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breathless:
Baffi (benin) is not free from any of the vices mentioned earlier. But as  proper warri babe, u no suppose shake na. E b like say jamo don dilute your blood.

Where u don hear say dem thief hawk pikin? E no possible na! Those your children suppose know their roots, culture and tradition.  Come Blend dem wella 4 waffi. Infact, relocate come Enerhen junction make dem dey see activities. U go surprise to see dem dey happy all over the place.
Ojuju no dey flog ojuju. shou? Biko bring dem come warri. Nuthin dey happen. Enuf kpiance full baffi.  Anyhow e be, ogoron must jump and abaka must fly. Nor rish.
Safe journey.

See Correct Wafferian dey yan, , i nô need person to tell me.
Anyway shall, i appreciate your advice but u only look thé thing 4rom My own angle.
Like i said befor in My previews post, lesft for me alone i go Côme Waffi e go dey better but as Hubby dey fear, i get to do things properly. As for thé plenty Kpiance wen dey Baffi, i nô send dém oooo, them nô fit reach My end as we nô relate lols.
But wait oooo, Kpiance dey everywhere for 9ja nô be only Baffi !!! Na God dey protect shall.
My blood never dilute ooo, i still dey flow inside thé river, just that once person don marry get kids, she go mello down small.
Thé young shall grow. U do sea for your advice thank u so much.

no1madman:
Who dey shine her kongo sef?

, i see thé meaning of ur username.

OP just tell that woman that her excuses are fake, if she doent want to bring thé Hubby for her reasons let her bring him for thé saké of thé kids. They need both parents. She is just been selfish and self centered.

fstranger6:
So you want him to drink and smoke away in their matrimony home, and have the child and wife inhale second hand smoke that result in lung cancer?

I am telling you, this attention thingy is going to kill some people


OP: dont mind these people jare, let him be!

laughing, This thread is becoming funny,,, see some drastical advice waooo, by their speach u Will know them.
OP becareful, dont do say becos ur Man. Is a thief then u Will become a thief line him.
This Will help nô matters, i am sûre u lovéd him befor getting married to him. Like some1 said, report him to some1 u know hé lové and respect. But dont Forget to pray about it. Remember hé is not just ur Hubby, but also thé father of ur child.
I am sûre u CAN Work things out without been aggresive. Is there nô Time hé is himself? Maybe that could be thé best Time to discuss with him about how u feel. May God rebuild ur home for u.

True talk, all thé hôtel i ve seen are close to thé AirPort, this is an advantage.
But this Sage hôtel is very expensive.
OMG!!!!, I thought there were nô good companies in
Benin how Côme they ve Nice hôtels as expensive as thé western world.
Our politicians are théir petronizing clients loools.

I just checked (Constantial)& (vichi) I they are very nice on like the Europe standard waoooh, I am proud withwhat I saw.
I think in Nigeria if u ve ur money u will ve the best service u want.
I saw the prices of Vichi but not that of  Constantial.
I will check Sage and update u.

efisher:
Hey, I just found this thread on Nairaland for you on this topic: Hotels in Benin City. Check it out and see what other nairalanders have posted in the past.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-307870.0.html

I hope it helps.

Ok I go in there! Thanks.

Thank u very much for these infos, I sure appreciate.
I will just try and check on the names u gave me and see whice one is suitable for us. I would really like a place where the kids can at least run around ex (play ground facilities.)
that Htel close to Uniben is out of question, it will be noisy I guess.

MRbrownJAY:
^^^not difficult at all, remember he could have simply said that she was his ex and that they were living together for convenience or whatever. et voila!

just because she didnt know he was married, doesnt mean she didnt know anything about him, its just that he concealed this particular info very well.

Hunter simply trusted the man she was dating, is that a crime?!

Living with his ex for 3 yrs and she will accept that story.
At least she might ve met the b/f family member or best friend who might ve told her ur guy is married etc.
What kind of trust would make her not find out who the man is exactly befor they decide to ve a baby? Leave matter jare.

Ok, now I get u. Thanks so much, I no fit make noise na I sabi my people lolssss.
Is Precious Palm Royal an hotel?

donjon:
Go & sleep!
30 naira bullet will waste u with immediate alacrity!
Na GOD dey protect person!

, is there 30 naira bullet?

Who are the ritualists? We all know the heads are of course. Poor woman! God will surely prove them out one day
They will not go un punished for thier diabolical act.

Funny topic, it made me laugh I never noticed a thing like that those days.
And I do t think I will count meat in my house as kids of these day u ve to force them to eat
so what is the need counting? .

Strange, and nt really accurate for me. It gave me boy for my 1st boy, and gave me girl for my 2rd boy.
Whice is wrong!
Maybe right about the 3rd one, it's a boy again whice will be born in march it says February. Let's wait and see uhmmm.

I know that the sex of babies is pending on their parents genetic system.
The dad with the Y & X while the mother with only X.

If the dad gave his Y + the mom's X they will ve a baby boy. During sexual intercourse and the man is very active this will release the Y. And when he is not active during sexual intercourse he only can give the X whice produces a girl. A woman still ve to play a role when hoping to have a particular gender by knowing when she is fully fartal. But I think these whole thing is very stressfull and frustrating.
I take what God gave me and that is all.

What is happening there again? These our Northern states are always having religions war? !!) is there anything to stop this act?? I doubt because it is writen in the good book itself.

^^^of course he is! thats what everyone seems to forget when pointing fingers at the mistress saying:" 3yrs without knowing is impossible".

I beg leave that thing jare!! How can u date a man for good 3 yrs without know anything about him?
She never visited the mans house? Or has she not made un attempt to meet any of the mans family member befor thinking of having a baby for him?? The Hunter herself is a great cheater, she should swear that the b/f only come to her house or they always meet in the hotel and she never asked him where he lives.
I really pity the wife, she wouldn't ve gone so far as targetting the innocent baby instead of her husband or the socalled Hunter. Most men see no crime in cheating, see what he he caused his family ,, shameful world we live in today.

It takes a greedy heart to do what she did. They are never satisfy, some1 training u in school u still plan bad against him.
Uhhhmm!! I no fit doubt stories like this because I ve been a victim too. But God no go let evil enter his mind oo.
Trainging ur younger brother in the Uni, afford all he could need. One du he just called u and say plz I am withdrewing from school. I need to travel Abroad. Can u send me 6000€ so I can start to process my docs?? J, E, S, U, S my head grow big.
I thought it was a dream, in his 3rd yr withdrewing!!! What the hail do u think u will come and do in the Europe as a non qualified fellow? In fact to cut story short, I don't even ve that kind of money to give to those thieves who call themselves trolly. I don't mind to been seen as wicked sister in this case.

Beautiful kids, The color is nothing as long as both parents are colored.

The Ghananian woman had a pure black baby this is wondeful!!!
The other baby is mix, which is nomal.
The first photo also can be nomal, mother is a mix and father White there are chances to ve mix and White babies.
But is so wonderful in all ways.

efisher:
@ Poster, Benin City is OK just like anywhere else. However, I think you should exercise discretion. As someone has already said, don't make too much noise. Just do your own jeje. If you want to stay in a hotel, there are very nice ones in GRA. Benin hosts a lot of people from different parts of the world.

May God guide and protect you.

Thank u very much, I saw some hotels I the GRA thier prices seem good but I don't know about the environement.
Some clients in @tripadviser made good recommendation.
I will see wht I can do.

WHAT DOES THE NOISE STAND FOR??

ifyalways:
Plap u don fall Warfy hand.You wey be original warfy babe wey sabi every every dey ask dis kain Q. ?
As long as u maintain your levels,avoid unnecessary noise and showing off,nothing do you!No where is 100% secured.

Ify don kill me with laugh here ooo, I fall Wafi hand abi??
My sister no be so, the pressure was too much on me.
The worse is how my friend's Hubby who work there in Warri made it sound as if even if I work in the street with my kids they will be kidnap in hahahaha , Shoooooou!!! Person no go fit take a work for him own town again?, Ogheneme mingwo!!
The thing made my Hubby go crazy u know.
Left for me alone, I would ve prefared Wafi, but all thesame Benin can be fun also.

but wait oooo, u stay Warri b/4?? See as u break the pidkin reach grand like real Omo oton(Warri pikin).

NAJALYN:
@Poster, there is no place that is secured. But if you believe in God where ever you go, you are secured. If you wish to stay in Benin City when you come, please come. Pray for God's protection for you & your kids, knowing that He will surely grant you all His protection throughout your stay. Know that God is the only protection you can ever have. Even if a whole army guards you, you can not have the type of security you can get from God. God protect you & your family always & help you know Him better.

Ooups! It seems we posted at same mins lols.
U are very right but it's good not to go in a place u already know fire is burning, we don't ve to tempt the Devil.
I believe in God so I hope to be there by his grace. But warri .

Blueice4re:
Your Hubby should know better.

He only know that my country is dangerious for him and his kids for now.
Him personally will nt visit Nigeria for now. He is too scared.

Izby:
I would advise you to come to Benin city as i stay here and the crime rate is down, the govt has added troop to the police to ensure there is adequate security.Kidnapper nor go send u or your kids, feel free to come to benin.

Oh u stay in Benin, are u Edo? It will be nice to meet u. This our country dey put us for tension no be small.
How can one be scared to visit home. Apart from the kidnaping stuff, those robbers are still dangerious, na only God dey protect.

As an origin of delta state, Warri born and brought up.
But living abroad and planing to visit home with My three kids.

Although this is nt My first Time, is just that Hubby and his parents are really scared about news hère and then on Tele how kidnappers do kidnappe whites in Portharcourt, Bayelsa, Warri, Lagos and so on.

Thé last Time i visites Nigeria with My two kids was in Warri, i had to stay in a very expensive but secured hôtel but then My mother inlaw couldn't ve rest of mind for the one month i stayed. She even fell sick Times without number so i wouldnt want it to repeat.

I do nt ve a choice because i ve to visit My family bk home.
I choosed Benin city as it is not too far from warri but i dont know if they still do kidnapping stuff there.
My kids security matters alot. Plz CAN anyone tell me if there is any of such thing in Benin?
your advice Will be appreciated thank u.

Is Benin City Safe?
« on: Yesterday at 09:17:20 PM »

As an origin of delta state, Warri born and brought up.
But living abroad and planing to visit home with My three kids.

Although this is nt My first Time, is just that Hubby and his parents are really scared about news hère and then on Tele how kidnappers do kidnappe whites in Portharcourt, Bayelsa, Warri, Lagos and so on.

Thé last Time i visites Nigeria with My two kids was in Warri, i had to stay in a very expensive but secured hôtel but then My mother inlaw couldn't ve rest of mind for the one month i stayed. She even fell sick Times without number so i wouldnt want it to repeat.

I do nt ve a choice because i ve to visit My family bk home.
I choosed Benin city as it is not too far from warri but i dont know if they still do kidnapping stuff there.
My kids security matters alot. Plz CAN anyone tell me if there is any of such thing in Benin?
your advice Will be appreciated thank u.

My dear u ré nt alone, just try and follow Ifyalways and others advice.
There is nô magic, get everything ready in thé night. Ur Hubby has to help too, how Côme hé goes to Work
with empty stomach? Breakfast it's easy hé CAN prépare for himself.
SET ur wake up alarm in advance if u re that type that find it difficult to wake
gook luck. Mootherhood is sûre a blessing enjoy it.

MRbrownJAY:
this is the oldest trick in the book but yet SO MANY women are still falling for it!!!!
how dumb can one be to believe that they need to bring waitresses from OVERSEAS in places like UAE, Italy, Spain (or anywhere else for that matter)?!
how dumb OR DESPERATE are our sistas?! dont they ask question before leaving?

gud question, i think they are awarebof what they are going there for.
They just get frustrated when they see that Rome is not as Rose as they
thought.
They Will now pretendly go and report their sponsors to thé police in order to get freedom. Na today?
I met one girl in a Nigeria parti two yrs bk in Germany, she did samething to her madam.

ohh so they do kidnap our naijas too? Wonders shall never end in Nigeria!

No answer ever here.

This our 9ja is too dangerious oo, God ve merci. N'a so so bizarre things dey happen there!

[quote author=aloy/emeka link=topic=590993.msg7592037#msg7592037 date=1295867796]Only 8 years?. Are you enjoying the marriage or enduring it?. Jesus can help you to stop existing and start living.[/quote]

pslm23:
@ Aloy Emeka, I'm a realist. In life we don't know what tomorrow will bring and I apply the same principle to everything I do. I'm not saying I want to get divorced or I wish for for it but I am not living and refuse to live in a fairy tale world where I expect the rest of my life to be a happily ever after. Despite problems I've faced in my marriage, I can still proudly say that I've got 8+ years under my belt.
So don't go trying to read a whole lot of meaning into my statements and please GET OFF MY BACK! It's like you enjoy trying to poke holes or find fault with things I say. Jeez!!! 

I quit agrée with u, i also kept My dad's name with marital name. Hubby finds nothing wrong in it.
Just like your first post stated. It is best and mâke things easier in case of divorce.

OP, there is nô need to over read meaning, people who are divorcéd today never hoped gor it, it CAN happen just l'île sudden death. As for ue Wife try and tale things easy, dont créât problem where is suposed to be peace.