₦airaland Forum

Yes you are being foolish. It is not something that should be left for kids. Rather, it is something that should be left for fools and irresponsible adults.

DEHVEHLOP:
igbo pastors and blood money...








tufiakwa!


igbo amaka

Knucklehead, the Pastor is not Igbo. He is a Ghanaian.

tooth4tooth:
Idiot!!

Exactly. Sub-Saharan Africans and stupidity. He just wasted a life.

limbolimbo:
I recently showed interest in a neighbour of mine, I know she likes me, but she is a very traditional person, she wants us to go through the full cycle before anything further. But something started giving me a reason to worry about here mindset towards relationships.

She celebrated her birthday last month, and I got her a very expensive wrist watch, it cost me 94k, she doesn't know this. I also got her a really nice cake, cost me 10k, so in all I spent over a hundred thousand on her birthday. I know for some this may not seem like much or may seem like too much, I think what really matters is tat I was fine with it and could afford it. Within the same period, she would indirectly ask me for funds, she said she was broke, I could have helped her with this but I felt it was way above my position, as I am only a "To Be Boyfriend", to offer her all this after spending a 100k on gifts for her birthday.

A week ago we had a very interesting discussion, about the role of the man and the woman in a relationship, she said that "A man should be responsible for the upkeep of his Girlfriend, he should save a portion from his salary monthly which he should give to his girlfriend for upkeep". I thought that was nonsense and I quickly called her out on it, all I can say now is that I don't think we would be dating anymore, because she took it very personally, she said she thinks she would suffer if she goes into a relationship with me, because I am already showing signs of being stingy.

If I keep writing I would not end, so my question here is, is she right? Should I have instead given her the cash rather than the gift? Because to me it now seems she doesn't see the value of the gift and would rather have cash. I want adult opinions please.

(Please note that I am not trying to paint this lady as an evil person, she is really sweet, loving, caring, she loves getting attention and doesn't have any problem in showing me how she really feels about me, overall she is a great lady.)

I think most Nigerian ladies have the same mindset as her, on relationships. Does she work? It's obvious she would not appreciate the gifts. You should have given her the cash instead. But I don't see any prospect for serious relationship between two of you because of her mindset. Most Nigerian guys don't seem to mind being magas though.

carzola:
Dangote is wise
Otedola is a mumu....


The truth will pour out very soon

Dangote is an astute business man. Otedola is just a front pretending to be a business man.

PassingShot:
What arrant nonsense is this report about?

I guess this is all about the Dubai Strategy that has been falling apart.

The clarification by Adesina was in order to educate ignorant and frustrated wailing idiots that Dangote and Otedola were never named as part of the Campaign Team but as Special Economic Advisers to the president.

Which of this is not clear to the frustrated Atikulooted brains and their media?

Zombie with no shame. The smart Dangote does not want his reputation to be messed up by a bunch of losers.

deomelllo:
Dangoted was never dropped and was never even a member of any council, he was listed as an adviser.


These silly kabukabu blogsite sef..

Zombie, you fraudsters added Dangote to Buhari campaign council without his permission. Dangote is too smart to be messed up by a bunch of crooks. His business interests will be at great risk if he becomes partisan.

And you forgot to discuss with him about the issue of no Igbo security service chief. Yeah right. Liar. You joined the APC in order to escape jail for looting Abia State money.

decatalyst:
And the man dey there dey smile like he goat wey site yansh

What do you expect him to do?

ImperialYoruba:
Is it Ovala or Ofala?

They are both correct. Some parts of Igboland, change the 'f' to 'v'.

philip0906:
Lots of dumb peeps in here...Like peeps actually believe Gyan is broke? only few peeps here understand that Gyan doesn't want to pay child support for kids he isn't even sure belong to him

Exactly. It's all about avoiding child support for children he thinks are not his.
Too many dumb people in Nigeria (not only on Nairaland)

ednut1:
Wants to escape child support

Exactly.

Since he is going through divorce, I don't think he is broke. He is more likely trying to hide his assets from his wife. You also have to take into account the fact that he is denying being the father of the kids.

Who is inviting this naive tribalist to Anambra State? He should go and be waiting for Buhari to make him President in 2023. A Professor of law that reasons like an illiterate, allowing himself to be played by barely educated Fulani.

osazsky:
Is the fence high? Just asking though notting more

Of course, nothing more. Lol.

Earthbound:
I did my internship at the control tower at NPA. I know one thing, if Atiku is investigated via Intels, he'd be spending the rest of his life in prison.




Hypocrite vomiting propaganda!

So your point is what exactly? That it is ok for Buhari and his family to loot the treasury?

I guess it's a case of self defence. May he RIP all the same.

An Igbo man claiming to be a staunch Buharist? I guess he does not know what is good for him. That would be like a Jew claiming to be a staunch supporter of Hitler. Too many fools abound.

goodnessme1:
Whether integrity or not we are moving to the next level.

While you are waiting to move to the next level, please try to enlist in the Nigerian military to help fight Boko Haram. Walk the talk.

Afamed:
Galadima definitely is still in pain just like the one above and other ones below

You must be a big fool. So it's ok by you that Buhari is allowing his family and close friends to loot Nigeria's treasury?

Great advice. Words of wisdom. We've got too many irresponsible Nigerian men.

May God continue to protect you innocent young men and women in the Army that are fighting the Boko Haram.

Zither:
The funny thing is those zombified lifeless minions shouting 'sai Buhari' are also running from joining the Army. Why are Buhari supporters afraid to join the Army? Four years of his administration have seen Boko Haram and the Fulani herdsmen attain their most deadly and bloody potential. Hypocrites.

Right on point about Buhari supporters running away from joining the Army.

Okoyeeboz:
Igbos on this thread should shut the fvck up.

When Yorubas complained of this same thing, they insulted Yorubas on this same Nairaland and told Yorubas off.

Now, they are crying on this thread like barren witches.

Others may complain but Igbos lack the moral right to complain. They ate their future yesterday.

Go to this thread and see their short-sightedness.
https://www.nairaland.com/745731/yoruba-marginalization-elders-met-jonathan

It's actually you that should keep quiet. Nigeria does not need tribalists like you.

Oblang:
Just one term of being in opposition, u Igbo have bin crying...

Another big fool and tribalist.

mekaboy:
Victor umeh making noise up and down to get reelected.

Big fool. I guess you are ok with marginalization of some sections of the country.

festacman:
My head is saying: Sofly sofly with ICC dear gallant Nigerian Army.

My heart is saying: Respect to all men and women in NA that are ready to die and in fact are dying that bloody civilians like me may live in peace. God bless you for remaining wide awake while we sleep soundly. Great sacrifice, that!

You mean you are sleeping soundly because you have confidence that the Nigerian Army will protect you? Wow! The same Army that cannot protect itself? I guess your name will be sorry.

That's good. Most of the other parties are just fronting for either the PDP or the APC

zabuur:
Lawyer writing from Lagos to free someone purportedly arrested in Kaduna.

And what is wrong with that?

tyson98:
Thank God his supporters are seeing the nuisance they want to rule us


Atiku is a coward and a fugitive !

If you fools end up giving the bigot Buhari a second term, make sure you don't run away from the hell he and his Nigerien and Chadian militants will let loose on Nigeria. Be prepared to be a refugee in your country.

madridguy:
Atiku running 40/40

So you are still a zombie even after the revealing hint that Mrs Aisha Buhari dropped in order rescue you guys.

Baroba:
Shettima, a 50year old youth, only in Nigeria..

What has his age got to do with what he is warning you about?