1 piece of 12.5kg Cylinder - 15k....is this still available?

OP, pls you have to apologize to God! God never failed you! Are you not a believer? Are you not serving a living God? Please I want you to challenge God! If you are sure, you have served Him all your life, pls challenge Him to turn things round! He will do it! Tell him to touch your husband life....be the positive believer you were before your marriage. Things will turn around for good for you. Pls trust God again! We will be praying for you and your family.

Advice21:
Hello nairalanders. Sorry that this is going to be a long read but I need to be detailed enough for you all to understand.
I married a man less than a year ago after about a year and half of long distance relationship. From the inception of the relationship, I knew he was poor but I accepted him for certain reasons I thought were genuine. I never knew he was a liar, and a pretender and so good at it that I am sure he can fool even the devil. I do not understand how a person can live such double lives without anyone finding out.
I wasn't naive when I met him. I was in my early twenties, a virgin, and what would be generally termed as a homely girl.
There was so much camouflage in our relationship. I can categorically say he was too good to be true. Everybody loved him and sang his praises and when my parents got to know him, he was all they talked about. When I met him, he told me he was a livestock farmer and I believed him. He didn't have much, infact our traditional marriage was a palour affair. No white wedding, we just proceeded to court wedding because there was no money. When I got to his house, there was no chair, no TV, just a bed in a self contain. I felt bad about this things but I encouraged myself with the fact that I married the best man on earth based on the pretentious lies and the double life he was leading, until I saw truth for myself. Nothing under the sun can be hidden forever.
First of all, he wasn't the caring man I thought he was. Just after a few weeks of being together he slapped me and from there it degenerated to full blown physical abuse, but they beating is not what killed me.
By chance, I discovered that the man I thought I knew was into yahoo things and drug pedalling and infact I suspect he takes drugs too. I got to know this things by plain accident after having lived with him for a few months. I still cannot understand how he cleverly hid this part of himself from me for so long. On the outside, he seems like a gentle man, always dresses in native wears so how come? The only thing I can say that I found odd was that there were always young boys coming around the house. I asked him about it and he said he was guiding them through life based on his own experiences. The knowledge I discovered shattered me. I nearly ran mad. I think it killed my spirit in the end. I couldn't accept it, I couldn't wrap my head around it. This was a man I told about how much I detested yahoo boys while we were dating and he would join me to openly condemn them. I met a lot of them while I was in school, but I outrightly rejected them. I never believed that I would end up with not just a yahoo man, but a drug peddlar, a person who destroys the life of Young adults with drugs. Sometimes I wonder why God allowed such a calamity to befall me and my family. I married as a virgin, I never dated any married man even in times when I was so broke in school and the devil came with many temptations. I was brought up in church, my family has always lacked money but we never put our hands in any wrong thing, I was in the choir, I always prayed to God asking him never to let me marry the wrong person, I have never intentionally hurt anyone, I always seek good for other people, so why did God allow this calamity befall me.
Just yesterday, I discovered the man I call my husband is a serial cheat. He sleeps with anything, even young girls. I am pregnant now and God didn't show me any of this things about this man till I got pregnant. Why did God allow me to get pregnant when there are several women out there who are in stable marriages praying earnestly for a child.
I want to leave this marriage because the pain, the pain is too much. I am dying emotionally. I am a corper and would be passing out in two weeks time.
My parents cannot help me. Everybody says I should pray, I shouldn't leave. One of his numerous side chick, the one who opened up to me is begging me to stay because she says he is threatening her life if I should leave. He has a cult like following of young boys who are loyal to him and I fear for the poor girls life.
Please what do I do, where do I go. I didn't even tell half of the hell I have seen because I can't type everything. I have no money because I basically take care of myself with my allawees because he has no money despite selling drugs and all the evil he does. I didn't write this for money sake because a lot of people would think that's my reason. I am just pained. My heart is heavy, I feel God has failed me. How do I even begin to piece my life together with a pregnancy of seven months. Where do I go when I leave here, how do I manage. How did such evil befall me. I am all alone, saddled with a child, helpless but most importantly pained. The emotional pain is the greatest of all my woes, not even the physical pains comes close. I just wanted to let it out because I have no one else to talk to.

I feel for you. Honestly you caused it! You brought them up the wrong way! Yrubas will say "akebaje" meaning "over protection". When they were moving with bad friends, did you check or caution them? There behaviour is as a result of err influence....bad friends! It is my prayer that God will touch the hearts of these kids. Just go to God in prayers......they will come back but I pray they are still in one piece. They will come back after experiencing different life lessons but I hope it won't be too late!

Anobody:
I'm a single mother of two teenage sons, lost my husband 10 years ago and have been struggling to cater for them singlehandedly. My first son is 19 and the last 17 years but I'm getting fed up with the disrespect and regret not taking them to the village so I could remarry.

They both left secondary school and working to save up for school and I don't ask them for a dime. My last son suddenly started behaving like a tout, pierced both ears and turning his hair to dread, takes my stuff without my permission and even to extent of holding my hands when I get furious to beat him.

My first son is dating a girl and spends all his money on her to the extend of asking me for transport fare sometimes. Sometimes they come home by 10 or 11pm and are ready to fight me if I get furious to discipline them.

What broke the camel's back was that my last son went to a friend's bday party overnight without telling me, my first son said he called to tell him he won't return and NONE OF THEM TOLD ME under my roof.

I've tried talking calmly, denying certain privilege and discipline but it keeps getting worse, my last option is to take them back to their father's village before I die of hbp.

I'm depressed nairalanders�, please I seek matured advice, thanks.

Please help me push to front page

bomasek:
1st rule of the thumb,never stay in same compound your landlord lives.

If you are in Lagos,you can drag her to dispute resolution court at Alausa while you begin your hunt for a new apartment. Wish you the best

The notion that you don't stay in the same house with your landlord/landlady is a lie. Some of us are liked by our tenants. There was this Igbo woman that had that mentality, after a year, she came to confess that she belonged to the school of people that believe you don't live with your landlord. Infact she is enjoying our presence in the building. So pls you guys should not be generalising. Thank you.

Honestly I am so happy for the two of you. I really enjoyed the video. I pray that almighty God will bless the union in good health, happiness and prosperity (amen). I am a married man of about 16 years. I am so happy with my wife. She is the best wife in the world! Despite my wife coming from a rich background, she is so submissive. Please madam, I beg you, BE SUBMISSIVE TO YOUR HUSBAND. If you do this, you will enjoy your home. God will bless you with good children. Take good care of your husband. Pls pamper him like a baby! I wish you all the best!

Tjra:
LONG STORY ALERT!!!


Good afternoon Nairaland.

God has been so good to my family this year and a particular blessing has been giving us sleepless night.

I work with a big organisation here in Lagos and currently earn about N600k. I used to work in the branch since my entry level days 6 years ago until I was able to runz the head office movement.

Ever since I join the HQ two years, my life has been at ease. No weekend duties, no sickening pressures from customers. I have been able to develop my self, complete the professional courses I abandoned and can rest well on weekends/public holidays.

The worklife balance now isn't only the advantage of working at the HQ. The career progression and rapid promotion crowns it all.

My spouse earns a little above N400k and we manage ourselves well. Our combined income isn't that much but we've been able to achieve a lot due to our mutual cooperation. She commits her resources 100% into our home. Some people see me as a "big man" outside, no knowing I am actually enjoying the reward of marrying a good wife.

My wife recently got a job very lucrative job. Salary is about N1.5M monthly. She was on the process for close to a year. You can imagine our joy when she was eventually given an offer. This job is a huge one for us as a family and will make life more sweet.

My pain now is the job is based at Abuja and that means she has to relocate there with our kids. Abuja is not where I can drive to considering the security situation of Nigeria. Also, it won't be wise to fly down every week (I also have hidden phobia for heights ) because of costs and other attendant risks.

I actually want us to live together as a family most especially because of our kids. Some Kids tend to be spoilt when raised almost alone their mothers. As a father, I want to jointly raise them with their mother and also instill discipline in them appropriately.

The only solution on sight is to ask my company for redeployment to a branch at Abuja. This I fear might return me back to "Egypt". I.e days of stunted growth, no promotions. In summary, I am scared of killing my career by myself.

My wife is okay with us visiting each other every month but I am vehemently against it.

Someone please help

My brother, nothing comes easy. You need to make some sacrifices to get to a certain level in life. Pls see it as a sacrifice. Let her do the job for at least a year and plan for the next level- travelling out with the whole family. All the best!

CSoul:
(Created this new account to post for a sister)



Please help advice a sister in confusion.....


Background:


"I reconnected with my old school toaster who always spoke marriage and love.
Got serious in 5 months.
I've met a lot of people from his end within this period.
He shows me off.
Introduction was done and wedding date fixed."

Issues:
Traditional is barely a week away; yet she's bleeding and scared of the future because of her discoveries:

1. The husband to be has anger issues. Ok, he's all nice and good when in good mood. But once something triggers him, all hell is let loose. The trigger can be a simple missing his call(while at work/meeting). No amount of sweet talk or explanations calms him down.

2. The shocker is that he cheats/has a fuckmate living nearby. She discovered this with evidence from their chats and hasn't been herself. The chat is detailed description of their exploits right up to the present and future plans how they'll continue after he's married. (From same chat, the other lady is aware he's getting married.
He tried denying it; when it didn't work he started making excuses/begging he'll change.

3. He doesn't want any third party intervention in their affairs, not even counseling.

She's scared of the future and yet feels stuck as court marriage is done already, most preparations have been done(publicity and most of other physical arrangements), both for the traditional and wedding.


Kindly give your mature advice; she'll be reading every bit of it.
(Admin kindly push to front page)

Court marriage is done already? Too late to cancel. Go to God in prayers. There nothing God cannot do. He will surely come to your aid. It is well.

Blessynene:
Hello nairalanders pls I need your unbiased advice.

So I started my MSc program long before the lockdown since I had no job and needed to upgrade, after class work and examination the lockdown couldn't allow me complete my project lab work, all these while I was actively looking for a job.

Luckily I got one with a private firm and decent pay (110k) but doesn't give me time to do any other thing, now my project defence is in a months time, I applied for 6 weeks leave without pay so I can concentrate and complete my project and defence since my job is overly demanding but was denied.

My only option is to resign and come back to re-apply for the job after my defense, I seriously need this job because I have alot of financial responsibilities at the moment.

I am tempted to to let go of the defence for now and focus on the job till am financially stable.

Pls I need your candid advice.

Pray.....pray....pray!!! And when praying, mention the names of those that will take decision on the approval of the leave. Nothing God cannot do. Thanks.

OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:

I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)

Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.

I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?

A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).

Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!

MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.

Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.

I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!

.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.

Able readers, is my final decision a good one?

Oga you should be happy that someone is always giving you a Heads-up. What do you want again. Marriage has made the two of you to become one. You must take any decision that will affect the marriage together. We that have been married for long still seek our wife's opinion. Oga, pls listen to your wife's advice and things will go well. Thank you.

Balenciagabrain:
Greetings,
Kindly help me with your sincere opinions. I'm a health professional and I plan for the opportunity to leave Nigeria to overseas where there I presume have well paying jobs. At same time, just recently landed the opportunity to work in a Federal teaching hospital. Should I continue with my plans to leave to overseas or better to keep the Federal job in Nigeria?

Thank you in anticipation.

My dear, pls continue with your plan relocating abroad. You will never regret it. If it's possible to accept the offer and still relocate, pls do it. BUT THE BOTTOM LINE IS THAT ENSURE YOU RELOCATE ABROAD. IT WILL NE THE BEST DECISION FOR YOU. Thank you.

Eaze66:
I reside in Lagos n I need buyers too.

I guess most of you guys are first-timers. There is serious market for it. We too were apprehensive when we started ours about 3 months ago. Infact when we networked, there was serious demand for it by people. Infact, we are not meeting demands. We even introduced to my sis in Abeokuta, Ogun state. Infact, she is not meeting up demands. You guys should not worry, by the time they know you, you won't be able to meet the demands. It's a good business. All the very best.

Nigeriabiafra82:


http://saharareporters.com/2021/02/16/exclusive-how-nigerian-soldiers-routinely-raped-tortured-us-abuja-barracks-%E2%80%94-women

Why is it that Sahara reporters are always negative. Infact 99% of their stories are negative.......they should please consider mental and emotional health of the citizenry........peace!

elvisco44:
Also available
Prices and pictures tomorrow morning

A/C 1.5Hp=
Fan =
Centre table and Shelf=
6"x6" Bed frame & Mattress (in master bedroom) =
Kitchen Cabinet=


*Deadline is Saturday

Location is Ogba, aguda, Lagos.

How much is the bedframe & matress? Thanks.

Jerrysmallz:
Items for sale.
1.New born and toddler cot 50k
2 Baby cloth cabinet. 30k
3 1.5 HP Panasonic AC 70k
4 bedside Fridge 20k
5 4 burner 60 by 60 Scanfrost cooker 75k
6 5 units of ceiling fan 5k each
7 Deep fryer 7k
8 Cway water dispenser 30k
9 3.5 Kva Elepaq Generator 55k
10 32inches Sony TV 40k
11 Scanfrost chest freezer 60k
12 Unused Graco Car seat 35k
13 11 by 13 Center Rug 15k
14 7 seater chairs 75k
15 6by6 ber frame 45k
16 Stabiliser 7k
17 2 cylinders 15k

Interested in the 6 by 6 bed frame.....35k........

virginprincess:
Good evening nairalanders, pls i need advise, my counsin sister who is just 22 is demanding to live alone (she wants to move out of her father's house), but her parents disagreed with her decision.

This has brought a whole lot of confusion, because she is very serious with her decision and her parents (especially her mom) is totally against it.

Pls as a sister, what advise can i give to her, should i support her or i should advise her against it? and what are the of dangers living alone as a female?

Modified: My counsin is not a prostitue, I might not entirely know the reason she wants to live alone, but i'm sure her num1 major reason is noise, she is a very calm person who loves being alone, but since they are much in the house she doesn't have such opportuity, pls she's not a hoe, my question is what are the dangers of living alone as a lady?.

My candid advice is that she should not do it. Noise or no noise, she should stay with her parents and automatically under control. If she stays alone, she will have all the freedom but it won't help her. When she stays alone, that's when her boyfriend will be passing the night/days/wks etc. So called friends will also find an opportunity to stay in her house. Pls let her stay with her parents.

Madu2013:
Good day guys
I’m about to get an appointment letter to work in Nigeria correctional service (prison) though I didn’t apply for the job.
According to my findings online they are not allowed to grow beards.
Now here are my questions, is there anyway one can keep his beard while working there and how much is the salary of a Degree holder?
Please help me with answers so that I can make up my mind thanks.

You can get a medical certificate that it will dangerous for you to shave it based on your health. They will leave you. It is done all over. We do see security operatives with beards based on medicals.

hector:

I am 32. I am planning to move overseas- America, Canada, Europe or Australia in that order. But I'm seriously considering settling down before I turn 35 or at most 35. My problem right now is having to decide if getting married before i travel will be a better idea considering how uncertain things might be for a new immigrant.

I can be skeptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved. So I want to hear your suggestions please..

If your travelling will not be too far, pls marry abroad. It pays to get married there. All the best!

Patience
A man must be patient in all dealings with the wife. If angry, wall away or count up to 20!

CypressHill2020:
Household clearance!!!

The following household items are open for inspection and immediate purchase.

7-seater leather sofa (BEDMATE) leather cover might need change 220k
6-seater dining set (BEDMATE) - 220k
1 marble top coffee table + 3 side stools (BEDMATE) - 150k
TV stand (without TV) - 25k
5 by 6 bed with mattress - 35k
Movable wardrobe - 45k
Artistic mirror - 35k
5-burner gas cooker - 40k
1.5KVA inverter + 50 Ah fast battery charger - 40k

The prices are FIXED and only serious buyers are welcome.

Call/WhatsApp 07058318650 for inspection.

Inspection schedule: Monday - Saturday 10am - 6pm

Location is Gbagada, Lagos

Pls is d bed still available? Thank you.

Look it's better you ask her now. Even if she eventually didn't honour the agreement now, she will put it at the back of her mind till next month end. All the best.

SirMichael1:
Hello Good afternoon Familanders. This is very long, so please bear with me.

I’ll start from the root. Well, in my church, there’s usually a committee for the married men where most times we can proffer solution to the issues or need of the church members and other times organize get together monthly within us (married men) just to foster unity. Since we're like 20, different men host the get together. Therefore, it's spaced out for 1year and 8months.

It all began last Sunday when I was chosen to oversee the next get together which comes up this Sunday after church. When we (my wife and I) got home after church, I told her about it and she immediately asked, “who would do the cooking”? I was taken aback as the question sounded strange. I replied her saying, since she did the cooking the last time, I figured she’d do it this time.

She got angry and said there’s no way she’ll be going through the stress of cooking for 18 to 25 men and that I better know what to do concerning who’s going to handle the cooking. I tried to calm her down and reminded her of how I assisted her in the kitchen by pounding the yams while she made the soup -two soups actually and that I was going to help her this time. Yam is quite expensive so we’re not pounding this time, just Semo.

She remained adamant and said there was no way she would do anything, that the work stressed her so much and she won’t partake in any cooking and that I better go find anyone to do the cooking. Thing is, I understood the fact that the work was stressful for her because she was 5 months pregnant then and it was her first time.

Yesterday at work, I kept pondering about a solution and a thought struck me. I called her from work and asked her, "how about I get one of the women at church to offer you support?". She blatantly refused and still held on to her words.

My mind hasn’t been settled since morning because I got hold of a caterer and she told me that she’ll charge a thousand naira per head, that is approximately 20k. Truth is, the get together came at a wrong time and considering the prices of drinks, the cost of the food stuff, meat, ingredients, etc. I really can’t afford a caterer right now.

I’m at a cross road now. I don’t know what to do because it’s causing a rift between us. I thought of bringing a church member to assist on that day without informing her so she wouldn’t surprise me and leave the house but I fear that if she comes, my wife might not join her in the kitchen and the woman will begin to feel a certain way (thinking of how ungrateful we are). Then again, who will purchase the food items? I’ve just been confused. I really need insights.

Note: I said I'll help her make the swallow, she just needs to make the soup.

Get somebody that cooks, the Yorubas call them Olopo, she won't takeore than 3k, then any church lady, that one can't get more than 2k. Just tell them that your wife can't go through the stress hence the need for them. On the morning of the get together, the Olopo will go to the market to get the ingredients. All the best man!

Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend threatening to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.

I think you should help them. We help people that we don't even know nor have any relationship with. Besides your ex watered the ground before she travelled. This has exposed your new girlfriend as a heartless person. She is a mean lady. Please I beg you in the name of almighty God, please help them. Thank you.

It was last year year, going to work (V.I.) in the staff bus ( luxurious bus) around 5.40am. On the 3rd mainland shortly after Iyana Oworo. There was a broken down car parked by the rail on the bridge with C-Caution to indicate a broken car.
Our driver was just speeding, he climbed the C-Caution. I sat in front shouting by calling the driver that there was broken down car, this man didn't hear! As he was about to get to the broken down car with speed, he just manouvered the bus to his left side avoiding the broken down car by few inches! What really saved us was that there was no vehicle coming on the left side. He then went to pack in front. Infact, if he had hit the car with the speed, we would have been thrown into the lagoon. When we asked the driver why he drove that way, he could not even talked. I really thank God for His protection. It was a miracle we escaped that incident. Since that day, I said I won't sit in front of any vehicle. The impact would have been more on me.

UnknownJr:
Mine was last year December. I was travelling from ibadan to akungba with one of my stubborn friend. This my friend ehn, av never in my life seen him praying b4, even when his parents are praying, he will be sleeping. So while we were on motion that day, naso Tyre commot for rim o. Oboy come see as everybody turn prayer warriors even one man wey I see for park wey dey smoke ciger start 2 dey fire prayer but na this my friend own come shock me pass. We just look ourselves dey laff.
That day no funny o. We just thank God 4 journey mercies Sha.

It was last year year, going to work (V.I.) in the staff bus ( luxurious bus) around 5.40am. On the 3rd mainland shortly after Iyana Oworo. There was a broken down car parked by the rail on the bridge with C-Caution to indicate a broken car.
Our driver was just speeding, he climbed the C-Caution. I sat in front shouting by calling the driver that there was broken down car, this man didn't hear! As he was about to get to the broken down car with speed, he just manouvered the bus to his left side avoiding the broken down car by few inches! What really saved us was that there was no vehicle coming on the left side. He then went to pack in front. Infact, if he had hit the car with the speed, we would have been thrown into the lagoon. When we asked the driver why he drove that way, he could not even talked. I really thank God for His protection. It was a miracle we escaped that incident. Since that day, I said I won't sit in front of any vehicle. The impact would have been more on me.

youngsahito:
not q scam but they will only wasted your time

Good evening all. I don't work with Elyte but my wife was just invited. I had to search for the company to determine if it's a Scam or legit.
I have taken the pain to go over the thread. I have seen that a lot of pple are calling it s am. I also saw that a lot of pple that called it Scam are young/ new graduate/less than 5yrs experience post NYSC. It's a mixed feeling.
MY TAKE/ ADVICE
Most of those condemning this organisation are young. Let me tell you my story. I have a Master's Degree. Actually my first degree was in the late 90s. I am about 50 years old. My fellow brothers/sisters, please and please and please Entrepreneurship is the way! Honestly, I am regretting not to have been on my own all this while. Look, you must build family business. If at this young age, you take to Entrepreneurship, you will succeed. Forget salary job. Start something on your own. If all what I have read about Elyte is the Truth, I will like to be part. With what I read, they are reorientating pple about Entrepreneurship which is difficult for our so called Youths. Youths will never understand it until later in their lives! Infact for me now, I go to anywhere I hear about Entrepreneurship. I just pray it's not too late!
I learnt people are asked to pay 5k for Training. My people, no knowledge is a waste and investing in oneself does not come cheap! My advice to my young siblings is that they should not look for a 9-5 job. Please get Skill Acquisition. This is my honest advice. I wish I am not busy tomorrow to attend the training. Honestly, it is the best. You see people preaching Entrepreneurship but we don't appreciate them. I am regretting for keeping it late.
As said earlier, I never heard of Elyte before not until my wife was invited.
Elyte, I hope I can be admitted when I am free to attend. Thank you for listening to my advice.

Have you heard of BROKEN RELATIONSHIP IS BETTER THAN NROKEN MARRIAGE. You have seen all the ROBES that this lady will not be suited for you but you are going on. After marriage, she will definitely continues her WAYWARDNESS. Please help your life now! Don't go ahead with the Marriage! Dog will always go back to eating shit!

davedy:
Good evening Nairalanders

I'm sorry for bringing up to this platform but is of necessity for me to bring it . I've been hearing it from people but I don't know how they do feel about it. I've heard stories about how a lady cheating on her guy and a man cheating, but all these stories I do see them as fantasy or something that is not real. I've heard about a lady killing herself because of her boyfriend and I've heard about a boy taking sniper because of a lady.

Recently, I was in love with a lady in my office and this lady she is 35 years of age, I am 37 years of age and I asked out, we started dating after a period of time, she told me about herself, after all in the place of her work, she has dated about three different persons that she had sex with them. People in the office do gossip about her because of how waryward life. They do call her prositute. With all that, I still love her.

Before I came on board, she told me about her neighbour and all what they've done like touching and kissing was the highest they have done and I said ok.

We started dating and working towards marriage. At a time, we got intimate. I never knew that she was still seen her neighbor. She do go to his room to charge her phone. I never knew that they were having sex and she was having sex with me. she always claim that I'm the only person she is having sex with but I have this kind of feeling that she is cheating on me. I do always argue and challenged her faithfulness and at the end, she will put up a defensive mode accusing me that I didn't trust her.

Some days ago, when i challenged her with evidence of cheating. She confessed to me about how she and her neighbour been having sex and I was heartbroken, that night, I slept in a house I couldn't get it, I never knew that I love her so much, that was a period I knew that I was deeply in love with her. I feel like dying, I feel like everything is over. I love her so much, I want to marry her. Few days ago, I travelled to meet with my parents and discussed my marriage issues with them, I told my girl about it but she didn't blive. With all these, she didn't feel remorseful. I wish I had never met her. I am in pain.. What should I do? I am a confused man now.


Please move to front-page. I will appreciate it. Thanks.

Offpoint:

Got your number now, take it off nairaland.

I'll WhatsApp you

Thank you Sir.