Made619:
hahah...you no loose my brother, atleast u use the shoes as consolation

gbayi broda...

setobaba:

So you don’t have those designers in your closet before now and you buying a phone worth that much for her

Ok I caught one



More ??

it is what it is brother.... I never regret it...

Riseup4:
A man, out of love, built a beautiful duplex for his lover. Few weeks later, he found out that she has dumped him for another guy. All human efforts to bring her back on track failed.
Moreover, different strange men started visiting and spending nights with her in the same duplex that was built by her now Ex guy.
IF U WERE IN THE MAN'S SHOE WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

The same thing you will do bro that's what I will do.

Taking back from a one time lover what had been given out when the going was good Seriously I can't even take back from a friend or beneficiary what I did in good faith when at best of times, let alone seek to reclaim from a lady that once shared emotions "genuinely or deceptively" with me.

If I had sponsored her to school during the love tango, will I still lay claims to confiscating all her certificates?? To me, I simply walk away because I know I am more than that and one way or the other in life, she has gotten a memento about me that will resonnate in her memory consciously or unconsciously. Trust me, this is not fanciful guesses, it's practical. She may initially think she's outsmarted her way out, but eventually nothing nags one like silent conscience mostly when one is the unrepentant aggressor in a game of somewhat passion which the other party places much trust, hope and faith upon.

This my take
I can never and ever purchase, acquire or lease anything I can’t afford to let go to any so called girl friend no matter how mad you are, I won’t but I surprises my gf at some point to prove I ain’t broke just, just letting you know your shit is ain’t responsibility.....

Mind you don’t mistake this op question for assistance, I can render monetary assistance to my gf but not buying gifts I can’t let go.

I use three smart expensive phones at the moment, my two months old gf is still struggling with her low battery phone.
Who cares Your wahala not mine

Depends on how the relationship ended. If she left me for another guy, I will collect everything if I have access. But if I left her, will leave everything for her

Made619:
I know sometimes relationships don't go the way we plan them and most people go into relationships for different reasons but in a case where your heart was broken is it right to take back the gifts you once gave out of love?

Have come across stories of guys taking back their gifts, one even collected the television set he bought for his girl after brake up

What's your opinion on this pals?

It sounds good to take back but if it was a gift I think is best remains with her...if you only borrowed is a different thing but at then you only borrow what you can afford to lose ....in a nut shell never take back gifts you gave to someone that was once loved by you..

RisenJoe:


can buhari still be using air force one after the expiration of his tenure

correct you be my guy

Take back what?


Abi you no know say the giver is more blessed that the receiver?

dumb post to counter the thread where a guy got blocked by his olosho girlfriend with the phone he ,(op) bought for her do she could move on to the next maga
mtcheww

Made619:
The same thing you will do bro that's what I will do.

Hahaha hahahahaha baba I like your response lol

As in why would I be such useless shoe in the first place Lol build for someone you ain’t married to at least 10yrs happily married......


E no go see the house collect that one na oloribuku, if you can build duplex for a gf or means you can also forfeit it without you complaining or looking back.

aremuforlife:
It all depends on how the relationship ended, there are some relationships that end peacefully, while some end bitterly.
For example, of I rented an apartment for a lady and she brings another man into that house, I will send her packing.

Moral lesson:

Never rent apartment for a GIRLFRIEND. Instead, you can support her efforts to rent a place for herself with a token of yours that you can afford to spare.

UyaiIncomparabl:


You both reek of immaturity.

for collecting the gift I bought with my money....quit alright,I can't give a lady a gift more than#5000 and this will happen only if I'm having sex with the lady,there is nothing in the relationship apart from sex....who de do give away!

The day you'r presenting her the gifts is the day you must enter her pussy.

If una later break up, you've got nothing to lose or collect back.

That's a win-win for both of you.




Nothing serious about this topic.

na poverty dey make pesin go collect gift back and it's childish too

Bornsinner7:
Honestly I think it's stupid to take back gift you bought for a partner all because of break up..

It's all clear now that relationship is not based on love or anything close to that.. people just get into relationships because others are doing it..

I mean what's the point buying a gift to a person you know he/she is not worth it.. that's just eye service.. buy gifts you know wouldn't hurt you when you break up.. maybe that's why girls stick to singlet and boxer since we all know relationships are just for sex and nothing more

de oil wey dey ur head too much e dey leak sef

setobaba:




As in why would I be in such useless shoe in the first place Lol build for someone you ain’t married to at least 10yrs happily married......


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That's the biggest mistake any man will make.... As I said people enter into relationship for different reasons thus guy man need to wise up and open eye. make person no go sell kidney for babe wey go deny am for public

pozehnani:
Lol... It's small children boyfriend and girlfriend relationship such a thing usually happens. An overgrown baby man can also do such and it's very wrong.

This is one of the reasons why I don't allow any man I'm dating to know my crib. Once things go South, na on awol things I dey. You won't even see my break light. Only my current ex was lucky to Know my place because he lived nearby.

Lol. Later you'll wonder why they don't really take your serious.

pozehnani:
Lol... It's small children boyfriend and girlfriend relationship such a thing usually happens. An overgrown baby man can also do such and it's very wrong.

This is one of the reasons why I don't allow any man I'm dating to know my crib. Once things go South, na on awol things I dey. You won't even see my break light. Only my current ex was lucky to Know my place because he lived nearby.

Lol. Later you'll wonder why they don't really take your serious.
Most guys would assume you're hiding something.

Dumb and childish

Whatever rocks your boat...

But I personally won’t do it.. because it’s immature. I bought stuff for my ex even though it wasn’t so expensive like a car. But I bought it because I valued her as a person not because I wanted something in return

Kriss216:
If we're dating and I bought you things, when the relationship is over, it's expected you return everything.

The gifts are for the "Office of the Girlfriend", the next girlfriend will have the gifts.

hahahahaha my rib......... 'office of the girlfriend'
That office is very important so therefore nobody should loot the office dry.

Very wrong relationship just like every other aspects of life can be successful or can even fail even though no man plans for failure but wen it happens just move on and plan. "If life itself nor sure finish you see person today die 2mro na relationship wan sure"?

SweetCunt97:
No i wont. Why should i? A gift is simply a gift regardless.


Why are females not commenting abi dem no dey buy gifts ni

Dem no dey buy gifts.

They wholeheartedly assumed it is the duty of their man to provide for them whereas in return they'll only attend to bedroom affairs in which they would still enjoy pass.


No wonder some claims that 'nigerian girls are useless........

Larry450:
see below

bro,if only you know the caliber of intelligent people you dealing with here on this forum,....



You would have shifted to 2go or Facebook.


Try harder,this your format we ain't buying.

Even me as a man dey vex for dem.
After una dor raise the standard very high for dating. Message wey we nor send una .
Relationship fail na, you go come dey embarrass your gender.
Una need better flogging with horse whip

Bornsinner7:
Honestly I think it's stupid to take back gift you bought for a partner all because of break up..

It's all clear now that relationship is not based on love or anything close to that.. people just get into relationships because others are doing it..

I mean what's the point buying a gift to a person you know he/she is not worth it.. that's just eye service.. buy gifts you know wouldn't hurt you when you break up.. maybe that's why girls stick to singlet and boxer since we all know relationships are just for sex and nothing more

Den why do gals suddenly hate their immediate ex partners and even wish them death...one of my guy's ex - had him gang beaten for not letting go....shey u no go vex in..?

Somebody no given u sex for 4years say sh b virgin,u free stay true to love..sh dump u den immediately turn charity for the next guy..just two weeks later...shey e no go vex u ni..?

Elxandre:

Lol. Later you'll wonder why they don't really take your serious.
Most guys would assume you're hiding something.

Story.

Well i make them understand my christian faith does not permit me to invite a man to my house and that is the simple truth since I live alone. It's not encouraging and they respect that fact.

I bought it because you are my girlfriend,now that you are not my girlfriend why should you have my property? If not that you gave small fck, I would have collected the money I use to take you out.

averageguy:


I agree with this. Once you give out a gift, it is no longer your property except it was a conditional gift clearly given in anticipation of something. I know a number of places have laws around conditional gifts to make sure for instance that a lady returns an engagement ring if they ended up not getting married.

not just engagement ring, all gift given after the engagement of the lady is conditional because it is assumed the man gave it with the intention of getting married to the lady. Those are the gifts that should be returned and a case in court may fall in favour of the giver but in the case of dating between opposite sex without any commitments to get married a giver has no right to claim his gift after giving it out.