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sexkillz: [color=#000030]If you finish last in everything, you have yourself to blame. There is a huge difference between being plain dumb and being nice.

People always confuse the two. Dumb guys in a relationship are sometimes thought to be nice. And hey, you don't judge me by your own experiences.

I'm not pleep. [/color]

I agree with that. But the difference is actually not huge

IF YOU ARE 17-20 AND YOU ARE TRYING TO BE A NICE GUY U ARE SILLY

khiaa: We know you men have no problem begging for the coochie. That is the problem, you men think your cheating is no big deal, but I bet you would think it was serious if the woman cheated on you.

khiaa we discussed this already didn't we?

If these guys have so many options, why is he married in the first place?

sexkillz: [color=#000030]My ex broke up with me after 6 years in the relationship and after cheating. You won't even see me talking about her nor crying. The time I'll use in discussing what she did blah blah, how I'll become bad blah blah, how other girls will pay blah blah is more than enough time to achieve better things and move ahead. I shake my head when supposed men say that A GIRL made them change from good guys to bad guys. . .

It's below pathetic.

I actually became a better person after she left so if I'm to say anything to her, its "thank you for leaving". [/color]

There are some guys who cannot learn, this is not something to be proud off. Looking at your profile i can tell you are in "love" now, so ur looking at things through rose colored glasses.

Me, i didnt decide to stop being nice because of my own experiences.... but because of my experiences, and the experiences of countless other dudes. Plus i understand sexual phychology

Nice guys finish last.... and thats not just in dating, its in everything.

^ Its only on the internet that you hear this stuff

In real life... the nice guys are still nice, don't worry.

Caracta: We experience the bolded too. You guys should stop acting like it's a one-way thing. Treat your girl the way you want your daughter to be treated

Granted. I cant really complain about that too much... cuz im not a nice guy anymore. I actually get a perverse pleasure out out of these games now

But the guys like Wacky, they don't deserve it.. and they are the ones who experience it the most

I consider myself "bad," and even still the dating situation is damn near unbearable... seriously. If you can get yourself in a commited relationship stay there because the dating-game is shark infested waters.

So far i have only dated girls who made contact first... be that by eye contact, smiles or trying to get my attention by various means.... and even they will still play all sorts of unbearable games that make me end up treating them like crap until they act right.

.... and imagine they are dudes who have to approach girls who showed no sign of interest. Wahalalalalala.. and dont get me started on clubs!

Ladies make even the most casual encounters a way to build up bitterness in men. Imagine... if i ask a girl for her number tonight and get it.

She will ignore the first few texts, be rude, and give one word replies etc etc... and this will be a girl that likes me! ...if nothing works out, i gained nothing but a little more annoyance for females in general.

I went through all that crap and im not even a nice guy.... I have a friend who has been friend-zoned for 2 years (the dude called me practically crying )

Caracta: All of you...

I feel ya.

But imma be real honest with you.... The amount of games and none-sense these men go through is ridiculous... it is a miracle of God that all of them don't flat out despise the female gender.

... but that is changing

Ladies are creating an army of "mysogenists"

You ladies are rediculous.... it is not this gotdamn serious. lol

Yal act like if all a man gotta to do is walk outside and he will have other women throwing themselves at him.

The nigga had to beg for sex before he met you and he still has to beg... RELAX

^ of what!?

I really dont feel bad for these ladies.. i mean, they made their bed and soon they will have to lay in it. That is either by STD's, abortions or kids.

But for the ladies a good 80% of them will win in the end, especially if they are still attractive. They will always find a nice guy like wacky to marry them when they are done with their fun. There is no way to know if a girl has slept with 15 men before you...

The only losers in this situation are are the nice guys... if you don't change you will end up marring a 40 yr old hooker that claims to be virgin.

^^^^^^

[quote author=Mynd_44]Low cut[/quote]proof that mynd44 is a girl


as if we needed more proof

somalia5: lol......negroids trading somalis? lol


you should know slavery in somalia of negroids ended 1930's by the italians.....if it were not for the italians negroids would be picking crops still to this day.

what crops?

Ooooh hell yes. CFNM torture

And i want the chick to be 4'10 and petite... that would be even more fun.

Caracta: Hmmm. "Pleasure in being abused or dominated". That's some serious ish!

It turns them on.

I wanna meet a chick like that, i bet it would be fun as hell!

Caracta: Mistakes come and go. Nobody is perfect. I learn from people's experiences too. We fall down and get up again...beauty of life. God is the giver of wisdom. Lol


By the way, your new theory is right.

[size=17pt]lol what happend to you[/size]

^ Masochism.... its really just really good sex tho

You can still have a "bad boy" persona without actually engaging in bad behavior... its really just a personality and an outlook on life.

You can add on too it with clothing, speech w/e you want.. but just stop being a nice guy its un-masculine and unattractive

The good girls want the bad guys too, even more intensely than the bad girls do. Opposites attract

hehehe ... ladies dont start liking nice guys until some bad-boy broke their heart

OP you have to realize something... people cannot control their attractions. Humans evolved in the wilderness, with wild animals, warring tribes and constant danger. If a female and her offspring had any chance of survival she had to mate with the biggest, strongest, most evil mutha-fuckah she could find.

A man like this could protect her and her offspring.

The modern world is not nearly as wild as it was 10000 yrs ago, but these instinct are just as strong. Women have a primal attraction to bad boys and this will never change.

So why are u wasting your best years being a scrub, when you know exactly what the ladies are attracted too? If you continue down this path you will end up with the bad boys leftovers

And girls actually do not like nice guys, and never wil... yall need to get that trough your heads.

This is core female instinct

The ladies dont want to take advice, dont worry about them bro.

You have to realize that at this age, girls mainly want fun.. weather that bites them in the butt in the future doesnt matter.

So be the fun guy... get a motercycle be a bad boy etc etc and get pussy like a pro When its time to settle down, find you a nice 18 yr old virgin and call it a day

Like every girl on campus is doing this now, and it soooo freakin old! I cant believe this crap has been going on since 2009.

I know this is gunna sound werid from a guy, but i find it a tad bit gross and classless. It was hot when girls used to wear skin tight jeans but this wan na too much, leave something to the imagination please!

Malgre Tout.... j'ai toujours trouvé les femmes d'Akwa Ibom sont superiors contre les autre gens de Nigeria.

Une Youruba avec cheveux comme ce? Jamais!