₦airaland Forum

spongeisback:
The pathetic thing is not that our president who is the figure head of the nation is in another but it's the youths supporting insanity that I feel for...after they finish selling their selves here they go to travel section to hustle for visa.

Don't mind the knuckle head hypocrites.

Well said. Sometimes I wonder if there is any difference between a lot of Nigerian ladies and prostitutes.

Addme:
If 48 voted against and 46 voted in support,how did that result into law. Ayam not understanding.........

I think the 48/46 vote is for the bill for devolution of more powers to the States. It was defeated unfortunately.

magoo10:
Between Fayose and buhari who is a disgrace to Nigeria ?
A President who visits his country just for vacation and returns to London.
A president who said his wife belongs to the kitchen and the other room.
A president who in an interview abroad divided his country by representing them with percentage.
A president who is looking for investors and says all Nigerians are criminals.
Sagay has been trying effortlessly to satisfy is pay masters but he is surely doing a disservice to himself and his generation.

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Don't mind the sycophant Professor Sagay.

Professor Sagay should be ashamed of himself. Are Nigerians not supposed to be told about the President's health status. Professor Sagay should know that there are many of us Nigerians who have great respect for Governor Fayose and his outspokenness.
If there is anyone without integrity here, it is Professor Sagay who has turned himself into a sycophant.
If Fayose is being ignored how come you responded to him? How come you guys at the presidency are panicking?

sekxy:
okay...but why do yorubas attack biafrans

Mostly due to pettiness and mostly from the littleminded and insincere ones.

Good. They should come out stronger in demanding for restructuring this country. They should reach out to the Southeast, Southsouth, and the Middlebelt to form a strong force in demanding for immediate restructuring of the country so we can move forward.

CaeserVelli:
Nigerians can be very stupid. Look at the pathetic and unfortunate responses on this thread. One clown even said Utomi spoke too much grammar and favours Uduaghan's bomb words. But Uduaghan's words are bombs of misfortune.

We deserve the leaders we get on this country. Spits.

Yep. You got it right. It would be necessary to find out what the average IQ of the general population is so we know exactly where our problem is coming from and how to provide solution.

IamPatriotic:
The case of Chief Gani Fawehinmi of blessed memory comes to mind, back then people wanted him, but they didn't vote him just because they thought he wouldn't win, I didn't know how he would win without their votes.......

This shows how very intelligent our people are.

Princeboca12:
I remember when this man came to my school. We had to pay 1k to hear this man speak BS.. That year he ran for president and lost woefully.

You are obviously happy he lost woefully. How did the "better" guy that won perform?

Laralag:
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No my brother in a democracy power belong to the people through vote. It is time we start voting for tested integrity and not thugs who share money during election. If we collectively say no to politician who have nothing to offer in terms of development. Our state will start to grow

Exactly. Nigerians generally vote based on ethnic sentiments, not on merit. Then they turn around to blame the bad leaders they voted for. The people need to start taking responsibility for the failure of the country.

neoclassical:
Brilliant reply by Prof. Utomi. It is disheartening that Nigerians have no regard for merit and knowledge, which are key to socio-economic prosperity. They will rather prefer to listen to that political thug called Uduaghan and ignore this brilliant and detailed reply from the erudite Professor of Political Economics. No nation achieves rapid development with the kind of mentality Nigerians have. Most developed countries are where they are today, not because they have abundant natural resources but because they have positive attitude and good sense of judjement. This is lacking in this third world country called Nigeria

Exactly. Merit takes a back seat with Nigerians. And the problem is with the people (as you can tell from majority of the responses here).

czaratwork:
na google get motorolla and andriod os while microsoft own windows os and microsft(nokia)

Motorola is owned by Lenovo.

franzis:
They already have Moto Z , newly released Moto G5 / G5 plus , Moto G4/ G4 plus in the market so I don't know the official comeback the op is talking about

He is talking about coming into the Nigerian market. For now, they do not market their products in Nigeria. I don't think you can walk into Slot or any major phone shop and get Motorola phones.
I hope they also bring in the Moto G4 Plus. That is the one I am waiting for. The reviews I read rank it as among the best in its class.

smithsydny:
That's what am using.. Its 4G wicked

Which one of them?

0b100100111:
But a Governor will certainly emerge?

Sit at home while the next 4years of your state goes into the wrong hands.

No vote abeg!

#CaseClosed

Don't mind the fools.

michael142:
One of the major reasons why i relocated from warri was because the people have extremely low ways of thinking. They applause these politicians

The problem is everywhere in Nigeria. Nigerians are the problem, not the leaders. This incompetent Uduaghan still won two terms as governor. People still lined up to vote him two times.
It would be interesting to find out the average IQ of the average Nigerian because I suspect that our problem as a country has to do with low level of intelligence of the people.

desmond2pk:
and lagos state is rich, the people wallow in gross poverty too

So if Lagos State is rich and the people wallow in poverty, then it is ok for Delta State to end up in the same situation?

Chuksgeo:
Pat Utomi that I used to think he is a clown. The useless man that knows everything but understands nothing

So you would prefer the likes of Ibori, Uduaghan and Okowa to Utomi?

nofuckz:
Uduaghan shud go hide his head in same he was and is a disgrace to the state an example of what a leader should not be after taking delta years back he finally comes outta hidding to condem another potential hazard. indebting the state to a level the current puppet cannot even hide/cover up for, no developmental project rather a state on stand still and even one lost in time. if he himself had served the state well he would not be in hidding delta has been held back for too long we have the potential to become great.

Delta State people have themselves to blame. They keep voting for incompetents, thieves and fools. Why don't they seem to want to give good people a chance to turn things around for them.
People get the leadership they deserve.

eyeview:
Uduaghan is very right.
Never take serious any politician who goes about critisizing the activities of the opponents without concentrating on their own agenda or blueprint.
That is what put our nation in its present state. Apc was busy attacking every statement of the pdp without sitting down to articulate their own program or blueprint. I guess nigerians learnt it the hard way.

Do Nigerians actually learn? I doubt it.

kikake:
Even University teachers and workers in Nigeria are now fetish. Imagine what their products shall be after graduation.

Nigeria has been driven to the gutters by its leaders.

Nigerians have always been superstitious people, whether university teacher or student or staff. The pursuit of western education has not really done much to cure our people of this superstition problem. It has a big damping effect on our ability to acquire scientific knowledge and technology to improve our standard of living.

RaggedyAnn:
Okay. In my opinion, a Pharisee is recognizable by these kinds of traits:

1. He will neglect a beggar at the church gate, but put 5k for offertory.

2. He will attend all church meetings, but never make time to visit his sick uncle at the hospital.

3. He will quarrel with everyone on his way to church, and then bow in piety to the priest.

4. He will never invite his hungry friends to lunch, but will send bags of rice to his pastor every month.

5. He will ostracize a prostitute, but condone the weakness in his pastor when he's discovered to be guilty of adultery.

6. He will lynch a boy in the street for stealing, and then take a shower and go for evening service.

7. He will collect kick-backs from contractors on inflated projects, and then do thanksgiving in church for the position that God has elevated him to.

8. He will refuse to give an acquaintance a lift, because his big bible is resting majestically on the passenger seat.

9. He will give his church members preferential treatment at his office.

10. He will not pay his nephew's school fees, but take on the renovation of the church.

11. He will come late to work, ignore the already waiting customers, and proceed with a thirty-minute long morning devotion before responding to them.

12. In church, he sits in the line of sight of the pastor. He makes eye-contact, so that he is seen. And afterwards, he still goes to greet the pastor, until he is showered with commendations for his conscientiousness.

You just described a typical "successful" Nigerian.

anyebedgreat:
That description doesn't suit Pharisees. As a matter of fact they are parallel.

The people that could be tagged Pharisees in church are the very religious ones who do eye service but their ways are not that pure.

That would be more than 90% of Nigerians.

afonjadie:
Op most of the post you have received so far, or maybe the most I have seen are from novice or just those Holier than thou brethrens who want to judge you for one mistake that you regret till this day, now they ignorantly want to use that to place you side by side with a runs girl, guy this is the simple truth in as much as it is a bitter one I think I should let you know;

1. That girl does not love you, she does not even have feeling for you
2. She only accepted your proposal because you are comfortable now
3. She did not reveal that secret to you because she loves you
4. She revealed it to you because you are about to get the biggest shock of ur life
5. When you drink from the bucket you presumed a cup chaff will fall from your eyes, then she will claim it is because of the still birth
6. She was sexing everyone but did not want to sex you, from friend zone to marriage
7. Get ready to be a wife beater or live with a cheating wife, you think yours will be different
8. From your post you are not into girls and don't know their ways, thats why you loved one girl 3 times in one life time
9. She knows this about you and decides to play you not as a fool but a pun to get a bigger bait maybe your colleagues or boss
10. I hope you realize this girl has not yet served and you are going through all this, don't let her meet your posh friends
11. When she goes to camp you will father another mans child, because you were afraid to be a man, when you ought to
12. I could go on and on but Let me stop here cause I might just be hurting you, let her go, you deserve better you are a good man with a good heart, bad girls always find a way to end up with the good guys that's what is happening to you right now, leggo so you don't get arrested for man slaughter or wife battery in future.

And Nerdg why would you want to marry a girl you have not slept with don't you know sex is key to any successful marriage, this rule does not apply to virgins. If she is not a virgin no excuses, just hit it or skip it.

Very blunt. Straight to the point.

darlenese:
I know the Op pain, she has given her condo to a school boyfriend and a man she got pregnant for, how come she didn't allow the Op to have a taste?

when it comes to the Op it becomes a no-sex relationship but it involves other men, she allows them enjoy her. Pls Op dnt be in a rush to get married to her , do some more investigation, try and introduce yourself to her family so she can freely spend more time with u.

That is the issue. You got it right, unlike these other ladies that were criticizing the OP.

Rosarie:
from my observation. I have been married 5years.she never genuinely loved you.dunno y girls have a thing for loving a guy who don't love them much and treat the one who loves them like thrash.she never loved you.she has always had you as a second option.now that is in the past.now she knows YOU are now her future hubby.she is now trying to adjust.that is why she opened up a secret like that to u.for me when I met my hubby he loved me far more than I did.and with time I began to fall in love with him and here we are.genuinely happy even with the ups and down.my bro go ahead.to see a real wife material is difficult now.let the past bury itself.spin her for more if there is more and go ahead.

The first lady that made sense here.

AntiWailer:
Leave her alone.

You are lucky she told you.

I met a wonderful sister of God back then. We were talking about secrets and relationship.

She told me it is not wise for a lady to tell a guy any past.

That she has lost a lot of potential suitors cos of her body count that is over 150. (Yes u heard me right) she wrote their names.

She is married now. The guy she married she told me she lied to him that she was raped twice and that was all.

And you call her "a wonderful sister of God"? Wonderful.

Lexusgs430:
You got a girl pregnant, that aborted it. And she had a stillbirth.
The main question is, while depriving you of sex. Was she having with another?
And if she wasn't, she probably needs counselling or therapy, because of her traumatised still birth experience......

Good point there about needing counseling and therapy. That is another way to look at the situation. Maybe she was refusing to have sex with OP because of her sad experience with the stillbirth. If that is the case, and she was not having sex with someone else while refusing to have with OP, then I will suggest the OP should go ahead and marry since he loves her.

teresafaith:
Op has already made a decision and he is looking for who will pat him on the back and encourage him to dump her, but lemme tell you the bitter truth "YOU AN HYPOCRITE"

Well your fellow morons are cheering you on, but know that what we sow is what we will reap

So you don't see any thing wrong with the fact that she was having sex in her other relationships but with the OP, it's no sex before marriage? That would not be acceptable to me unless I'm convinced she became seriously born again (Deeper Life type) when we started dating.

snowlord:
Op Dnt B Dcvd,she Doznt Lov U...Dnt Marry,she Bn Wt Oda Guys Bt Wont Wt U . To her u just a back up,she wil evn reveal more 1c u r married.n blv me u wont b able to deal,dhz more to marriage dan jex lov,doh lov is a nec. part

I agree with you. She was just keeping the guy as backup. In her other relationships, she was sexually active. But with the OP, it's no sex before marriage.

You have to find out when this her pregnancy happened. Was it when she was telling you about no sex before marriage? If yes, I would not go on with marrying her.
Most girls who play this no sex game still go on to be having sex with someone else.