have no claim to her yet and therefore she's not under any law compelled to wear that ring, but in any case that's what we call a "red flag". U better cancel the engagement and save yourself from this selfish woman.

I somehow concur with you. If the lady is having a higher pay then do not spend much on her. Just the basic things. Focus more on the marriage and small savings. If she ask you tell her you are saving for the future and the wedding. Don't spend your money unnecessary that's how you save money and knows if she truly love you. Moreover, she ends more money so she should manage, unless if there is foul play. On the ring issue is not my ethnical or religious clime. However, when someone is engage( both family have agreed to the marriage, date have been fix) , then it is wrong for another man to disrupt, interfer in to the engage. Unless if both parties are not interest. Those who read wide especially Hadith will understand better. Thanks

Hotzone:
Good morning to you. I don’t know if I am over reacting but I proposed to my girl a week ago and she was so excited about it and it was so romantic but I just noticed to my greatest chagrin that she doesn’t wear her engagement ring to work.

So I complained and she said she’s facing some spiritual challenges. We don’t live together as she claims her faith is against it. We work in the same organization and her position is a little higher than mine but I take care of bills concerning her but it seems I am getting tired with much terms and conditions. It’s draining my energy.

Please, I need u to talk to me because I am about to “collect list” from her kinsmen.

If lady don dey give u condition and she be religion lady... Guy na lie, run

Op hope it's not promise ring you gave her ...Even if she wears ring doesn't mean she can't cheat on you... So since she hasn't told you she's not interested.. Be calm with her and marry her appropriately but be careful bro

faithfull18:
Lol, you want other suitable suitors to think she is taken right, then you turn around and disappoint later.

What such if unfaithful comment is this again?if really this is kind of girls we have in this generation?

Med ooh.Is she a hooker or afraid of something?

Meeyankee:

What are you seconded ? Are you telling us that you got nothing on you head to comment? Rather than seconded to that unfaithful female comment? Keep being a simp, too much simpii will surely get you killed one day.

Got me wrong bro.
She succeeded in starting up a comment but ended up saying nothing. "Rewind front and back"

Should we tell him ?

Paschal7890:
From the streets did she emerge and to the streets she will return/ And I say unto you "She is for the streets."/ So be not weary when she must return from whence she came. - The Gospel Of Future

Damn right brother.

She has a double mind. Might be about the quality of the ring or the quality of the man.

Just so we understand alittle
1.what’s the level difference at work and is your relationship known at work?
2. In your other thread you said you planned to wed her in few months, is she aware of these steps?

Modified: I think you should hold off with that list and clear your fears and also stop spending and invest those bills payment in something productive. It’s your life and you must feel comfortable in all you do. A matured girl interested in a marriage will tell her man over a kiss babe pls I mightn’t be wearing this ring as it draws much attention or any excuse by herself not you having to ask before an excuse comes. If there are spiritual problems how come you both haven’t sat to discuss all. Are you sure this the only problem or you will be told the complete after you wed

Don't wear rain coat again, you hear

Sorry bro

here:
Just so we understand alittle
1.what’s the level difference at work and is your relationship known at work?
2. In your other thread you said you planned to wed her in few months, is she aware of these steps?

Zinny25:
hope you ain't planning to turn her to the Lord of the rings

maybe she isn't happy that it's you she will be ending up with, you were the least in her options. She's not proud of being called your fiancee or wife.

Chaii. As if the girl really told you he's d last option for her. Nawa for you. See reasoning

theTransporter:


Am not interested in the ring or the kingsmen, am just interested in the fact that she's above you (not a little above you), meaning she gets more pay than you right?, but u take care of her bills with your own pay, may I ask what she does with her's?, aren't you the one who is supposed to be saving so that you can "collect list". Continue draining your energy. Men that want to grow look 4 asset in a wife and not liabilities . My one cent thoo

The OP's girlfriend is just using him. When she monkey-branches to a higher bidder, his eyes will clear. Stupid people are bound to learn the hard way.