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Well written post, refreshing. But I think the karma for being a player is AIDS.

kandiikane: And I say that's how life is. People always complain whether good or bad. Take it or leave it.

Your getting a little bit ridiculous... Its like your trying to argue with me on every post.

stop.

6. It's easy to talk to little kids.I find kids get attracted to beautiful faces.They fear scary ones

thats an odd one.

^ I don't know about all that...

But yea like i said earlier, this thread is dumb. You guys must be living in an area were attractive people are extreamly uncommon. Were i am at there are good looking ppl everywhere, no one is making a big deal out of it and no one is complaining.

mylunch: Normally,i would be long done with this conversation,but for some reasons i would like to ask this,let me rephrase ur last question.Just for fun,pls answer this,if a boyfriend of one of ur sisters or female relative has a chance to save her,would you advise him other wise?like say to him, don't save her she is not what it.

If you feel this discussion is not worth having, fine lets end it. It is not my job to explain my views to you or anyone.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Little lonely on this thread....dummber boy? [/quote]I don't even understand this post.

Why do you have to use so many emoticons btw? it comes across very immature.

kandiikane: Also tell that to intelligent people.

If they were intelligent they wouldn't complain about a good thing. Memorizing a ton of facts doent make you smart, there is an element of common sense involved...

bknight: If u were @ d car-wash and asked ur gf to help get something (snacks frm d eatery) across d road, on her way back while crossing she gets knocked down , and dies before u get to d nearest hospital?

Nobody imagines d guilt she'd hv to deal with all her life, everytime she remembers d incident. Nobody knew such might happen for sure. Reflex is dat when falling, ur hands automatically stretch out, hw did he land on his forehead?

If it was his younger nephew, lady-colleague, church-sister or any other person for dat matter asides a gf who asked for d pear, and he died trying, wld u say his death was worth it then?

You guys are interpreting this the wrong way. Its not about this particular incident, but rather the general trend in society of men sacrificing themselves for Gf's. Much of the black on black murder in the u.s is done over women. Men are realizing that this sort of behavior is not worth it.

If you want to be like this go for it, no one stopping you, but dont try and guilt other dudes into behaving like you.

kobezex: so why should a sane guy risk his life for a girl? Girls are simply not worth the stress at all except ur wife.

Exactly, if these men had thought it through they would realize how many things they are throwing away.

The opportunity to have a wife and kids that love them... to be a grandparent all gone because of some girl who will forget them in a couple months. I suppose women think about these things, thats why you will hardly ever see a woman sacrifice herself for someone who is not her child.

mylunch: Am surprised at this,am sure you have sisters or female relatives,and u expect that they be treated correctly by their boyfriends is'nt it? i can't understand this,i don't think a pear is so huge to ask,is not like she asked for something too extra ordinary,like a car or something,d incident was only unfortunate.

It not the specific situation, but the trend in general. I'm thinking more of those men who sacrificed themselves in the colorado shooting and other instances were dudes die to impress girlfriends.

And your point about female relatives doent really correlate. Do i want my brother to sacrifie himselve for some random chick hes dating? I would be pissed.

stop you guys.... grow up.

This has nothing to do with female brain. That's nonsense. This has to do with general human behaviour. People complain but still continue to do what they do.

Kandikanne that is textbook female behavior. Take it or leave it.

prettyjulie: Its quite unfortunate dat the guy had 2 die like dat but Ȋ̝̊̅ hate it wen guys here pretend as if dey wouldn't have done the same if dey were in dat position
Anyway may his soul rest in peace,bt before you make a comment here please have it at the back of your mind dat the dead deserve some respect,not everything is to be made jest of even wen dey are funny

I don't think anyone is joking here.

Men are finally realizing that doing silly and dangerous things for female approval is just not worth it. The men who over-value women end up removing themselves from the gene pool.

oh, that would have explained it in Nigeria.

Are you 'half-caste' or unusually light skinned for your area? If so this issue may be more complex than just good looks.

Do beggars target you and shout, "fine boy! fine boy!!"?

Is this Nigeria? if so i might know the cause of your problem...

ArQueBusieR: Do you know how it feels to have people overtly tell you how good you look every single day when you're an introvert?

Do female 'frotteurists' rub up on you everywhere you go, albeit discreetly?

Have you ever being asked to pay extra bucks for a good because the retailer thinks good looks = wealth.

Do girls intentionally touch your joystick, apologize, and then repeat the act?

Do girls intentionally show you their panties in class against your will?
Do beggars target you and shout, "fine boy! fine boy!!"?

Do you get stared at like a TV?
I just had to ask these few questions for clarification.
Don't get me wrong, I love the way I look, but I just don't understand why people - including me - place so much emphasis on physical appearance.

*Forgive me Lord, they made me do it: they made me mouth-off*

Lol, your not going to get any sympathy from me, i consider myself a fairly attractive dude and i'm also a partial introvert. And i'm not complaining, good looks opens you up to a whole plethora of females who many guys end up paying for. I enjoy it... Of course i'm not at the level where random chicks are grabbing my crotch in public. If that is your situation i can understand why u are upset.

The bolded is the only thing in your list that has happend to me. It happened alot last year, one girl took it a step further and it was the only reason i enjoyed that class.

You sound like you have alot of estrogen, that is probably the cause of your introversion. Look at things on the bright side, be glad you are not ugly.

Omg that is terrible, but not surprising. I predict a similar fate for those men who sacrificed themselves for their GF's in that American theater shooting a few weeks ago.

Its just not worth it, if these dudes could look back they would be so embarrassed.

kandiikane: As I have written, one can never be satisfied.

You will complain but still continue to do what you do.

That's life.

Um... i think that is the female brain speaking, most men dont really operate like that. If we think attractiveness is a liability we stop combing our hair or stop dressing nice. Simple

We are not going to complain about looking good yet put in all the effort needed to look good, its just not logical.