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^ let him use ur noode pictures in the scams.

ladunsky: The question the guys should be asking is... When they do come across these girls do they appreciate them I have been in a couple of relationships and they were absolutely DISTRACTED....

Most men are dumb and they dont know a good thing when they see it... thats another problem

Bance in a professional football player...

And jallowba

Exactly, if i were to name the top most confident women on this forum it would be; African1 (i miss you ), oguagua88 and Nayah

female confidence is usually very subtle and every decent man can appreciate it.

Break up with him in the harshest way possible...guys like this need to be broken in.

onila: NIGERIAN MEN AND WOMEN ARE PRODUCTS OF THE SAME SOCIETY. .a materialistic society. .blaming nigerian girls for their problems does not make sense

Blaming Nigerian girls for their problems does not make sense... lol? do u see how silly that sounds

The fact of the matter is both nigerian men and Nigerian women are materialistic.

But the reason why so many dudes are angry is because your (black womens) greed is directed towards us (black men) and we have to suffer for it. Until that changes, there are going to be alot of angry niggas running around.

The thing is real confident women don't usually indentify with their confidence.... the loud overbearing women do. So whenever confidence in females is brought up it usually becomes a euphamism for the type of chicks you are describing above ^

When you see real confidence in a man or women, it will be through their actions not their words.

freecocoa: Ofcourse if its not in favor of the men then its a lie.

Like I could care less, phuleeeaasse.

freecocoa you never once denied it was a lie!

komek: Nigerian men do, just that we don't have confident women in Nigeria. What we have are bunch of disrepectful women who are after women empowerment in order to take over from the men. Which I deduce from the OP as not being the defination of confidence

exactly, what they call confidence it not real confidence. Its just hassle

Like i said earlier... the vaast majority of attractive women have a natural level of confidence. That is not abnormal.

But when people over-identify with their confidence i.e "Strong Black Women" or "Macks" it is usually a euphamism for an over-bearing personality. If you think your personality intimidates men it is most likely not normal feminine confidence, but rather masculine aggressive behavior that people often mistake for confidence

Oyinhoney: List Of Questions I Can Ask My New Boyfriend

okay yall i need your help seriously. Can you all list down things that I could ask my boyfriend? See the thing is, I just started dating this guy and I don't know what to ask him whenever were talking. So basically I need a list of questions

OMG your profile is male! a bunch of fuckin gays and gender confused women on this site

Ladyjide: Was he acting this way from the beginning of your relationship? If he was not- then I would confront him- and see what is happening! Maybe that he is cheating, or no longer attracted to you. Personally I would not take no for an answer, TAKE what you want !!

rapist?

honestly, i was expecting the ladies to deny this. But they didnt wth!

what is wrong with black ppl?

lurking.. but i dont really understand what yall are arguing about.

Can some one fill me on on whats happening on this thread?

it looks like the good guys are loosing

You really hurt our feelings onlia

Let me ask yall this... how do yall think Adam and Eve were married?

2 people become 1 the instant blood is exchanged via intercourse. This is the sole reason why fornication is considered such a bad sin

[quote author=Angel_7]Yes there is, but ur analysis may nt wrk because its the shy man dat will have to woo the confident woman and nt d other way round. Our confidence get levels.[/quote]See thats the issue... you 'confident' ladies are not actually confident you are just overbearing.

If you were really "confident" you would not have a problem asking a submissive man out. We confident men ask girls out all the time. The main thing that will prevent a person from making the first move is fear, not 'levels'. You are scared of looking bad.

Believe me a real assertive/confident woman is not sitting around at a bar waiting for some dude to buy her a drink.

leatherman: Grow a brain

[quote author=Mynd_44]Smh......[/quote]Unfortunately as a man in modern society if you want to be sucessfull with any woman you are going to have to do a little play acting.

at least until she gets to know you

im telling yall.. this is why men turn into "nigerian woman bashers." This OPs post is not asking that much... its perfectly reasonable.
But instead of simply just listening to what he has to say Nigerian ladies would rather make up lies and excuses for why they cant contribute anything meaningfull to a dudes life.

I cant believe anyone is still marring these women seriously...

Nigerian women are a mess ooo.... i have an uncl who used to send $200 every month to a Naija lady back home.... but when he lost his job who rescued him? an A.A woman. Guess who he married

niggas yall better escape before its too late, the grass is greener on the other side

[quote author=Mynd_44]Desperate for female attention are you? Dude believe me you are better off being who you are as that can only bring the worthwhile wome to you. If you start acting like what you are not, you will only attracts fakes to you[/quote]better than being single fooooooooooever.

kulyie you love confident women to death.

Get you one already! stop trying to justify it

kulyie: i have not gone to her house but a family friend invited me for her wedding anniversary and during the celebration,i saw where she knelt down in public for her husband thanking her husband of giving her the opportunity of being who she is today,i dont see an arrogant woman being able to do this,so for her to kneel down in public for her husband,even though i dont live with her,i know she is the kind of woman that will 6old her husband in high esteem despite who she is finacially in the society

according to the standard definition that is not a confident woman.

Most "confident women" accoridng to modern societies definition would consider that degrading. patriarchal oppression lol

I'm not lying. Of course i know there are women who spend money on men.

Ive simply never heard of it in the Nigeria context.

Guys like that are not everywhere.... and that is not why women don't spend money. Women don't usually spend money because 99% of the time they simply don't have to.

I have a million relatives spending money back to gf's in Nigeria, never heard of it the other way round

hey, are u approaching chicks btw?

try it

leatherman: What is ur point?

In order for your money to start benefiting you it must surpass your ugly-ness level.