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She obviously has a very feminine personality so there is nothing wrong with her being attracted to extreme masculinity. If she likes dirty guys and also enjoys cleaning sounds like a match made in heaven to me.

Decent girls will be freaks for the right man. Hopefully, her husband.

if not she just has a low libido.


haha, to me there is nothing more attractive than a docile woman that has a wild side.

8. They can act as mother and father at the same time. men do not want to.

Please please please please do not go down this path. You will F[i]UC[/i]K up your male child. We have enough manbitches in this world.

What on earth, several hundred europeans? They had thousands on men, in addition to forts and ships on the coast.

Also colonialism is taught all wrong. When they show colonial maps with africa completly divided between european countries it is very misleading. Maps like the one below simply showed European claims in relation to other European countries.

So basically it was 'theirs' in their heads only and they didn't really control the land. And they certainly didn't defeat all the people in battle, because in most cases the ppl didn't even know they were in a colony.

They "big girls" may not be looking for marriage. They might just want attention.


For the life of me though, i will never understand why females think attitude is sexy.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=810310.msg9632108#msg9632108 date=1322242392]Why would I waste any more of my time encountering stupidity?

If you seriously think that a woman is solely responsible for unplanned pregnancies then you are more vapid than I thought.   For bullshit like this, I strongly advocate for post abortion. 

Good riddance.[/quote]stop the insults and the sillyness and just answer this question.

Almost none of the contraction process in in a mans contol, yet u ppl still find a way to blame men. Pregnancy is something that happens to a womans body, how are going to blame someone else for what u allowed to happen?

If u can't then i am correct.

You are still saying the same thing and it is still INCORRECT.   A man and a woman are both responsible for unplanned pregnancies.  Period.  Regardless if the woman should keep her legs closed, it still doesn't negate the fact that the man is still responsible for his child whether he wants to or not.

You did not counter anything I said, which basically proves I am right.  Did i ever say a woman should keep her legs closed? You keep repeating that point because its the only one you know how to defend.

If two unmarried people have voluntary sex they are both doing something wrong. In the U.S if that sex results in a pregnancy is 100% the females fault. Because the woman has control over contraceptives, condom use, and knows her cycles

If gender roles are ingrained in the DNA, then why are you complaining about females being responsible for WEAK AND INSECURE boys?

'independant' Women have unplanned babies with worthless dudes, and end up raising their kids as single parents. A boy raised by a single mother is imbued with all her feminine energy, often resulting in a weak & insecure man who repeats the cycle.

This weakness is often masked by a shell of hyper-masculinity. This occurs because women have a limited understanding of what it takes to be a man. Thus they only show their son the 'macho side'

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=810310.msg9628246#msg9628246 date=1322203730]I know damn well I did not see a certain someone stated that pregnancy is 110% a woman's fault.  Seriously?    Wedlock sex is not a cultural or regional thing and if a man/boy and woman/girl lay down without protection UNLESS it is by force it is 50/50 fault.  

In case you fell asleep in Biology/Human Sexuality class, a woman can't get pregnant unless she is impregnated with Fluid and that mean a man bleeped her.  Many men kills me when they say that a woman should have closed her legs without taking in account that a man should also keep his Joystick in his pants.[/quote]okay maybe 110% was exaggerating and 100% is a more accurate number. Lets say the sex is voluntary:

The man doesn't want to use a condom yet the woman allows herself to be penetrated without protection- strike one

The woman didn't use birth control- strike two

The woman knows her cycles- strike three.

Almost none of the contraction process in in a mans contol, yet u ppl still find a way to blame men. Pregnancy is something that happens to a womans body, how are going to blame someone else for what u allowed to happen?

That being said i think if a mans girlfriend gets pregnant he should marry her for the sake of the kids.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=810310.msg9631428#msg9631428 date=1322236508]Too many femanbitches on Nairaland and we're running out of tampons!  [/quote]I love how when female wants to call a man weak they call him a woman. You see gender roles are ingrained in our DNA

kasiem:
in my village, there's this law that if u impregnate a woman, u must marry her or pay penalty of sixty thousand naira. but, they've not come up with laws like if a woman infects u with STDs, she'll pay an amount as penalty.

If someone knowingly infects you with an STD that person should be put to death. Think about it guys, thats the only way we will get rid of these things.

This argument is not appropriate for the Nigerian context, as the gender roles are quite traditional in Africa.

However, in the US the gender imbalance is horribly skewed. Lets be frank here boys are taught from an early age that women are better than them. And men are usually made to take the blame for women's mistakes. For example unplanned pregnancy is 110% a womans fault, but society still finds a way to blame men. Examples of this can be found in places like the Maury Povich show.

In the past women were docile, hardworking, very dependent on men, and so much was expected of them from society (and still is in many places). To compensate for that, females were given special privileges and exempted from certain tasks.
but women no longer follow traditional  rules yet still expect these privileges. When women leave their societal role the moral fabric of a community falls apart. More out of wedlock births which leads to crime. Females choosing mates because of emotions rather than logic , high divorce rates because of no gender roles etc.

Women will complain all day telling men how to be men and stop "whining." but when we tell them to "act like a woman" its chauvanistic.

And to those p[i]uss[/i]y whipped dudes saying; "women are special." No they are not. only a[i] select few[/i] women are special. The sooner u realize this the sooner you stop being a tampon.

I think this topic is worth reviving.

So, men of Nairaland, what do you think of [i]Chinese [/i]women?

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=807483.msg9597935#msg9597935 date=1321827722]My dear I'm satisfied but I'm not satisfied  I'm satisfied that I've seen the pic and I'm not satisfied  because they really made one heck of fuss about the pic, I'm still looking at it though  [/quote][quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=807483.msg9597989#msg9597989 date=1321828360]lmao okay I can't wait to see the worst of the worse  and I'll definitely remind you [/quote][quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=807483.msg9597921#msg9597921 date=1321827603]I knew it I will be disappointed. I can't believe it was because of that pic everyone was making noise, I'm still looking at the pic oh I'm trying to find something that will disgust me but I've found nothing * I don't mean to be silly but it looks more like suya*

thanks a lot poster I really appreciate it  [/quote]Your words kinda speak for themselves. What was that like 7 smilely faces?

You guys think about it.

imagine you had a 1968 Lamborghini that cost 200k. Now imaging the maintenance costs; oil changes, fuel, cleaning, replaceable parts etc.
So that even if someone wanted to give you the car for free you still wouldn't be able to afford it.

now imagine the maintainace costs for a 40 million dollar warship.

Bobbyendy:
My peeps having settle  ‎​†ђξ  pix issue I guess we can procede furter to  ‎​†ђξ  main issue which Ȋ̝̊̅§ CAN YOU DONATE ŪЯ̲̅  KIDNEY AND LIVER TO YOUR PARTNER not minding  ‎​†ђξ  fact that you guys are not yet married.

The picture permenatly derailed your thread, as you should have expected.

@ Nastasha Some things are obvious.

BlackLibya:
Do they count? They are mixed with African and Arab.

Interesting you say that. I recently read something that said the didn't count as white until around the 60's

maybe its the mixture that make them more exotic.

BlackLibya:
Are you white? Maybe that's why you think Scandinavians are prettier, because white people idolize Scandinavians for being "true whites" or whatever.

I dont know how to elaborate, and I dont feel like searching for pictures. Kim Kardashian is eastern European, so there is one example right there. Idk, their skin is just different, their features are different, and they are darker.

I don't think Armenia is considered Europe, the people are "white" more or less though.


Anyway, i always thought out of Europe the southern ppl are most attractive.

Is there any one else here who is tired of the BS?

[quote author=Natasha,, link=topic=807483.msg9597921#msg9597921 date=1321827603]I knew it I will be disappointed. I can't believe it was because of that pic everyone was making noise, I'm still looking at the pic oh I'm trying to find something that will disgust me but I've found nothing * I don't mean to be silly but it looks more like suya*

thanks a lot poster I really appreciate it [/quote]I don't know what is worse; the picture your the fact that you seem to enjoy it.

We, need to have more respect for the dead. This is not entertainment.

Malstrom:
When I mentioned racism I meant racism from the white woman's family, BUT be aware many of those white ladies seeking out black men are sick people with sick racist and stereotypical fantasies about black men. They see black people as a means to fill their intimate desire

Yep yep yep. the whole thing is so twisted.

Poster i have never seen any of what your saying.  Most Nigerians without any bias, like say our parents or grandparents don't seem to have any opinion, positive or negative, about the appearance of white people.

The younger people with more exposure to media, western society, etc. seem to have a generally positive veiw. I know some Africans are dissapointed when they actually go to Europe or the U.S and discover that the people don't actually look like what they see on T.V and magaizines. Especially if they go to England 

anonymous6 Thank you so much for posting that video! i read the book, but i had no idea there was a documentary version.

michelin89:
If a lady acts rude to you, then be the one to say NO and move on. I wonder why men put up with certain nonsense?

Very, good question.

All you guys who tolerate this sort of disrepect from a women are lowlifes. And your female will never respect you.

This power shift is also found in other places. In relationships women are much more powerful than men, having almost all the choice of mate.

This is not a good thing, because if women have all the choice they will inevitably make bad decisions.