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fstranger:This act is all over, all race, tribes etc. THINGS LIKE THIS hapen also In smaller cities where media dont visit we will hardly hear about it. Lagos is a big city, so when things happen it has to be published. |
ZIM DRILL: the pain thing is only used to sort of buy respect, she wasnt forced to have me am only a product of her good/happy moments and she had the choice not had me if pain is more important to give you respect becoz she doesnt have gaurantee that i will respect her becoz of the pain she went to give birth to meYou should respect her for everything both the pains and all, every mother would appreciates a child that show her respect.( U are a man to have sounded in this manner Not becos u ve a bad relationship with your mother then u ve every reason not to respect her. I can understand that not all mothers shows love for TheIr child also, despite that. We still have to respect our mothers. |
If only women CAN resist, thé rate Will not be as high as it is today Like i used to say when i was younger that i will never in My Life date someone's husband. I stood by it and i overcame it, it's in thé mind, all thèse excuses thé Poster game are just what thèse salope girls always give. And also, Some of Our men are just good for nothing runing after single girls and they are married. It's a dirty act. What i know is that, any woman or girly who pretendly date a married Man. Despite her excuses, ( she is a thief and a slot) she should know that when she Will become Mrs somebody, then some little girls Will Côme and pay her back, and to thé cheating husband(hé is alone causing his entire family) e nô dey lost. |
The girl nô get mother? This kind of story is becoming to rampant, i hate!!! |
It's true that it's a wrong thing to généralise a whole race. For me i would say that both havé their qualities. (Better than CAN mean in many areas) i dont really know, but if u say romantic, i CAN say yes for a white Man. But not all white m'en are caring, our black men are like them in this area. |
U ve asked a wrong question, what i would want is not what u Will want. We all havé différent test in Life. It seem that u are ready to Marry thé Man. But just want to know how other Will handle it if they were to be in your shoe. Majority hère are not ok with thé age différence , so Will u now ve a change of mind?? I advice u follow your heart, âge is just a number. I just hope hé is not marrying u as a second wife, be carefull!! |
That she seem not to be having pains My be as a result of (Epidural Anaesthesia) to Kill thé pains. Or else, labour is Very painful, it's not to mâke any1 get scared or something. I havé tried both Method so i know thé différence. @ Poster, there is absolutely nothing wrong with this vidéo. It's a nô offense vidéo. To all NL, (Respect ur mother, she went though hail to bring u to this wicked world.) |
benincitys:How ré u doing BENINCITY, longest time. So u ve another baby waoo, congrat gal, i havent visited NL for thé past 1yrs or more. Anyway, happy to see u again. As for your baby, if hé/she Wakes up 2-3 Times at night, that means hé doesn't sleep up to 16 hours par day. I think hé is not satisfy with thé B/milk only. Try to introduce him formula before u pût him to bed. But in most case, kids that wake up at night doesn't really means they want food, mothers shouldn't feel too tired to used other method to pût their babies back to bed, I kNOw SAY e NO EaSy shall, but na just for short Time. Hopefully u are planning to stop him soon, i hope u gain back your all night sleep as well lols. Courage gal. |
aysometin:U are not a bad mother, u could ve been one if u had gave him ur milk while u where sick. I consider a bad mother one that that refused to alow her baby to test her natural milk provided for thé baby all because of (I DONT WANT MY BREAST TO FLAT). So My dear u ve done well dont regret. Un as long as ur baby has testée formula, it's sûre hé Will nô longer have interest. |
dayokanu:Even if the man built the house before they got married, he still cannot send his wife out just like that. There are prosidure to respect, sure she will ve to leave, but at her very given time, that is if they have kids together. And in the case they they got married before the house was built, the man has no right to send his wife out. If divorce occures, this properties are shared equally. |
Omo Alata:I admire your courage gal, so your baby still wake u up at night? but why should she sleep with u or your hubby? even if u breastfeed, u don't ve to allow her sleep with u in your bedroom, from day 1 to 2 months is good to be very careful, i mean, if he cries alot u can put him in his bed right in your room, but dont alow this to last too long. Your baby is used to sleeping with u guys because u caused it. I don't like the ideal of babies sleeping in same room with parents, they should learn how to be alone right from birth. This is just my opinion. And the ideal of feeding her at night is very frustrating, u know what, when a baby cries at night doesn't really mean he/she wants to eat, sometimes they need thier mum tender touches. Go to him and sing some soft song for him befor u know, your baby will fall asleep again. But if this didn't work, take him and move around with him why singing when he sleeps make sure u drop him in his bedroom, even if he is crying let him cry for about 10 mins max. I can tell u that after some time he become used to his bed, he will come to understand. My dear u will never have time for urself with all these stress. try and do something to help your baby know she has to sleep alone in her bed.[/b] this method has worked for me. |
djojo:What more advice does he want? am sure he is just ready to leave the woman, in my first post i adviced u to seek a family counselling, here is djoj giving u Dsame advise, i guess u should nt discuss with family elders because the result will be DIVORCE HER. there is always a way out. You still have to go for a new test with ur wife to be 100p sure than bordering urself over leaving her. If u run away from ur wife, can u run away from ur child? or is the child nt infected too? think well befor u do things Man!! |
silvasurfa:Dont u think it's difficult because u breadfed her for too long? I v never had problems stopping My kids. It all went well only thé pains during this period. If i may asked, do u breastfeed only or mixed with othe solid food? Till this age? |
usetime:Not alone through sex, so many ways to get this fu"king virus. We just ve to be careful n'a God get Power, @ Poster, if ur Woman wants to transmit it to u she CAN do it without having sex with u, so just pray to God. |
Have ever been caught NAPPING b4 ?I ve nô reason to do that, hé is just too creamy, nothing outside, thé best thing is inside. Women that napp may be as a result of their Hubby noy trying enough to satisfy them in bed iduno. ![]() |
I advice u seek a family counselor for counseling, because ur case is refaring to a divorce and the fear of approach death of ur Wife. It is a family counseling dat may adds the needs of the family when one family member suffers from an illness that alters his or her behavior or habits in negative ways like ur wifes case. Its normal u just cant stop thinking about thé situation. |
Omo Alata: U must be a strong Woman, hé never bits u for one day? Waooh !!! I dare not do that BRAVO to u!! |
[quote author=Zit-Ify link=topic=119277.msg7216172#msg7216172 date=1290701605]Women could take all sorts of , from their men B4 but now their eyes are wide open[/quote]In those days, a Man. Will tell his Wife get ur bag and live My house, or even use his hands to throw her bags outside What a slave way of treating a Woman,,,, now its thé Wife that send their husband out why they remain in thé home with thé kids. I hâte when some men say My house! Instead of our house. |
ohaechesi:Only A TYPICAL 9JA Man Will chassed her beloved wife LIKE THIS just "becos" so u haven't Côme across couples who were not able to ve kids and they still live together?? They are already aged to be grand parents but not having kids was never a reason for them to divorce. |
Emade:U cannot say that THE ONLY JOY, i am not agrée with u, there are lots of women out there happily married without intension of having kids. I am talking of world Wide not only naija women. I va a collegue, she is now 35yrs old, an Italian, she seems to play alot with kids so one day i was pused to asked her why she didnt ve a child yet, she told me she doesnt care about having a child and that her Hubby is ok with that. Will u now say this couple have nô JOY? Dont généralise plz. It all depense, some ppl get mrried becos they want to keep name, that is why u see oyibo nô get Time for name keeping, if they havé only one daughter, they stop and educate her then continue to enjoy their Marriage. But in My Country, wen Woman nô born Boy n'a war until she produce one, and if she nô fit produce Boy, thé Man. Don see excuse to marry another Wife ![]() |
Mygoldie:Lolsssssss, NL, una nô go finish me with laugh.ohaechesi:@ Poster, u don but wahala ![]() |
rubi:Thé story look fake really, she Will not for any reason Côme home with a Condom ans then Hotel address in her bag ![]() if it was to be a true story. Cheaters are very calculating, she Will know how to avoid Oga from suspecting her. |
I Will Tell him that i'll call for a divorce if hé continues to lie even as hé is caught red handed, and also if hé refuses to show me who thé Woman is. Or else i may forgive him with conditions. Anyway, one just hope not to fall in a situation like this. |
Emade:Not minding thé responsibilities? Not having money and having plenty children is thesame thing, this means one has already miss thé both. Why producing too Many children in poverty? This is how they end up in having a thief, prostitude, drunker, etc in thé family. Nô child Will stand in thé family becos of lack of education. |
Vgal:ignore other men when you step into marriage. this is valide for both sex i hope!! ![]() |
At poster, if child bearing was to be a serious topic between both before marrige, and during Marriage there seems to be success in bearing a child, this could break up a Marriage or else, childlessness its not enough reason to split a Marriage. |
Emade:Wrong!! Not all married couple want to havé children, thé main reason why we get married is Obviously, because we are in "LOVE!" |
neily: ![]() Its becoming very funny here, |
chukz4real:True talk, they CAN be frustrating. Virgin girls havé same frustration, but i think its rare to Marry a Virgin man. Infact, of what use ?? |
[quote author=DAY11. link=topic=555256.msg7195919#msg7195919 date=1290449799]Better talk, hmmmm So you really support those old timer? I,m 40yrs already ooo [/quote]40 yrs still unmarrieg, well it's not a thing of by force, maybe u re not interested in marriage, but becareful with ur present job( shining of congos) ![]() |
deols: ![]() |
no1madman: , Nigerians una too funny!@ Poster, if it is ones destiny why not. |
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I,m 40yrs already ooo