uthlaw:
for collecting the gift I bought with my money....quit alright,I can't give a lady a gift more than#5000 and this will happen only if I'm having sex with the lady,there is nothing in the relationship apart from sex....who de do give away!

Kriss216:
If we're dating and I bought you things, when the relationship is over, it's expected you return everything.

The gifts are for the "Office of the Girlfriend", the next girlfriend will have the gifts.

Kriss216:
If we're dating and I bought you things, when the relationship is over, it's expected you return everything.

The gifts are for the "Office of the Girlfriend", the next girlfriend will have the gifts.

Made619:
lol...so I thought too but people do it out anger and disappointment.

HooJoon:
Makes no sense! It's completely immature

Bornsinner7:
Honestly I think it's stupid to take back gift you bought for a partner all because of break up..

It's all clear now that relationship is not based on love or anything close to that.. people just get into relationships because others are doing it..

I mean what's the point buying a gift to a person you know he/she is not worth it.. that's just eye service.. buy gifts you know wouldn't hurt you when you break up.. maybe that's why girls stick to singlet and boxer since we all know relationships are just for sex and nothing more

RisenJoe:


can buhari still be using air force one after the expiration of his tenure

aremuforlife:
It all depends on how the relationship ended, there are some relationships that end peacefully, while some end bitterly.
For example, of I rented an apartment for a lady and she brings another man into that house, I will send her packing.

TrebleChamp:
If you buy her a house and she cheat on you with another dude in that house, what would be your reaction and subsequent action?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Why are you equating gifts with sex? Is a relationship an avenue for tit for tat? It's you men who keep breeding these disgusting entitlement mentality girls are having.

uthlaw:
that for men who go for relationship...me na ati lo ati de!

GIANTPLUSHUB:
Yes and No.

Yes for an ungrateful leech who was in the relationship just to leech you of your resources. Collecting your gift back is worth it.

No for someone who you experienced great progress and other pleasant experiences and who was a wonderful partner but the relationship failed due to reasons that are beyond both of you control or ability. It doesn't worth collecting. You leave it for them because they are worth it and to create memories for them.

Henrymorre:
do whatever you feel is right. If you think taking back anything you bought for her or him is right, then do it, if you think it's wrong, then don't do it. You owe no one no explanation on how your see and understand things. Some people will say it's not matured, that their own reasoning, to you it's matured, so take it. You were not born to satisfy no one. Don't let people's ideas influence yours.

pozehnani:
Lol... It's small children boyfriend and girlfriend relationship such a thing usually happens. An overgrown baby man can also do such and it's very wrong.

This is one of the reasons why I don't allow any man I'm dating to know my crib. Once things go South, na on awol things I dey. You won't even see my break light. Only my current ex was lucky to Know my place because he lived nearby.

SweetCunt97:
No i wont. Why should i? A gift is simply a gift regardless.

Why are females not commenting abi dem no dey buy gifts ni

pozehnani:
Lol... It's small children boyfriend and girlfriend relationship such a thing usually happens. An overgrown baby man can also do such and it's very wrong.

This is one of the reasons why I don't allow any man I'm dating to know my crib. Once things go South, na on awol things I dey. You won't even see my break light. Only my current ex was lucky to Know my place because he lived nearby.

GIANTPLUSHUB:
Yes and No.

Yes for an ungrateful leech who was in the relationship just to leech you of your resources. Collecting your gift back is worth it.

No for someone who you experienced great progress and other pleasant experiences and who was a wonderful partner but the relationship failed due to reasons that are beyond both of you control or ability. It doesn't worth collecting. You leave it for them because they are worth it and to create memories for them.

Ayo2004:
O right baje baje...girlfriend na office
If she is sacked or resign,she drops everything of use to the employer!
If u think I am immature,I am very immature
Periodtt!

shilz:
lol none even knew my street.

HooJoon:
Makes no sense! It's completely immature

Bornsinner7:
Honestly I think it's stupid to take back gift you bought for a partner all because of break up..

It's all clear now that relationship is not based on love or anything close to that.. people just get into relationships because others are doing it..

I mean what's the point buying a gift to a person you know he/she is not worth it.. that's just eye service.. buy gifts you know wouldn't hurt you when you break up.. maybe that's why girls stick to singlet and boxer since we all know relationships are just for sex and nothing more

setobaba:
This my take
I can never and ever purchase, acquire or lease anything I can’t afford to let go to any so called girl friend no matter how mad you are, I won’t but I surprises my gf at some point to prove I ain’t broke just, just letting you know your shit is ain’t responsibility.....

Mind you don’t mistake this op question for assistance, I can render monetary assistance to my gf but not buying gifts I can’t let go.

I use three smart expensive phones at the moment, my two months old gf is still struggling with her low battery phone.
Who cares Your wahala not mine