₦airaland Forum

worry246:
Does she think that you can afford to loose the money?
Do not let her get away with it.
Go to her place and sell her things in market to recover money.
Make her work till all is paid back.
Money is more important than blood.

johndoe200:
Why do you say that? He is a Muslim and can have multiple wives. Do you think or are you advocating that the religion should be changed?

Are the Muslims that have more than one wife dead? Please multiple kitty is GOOD thing.

vanitty:
You are indeed a malu brain

zayhal:
malu brain indeed.

Even a malu is better than you in thinking.

ifyalways:
What is abnormal is a grown-a55 man waiting everynite to get a free peepshow.
How come u knew they bath together always?
Those babes don get free bodyguard be dat.Congrats on your work without pay.

emmatok:
So wat would u expect from her ? To send her sister's husband to jail even as she has brought so much problems to her ? T[b]he husband at least Loves n care for

the wife[/b] he doesn't want the wife to know becos she might lose her pregnancy from heartbreak n stress if she is to be cognisant of wat is going on.


@macjive01

I disagree!

A cheating husband do not love and care for his wife.

No matter how they try to hide this scandal from the wife through their settlement, the truth will surely come out .

The best thing this NGO should do, is to inform in the in-laws(ladys family) ASAP.

Or else there is going to be serious war btw the two sisters.

NAJALYN:
The bond between mother & child is very strong because the mother carried the child for 9 good months. During pregnancy we know what the mother suffered; morning sickness, some women go in & out of hospital, until they deliver, delivery is not easy, etc. The mother would always want to feel her baby's movement, sometimes talking to her unborn baby lovingly. That love for the baby is always strong, except of course in cases of unwanted pregnancies. So why would anyone say that he or she would not respect the mother for giving birth to him or her? People like ZIM DRILL should be made by God to experience what a woman goes through during & after pregnancy, just once. Then there will be no room for these long arguments. Like MissyB rightly said, some women do not want to have babies because they feel it would ruin their figure, forgetting someone gave birth to them. Some sell their baby for money, some abort their pregnancy, some give birth & abandon their baby. So ZIM DRILL you have a lot for which you should be grateful to your mum. And after delivery a woman has to bring up the child until the child settles down. Even then, she never stops having anxious moments for her children. A man does not worry as much as the woman, & of course we now know why. Therefore, women deserve gratitude & respect from their children always.

rokiatu:
@ZIM DRILL, do you have some personal problem with your mom? (NO OFFENCE)

CrazyMan:
When officers of the law who are supposed to protect the masses are busy ra.pping innocent females to death; why won’t kidnapping and robbery be so rampant?

I want to know what thé law Will do in this case because Nigeria law? E get as e bi as thé crime commiter is a DPO
I always say that LAW makers are law breaker

Akinagirl:
I hate how the newscaster is making it sound as if the little girl was enjoying the act. That was not making love that was freaking r, ape! DAMN!

Blazay:
From where?
Are these demons really Nigerians or immigrants?

Ivynwa:
Why is the Nigerian society ever hard on unmarried ladies in their thirties and forties. Very quick to call them names all for being unmarried. Will they go and pay their dowries or marry men and it su*ks real bad when it comes from women especially the married ones that feel too good with their world as to begin to nose down on others.
This has already happened, we ain't doing a wakekeeping to cry over spilt milk and brand the poor girl names. The poster is seeking solution to her problems. Solutions people!!
Arun I hope you have been able to have somebody reach out to her dear.

valoval:
SOMEONE THAT NEED HELP AND YOU ARE TELLING HIM TO HELP HIMSELF, IF I CAN HELP MYSELF WHY THEN DO I VE TO ASK FOR A HELPER. MAYBE NOW I VE AN ADDICTION AND ALL I NEED IS YOUR WORDS. DOES THAT MEAN WE VE NO PHSYCOLOGIST IN NAIRA LAND. ME AM A BUSINESS ADMISTRATOR, GRADUATED FROM LAGOS STATE UNIVERSITY. STOP TELLING ME TO HELP MY SELF. IF YOU VE NOTHING TO TELL ME ON HOW I SHOULD STOP IN A MIND CHANGING WAYS DONT PUT YOU HURTING WORDS PLEASE.

Bawal:
I asked her several times,if she is aware when she contacted it,she say no.The only thing is that my mind keep telling me that she used trick on me,as she might have known that she knew that she have it before we got married,and thats why i am very annouyed over the whole issue.Sounding as if i m a 'MUGU' and 'MUGU' don fall.

Romeo4real:
Any person who would not donate their kidneys to their spouse is either in the wrong marriage, or shouldn't be married in the first place.
I would gladly donate both of mine!

from (topeorekoy (m))=not so sure of that.

what if the woman decides to leave?

i heard of a story on radio, the husband donated his kindey and liver to his wife and the woman is in court asking for a divorce.

the guy now whats his kidney and liver back

from(josite) ==
if she has been a good wife to me,my jewel of inestimable value,i will surely do so.but if not,it is beta for her to die quickly so i can rest.

soft girl:
my case is the reverse my people celebrate beta when my kids are having thier birthday but i don't count it much it's no big deal if they don't remember as much as my husband and I remember and pray for them

ZIM DRILL:
you got it wrong dear i respect her and i dont have any bad relationship with her


but once your mother start to talk of birth pain it means she is now trying to buy respect from you

every woman does go through pain nothing special about thats nature  it is like saying "i raised you  "  what do you expect it is your duty to look after me if you didnt want responsiblity you shouldnt have had me 

respect should be always there but mother dont try to bribe us with pain thing and i raised you statement, who did you want to go through the pain and who should have raised me ? when i didnt ask to be born

i am a product of your happy moments unless if it was despoil

ifyalways:
Quick question,Do u call or send them gifts on their own birthdays ?
Its no biggie though,the fact that they remember your childrens BD shows they care but if u feel so bad abt it,send them birthday goodies on your next bd and see if it wud help.
if i were u,i wud not let that bother me

As for calling them, and sending gifts that is sure, i do send gift each time some1 gos to 9ja, but they are not birthday gifts. I wonder why should adults cry for bithday gifts at the first place. Do u think i should send them birthday gifes first?
I'm not sad because my mum don't call, she is very old so i can understand even on her birthday sometimes she doesn't even remember what date (laughs)

andromida:
as much as i hate abortion i"d advise her to abort the baby for her peace and sis peace no need tearing the family apart.

I ve never advice some1 to abort a pregnancy no matter the case becos for me its against Gods will but i think her case warrants it.
What does she want to tell us? a Catholic sister, would she say she doesn't sin at all each passing day? C'mon gal, if she had thought of breaking her sisters marriage then let her keep the baby and remain a life enermy with her sister, in this case she will not make heaven eaither.

5 good times with her sisters husband and she didn't say a word , she dey make fool of her self.
Afterall, the man is rich, she want to ve the baby with the Catholic excuses!!