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Family › Re: 12year-old Girl Despoiled By Father For One Year by plappville(f): 10:00am On Nov 29, 2010
fstranger:
Only Ibo people do such despecable acts
This act is all over, all race, tribes etc. THINGS LIKE THIS hapen also In smaller cities where media dont visit we will hardly hear about it.
Lagos is a big city, so when things happen it has to be published.
Family › Re: Mother And Child! by plappville(f): 9:53am On Nov 29, 2010
ZIM DRILL:
i shouldnt respect for the sake that it was painfull to give birth to me, thats how nature or GOD intended it to be nothing special about it

but i would respect her to raising me well and showing me love

remember she didnt have me so that one day i would respect her becoz of the pain she went through, she had me becoz she wanted to have a child

the pain thing is only used to sort of buy respect, she wasnt  forced to have me am only a product of her good/happy moments and she had the choice not had me if pain is more important to give you respect becoz she doesnt have gaurantee that i will respect her becoz of the pain she went to give birth to me
the pain thing is only used to sort of buy respect, she wasnt  forced to have me am only a product of her good/happy moments and she had the choice not had me if pain is more important to give you respect becoz she doesnt have gaurantee that i will respect her becoz of the pain she went to give birth to me
You should respect her for everything both the pains and all, every mother would appreciates a child that show her respect.( U are a man to have sounded in this manner shocked)
Not becos u ve a bad relationship with your mother then u ve every reason not to respect her.
I can understand that not all mothers shows love for TheIr child also, despite that. We still have to respect our mothers.
Family › Re: Women: Why Hurt Yourselves? by plappville(f): 10:42pm On Nov 28, 2010
If only women CAN resist, thé rate Will not be as high as it is today
Like i used to say when i was younger that i will never in My Life date someone's husband.
I stood by it and i overcame it, it's in thé mind, all thèse excuses thé Poster game are just what thèse salope girls always give.
And also, Some of Our men are just good for nothing runing after single girls and they are married.
It's a dirty act. What i know is that, any woman or girly who pretendly date a married Man.
Despite her excuses, ( she is a thief and a slot) she should know that when she Will become Mrs somebody, then some little girls Will Côme and pay her back, and to thé cheating husband(hé is alone causing his entire family) e nô dey lost.
Family › Re: 12year-old Girl Despoiled By Father For One Year by plappville(f): 10:17pm On Nov 28, 2010
The girl nô get mother? This kind of story is becoming to rampant, i hate!!! cry
Family › Re: White Men Are Better Than Black Men! by plappville(f): 10:09pm On Nov 28, 2010
It's true that it's a wrong thing to généralise a whole race.
For me i would say that both havé their qualities. (Better than CAN mean in many areas) i dont really know, but if u say romantic, i CAN say yes for a white Man.
But not all white m'en are caring, our black men are like them in this area.
Family › Re: Would You Marry A Man Who Is 25 Years Older Than You? by plappville(f): 9:32pm On Nov 28, 2010
U ve asked a wrong question, what i would want is not what u Will want.
We all havé différent test in Life. It seem that u are ready to Marry thé Man.
But just want to know how other Will handle it if they were to be in your shoe. Majority hère are not ok with thé age différence , so Will u now ve a change of mind?? I advice u follow your heart, âge is just a number.
I just hope hé is not marrying u as a second wife, be carefull!!
Family › Re: Mother And Child! by plappville(f): 9:11pm On Nov 28, 2010
That she seem not to be having pains My be as a result of (Epidural Anaesthesia) to Kill thé pains.
Or else, labour is Very painful, it's not to mâke any1 get scared or something.
I havé tried both Method so i know thé différence. @ Poster, there is absolutely nothing wrong with this vidéo.
It's a nô offense vidéo. To all NL, (Respect ur mother, she went though hail to bring u to this wicked world.)
Family › Re: Finally Stopped Breastfeeding Him. Yayy! by plappville(f): 4:17pm On Nov 27, 2010
benincitys:
plappville are you still here well done , i have  8months old boy who wake up 2 to 3times to breastfed  he is driving me crazy i sleep 3to 4 hour every night December 31 will be the last breastfed ,
omo alata for 2years wow nice one .
How ré u doing BENINCITY, longest time. So u ve another baby waoo, congrat gal, i havent visited NL for thé past 1yrs or more.
Anyway, happy to see u again.
As for your baby, if hé/she Wakes up 2-3 Times at night, that means hé doesn't sleep up to 16 hours par day.
I think hé is not satisfy with thé B/milk only. Try to introduce him formula before u pût him to bed.
But in most case, kids that wake up at night doesn't really means they want food, mothers shouldn't feel too tired to used other method to pût their babies back to bed, I kNOw SAY e NO EaSy shall, but na just for short Time.
Hopefully u are planning to stop him soon, i hope u gain back your all night sleep as well lols. Courage gal.
Family › Re: Finally Stopped Breastfeeding Him. Yayy! by plappville(f): 6:51pm On Nov 26, 2010
aysometin:
It's so hard for me to believe this shocked 2 yearshuh

My son is just 6 months old and doesnt want breastmilk anymore
We started with formula when he was born because I was sickly and he kind of got used to it.
He was taking formula has a main meal and bosom milk just occassionally but now he spits it out when I give him and has stopped taking it totally.
He has started cereals and solid.

Now I feel like a bad mother huh sad
U are not a bad mother, u could ve been one if u had gave him ur milk while u where sick.
I consider a bad mother one that that refused to alow her baby to test her natural milk provided for thé baby all because of (I DONT WANT MY BREAST TO FLAT). So My dear u ve done well dont regret. Un as long as ur baby has testée formula, it's sûre hé Will nô longer have interest.
Family › Re: High Increase In Divorce Rate In Our Society: Women The Cause, Why? by plappville(f): 5:35pm On Nov 26, 2010
dayokanu:
Depends on who built the house.
Even if the man built the house before they got married, he still cannot send his wife out just like that.
There are prosidure to respect, sure she will ve to leave, but at her very given time, that is if they have kids together.
And in the case they they got married before the house was built, the man has no right to send his wife out.
If divorce occures, this properties are shared equally.
Family › Re: Finally Stopped Breastfeeding Him. Yayy! by plappville(f): 5:24pm On Nov 26, 2010
Omo Alata:
I exclusively breastfed him for the first 6 months i.e. no other feeds (it was very tiring https://bestsmileys.com/sleeping/9.gif ) then he started solids which I still mixed with breastfeeding.  Whenever he felt poorly, he would completely go off his solids and would only want my milk  huh

He also suckles constantly throughout the night so I stopped putting him in his bed as I was always back and forth.  He slept next to me, wanted a suckle, I'd whip it out, stick it in his mouth and we'd both fall asleep  grin

Now, that I have stopped, he sleeps with his dad and when he cries in the night because he wants the b o o b i e s, hubby has to take him downstairs and feed him porridge or something light before they come back to bed.  I'm praying he stops the night feeding altogether now so we can have some quality sleep  smiley

And yes, plappville, when he was teething, he has given me a couple of bites  shocked
I admire your courage gal, so your baby still wake u up at night? but why should she sleep with u or your hubby?
even if u breastfeed, u don't ve to allow her sleep with u in your bedroom, from day 1 to 2 months is good to be very careful, i mean, if he cries alot u can put him in his bed right in your room, but dont alow this to last too long.

Your baby is used to sleeping with u guys because u caused it.
I don't like the ideal of babies sleeping in same room with parents, they should learn how to be alone right from birth.
This is just my opinion.

And the ideal of feeding her at night is very frustrating, u know what, when a baby cries at night doesn't really mean he/she wants to eat, sometimes they need thier mum tender touches.

Go to him and sing some soft song for him befor u know, your baby will fall asleep again.
But if this didn't work, take him and move around with him why singing when he sleeps make sure u drop him in his bedroom, even if he is crying let him cry for about 10 mins max.

I can tell u that after some time he become used to his bed, he will come to understand.
My dear u will never have time for urself with all these stress. try and do something to help your baby know she has to sleep alone in her bed.[/b] this method has worked for me.
Family › Re: Can One Divorce His/her Partner For Being Hiv+,and Especially Hidding It by plappville(f): 5:02pm On Nov 26, 2010
djojo:
Am not married but yet i can still advise u.
It is not good for someone to advise a couple to divorce in Islamic way unless it as gotten to some stage,
At first how and when did she got infected with the virus.
i think u should stay with her cos if u propose for a divorce she may kill herself.
why can u go for family counselling or u seek for the advise of elder but u will not inform them u it happened to.
in your first post u said u make love with her without using condom and yet u are not infected, i will advise both of u to go for another test, not only u going for the test,
is there any sign  that she is infected.
pls investigate properly before taken any uncontrollable step
What more advice does he want? am sure he is just ready to leave the woman, in my first post i adviced u to seek a family counselling, here is djoj giving u Dsame advise, i guess u should nt discuss with family elders because the result will be DIVORCE HER. there is always a way out. You still have to go for a new test with ur wife to be 100p sure than bordering urself over leaving her. If u run away from ur wife, can u run away from ur child? or is the child nt infected too? think well befor u do things Man!!
Family › Re: Finally Stopped Breastfeeding Him. Yayy! by plappville(f): 12:02am On Nov 26, 2010
silvasurfa:
my dear congrats oh!!!
been trying to wean my 18 month old babygal for sometime now. na real war!!
Dont u think it's difficult because u breadfed her for too long? I v never had problems stopping My kids. It all went well only thé pains during this period. If i may asked, do u breastfeed only or mixed with othe solid food? Till this age?
Family › Re: Can One Divorce His/her Partner For Being Hiv+,and Especially Hidding It by plappville(f): 11:54pm On Nov 25, 2010
usetime:
biblically , yes.
i.e for sexual promiscuity.
  how did she get it anyway!!! screwing around behind your back?!
Not alone through sex, so many ways to get this fu"king virus.
We just ve to be careful n'a God get Power, @ Poster, if ur Woman wants to transmit it to u she CAN do it without having sex with u, so just pray to God.
Family › Re: Hotel Address And Condoms In Your Wife's Bag? What Would You Do ? by plappville(f): 11:48pm On Nov 25, 2010
Have ever been caught NAPPING b4 ?
I ve nô reason to do that, hé is just too creamy, nothing outside, thé best thing is inside. Women that napp may be as a result of their Hubby noy trying enough to satisfy them in bed iduno. lipsrsealed
Family › Re: Can One Divorce His/her Partner For Being Hiv+,and Especially Hidding It by plappville(f): 11:35pm On Nov 25, 2010
I advice u seek a family counselor for counseling, because ur case is refaring to a divorce and the fear of approach death of ur Wife. It is a family counseling dat may adds the needs of the family when one family member suffers from an illness that alters his or her behavior or habits in negative ways like ur wifes case. Its normal u just cant stop thinking about thé situation.
Family › Re: Finally Stopped Breastfeeding Him. Yayy! by plappville(f): 11:13pm On Nov 25, 2010
Omo Alata:
I gave him the last breastmilk on his 2nd birthday.  After suckling, I said, "happy birthday son, say goodbye to the bosom".  He's been screaming and crying for it but I was knackered ojare  grin

Now hubby is not happy because he has to get up with him in the night  grin

My bosoms are now my own.  Sexy bras here I come  grin
shocked shocked shocked shocked OMG, how comes? 2fat yrs to bosom feed! I never Heard that. I breastfed My 1st son for 6 months, i was almost runing crazy, thé 2rd for 3months, u cant cope breastfeeding and Work together. Its very stressful.
U must be a strong Woman, hé never bits u for one day? Waooh !!! I dare not do that BRAVO to u!!
Family › Re: High Increase In Divorce Rate In Our Society: Women The Cause, Why? by plappville(f): 10:52pm On Nov 25, 2010
[quote author=Zit-Ify link=topic=119277.msg7216172#msg7216172 date=1290701605]Women could take all sorts of , from their men B4 but now their eyes are wide open[/quote]In those days, a Man. Will tell his Wife get ur bag and live My house, or even use his hands to throw her bags outside
What a slave way of treating a Woman,,,, now its thé Wife that send their husband out why they remain in thé home with thé kids. I hâte when some men say My house! Instead of our house.
Family › Re: Is Childlessness In A Marriage Enough Reason For Couples To Split? by plappville(f): 10:34pm On Nov 25, 2010
ohaechesi:
my dear, you would have been right going by your quote but in the society today, reverse in the case. Men finds it difficult to put up with women this days and the major reason why it is as if marriage between men and women flourish today is simply because of procreation. if a woman cannot be reproductive in her matrimonial home, she should take the exit grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
liar shocked shocked shocked
Only A TYPICAL 9JA Man Will chassed her beloved wife LIKE THIS just "becos" so u haven't Côme across couples who were not able to ve kids and they still live together?? They are already aged to be grand parents but not having kids was never a reason for them to divorce.
Family › Re: Is Childlessness In A Marriage Enough Reason For Couples To Split? by plappville(f): 10:22pm On Nov 25, 2010
Emade:
Wrong!! Not all married couple  want to havé children, thé main  reason why we get married is Obviously, because we are in " LOVE!"


AM NOT WRONG THE ONLY JOY IN MARRIAGE IS CHILDREN.ASK THOSE WOMEN WHO DO NOT HAVE THEY WILL TELL U.
U cannot say that THE ONLY JOY, i am not agrée with u, there are lots of women out there happily married without intension of having kids. I am talking of world Wide not only naija women. I va a collegue, she is now 35yrs old, an Italian, she seems to play alot with kids so one day i was pused to asked her why she didnt ve a child yet, she told me she doesnt care about having a child and that her Hubby is ok with that. Will u now say this couple have nô JOY? Dont généralise plz. It all depense, some ppl get mrried becos they want to keep name, that is why u see oyibo nô get Time for name keeping, if they havé only one daughter, they stop and educate her then continue to enjoy their Marriage. But in My Country, wen Woman nô born Boy n'a war until she produce one, and if she nô fit produce Boy, thé Man. Don see excuse to marry another Wife grin
Family › Re: 9yr Old Boy Pregnanted Her 16yr Old Sister by plappville(f): 10:00pm On Nov 25, 2010
Mygoldie:
see name,o r g a sm, grin grin grin grin na wa oh.
Lolsssssss, grin grin NL, una nô go finish me with laugh.
ohaechesi:
it sounds as if you are the perpetuator, could u possibly tell us more on how you intend to f-ck your mama to night. you have now turned to he goat, ewu mmeee grin grin grin
@ Poster, u don but wahala grin grin grin grin
Family › Re: Hotel Address And Condoms In Your Wife's Bag? What Would You Do ? by plappville(f): 10:27pm On Nov 24, 2010
rubi:
I don't believe the story
Thé story look fake really, she Will not for any reason Côme home with a Condom ans then Hotel address in her bag undecided
if it was to be a true story. Cheaters are very calculating, she Will know how to avoid Oga from suspecting her.
Family › Re: Hotel Address And Condoms In Your Wife's Bag? What Would You Do ? by plappville(f): 10:20pm On Nov 24, 2010
I Will Tell him that i'll call for a divorce if hé continues to lie even as hé is caught red handed, and also if hé refuses to show me who thé Woman is.
Or else i may forgive him with conditions. Anyway, one just hope not to fall in a situation like this.
Family › Re: Why Do Poor People Have So Many Kids by plappville(f): 9:41pm On Nov 24, 2010
Emade:
u can not miss two things if u do not have money at list u must have many children to show 4 it.
Not minding thé responsibilities? Not having money and having plenty children is thesame thing, this means one has already miss thé both. Why producing too Many children in poverty? This is how they end up in having a thief, prostitude, drunker, etc in thé family. Nô child Will stand in thé family becos of lack of education.
Family › Re: High Increase In Divorce Rate In Our Society: Women The Cause, Why? by plappville(f): 9:23pm On Nov 24, 2010
Vgal:
Toyin omotehinwa was married to a promising youngman lanre sarumi but she still had eyes on Kojo Annan. Her husband got to know and the marriage broke in months with her being pregnant. Now she is remarried and looks miserable with 3 kids for 2 men at age 36. Lesson to learn, ignore other men when you step into marriage.
ignore other men when you step into marriage.

this is valide for both sex i hope!! undecided
Family › Re: Is Childlessness In A Marriage Enough Reason For Couples To Split? by plappville(f): 9:12pm On Nov 24, 2010
At poster, if child bearing was to be a serious topic between both before marrige, and during Marriage there seems to be success in bearing a child, this could break up a Marriage or else, childlessness its not enough reason to split a Marriage.
Family › Re: Is Childlessness In A Marriage Enough Reason For Couples To Split? by plappville(f): 9:06pm On Nov 24, 2010
Emade:
the reason that people get marryed is becos of children.but if there is no children than there is no reason 4 marriage.god help us.
Wrong!! Not all married couple want to havé children, thé main reason why we get married is
Obviously, because we are in "LOVE!"
Family › Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married. by plappville(f): 11:16am On Nov 23, 2010
neily:
@poster, Did u say 40? Wow a FOOL FOREVER!
grin grin grin grin
Its becoming very funny here,
Family › Re: Virgin Husbands! by plappville(f): 10:17pm On Nov 22, 2010
chukz4real:
All the singles ladies should pray not to ever get married to a supposed 'virgin husband' cos if u do, I wonder where u will start teaching from! Don't be surprise you'll even go extra mile inviting your female friends if not prostitues to come over and help u out on your husband.
True talk, they CAN be frustrating.
Virgin girls havé same frustration, but i think its rare to Marry a Virgin man.
Infact, of what use ??
Family › Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married. by plappville(f): 7:30pm On Nov 22, 2010
[quote author=DAY11. link=topic=555256.msg7195919#msg7195919 date=1290449799]Better talk, hmmmm

So you really support those old timer? angry I,m 40yrs already ooo grin grin grin grin[/quote]40 yrs still unmarrieg, well it's not a thing of by force, maybe u re not interested in marriage, but becareful with ur present job( shining of congos)  lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Family › Re: My Parents Are Forcing Me To Get Married. by plappville(f): 7:17pm On Nov 22, 2010
deols:
They are stylishly telling u to beware 4 AIDS is real. .

and wen one of your congosssssssss get belle finish, dey won't want to nurse d baskard. . dey'r only being smart
grin grin grin grin grin grin
Family › Re: Can You Marry A Handicape Person by plappville(f): 7:15pm On Nov 22, 2010
no1madman:
yes,deaf and dumb.
grin grin grin grin grin grin, Nigerians una too funny!


@ Poster, if it is ones destiny why not.

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