Bornsinner7:
Honestly I think it's stupid to take back gift you bought for a partner all because of break up..

It's all clear now that relationship is not based on love or anything close to that.. people just get into relationships because others are doing it..

I mean what's the point buying a gift to a person you know he/she is not worth it.. that's just eye service.. buy gifts you know wouldn't hurt you when you break up.. maybe that's why girls stick to singlet and boxer since we all know relationships are just for sex and nothing more

Numerouno94:
Why give out or purchase wat u can't afford to let go?

Some people do it out of anger. Dnt give out wat u can't afford to let go. Knw this nd have peace of mind.

pozehnani:
Lol... It's small children boyfriend and girlfriend relationship such a thing usually happens. An overgrown baby man can also do such and it's very wrong.

This is one of the reasons why I don't allow any man I'm dating to know my crib. Once things go South, na on awol things I dey. You won't even see my break light. Only my current ex was lucky to Know my place because he lived nearby.

wany:

Date your social class.

HooJoon:
Makes no sense! It's completely immature

Made619:
I know sometimes relationships don't go the way we plan them and most people go into relationships for different reasons but in a case where your heart was broken is it right to take back the gifts you once gave out of love?

Have come across stories of guys taking back their gifts, one even collected the television set he bought for his girl after brake up

What's your opinion on this pals?

Ayo2004:
So Quavo wey be multi millionaire na poor man abi

unmask:
in my opinion, the person who received the gift should be dutiful enough to return the gift.

Fr33born:
I was the cause of the breakup or the relationship was going fine initially and I am convinced that you loved me, I will leave the gift for you but if I found out that you never loved me and have been fooling me while I was foolishly in love with you, I will collect all my gifts.

Mexzie:
When God broke up with Adam and Eve, did HE leave them to remain in the Garden if Eden?
Did he allow them to continue living as they used to live?
Was there not many consequences of the breakup?

Why then should a man after a break up, leave the good things he gave a girl?

The good things Adam and Eve enjoyed was only for them if the remained in the good relationship with God, same way too, the good things a girl enjoys from a man is only for as long as the good relationship continued..

There fellow men, don't be stupid.

milehigh06:
Nope...not at all...did it back in the days and i must say i regret it till today...just makes me feel cheap

Exodora:
This reminds of an event in my area.
This particularly guy discovered that his long time girlfriend was getting married so he got annoyed and storm the girl's compound to demand for the return of everything he bought for her .
Only for the girl's father to ask him to sworn that he didn't had any kpekus with his daughter and that his daughter can only return the things he bought for her if only he can return those kpekus back and make that place tight again . Na so the guy cry like a baby go back house . Laugh and shame na finish everybody for that gathering .

SweetCunt97:
Personally i buy gifts for my man that i love

Jephyard:
I am.beginning to think most Nigerians women are not responsible. once you leave a relationship please return the gift (holding to the gift at the other person displeasure show how selfish you are. if you value yourself or if you have an iota of self worth you have to return whatever gift you get from your previous relationship wherether the man ask for it or not). Except your ex insist that you can keep them.

Note: Even in marriages that is legally combined during divorce or separation both shared their property and go their separate ways let alone a girlfriend or boyfriend that has no documents on it.

there is nothing immature about one taking their gift back after breakup, the gift was given to you in trust and once that trust is broken on either side please return the gift. You won't die.

Most Nigerians women need a mental shift to God. Maybe it the one on Nairaland I don't just know. you can't keep gift after a relationship has gone south except your ex insist on you keeping them.

You all have a brain use it

Made619:
On special occasions or most of the time?

Henrymorre:
I believe the girl is also broke, because if a girl is not broke, then there would be nothing a man can get for her, that she already doesn't have and the man won't even have mind to collect it.. eg, most gifts are cars, houses, phones, laptops etc, which the girls can't afford because they are broke. If a guy met a girl who has 3 cars, I mean clean cars oo, do you think the guy would want to buy her a car again? Nope, or a girl that has iPhone 12 pro for example, do you think the guy will buy her another iPhone 12? Broke girls are to be feared as well.

SweetCunt97:
Soecial occasions and when i see what i know he'd like or i sense he lacks something i can afford to get him.

Made619:
wow wow am impressed,he must be the luckiest man on Earth(I pray he knows how lucky he is).

ZINIIBANKS:
Even qavo wey rich he collect him Bentley back me wey I kon rich very well make I no curse myself why I no go collect am back ? Even thou I give you 1 American cent coin I swear to gad imma collect that shit back.

pretydiva:
Following

Made619:
I don't blame guys most times na d women dey cause am...

daniel7328:



No time bros

summerflame:


Walahi.. The guy was enjoying my AC with the gen and ceiling fan join.. Lol

UyaiIncomparabl:


Your headache.

uthlaw:
our headache......swear say if I toast you,you no go agree!

UyaiIncomparabl:


If you get wetin I want in a man, I fit consider you. I don't just date "any" man regardless of your status or money you have.

And it isn't my headache, it's yours particularly.

UyaiIncomparabl:


If you get wetin I want in a man, I fit consider you. I don't just date "any" man regardless of his status or money he has.

And it isn't my headache, it's yours particularly.