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if your ship should come in and your chips are up

what does this mean?

[quote author=Ijele-igbo]Weere na him be ya second name[/quote]weere na him be ya first name, and ya mamas name too

haha jk bro

If there was polygamy you would have bitter 40 yr old men filling the churches looking for wives, not the other way around

.... slap me?

Now i would never let someone pay for my entire meal, call that ego or w/e. But if you are meeting dudes who are flat out refusing to split with you i don't think you are meeting normal people.

^ Very true. Societies that practiced polygamy usually had to purge the excess male population via wars and such.

CFCfan: Yep, u have a point there. But if it is the lady that asks the man out on a date, shouldn't she pay for at least, a portion or both meals?

has a lady ever asked you on a date lol?

That rule "whoever asks has to pay" is basically a psuedo-equality way of saying the man has to pay. Cuz even if the chick makes the first move ur gunna have to be the one to set up the date.

CFCfan: ^^
Some men have no problems allowing their lady to pay for a date.

well after u have known each other for a while, thats fine.

im mainly talking about first dates

If she is like me, we can agree to split the bill. I've had girls like this and i respect them 100X more

Why does this word "ego" always brought up? I would never let a girl pay for my food because thats just silly. As much as she insisted i would never agree to that because i have my own money, so what on earth is the point?

It has nothing to do with ego... some people just don't feel the need to freeload.

Then why are you asking men

tell that to your fellow women and leave us alone lol

We already explained to you the scientific reasons why men are less tolerant of cheating!

You need to grow up... if you want to kick a cheating partner out of your house that is your right, but if you don't, do not complain because others do.

lol... if you take it to God. HE WILL THROW THE STONE

Stop trying to justify adultry and go to sleep.

read the bible then

But seriously.. is that so bad? If God had his way he would stone her to death.

^ and her cat too

The solution to this is the coffee date, i have not done a dinner first date since high school

I always pay for first dates, but i'm not stupid enough to pretend that its because of chivalry or politeness or even because i asked her out (society says the man must ask the woman so that point is mute)

Its simply a social obligation that soceity says we must do.... so i do it.

Splitting the bill is fine by me though... but i don't know how anyone, man or women, feels comfortable letting a perfect stranger pay for their food lol.

A cheating partner a faaaaaar greater intimate turn-off for a man, its evolution. This is why many women can tolerate polygamy but almost no male can.

If you want to learn more read this article.

http://homepage.psy.utexas.edu/homepage/group/busslab/pdffiles/evolution_of_human_mating_2007.pdf

"Mating is close to the engine of the evolutionary process—differential reproductive success. As descendants of
reproductively successful ancestors, modern humans have inherited the mating strategies that led to our ancestor’s
success. These strategies include long-term committed mating (e.g., marriage), short-term mating (e.g., a brief
intimate encounter), extra-pair mating (e.g., infidelity), mate poaching (luring another person’s mate), and mate
guarding (effort devoted to keeping a mate). Since men and women historically confronted different adaptive
problems in the mating domain, the sexes differ profoundly in evolved psychology of mating solutions. These
psychological sex differences include possessing distinct mate preferences, dissimilar desires for short-term
mating, and distinct triggers that evoke intimate jealousy. This article reviews empirical evidence supporting
evolution-based hypotheses about these mating strategies. The study of human mating is one of the true “success
stories” of evolutionary psychology."

This has already been proven by science, it has nothing to do with opinions...

.... or a$$holes for that matter

Its the answer to your question. Stop asking dumb questions if you are unwilling to accept the scientific answer

lol the OP is a cheater na, why would a faithfull girl ask such questions?

kai... dat one na deep pidgin

^ agreed, everything is so much more enjoyable for the males involved.

[quote author=Ijele-igbo] what the Bleep a monkeys doing on my thread?[/quote]its you na

1. Being the first to say "I love you." You may say
this as a way of making him say that he loves you
too, but you should not try to push him to say
something he is not yet prepared for. You will
remain in an awkward position when he does not
do it.

lol, i guess no one will say it then

If blacks take over feminism will last for 1000 years. The black commmunity in the u.s is a straight up matriarchy

Lol skrew this cheesy crap... the ladies should be appologizing to US

Welcome kalis, somalia defender!

Like some posters said a cheating partner a faaaaaar greater intimate turn-off for a man, its evolution. This is why many women can tolerate polygamy but almost no male can.

If you want to learn more read this article.

http://homepage.psy.utexas.edu/homepage/group/busslab/pdffiles/evolution_of_human_mating_2007.pdf

"Mating is close to the engine of the evolutionary process—differential reproductive success. As descendants of
reproductively successful ancestors, modern humans have inherited the mating strategies that led to our ancestor’s
success. These strategies include long-term committed mating (e.g., marriage), short-term mating (e.g., a brief
intimate encounter), extra-pair mating (e.g., infidelity), mate poaching (luring another person’s mate), and mate
guarding (effort devoted to keeping a mate). Since men and women historically confronted different adaptive
problems in the mating domain, the sexes differ profoundly in evolved psychology of mating solutions. These
psychological sex differences include possessing distinct mate preferences, dissimilar desires for short-term
mating, and distinct triggers that evoke intimate jealousy. This article reviews empirical evidence supporting
evolution-based hypotheses about these mating strategies. The study of human mating is one of the true “success
stories” of evolutionary psychology."

Even if a chick likes you a ton, she will still play hard to get if you dont soften her ego up first.

Smartie gurl: Excuse me?

nvm